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Open Question: Parents want me to go with them to Texas for Christmas? and more... Open Question: Parents want me to go with them to Texas for Christmas?My only problem with this is that i have a one year old and my boyfriend are living together at his parents house and if i go with my parents to Texas then his parents and my boyfriend will be away from his son and there grandson for Christmas and i do not want that. But at the same time my Nana and papa haven't seen there great grandson yet nor have my cousins and uncles and aunts. So i am torn on this i am not really sure. I mean i want to go but at the same time i don't want to go. My boyfriend told me i should go but i don't know when i told him what my parents wanted he looked like he had just taken a shot to the balls. What should i do? Advice? Open Question: OMG! PLEASE HELP! Do I have an STD!?!?I am a 16 year old Female. And, I lost my virginity about 6 days ago to my boyfriend. (Saturday) It was unprotected. We've done it twice for two days. The last day we had sex was this Tuesday. It is now Friday. He's been with 4 girls before me. And he donates blood(which means you can't have an STD)... He told me the last time he donated blood was early this year. So here's my problem. Yesturday it started to burn when I went pee. So I looked at my vagina and saw two red bumps by on my Labia Majora. Here's a picture if you don't know what I am talking about. http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/commons/2/2c/Labeled_Vagina.GIF Now today, There are MANY bumps around the same area. Maybe 7-10. I haven't shaved since Tuesday. So I don't think they are ingrown hairs. Plus, I've never had ingrown hair around that area. Another thing is, each time we had sex I went pee...but I never washed my vagina. (We got interupted EVERY TIME.) I'm going to this clinic this Sunday. So I'm not just going to "take my chances." But please help me out and give my an EDUCATED answer. Not just "EW, YOU HAVE AIDS..." Thankyou. *wish me luck* Open Question: Boyfriend Help! What can I do to get him to go to work?Ok, I have been with my guy for a year and a half; he is awesome. We have been living together for quite sometime now. The problem is he wont get a job or he just wont keep one. His dad died a couple of months back and before then he worked with his dad. he has always had a lazy work ethic. His dad would come and bang on his door until he got up for work. Now since he has lived with me and his dad's passing he has one job since and got fired for being late. He thinks people will put up with his shit or something, like his dad did and I tell him other wise. Now he just has stopped looking for a job, it has been like 3 months almost since the last job. I have even fought with him and told him we have been through this before and I know what he was going to do, be lazy and not look. Josh has an anxiety problem and also suffers from mild depression, I am sure it has gotten worse with the passing of his dad and we are working on getting him to a doctor now. I don't plan on leaving him until I get him on some meds and see if that helps, but in the mean time I guess I really want to know how I can motivate him or does it sound like I am wasting my time. He is sincerly great, I know he wants to do better and we talk of all of our dreams of being healthy going to work and having money so we can move and have a very serious life together. This work thing though has been from the beginning though and it is seriously working my nerves I am not sure how much more I can take. Open Question: Abusive Relationship?Hi everyone! I honestly, have some bad news. I don't know where to start but im flustered and very worried for my best friend. Ok, so I'll try to explain this the best I can. About 7 months ago my best friend was whining about wanting a boyfriend just because she saw some other girl with hers. I got upset at her remark because having a boyfriend isn't just a spring fling thing. So, I left her alone. A few days later she out of nowhere goes after a new boy at her school who she claims she likes, and this is totally just.. random. Than she texts me the next day and says him and her are going out. I was like "Why did she just.. use this guy?". Sadly, the relationship has lasted and has had some very bad results and this is what i'm concerned about. I'm happy that shes happy with this boy but.. these results I am very concerned of. She has done the following things since he's come around. I will also list some things he's told her. he really picks on her and brings down her self confidence. He tries to convince her shes some freak... and I often wonder if it's some sort of sick joke. It really made me angry that he would treat her like he did. Shortly after that I noticed a big change in my friends appearance. He wanted her to cut off all of her hair so she did that first. Of course, my friend told me one of her other friends had did it and she was doing it for herself., but luckily i knew this friend and she did not do as my friend claimed. So she basically lied to me. Since then she keeps chopping off all her hair and wont let it grow back. I've told her as a friend i think long hair looks nicer but shes really against it for some reason. I've also noticed shes gotten pretty heavy. My best friend used to never have a problem with weight she used to be as skinny as a stick and she looked really good and was healthier. Since she's met him she seems to have gotten bigger and isnt taking care of herself hygiene wise. And worst of all she's been obsessive over this boy ignoring her other friends. None of her other friends like him though. All of them seem very angry at the fact he even exsists. I don't know why really... But no one really approves of him and how he talks and acts around her. The thing is, I'm very convinced this is an abusive relationship on some part. One is abusing the other and I'm very frightened for my friend. Shes also been expelled numerous times because of the things she's did with him and she was also expelled for her hair at least once. I am extremely worried for her and this relationship. I don't know to do at this point, considering I've told her to just not worry about him and move on. If anyone could be of help I would really appreciate it. Maybe some advice of what i should do? I'm so scared for her I really think things turn ugly when someone starts changing so much because of one person. -Marie Open Question: I don't know what i should do here?The thing is, i've been going out with this guy for a month now and most of the time everything has been good and ive been happy. I only get to see him once a week though. And the problem is. is that i am beginning to like someone else, who i get to see everyday. I think that i get on much better with the second guy but i dont know if i should dump my boyfriend for him. and if i did i know that he would be upset which would make me upset and i'm not very good at handling that sort of thing. so i need peoples opinion of what you would do in my situation please.. thanks :) Open Question: Friends boyfriend texts me this? What does he meen? Jeez....*?Ok my bestfriend and I are close and I get on really well and talk to him alot as do most of my friends, I went shopping with him for her christmas present and all and he has stayed in my house etc... Last night at 12 he text me 'Hey xx' so I replied 'Hey joe wats up x' and he replied ' Good yea, Quick question, Ya no the way ya said ya had a problem with wanting sex too much. How bad is it cus im getting really worried about myself ha x' (It was a joke I made ages ago) . And I said, 'Ah you couldnt be that bad did you not see Marissa today haha x' (His girlfriend who he has sex with almost everyday. And he said' not today, how'd you cope, if you dont mind me asking you must finger alot ha x' . I was laughing but freaked out at the same time and did not reply... Do you think hes just messing with me or what is your interpertation of this? The thing is he knows im really loyal and so does everything, im I reading too much into this. No I do not like him like that at all Open Question: Am I shy, normal, or do I have a social problem?I get sick when I'm around too many people that i don't know. It's not like I feel this way when I'm....let's say....walking around by myself in the mall on a busy Saturday. When my roommate invited me to eat lunch with her, I was just fine. Then she met up with her best friend, and I started looking for a way to leave. When we got to the Cafe, they met up with some guy and I got sick. So now, I'm back in my room, hiding. What is wrong with me? I don't do this when it's my best friend, my sister, and my best friend's sister. We could even add my sister's boyfriend and his brother. That's five people. I'd be just fine. Why is this? Open Question: How can I let my parents visit my boyfriend in Sao Paulo, Brazil?My problem is this: I used to date this guy for a while, but I´ve never put much faith in our relationship because I was gonna live in Milan for professional reasons, and he was going to Sao Paulo. But after breaking up, we realised that what we had was very important for both, and we can´t forget eachother. So I decided to go and visit him this Christmas holidays, with my own money, that I saved. But my problem is this; I`m living in Milan for studying, and I depend on my parents, they are paying me everything, And they don´t let me go, because they think S.P is veeeery dangerous! their problem is not the money at all, they are afraid that something bad happens to me! Besides, they never met this boyfriend I had. I´m 21 years old, living alone, I´ve travelled alone before, I don´t know why they are messing so much this time! I really love him, I need to see him, and I can´t stand anymore being far away from him! please help me find a way to show them that this is th best for me!! Open Question: Boyfriend trouble :P?hi,my boyfriend said is going to live with his dad and move schools cos he thinks people hate him and family problems,how can i stop him and show that i love him lots XD Open Question: Relationship problem.!! help please.?Ok i have a boyfriend he is 20 n im 17 we have been talking since june but we havent made it official until like late october so we have been together for a month. well im a virgin n he understands that but he said he cant wait a yr for me because he has needs and he hasnt waited that long before. but im not waiting a year neither i juss want to lose my virginity to the right one. he has been an okay boyfriend. he's funny; sweet, etc. but i dont know. how long should i make him wait? im not ready now. i fell like its too early for sex. i want to make sure hes really into me..and i dont love him yet...i like him alot though. also the other day i was on myspace and i was looking for him well i found his page and in his photos he had a picture of a girl n the album was called "my boo" his last login was nov. 30 and he added 4 new photos to the album. I know boo means like girlfriend so im pissed. this means he has just uploaded these pics while we were together. so im sure he's cheating. but he doesnt know i saw his page. should i tell him? should i confront him? should i break up with him? i dont think i want to lose my virginity to a boy whose cheating on me!!. im confused but all i know is i really like him.. but i dont want to get my heart broken. what should i do.? help me plz. More Recent Articles |
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