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Open Question: please can anyone help me???? boyfriend problem? and more... Open Question: please can anyone help me???? boyfriend problem?So my bf lives in a different state then me so we are online dating. We are both in high school and we met here and loved each other ever since. So he promised that he would never leave me and he hasn't for the 2 months we've been dating. Well just last Friday he said his normal goodnight like see u the next day attitude. So I went on the next day and he wasn't there and the next day or the next and its been a week since he hasn't spoken to me. I know his cellphone doesn't really work out that great and he always said that he needs his computer but I don't know if he was lying. He has sports but he would have told me anything in advance. I keep leaving all these messages and still no reply. What's going on???? Open Question: How do you remove a hold in college that you don't deserve ?I have a question about a college hold. My boyfriend attends the interamerican university of Puerto Rico. He has had a hold for about a month. He has tried to fix the hold, however; he has gotten nowhere. They just seem to give him the run around the whole campus. He is getting extremely annoyed by this. He says that they don't seem to be trying to help him, which by the way is not hard to believe. I myself use to study in PR and found it extremely difficult to get good student service within the university. My question is ; can he do anything to remove his hold? Is there a high authority that he might be able to go to and report his problem to, that might be able to help him? Oh and i forgot to add that they gave him a paper explaining that the hold was an error. They keep telling him that all holds have been cleared but he is unable to access his college information on the computer.I know it takes a few days for a clear on a hold to process but its been a MONTH and it has been MANY attempts to remove the hold already. Please try and help this is a BIG problem!!! He will not be able to receive his grades if this does not clear up. Thanx in advance!!!! HE HAS EVEN TRIED GOING TO THE "RECTOR " AND THAT WAS NO HELP :-( Open Question: Want to get married in the south pacific, but having family problems. What would be the best thing to do?We want to get married in the south pacific, with at most 25 guests. We'd all pay our own way to the destination and hotel. We would be looking for the best and cheapest value. (Probably $800 per person for a week, includes flight, hotel, food and a pick up from the hotel) We want to get married in 2011. But, we're having trouble deciding for sure. My grandparents for one won't be able to come because of their health. (They can't get insurance if they leave the country, so they wouldn't go) My boyfriend's immediate family has 5 members, and could cost up to $4000 for them to come. Those 2 issues are making us rethink our hopes for our wedding day. We have a date, which will be in the winter. The date is the only thing I won't compromise on. And he won't compromise on the year, so, we've set a date. We have less then 14 months to that time. We also don't want the usual wedding scene. We were hoping for us and our 25 guests to be in the south pacific and get married on the beach. After, there wouldn't be a usual reception. With our tickets there is a free buffet, so I don't see the point in paying for a specific meal. That would do just fine. But, if we get married here, we could have more family, which would please them, but not me. I hate being the center of attention. And being the bride, you're the center of everything. I was thinking of just doing it, and having a wedding ceremony for everyone, but that being it. And then my fiance and I going down to the south pacific as our honeymoon, and get our wedding pictures done there. I would have liked to get pictures of the family at the beach with us, but I don't think that will happen. What should we do? Do what we want for our wedding, or have a family thing here in the snowy winter, and fly down to the south pacific as our honeymoon and wedding pictures? What would YOU do and why? (Thanks so much for reading and taking the time to help) mariekitt24: It's hardly the wedding of the century. I'm not about the small details. How would it be if we're not having flowers or any of that little stuff. It's what we want, and it's our wedding. I do understand what you're saying, but I take offense when you say "you'll be divorced in 5 years.'' It was very rude of you, and as much as I like you trying to be honest, that was way out of order. Open Question: How do I learn to trust my girlfriend?Hi, I've got a bit of a problem. I've been with the same girl for the last 9 months and we are both sick and tired of me not being able to trust her when she's with other guys. There is this guy at school, let's just call him Logan. Logan has liked my girlfriend for the last few months and he told her about how much he liked her when me and my girlfriend had already been dating for a few months. He always asked to hang out with her and go to the movies and to just sit by her in class (All 3 of us go to the same high school). She told him before that she's sorry but she doesn't feel that way about him but she can still be friends with him and he backed off for a little while. But now again, I find him talking to her like he likes her. When she was at her friend's party and I wasn't there, he kept hanging around with her while me and my girlfriend were in a bit of a fight. (Over different reasons, not the usual about the lack of trust I have towards her). She was mad and started to vent to him why me and her were