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Open Question: OK, I know for a fact if I introduce my friend to my boyfriend, she will go after him, what to do? and more... Open Question: OK, I know for a fact if I introduce my friend to my boyfriend, she will go after him, what to do?Met this girl, i really like her as a friend. But she likes to chase guys, and I have a boyfriend I REALLY like, and he likes to flirt around too. He's made it clear to me we have an open relationship. My problem is, I'm NEVER EVER going to let them meet. However, I don't know how I can prevent this, since I live in a small town, and If I go out drinking around here, we are bound to run into him. I've thought about just storming off, if he walks up to us, but i know she'll linger behind thinking thats rude. I've thought about politely telling her to not talk to him because she is my friend, but I know she won't do that either. people are dicks Open Question: Ahh! Jealous girlfriend Syndrome! What can I do?I have a massive problem I'm insanely jealous. My boyfriend has never done anything to hurt me, he's always been faithful. I find my self getting really upset though when he's talking to another girl and my brain will not stop thinking....The reason I think it effects me so much is that my boyfriend doesn't really like girls. He finds them insanely annoying, which I am totally okay with lol. When he talks to a girl though I get really paranoid because I know how much he gets annoyed with them so it makes me wonder like Oh Well he's talking to this girl maybe he likes her! Though I know he'd never do anything behind my back. I'm in a very long distance relationship and we have been for years. There was this girl that he used to be friends with in high school and they just recently started talking again and shes so pretty and it makes me mental. He will compliment her art and stuff which shouldn't bother me, but he doesn't really compliment anything I do very much. So that's a really lame thing I get jealous about lol. I can't stop thinking about it. It's definitely my issue but I have no idea how to control my jealousy.....He deserves for me to not be jealous because he's been so great, and I keep it to my self now because no one wants to be nagged constantly for things they don't do. So I was just wondering is there a way to make the jealousy go away...or to not have it bother me anymore. Thanks for the help! Open Question: Relationship advice for a 2 and a half year relationship.?My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for 2 and a half years.we've grown up so much with each other...and learned so many new things.we love spending time with each other....I'm 21 and hes 22.We fell in love....and so I mean we have a good relationship.....his family loves me and so does mine. we've met all of each others families.We do a lot of things together..because we like doing new things with each other alongside....but for the past somewhat months we've been constantly arguing.Like we'll talk out our problems so it will be cool for like 2 weeks and then again another argument starts....and we always give each other a day to cool off.and then it'll be fine again..I hate the fact that when were together and we argue we leave all pissed off. He says it's my attitude..then he doesn't tolerate with it. and I say that if he didn't put me in certain situations then i wouldn't be even arguing........Now, it just feels like its over.He told me yday that he loves me and all but he can't keep going with the same shit over and over.and I agree too. But he doesnt break up with me..its like he wants me to break up with him.but i wont do it either. i guess its because we both deep inside know that we cant be with out one another. my question is....is there a different way you think we can manage our arguments? and would it be better to just break up? or keep trying? p.s and please don't say give each other time.cause during this season for 4 months he leaves to another city to work. and he drives 9 hrs every 2 weeks to come and see me even though its only for 1 day. ..but we try to make the best of it.But with arguing like the other day....we end up feeling angry at one another. any advice would be great.thanks Open Question: Whats WRONG with me? Why cant I be happy with my boyfriend? :(?I was sexually abused for 5 Years from 9-14.. I ran away when i was 14 which caused a lot of problems for me when i came back i was constantly beaten by my parents now im 20 but im a very angry person and its like i can be normal for a little while then i can go in to a monster for like 30 minutes and swear at my bf and then i would go normal and say I love you like nothing happend i have no control over myself i can actually feel myself getting angry physically aswell as mentally i use to self harm a lot and have attempted suicide a million times but ive kind of stopped now.. but the change of my behaviour with my bf is really affecting my life.. What is wrong with me? Please help! Thanx in advance!! x Ive seen a counsellor it didnt help at allit was like talking to a brick wall!! Open Question: Please help me! (If you're uncomfortable with my problem please don't reply)?Ok I'm not sure what to do. Ok I'm a teenager just in high school and I'm bisexual. I've never had a boyfriend before ever since I turned bi, and I've only dated girls (yes I'm a dude). The past five boy relationships I almost had were ruined by them lying to me about their bisexuality and they told me they never were and they just did it to mock me, except one of them actually did like me but stabbed me in the back by dating my best friend (who is a girl). So recently there was this guy and me and him were just about to date because we made out and me and my ex-girlfriend had broken up a week before this happened. He still had yet to break it off with his girlfriend and then we would be official. But his parents found out that he was bi and what was going on between me and him and they called up my parents and told my parents. His parents told my