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Open Question: Please help! What should i do or think? and more... Open Question: Please help! What should i do or think?okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a half and we just recently broke up. two days later..his friend tells me that he is already interested in another girl and hes thinking about dating her. i dont know what to do. he says its over forever and hes moved on and he just doesnt ever want to be with me. and i have been trying to move on too! like im not gonna talk to him for awhile and i have tryed telling him i still love him and wanting him back..he just doesnt want it. its so hard to move on and i have been pretty okay with it. i just want him back. Do you ever think it will happen? and what should i be doing? should i give him space or talk to himm..? idk. please help. if you have had similar problems please tell me how they worked out. Open Question: he makes me feel cheap and sick! :(?my first boyfriend ever yea. before i met him i was not a confident person, i was shy, never been kissed nothing! and tbh i wish i was that same girl because now my life is living hell! it hasnt been long but i feel like i love him. we met in april, ,got together in may, he ended it in october, i tried and tried to get him back he didnt want to know. he told me when he ended it that he likes this girl who lives in his town, but then told me he lied just to piss me off. since telling me that i couldnt stop going on about her. me and him live 4hrs away, its very complicated! i moved in september soo. he got back with me 3 times and ended it a few days later. i then noticed on facebook he commented on this girls pic calling her his beautiful girl. so for 2months i have asked him does he like her, he kept saying no. he kept saying he wants to see me again, but then he would change his mind. he promised me last week that me and him will be together again. he has done before.. and yesterday morning he admitted he liked her. i have never been so upset in my life. i rang him and he told me when she gets back from holidays in january hes going to ask her out. i was so upset. 2nights ago he told me to trust him that they wont get together, he doesnt like her, she doesnt mean nothing to him, he loves me still and wants me. i really thought he changed and meant it this time he made it sound so real. and yesterday he said he wants her. i asked him why he lied to me again and he was like "i dunno, i know im stupid". Yes! he is, he has done it so many times i keep believing him:( i said are you going to ask her out? he was like yes! i asked him will he get back with me and he was like yes one day. but if hes going to get back with me then why the fuck is he going to ask her out? gosh :(( i said you either want me or her, he said her. and today it got even worse! he said cant we just be friends but still have sex. i was like WTF?!?!?!?? i said that isnt fair on her and he was like no when i get with her we will stop but for now we can have sex but as friends? oh god i dont wanna be used :( but i dont want him to be with her but he is weather i like it or not. she likes him too so there is no problem. i asked him will he ever get back with me and he told me yea but as second choice. meaning if she says no to him which she wont, or if them two split up he will get back with me then. i told him i dont wanna be second choice but he wants to have me for sex but be nothing more. he said im not using you though because i want your body but i want her. omg:( i love him soo much he doesnt have no feelings for me anymore. i cant lose him :( i cant just be his friend cos when i see him and her be together adding photos on facebook kissing and stuff it will kill me. iv been going through this since october i cant take much more. im so down and i cry all the time :( hes texting me right now saying he cant wait to see me and stuff, im saying i will go up there because its my turn to go up there, but im not going to ill just make him beleve i am and nearer the time ill tell him no just to see how he feels. he wont care he doesnt care if we talk again or not. is it best if i just let them two get on with it? isit for the best if me and him stop talking now for good? please help! :( i dont wana lose him as a friend but if we talk ill be upset because he will rub it in my face, them two together. and if i dont speak to him im going to miss him and be upset because we will never talk again. ugh whats the best thing to do? will i ever stop feeling like this? Open Question: I want to have sex with my boyfriend tonight, but I've got some razor bumps on my vagina...?I shaved a few days ago and now I've got some razor bumps. Ialso have an ingrown hair! I want to have sex with my boyfriend (I'll be starting my period tomorrow), and was wondering if there were anyways to alliviate my problem. I'll have to shave a again tonight and I don't want to make it worse! Please help! Open Question: why is she doing this to me?hy is she playing with my mind because im hurting? im a 32 mail and i have had this female friend since i was 17 and over the years we have flirted with each other and i beleive we would have have a relationship but when she was single i wasnt ,vice versa,over the last four or so years we have became very close and she has said things like (i only go to certain nights out because you are there ,i love you more than anyone,constantly tels me im handsome and one night i was dancing with her she whispered in my ear that she love me holding her ,now there has been hundreds more like this said and been close situations with us "but always when shes been drinking ,even as close as last week she asked me why i didnt pick her as my girlfriend when we where younger and that she regrets not making the move,problem is that i would ask her when shes sobre but i know she would kick up a stink as shes a totally different person to me sobre and i know she does not flirt like this to anyone else.she has a boyfriend and last night we where at a party and i had a one on one conversation with her although people in the group could hear(whilst she was drinking )and she told me in this conversation that her boyfriend was her soul mate and that she totally loved him (i felt like telling her to get stuffed and in my head i wanted to say ,well what all this crap you have said to me),she always says thing like this a couple of weeks after saying mind hurting things to me (what is she doing because i cant figure her out Open Question: What is some good relationship song for a couple who is struggling to keep together?Me and my boyfriend have been together for a while and im doing him a slide show for christmas but we are having some problems with his mom but i need a good choice of sweet songs having to do with relationshiip struglles Open Question: What am i supposed to think or do? please help!?okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a half and we just recently broke up. two days later..his friend tells me that he is already interested in another girl and hes thinking about dating her. i dont know what to do. he says its over forever and hes moved on and he just doesnt ever want to be with me. and i have been trying to move on too! like im not gonna talk to him for awhile and i have tryed telling him i still love him and wanting him back..he just doesnt want it. its so hard to move on and i have been pretty okay with it. i just want him back. Do you ever think it will happen? and what should i be doing? should i give him space or talk to himm..? idk. please help. if you have had similar problems please tell me how they worked out. Open Question: What would you do if you were in my relationship-situation?brief history of us: I've been dating my boyfriend for 5 years, since i was 13 and he was 15.. now I'm 18 and he's 20. We broke up once when I was 14 for about 6 months or so because he made stupid lies and we argued a lot so i cheated on him (not sexually) until we were broken up and then i had sex with a guy i knew for about 2 weeks, it was stupid. but whatever. i was a dumb 14 year old. So he had a problem with me being with guys, even talking to guys. whatever i understood after what happened... then it became 'our thing'. He doesn't get close with other girls and i don't get close with other guys. Talking to them, whatever, but getting REALLY close is like taboo, what girl would want their boyfriend to be bff's with a ho? which i'll get to now... My boyfriend is in a dance group, and there is this new girl who joined in september, so he has known her for 3 months. She send him flirty text messages like "lol you're too cute!" which is obviously flirty right? Well my boyfriend says "thats just the way she is." and they went out for coffee, this is what my boyfriend told me... they went out for coffee and i texted him n she was like 'whos that' n he said it was me his gf. n she was like 'oh do u think that this is okay with me hanging out with you?" he said no, but before he wouldn't want to to be freidns with a guy. But since he met this chick he changed his mind about that he apparently doesn't care anymore... i'll add that his dad and grandfather both passed away in a matter of 2 months in march and beginning of june and his counsiler told him that he needs to rely on someone else than me, like a close friend. so apparently this girl has supposibly gone through the same thing with death like him... which i bet isn't even close, but she 'understands him'. This girl is known to be a slut, and my boyfriend told me if she tried to do anything with him he'd tell her to **** off. I talked to friends about this and they called her a slut because they know her, and that if it happened to them they'd be pissed. My boyfriend and i got into a huge fight over this where i threatened to break up with him if he hangs out with just her alone, he was pissed, apparently he wants to, but they're nothing more than close friends. So she's known to be slutty, and she's hanging out with my boyfriend, my boyfriend clearly doesn't care how i feel about this. Please help! What should I tell him or what should I do? (ps. i want to show my boyfriend this after to show him that it's not okay to do this when u have a long term relationship) remember, i've been with him for 5 years and i have never been close friends with guys because 1, i have girl friends, and 2- i respect him. Open Question: need a opinion 10 POINTS FOR D BEST ANSWER?Basically, a guy who i didnt kno before got moved to ma table because he talked to much where he was sittin before. At first i didnt talk to him at all, but then he starts talkin to me askin ma name, etc. His the sorta person that tlks alot. Anyway, in todays lesson he asked me to take ma glasses off.. so i did right.. then he asks me do i have a boyfriend? well.. i thought no problem right he jus makin conversation so i jus answered no. Then he goes how come so i told him. But is there a possibility he likes me Factors to consider 1) we dnt even kno each other well enough for that 2) when were outta lessons we dnt tlk its only in lesson 3) i think his jus bein polite so what do u guys think? x Open Question: Embarrassed to ask for advice about sex! Please help!?I am 16 and my neighbor is in college and we are really close. She is like an older sister to me and we talk about pretty much everything. The problem is that I really need to talk to someone about sex. I don't want to talk to my parents about it or anyone else in my family (they will assume I'm having sex when I'm NOT) and my neighbor is my best bet. My neighbor has said to me that anytime I need advice we can talk and we have a pretty open relationship. I just don't know how to tell her that we need to talk. It's sort of embarrassing to ask for help about this kind of thing. I am NOT having sex nor am I planning on having sex anytime soon. I just need to talk to someone because I feel left out because all of my friends are having sex and I feel left out because I'm not. I have a great boyfriend and we've been going out for a month. We have decided not to have sex because we aren't ready for it. It's just that I want to talk to someone I can trust. I know my neighbor is trustworthy and will understand what I'm going through. She is coming home next weekend for Christmas break and we are going to be hanging out a lot. When is the best time to bring up the subject without getting super embarrassed? What should I say to her without making the conversation really awkward? Please help me! Open Question: Is it possible to get back together?My boyfriend and I dated for almost a year - we were in a long distance relationship. We never argued and we traveled and just enjoyed each other. We were in love and he told everyone about me, sent roses and even went to church with me. I traveled a lot to see him and also did nice things for him as well. We even had our baby name picked out and things were going great. In february, roughly six months after we started dating, I lost my job which I loved. Because we wanted to be in the same city we started talking about my moving. I started going to his city and looking for a job, we were fixing up the house for me to come and things were going great. NOW FOR THE PROBLEMS: I was having trouble finding a job (still don't have one) and I was stressed. He's a musician (pretty famous) and so he was on the road a lot and those same groupies who were showing up to shows before and calling, you know the ones that never bothered me before, stated to suddenly make me feel very insecure. He was friends with a couple whose sexuality is in question and I begin to think he was sleeping with them. I finally told him that even though I'd never met this couple, I never wanted anything to do with them or their lifestyle of drugs and suspected swinging. (He's the one who told me all the horror stories about them). Anyway the bottom line is that I'd lost everything from my job to my swanky apartment and was feeling insecure. Finally we go out one night and he sees the infamous couple. They do not see us but he calls them over even though I had told him that I wanted NOTHING to do with them. I WAS LIVID. Anyway, it started a big argument and I ended up yelling and screaming and embarassed him at the place where he works. The fight escalated and we ended up fighting for hours and subsequently, I went to a hotel. Fast forward one month and we decided to try the move anyway. I moved in (still looking for a job) and all we did was fight. He asked me to leave after three days. He tried to contact me several times and we even saw each other in August but he didn't want us to jump right back into a relationship. I let him know that I'm not willing to be anything less than a girlfriend and instructed him to never call again in life. Fast forward to December. I now realize my huge part in the breakup and he wants us to spend some time together. I'm seeing him out of town for four days starting Sunday but he says that he still doesn't know if we can work this out. Right now he says he's enjoying not having the pressure of a relationship - that I scared him from that. He also says that he is afraid to trust me, afraid that it will happen again. What should I do Yahooligans? Is there any hope. I really love him and he still loves me. How should I handle this meeting? Open Question: Need advice about sex! Please help!?I am 16 and my neighbor is in college and we are really close. She is like an older sister to me and we talk about pretty much everything. The problem is that I really need to talk to someone about sex. I don't want to talk to my parents about it or anyone else in my family (they will assume I'm having sex when I'm NOT) and my neighbor is my best bet. My neighbor has said to me that anytime I need advice we can talk and we have a pretty open relationship. I just don't know how to tell her that we need to talk. It's sort of embarrassing to ask for help about this kind of thing. I am NOT having sex nor am I planning on having sex anytime soon. I just need to talk to someone because I feel left out because all of my friends are having sex and I feel left out because I'm not. I have a great boyfriend and we've been going out for a month. We have decided not to have sex because we aren't ready for it. It's just that I want to talk to someone I can trust. I know my neighbor is trustworthy and will understand what I'm going through. She is coming home next weekend for Christmas break and we are going to be hanging out a lot. When is the best time to bring up the subject without getting super embarrassed? What should I say to her without making the conversation really awkward? Please help me! Open Question: relationships are complicated. but how much are they?ok so my boyfriend and i have been together for 2 years now, but we have a slight problem. We fight a lot (you know just about the simple things) sometimes we get really mad but it's not like were gonna leave each other mad. And i was just wondering if this is like a natural thing that goes on in any relationship or might we be headed for a break up? More Recent Articles
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