fighting and Logan kept saying how I was controlling and that I need to let her live her life (even though she thinks and knows that is totally false and unreasonable because I am not controlling of her) and to find someone better (AKA him). That was last weekend and now whenever I'm hanging out with my girlfriend, Logan is always texting her and saying stuff like he did before about me not being a good boyfriend. Also, today at lunch I see her sitting next to Logan and I see on her phone that he changed his name on her phone to "Logan is the greatest", which isn't that bad but it just makes me mad. So now, me and my girlfriend are fighting again. She says I don't trust her and I don't think I do even though I'd like to. And I know she would never cheat or do anything to me like that but I can't help it but get mad when she's with guys who like her, such as Logan, and I always tell her about it and we start fighting. How can I learn to feel complete, confident trust towards my girlfriend and not get mad at her whatsoever whenever she is with other guys or talking to or about other guys in front of me? Thanks in Advance. Open Question: Why is my on/off older boyfriend making my pregnancy so miserable?I have been going out with a man much older then me for a year and a half. The relationship has been rocky - on and off and I have lost count of the silly breakups and makeups. I am currently half way through a pregnancy and would like opinions on this. We were starting to finally get closer though I still think the baby freaks him out. He has not been good about this pregnancy at all and denies the child is his - hence asking for DNA etc. He refuses to go to any hospital appointments or scans etc. I said I had no problems about DNA as was not worried but cos I love the guy am upset to feel so messed around. We work in the same place and recently he has been v critical of my appearance as obviously my body starts to change as I start to show more now at 22 wks. We had to attend a meeting in work today...and he showed up with another woman - they were acting like bf and gf. I was upset but managed to hide it at the meeting, however ignored him after. 2 hrs later he sees that I ignore all his emails. He pretended that nothing had happened and rang me up asking me if I would cook him dinner after work so I told him point blank I thought what he did was plain right disrespectful and therefore no. Then we had an email breakup. I sat there trying not to let it get to me for the baby's sake. He said he wanted no further communication and accused me of being jealous and controlling and that he could see right through it. Fact is: he has been seeing me, having sex etc. and just as things start to get REALLY good.. he SUDDENLY shows up and sits with another woman instead of me - she touched his arm and they were way too close for my liking. She seemed worse looking then me, fatter and v posh. I noticed a wedding ring on her finger..she seemed v fake so I was v surprised at his choice...anyway while he was playing this cruel mind game with me during the meeting and I sat there two rows back miserable in the meeting doing my best to ignore him he was watching me all the time with the side of his eye. I ignored again but after the meeting watched to see if he would clear it up with me and reassure me or even better introduce me to the other woman but he did nothing and I cried all the way back to the office - thankfully nobody noticed. Things were finally starting to get good between us but I don't know why he did this i.e RISK sacrificing his relationship with me for her. I know I am prob over-reacting here...but I got mad by email and finally said I wont tolerate this. That I only see him at dinner-time cos he likes my cooking or night-time and that he never takes me out or pampers me - why should I wait on him hand and foot constantly when it should be me putting my feet up for once? He is going to Scotland for Christmas to see his sister - has not even told him any of his family about the baby. His reason: in case it is not his! He tells me cos of the age difference they would prob tell me that I am using him but I am not...its quite the other way around! so I booked a flight to my bro today and said I shouldn't be left pregnant and alone at Christmas - having no choice but to travel to see my bro with a baby in my belly.. I think he has been trying to stay with me in case it is his in his mind. To test him I asked him why are you scared of a baby? I think he is hoping it is not his baby so that he can just leave me in the lurch with all this but I know that is not the case. I am understandably upset cos 2 years ago my child died in my arms from a birth injury so have been having probs to enjoy the pregnancy as a result. He told me I had nothing to worry about if the baby came out his but why is he making my pregnancy so miserable if he knows what happened me previously? why is he trying to make me jealous with other women as soon as we get back and closer to each other?? why does he fear this child. It gets worse. He lost his erection the night before all of this. I felt so unattractive. He said he would do it in the morning and blamed the drink. He offered me in the morn but I couldnt stomach to do it as I was so crushed by this. I didnt know a few hrs later he would show up with some other woman at a meeting and play games with me... :-( in my madness I said in the mail why did he go soft? was he thinking about her that put him off me or just revolted at my new body shape :-(( no answer of course...seriously though - what is his problem?? can anyone make sense of this behaviour. Thank you. Open Question: What do guys like during a kiss?When you &+ Your boyfriend are kissing what does he like .? Cause , for the first time last night me and my boyfriend ' Frenched ' Twice , but i don't have much experience . I ' frenched ' once before last night and that was back in may and i hardly remember cause i was so tired it was late at night , so i kinda don't know how to kiss , last night i was all confused &+ Scared...Had no clue what to do "/ So kissing tips .! &+ I told him last night i'm not good at it , after the two times we did kiss. Then hes like ' oh ' Then later on , on aim hes like i don't care if you don't know how to kiss it's fine . So i was like oh okay , well maybe we could practice , he said yeah . So please just help me ? (: Thanks <3 ONE problem though , lol ...Hes like 5'10 & i'm like 4"10 or 4'11 so he is way taller than me . Open Question: What english movie is this?The movie was about teenagers with various problems. They were all in a kind of boarding school/private school with uniforms. One of the characters gets beaten up then she kills herself. Another one makes sexual favors to earn money. A boy is given a gun by a guy who has some fishy mobster like business. One girl gets pregnant and her boyfriend gets shot at a party trying to fight another guy, or something like this. The movie has english actors and is filmed in England. Do you know the name of this movie? I've totally forgotten it. Open Question: Can someone give me some advice please?I'll start with what I'm feeling now, my old questions say the past, but it's too long to type.. Tonight my sister ordered pizza and I ate some, I knew as I was doing it that shouldn't, but I did, after I fully realised what I had done there too many people around the bathroom for me to throw up, I'm not bulemic, I don't binge, I just throw up if I eat something I've had a problem with anorexia before, but it seemed to go away in the summer when I went to this thing called soul survivor.. It didn't fully go away, j still didn't have meals, but I do eat stuf.. A lot has been going wrong for me and I've felt very depressed and schools became involved etc etc, but I denied there was a problem.. I've self harmed for a long time but no one knows about it, I normally cut a word into my wrist to scare me and remind me, I can cover it but it's in a place where I'll always know it's there And now it's like because of the other problems, the annorexia is back I'm sitting on my floor crying so much I can hardly breathe, there's thoughts in my head saying, you're an idiot, you're a f*ck up, you f*k school up, you f*ck your friendships up, you f*cked your boyfriend relationship up, can't you f*cking read, it says 'don't' read it you piece of sh*t.. It's like that I wrote it down today, I don't want to be thinking this stuff. Sorry if the spellings weird, the keypad on my iPod is weird Open Question: Stressed Student Needing Help?Hi all, I guess I will just start off with that I have been dealing with IBS (although not confirmed by my doctor) for probably oh, three years now. It seemed to happen after I graduated highschool and started working in a restaurant and has progressively gotten worse as I have enrolled in college. I have other isses that do not help with this situation as well, for instance I have severe anxiety attacks every day, especially during school. They are so bad that I have heart palpitations, migraines, I sweat, get the shakes, I can't eat or sleep, I am basically running on no energy and I am weak. To top it off, this week we are in finals and I find myself absolutely going through hell with my IBS as stress is a major cause of it and it is at its worse right now. Every morning when I wake up, I have a huge urgency to run to the washroom because I have to go to the bathroom because I have diarrhea. At first I thought it was the coffee that was doing it, but since I have cut that it it hasn't chaged at all. This is something that like I said has gotten worse over time, and has restricted me to very little foods that I can eat. At first I just thought it was because I was eating fatty foods etc, but I have tried everything changing my diet, trying to reduce my stress, and to no avail the diarrhea still remains as well as horredous gas. So bad, that my poor boyfriend can't even stand to be in the same room as me. I was not always like this, which leads me to think that my body cannot handle barely any foods at all?! Previous to now, I was a vegetarian for three years and during that time I was in the best of health and didn't have any problems, when I made the switch back to meat it has been a downhill climb from there. Could it be meat that is making my digstive system go out of whack? I am at my wits end as I literally feel sick all the time, my stomache hurts, I have no appetite and the food that I do eat, sends me running for the toilet. I am at a point where I am so frustrated and stressed with what's going on that I do not know what to do. I have made an appointment with my doctor for next week, so until he can confirm everything that I have stated above as true, then I am just speculating this is what I have, until then I was just wondering what are some things that I can do to help deal with this stress that is consuming me, and to help with my IBS? Thank you for anyone's imput, it is greatly appreciated. Open Question: My son is controlling and abusive to women, is there any hope for him?He was in prison for 4 years and is 26 years old. He was paroled in July 09, and was staying at a supportive family's home but got kicked out 3 weeks ago because he can't follow simple rules. He also abuses alcohol and is supposed to go to AA classes but doesn't. Now he is staying with me, but I told him he has to be out by end of January. Now his girlfriend is pregnant by him and she is almost 18. She is also staying with me and my 28 year old daughter and my daughter's 2 kids in my 2 bedroom apt!! ( My daughter and I share the rent, so that part is not a problem, by the way.) I like his girlfriend and want to be supportive of her because she comes from a crack head mom and has been in foster care and an abusive foster home since age 13. But my son is controlling of her, such as he can go out to the bar but doesn't want her to go anywhere without him. He is jealous of her past boyfriends. He flirts with other girls and just recently had sex with a 44 year old women who will drive him anywhere and just last night his pregnant girlfriend saw him kiss/hug another girl when he got a ride home. He came home drunk and puked all over the next morning. I overheard him talk on the phone and he asked a girl "Do you want me to tell you I love you or what?" His girlfriend was in the bathroom at the time. My son is also disrespectful of me at times and verbally abusive if I confront him about anything. He has punched holes in my walls when he lived with me before he went to prison. He is extremely self centered and manipulative. He has a hair trigger temper. ( He was diagnosed with ADHD and Oppositional Defiance Disorder when he was 14). He was in prison for habitual breaking and entering. Any comments / suggestions.? Open Question: Guys only ! ...I need your advice. Preferably a guy who's uncircumcised :o .. :/?k , so my boyfriend, he's uncircumcised and I've never come across one that wasn't before! It's come just about time to get into oral and other stuff, I don't want to do something wrong or anything:/ ! ahh ...I've never had any problems with oral on someone who wasn't circumcised.. but I want to know if there's any tricks or advice on it... handjobs too :/ ugg.. Thanks Open Question: Dream-Help me decode it?I was in class, in a bed and my ex-boyfriend (broke up 4 yrs ago) was hold me with his arms around my chest and stomach. I was trying to take notes for this class, the teacher was Dr. Oz and he was teaching adding and subtracting in a college class. I woke up yelling "let go of me, I need to write these problems down!" My ex is married and has a kid. I'm in school, in my junior year. What is your opinion, I don't have a clue??? Open Question: Why can't I trust my girlfriend and why do I get mad when I see her with other guys?Hi, I've got a bit of a problem. I've been with the same girl for the last 9 months and we are both sick and tired of me not being able to trust her when she's with other guys. There is this guy at school, let's just call him Logan. Logan has liked my girlfriend for the last few months and he told her about how much he liked her when me and my girlfriend had already been dating for a few months. He always asked to hang out with her and go to the movies and to just sit by her in class (All 3 of us go to the same high school). She told him before that she's sorry but she doesn't feel that way about him but she can still be friends with him and he backed off for a little while. But now again, I find him talking to her like he likes her. When she was at her friend's party and I wasn't there, he kept hanging around with her while me and my girlfriend were in a bit of a fight. (Over different reasons, not the usual about the lack of trust I have towards her). She was mad and started to vent to him why me and her were fighting and Logan kept saying how I was controlling and that I need to let her live her life (even though she thinks and knows that is totally false and unreasonable because I am not controlling of her) and to find someone better (AKA him). That was last weekend and now whenever I'm hanging out with my girlfriend, Logan is always texting her and saying stuff like he did before about me not being a good boyfriend. Also, today at lunch I see her sitting next to Logan and I see on her phone that he changed his name on her phone to "Logan is the greatest", which isn't that bad but it just makes me mad. So now, me and my girlfriend are fighting again. She says I don't trust her and I don't think I do even though I'd like to. And I know she would never cheat or do anything to me like that but I can't help it but get mad when she's with guys who like her, such as Logan, and I always tell her about it and we start fighting. How can I learn to feel complete, confident trust towards my girlfriend and not get mad at her whatsoever whenever she is with other guys or talking to or about other guys in front of me? Thanks in Advance. Open Question: HELP!!! does he like me or the other girl?Ok so there is this really cute guy that i know and i really like him. one problem... he asked this girl megan out and she said no but he may still like her. i always see them walking in the hallways and talking to each other. they dont sit together at lunch but they are in the same math class. while with me its just that we grinded at the dance and he was with me the whole time, he texts me, he touches my leg and looks at me straight in the eyes when he talks to me, we make eye contact in the halls, we give each other hugs, he put his arm around me and said i was his. he has kept this shirt that i gave him for like 6 weeks and he wont give them back and he teases me about them too saying randomly in the halls that i wont get them back ever. and today me and my friend were talking with her boyfriend who is friends with the guy i like and he was like wheres "john"? and my friend was like talking with his woman. and my friend also asked if they like each other and her boyfriend was like idk they are weird...so what do you think? 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