parents I'm not allowed to talk to him or see him ever again, and my parents told me I should not be thinking about my bisexuality at this age. Now they act like nothing ever happened and life goes on, but there's still something wrong with my life. They took away everything from me (texting, Facebook, etc.) because his parents told my parents that our texts were inappropriate, and my friends have left me because they think that me being bisexual is a desperate cry for attention even though thats not what I'm asking for. I still like him a lot, and his friends told me that he still likes me and won't stop, and that's the only thing keeping me hopeful that I will have a second chance. But in the mean time what do I do? He doesn't go to my school (his is about 15 minutes away from mine) and I have a ton of friends that go there, but half the time I can't get a hold of them. Open Question: someone plz help~!!!!32 wks preggo n considering not bringing my daughter 2 my home when we leave the hospital?so heres the scoop, my boyfriend and i have lived together since october. I have a 5yr old from a previous relationship, and he has a 3 yr old from one and we have a daughter thats due in about 7 weeks. I am 23 and my boyfriend is 24. Thats alot of kids for ppl our age. My son says with us full time as his father is not a part of his life. His son is over on the weekends or whenever my boyfriend goes to get him. We have a small 2bdrm apartment, the boys share 1 room and the other room is ours.i absolutely love it when it is just us and the kids... (the pppl that are supposed 2 live here) however heres the problem.... in the 3 months that we have lived here, we have maybe had 3 weeks that someone wasnt visiting from out of town staying with us or just styain with us to get on their feet or staying cuz they needed a place to stay for the night, and they end up overstaying their welcome 99%of the time! Epidsode #1: his dad (jim) came in from missouri (we live near chicago) for a week for thansgiving. Completely unannounced until the night before when he was about an hour away from being @ our house. We already had plans so he decided to go to another one of his kids house for the holiday. Well when i asked my boyfriend where he was staying he said i dont know, so we talked and decided that he could stay here for the week that he was here.The entire time he was here, i was treated like a servant, can u make me a drink, can u do this, when u do laundry cn u wash these few lods of clothes for me, (that we dont have on site, we use a luandrymat) what are u cooking for dinner?, etc. As well as numerous rude comments that i really didnt appreciate. Well that week came and went and he left to go back home, said our goodbyes said we'll see u at christmas, etc.. Episode #2: NOT 2 DAYS LATER, HE SHOWS UP AGAIN!!!! Never once asking us if he could stay here again or anything. and this time he has been here for almost 2 weeks now! With no sign of leaving. This time my boyfriend and i have quit smoking in peparaton for the new baby coming soon, and no one smokes in the house. if ppl come over that smoke we ask them to smoke outside. Well his dad just continues to smoke in the house as if nothing has changed, as well as constantly disrespecting our home, as well as me in many different ways. Such as he will ask me how tall i am, and then how much i weigh when im not pegnant and i tell him n he goes isnt that a little heavy? (u dont say that 2 a pregnant woman period) or if i make something for dinner that he doesnt like, he will wolf it down at the moment and then later make the comment that he doesnt like this or doesnt like that... in addition, we have decided that we do not want anymore kids and i will be having my tubes tied when my daughter is about 8 wks old. However, he continues to pressure us about having more children, and we have told him that we do not want anymore. Well he just keeps going. He will catch one of us alone, and ask if the other has talked to you yet? and when you say abut what, he says that the opposite person wants another baby and just doesnt want to say anything, causing ssues between the 2 of us. Also, he either comes in at 5 am, stays up until 3 am and then wants to sleep all day in our living room! I aso woke up the other day and the heat was on 90 degees! I am the type of pregnant grl that MUST have something sweet to eat whenever i want it, therefore i keep cakes or pies or cookies or something around at all times. However, i will get a peice of the pie or cake when i buy it and bring it home, and then the next time i go to get a peice of it, its GONE! IF I GET ANY OF IT AT ALL! This has happened like 10 times, and im sick of it, cuz i go to bakerys and places like that 2 get these cakes and pies and they are not cheap. (we're talking like 15-20 bucks for a cake or pie) SRY but to me theres no excuse for disrespecting anyones house like that! Episode #3: in addition to everything already, his brother will randomly show up here, and need somewhere to stay 4 the night because him and his wife are fighting. No problem there cuz i would hope that if myself or my boyfriend were to do the same, that we would be welcomed just as we welcomed them. Episode #4: in addition to his dad being here and over staying his welcome as he has been, his sister that we havent seen in months heard that we had our own place and shes constantly calling asking if she can stay here. I usually would have NO problem because my family isnt a big family type of family. However i want my kids to grow up being family type of people.so i want to teach my kids to never tun their back on family cuz they are going to b the only ones there for u when it counts. However this sister is the type of person that if we left her at my house when i came back everything would be gone. So thats an absolutely NOT. Episode #5: Now, his best friend (more like his brother) is going to lose his apartment and the h Open Question: What to say to mother who is always negative about me?She is always negative and I'm 25. