Bookmark and Share




Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Open Question: period 3 days late, spotting for a few hours then stopped. boyfriend has been busting in me. could i be prego? and more...

 
 



Open Question: period 3 days late, spotting for a few hours then stopped. boyfriend has been busting in me. could i be prego? and more...

Open Question: period 3 days late, spotting for a few hours then stopped. boyfriend has been busting in me. could i be prego?

usually i have regular periods every 28 days, but i am 3 days late so im getting a little worried. advice please? what do you think the problem is? i dont know where to go from here...

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: What should i do about boyz?

ok here is the problem me and my cousin have been single for so many months and we are ready to get a boyfriend but we r very picky ppl plus its kinda hard we have been waiting 4 so long but nothing seems to come what should we do?

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: Honest answer needed for my tough situation. How do I keep my potential relationship in the proper perspective?

I met a wonderful man about 4 months ago. He had not been in a relationship for awhile and I can tell struggles a bit trusting and giving his heart to me, maybe due to past hurt. The bad part is that He is currently going through a custody battle over his little girl and told me about a month into our dating that he can't concentrate on building anything deeper with me due to the pending circumstance which, understandably takes the majority of his time and emotion. I understand totally so I try to be a good friend to him during this difficult time; a shoulder to cry on, a voice of reason, someone who cares. Which means, I have backed way off, in an intimate way over the past couple of months which is what I thought he needed. I can't continue to treat him as though he is my part time boyfriend, that will only leave me hurt (ie I don't want to be too emotionally attached at this point). My pulling back translates over to him as me not really caring about him, which is what he is expecting anyway. He thinks that his problems are so stressful that I'm not going to stick by his side through this. I just need an outside point of view. I care so much about him and can see us in a long term relationship. I'm afraid we are going to part ways before long because of the mixed messages and the feelings that I know we share not being attended to. I almost want to just walk away and say that if it's meant to be it will come back around, but I don't want to leave him during probably the worst time of his life. What's real tough is naturally over time we have still established an emotional and romantic bond, so pulling back seems so unfair to not be able to share my feelings for him. I'm almost 35 and don't know if I should try and see this through or not. Help!!!!!!

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: what do i do. my heads going mad , i just want him by me, this is so pathetic , whats the quickest thing to do?

Me and my boyfriend r happy. sometimes we have a bad week but in general were pretty good... when we fight i always used to call him and be the one crying , but now its changed hes sometimes coming to me. But the other night i had a massive fight with my mum and i had a few problems i just needed to talk to him about , i said to him please come before 11am tomorrow because i cant sleep he promised me he would come. He came the next day at 2pm 3 hrs late , he came in laughing and just being cocky , in the s/hit i was going through he just annoyed me so much i told him to get out of my house . i hadnt spoken to him for about a day & he heard i was out & about So i think that kind of set him off , i then told him to come to my house forget the crap about yday its pathetic i just need to tell you something .. he said no, then i said okay come collect your stuff that youve left in my house , i need to tell you something important , then go and get out of my life if you want. He came very quick , he was with a friend so was acting cocky , he was looking into my eyes like he just wants it okay again. I said forget this, its stupid and not important anymore ,he said no , not until your outside my house saying sorry for kiking me out of your house the other day, if you dont then were nothing , he was just saying sh/it tbh but most of it went in one in and out the other .. i then laughed and said you should be saying sorry to me. i was just getting annoyed i just said to him to go and he went , on his way shouting stuff like were not together , come to my house and say sorry and blah blah blah i walked off and said do i care. Thats it it ,, im never like that , im always crying to him like i just want to be okay and i never let him leave until were okay. So it was a change , now im so upset i have no idea what to do , i have a friend that talks to him and sees him alot should i tell her to say something to him ? ive ignored him for abit now i cant take it no more the longer we wait we will forget about eachother what can i do ? Pleasee help x

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: problem with females thinking of me as a brother?

ok so its not like i can't get girls, i can get them, i just can't get the ones i really want... i always get the "i think of you like a brother" not the friend crap, but the brother, atleast you can build on a friendship, but if shes thinking of you as a brother, thats almost incest in her mind, so i can't see that building onto anything, and its not like one girl, every girl i really wanted to go out with, then i'd usually settle with the next best thing, but it was never what i wanted so i'd have to end it, i don't want to be like a brother, i just want to be the boyfriend, its stupid, apparently they consider me their brother on every level except DNA because, i know for a fact i am an only child... it just sucks, i don't see what i'm doing wrong, but it keeps happening well thats the thing, i'm not being like overly nice, and i'm not being a dbag, its more "confidently nice" but i always get the "i think of you as a brother" deal

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: I was raped, I was on birth control but he didnt use a condom, I also took the morning after pill, am I ok?

Yesterday morning my boyfriend(now ex) called me to come over so we could talk. We had been having some problems and we wanted to work them out. He had always refused to wear a condom when he had sex, and thus was a reason I avoided the topic. Well yesterday morning he decided he was going to get what he wanted from me. He proceeded to rape me, no condom, but he didnt cum inside. I have been on birth control for about a year now and was 4 pills into my birth control pack and only 3 days before had I finished my period(like normal). Well I ran from his house and went and picked up the morning after pill and took it 3 hours after what happened. He is in the air force so he says he gets tested every 6 months for STDs and he came out clean. Im worried could I be pregnant or have an std?

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: who should i pick? help :'(?

i'm in a bit of a problem... i have a boyfriend liam.. i like him.. we were best friends a couple months ago i told him i liked him .. he said he didnt like me and said we should just be friends until he likes me i was like ok... then a couple days ago he asked me out i said yes .. but this boy tyler likes**loves me and i thought he was all about getting lucky.. ive known him for what? five, four years now? we went out before. he's a chick magnet and two years older then me. he is very romantic and knows how to treat a girl. he wrote me a song and sung it to me at the park at night while we layed in the grass. another was on the porch it was sundown and there was john lennon.. and love songs playing while he was holding my hand my head was on his shoulder and his head on mine. i felt asleep it was so amazing. i have a lot of memories with tyler. tyler said he wants me to be happy so i can either pick him or liam. i like liam but there's something about tyler. he's my perfect type. liam is to but he is very judge mental and doesn't like that sapy love song only rock and he isnt romantic. but im confused who to pick.. i can go on about tyler.. like his voice. but liam wouldn't stay up all night and talk to me like tyler does. im never uncomfortable around him and i know i love tyler and his voice is deep and relaxing.. but i dont wanna break up with liam cuz he prob wont talk to me and i dont wanna loose our friend ship.. tyler or liam?

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: what can i do ? PLEASE HELP ME .?

Me and my boyfriend have always been happy , sometimes we have a bad week but in general were pretty good... when we fight i always used to call him and be the one crying , but now its changed hes sometimes coming to me. But the other night i had a massive fight with my mum and i had a few problems i just needed to talk to him about , he was then going out with our friends that night but i couldnt go .. anyway i said please come before 11am tomorrow because i cant sleep he promised me he would come. He came the next day at 2pm 3 hrs late , he came in laughing and just being cocky , in the shit i was going through he just annoyed me so much i told him to get out of my house . he then went . i hadnt spoken to him for about a day and he had heard from a friend that i was going some place with these boys but he got it all wrong. So i think that kind of set him off , i then told him to come to my house forget the crap about yday its pathetic i just need to tell you something .. He came very quick , he was with a friend so was acting cocky , he was looking into my eyes like hee does when were happy , like he just wants it okay again. I said forget about it, its stupid and not important anymore ,he said no , not until your outside my house saying sorry for kiking me out of your house the other day then were nothing , he was just saying shit tbh to act hard but most of it went in one in and out the other .. i then laughed and said you should be saying sorry to me. i was just getting annoyed i just said to him to go and he went , on his way shouting stuff like were not together , come to my house and say sorry and blah blah blah i walked off and said do i care. Thats it it ,, im never like that , im always crying to him like i just want to be okay and i never let him leave until were okay. So it was a change , now im so upset i have no idea what to do , i have a friend that talks to him and sees him alot should i tell her to say something to him ? ive ignored him for abit now i cant take it no more the longer we wait we will forget about eachother what can i do ? please help x

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: help neeeded:( boyfriend trouble?

okay, so me and my bf have been together nearlly 8months now. have hade a few problems but geeting on really well latley and i meen really well. i made the mistake ov puting ly and the end of a facebook comment to my boymate. and hes flipped and saying ive ruined it all and baisically lost trust/: and it says on his profile he can only trust to people in his life? himself and his bestmate. &being propa off with me really bad. even tho we finished the arguement about that hes being so diffrent with me like compleatley and now set on his profile that he drinks and smokes and does drugs? what the hell:/ and this is all the stuff his best mate does/: and im really not happy. im one of those sorta people who get upset really easliy over the stupidid things, but this is really getting too me/: i know i shouldnt ov done what i done putting'ly at the end and kinda get what he meens now/: even tho hes done some terrible things in the past.but ive used that against him alot when we fall out alott/: wich i shouldnt really do and it is unfair spose. but i do feel really bad ive said sorry plenty ov times, and i just really really want trust back? i love him so much dearlly, and i dont wana lose him. please avdice as much as possible? i really wana make this work. x im sorry for my speling i have disslexia.

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: lack of sexual desire and unable to reach orgasms?

I'm a 19 year old girl. I've always been attracted to boys, very! Right now I'm dating this amazing and handsome boy. I met him during an exchange program in the US. I broke up with my ex boyfriend back in my country because I fell in love with this guy. We started "dating" on October 21st and it was perfect. I really liked him, I still do. I think he is the perfect boyfriend ever. The thing is that a couple of weeks ago I've been feeling lack of sexual desire (not every day, sometimes I wanted to jump him :)) I'm worried about that. Also, it was my first time with him last month and it doesn't hurt anymore, it feels fine, but I can't come. I don't have orgasms and that worries me too. I'm a worrier, I'm a nervous and anxious person that wants everything to be perfect. I have OCD and take meds for that. Besides that, I'm perfectly healthy (physically, at least). These two things are making me feel frustrated. I really like this boy, he is so cute! I'm going back to my country in about 7 days and I want to get this problem solved. Plus, I've been staying at his place for the past two weeks and sometimes it's boring because i don't have classes anymore and we don't hang out with friends that much. It's sad. I want those butterflies and excitement again. I want to be really horny (i know it sounds bad!) and I want to get an orgasm. Could you please help? We have tried different positions and they all feel good but i can't come

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: Boyfriend troubles!!?

I've been with this guy since the start of may, so basically near or around 8 months. But we only recently started dating in early august. We are still together, and altho I didn't believe in this kinds thing, I fell for the guy. We spoke endlessly every single day, even when I spent 3 weeks in France, we talked everyday (costing me a fortune btw!) anyways, that was back in the summer and when I retired home, we made us official. And to this day Ive continued to love him. However in the last while I've notice some changes, he has become extremely non-chatty, and knows I dislike shortness because I'm an awfully chatty person, he also has started to show not much interest in seeing me more. I've tried consulting him in the nicest way possible, because I don't want it resulting in a row, yet he says he's perfectly fine! He's a very stubborn person and is never wrong when it comes to arguments, this is why I'd rather steer clear from arguments. I love this person.. He's great. But I really can't put up with this, especially since it's a very important year for me at school. I've never had this problem with him before.. Can anyone please help? Or give advice?

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: help please, problems with the boyfriend ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh?

okay, so me and my bf have been together nearlly 8months now. have hade a few problems but geeting on really well latley and i meen really well. i made the mistake ov puting ly and the end of a facebook comment to my boymate. and hes flipped and saying ive ruined it all and baisically lost trust/: and it says on his profile he can only trust to people in his life? himself and his bestmate. &being propa off with me really bad. even tho we finished the arguement about that hes being so diffrent with me like compleatley and now set on his profile that he drinks and smokes and does drugs? what the hell:/ and this is all the stuff his best mate does/: and im really not happy. im one of those sorta people who get upset really easliy over the stupidid things, but this is really getting too me/: i know i shouldnt ov done what i done putting'ly at the end and kinda get what he meens now/: even tho hes done some terrible things in the past.but ive used that against him alot when we fall out alott/: wich i shouldnt really do and it is unfair spose. but i do feel really bad ive said sorry plenty ov times, and i just really really want trust back? i love him so much dearlly, and i dont wana lose him. please avdice as much as possible? i really wana make this work. x im sorry for my speling i have disslexia.

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: what is a great foundation and powder doesn't wear off on my clothes?

My problem: when im with my boyfriend and I lean on his shoulder next thing I know he has my makeup all over his shirt/sweater.. I feel really bad and I've tried almost every powder makeup like Clinique, MAC, Loreal, Cover Girl, and they all wear off on mine or his clothes after a while as well as they wont last all day =( (ANY RECOMMENDATIONS for primer, foundations, and powder makeup that wont wear off on clothes and most importantly LASTS ALL DAY!!??)

Email to a friendRelated



More Recent Articles


Click here to safely unsubscribe now from "Yahoo! Answers: Search for " or change your subscription or subscribe

Your requested content delivery powered by FeedBlitz, LLC, 9 Thoreau Way, Sudbury, MA 01776, USA. +1.978.776.9498

 

0 comments: