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Open Question: Please tell me how to tell her? and more... Open Question: Please tell me how to tell her?I typically answer, and that's easy, but it's my own problem this time. I like a girl at my school a lot. I have two problems. 1. So does every other guy 2. Her boyfriend, also a good friend of mine, would pummel me four feet under if I told her I liked her. Here is a bit more info: I have been friend with this girl for about a year. Recently we became a bit closer just because we hung out more, but in groups with other friends. Also recently, my friend(her boyfriend) had a big secret(he was going to juvy) that he didn't want to tell her, and he asked me how he could explain to her that he just couldn't tell her because he was afraid it would hurt her too much. Of course she threw a bit of a fit over it, and when I tried to explain it to her, she started crying, and I think it was my fault. If they break up, I will hate myself for putting her through that, and at the same time hate myself if I don't tell her I like her. If I say it now, her boyfriend will hate me, and If i say it after they break up, which may be soon, it'll look like I broke them up on purpose to get to her. What do I do? How do I tell this girl I like her? Open Question: about to be 9 months in 2 days... but shoudl i end it?So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 9 months and i think i might love him, but i think its just about time to end it. He says he loves me, yet he controls me. He made me stop smoking weed which is fine because yes it is bad, and illegal. He is currently telling me to stop smoking cigarettes which ive been doing long before i met him. He doesn't let me talk to any guys that are my friends because he gets jelous. Just today he told me that he went onto my myspace and saw that i wanted to hang out with a girl from my old job. I havne't seen her in a while and i just wanted to catch up on old times. And because he thinks she smokes weed, he says i dont need to talk to her. I told him that she doesn't (which is the truth) and he says it shouldn't matter because i shouldn't need to hang out with anyone but him. He constantly tells me that my free time needs to be spent with him, and if i say i want to hang out with my girl friends for the night, he says "i don't ever want to hang out with anyone but you, so you should be the same". I have broken up with him about 5 times because i don't like the controllingness he puts on my life but then he will cry and cry and bring me flowers and sorry cards, so i take him back. Yesterday was his birtday he told me he only wanted one thing from me and that was for me to quit. He told me if i don't it will be the worst birthday he has ever had, so i tried. I started gettting really mad because i needed a cigarette and he finally gave me my cigarettes back. I gave him 80 dollar cologne and 70 dollar shoes for his birthday and he still said it was the worst he has ever had cuz i didn't stop smoking. He then told me that if i gave him oral and anal he would forgive me. I gave him oral for a few minutes then i stopped cuz oral isn't my thing. and we attempted anal but it just hurt too much, so we didn't. So he is mad about not getting his way on his birthday. He tells me my happiness means more to him than anything and i told him i can't be happy without cigarettes but thats an exception to him. He is now going around calling me smokey to my face, and names related to smoking cigarettes. I just don't know what to do anymore. Yes we do have good times together we go out to eat and movies frequently but i feel as if he has a controling problem.. someone help please Open Question: will it cause and problems if i took my microgynon 30 late on the first day after a 7 day break?I just finished my 7 day break and i was meant to start my microgynon 30 again but i took it 40 minutes late, will this make any difference as my boyfriend did come in me today? Open Question: i think my boyfriend has an anger problem?my boyfriend and i have been together for over two years. he's always had a short temper/fuse, and little things always make him mad. it gets to the point where when i'm talking to him, that i'm afraid of saying the wrong things because everything sets him off. he overreacts about every little problem we have, or everything that goes wrong, which causes countless fights between us. all of this, among so much more, have made me come to the conclusion that he has an anger problem. how can i help him with his problem without being too upfront about it? Open Question: i have a problem i am 13?i have a stupid friend named leona. she invited me over and then ditched me cause she wanted to go play with her "guyfirends" cause she wants a boyfriend. then when i went to her and told them what happend she got angry kicked her out of her house and i did not have a phone. anyway i think she is being abused. she is fat. her house is a mess. she lies 24/7 just to make a converstation and the strange thing is..... everytime i bring up her mom or my mom she yells "dont say anything about my mom, she is not your mom, dont say the word mom!" and her mom is never home. also she said a cannot use phones cause it is hanukkah. is that true? just making sure... what do i do?? im home now btw Open Question: How do u move on from the damage that i caused to this wonderful relationship and man?I have this wonderful 4 year relationship that i am in, i was friends with my boyfriend for a couple years before we got together, so we are pretty close to eachother.The problem is i am an alcoholic and addict, that has been trying to manage her sobriety by her self for a year, im prolly messing up once a week, anyways, hes never been into drugs or alcohol and he thinks im basically clean, except for drinks here and there.I keep sneaking around about once a week to use and he notices i dissapear for like a whole day and he cant get a hold of me. I keep hurting him when i do this, everytime i do this i promise myself this is the last time, i want to be clean and a good honest girlfriend, i want to stop this cycle, what in the hell am i sopposed to do to move on and start doing right? Open Question: what do i get my boyfriend for christmas?ok so im in 8th grade and me and my boyfriend have been going out for a few months and i need to get him something for christmas and i dont want to get him a gift card because that just means i know nothing about him and my best friend has the same problem soo i need ideas!! Open Question: Me and my best friend fighting over her boyfriend?Me and my best friend have been best friends ever since preschool. A guy has never came between us, until now. She's been dating for boyfriend for about a month now, and their happy together and things, but the problem is, me and her boyfriend hate each other. He gets on my nervous because he's cocky, and extremely immature. He flirts with other girls when she's not around, and when I tell her, she's like, "Oh, I'll talk to him about it" and she never does. She wants me and the guy I'm talking to, to hang out with her and him all the time, but I told her I can't stand to be around him. Plus she blows me off for hanging out with him all the time. Last night we got into a argument about it at a party, but I told her not to worry about it anymore that I was done trying to convince her to believe me, and she said she felt like I was making her choose, and I told her I'm not making her, but she has chosen. - I'd like to know, am I right in this agrument, or is she? - What can I do to make it better? More Recent Articles
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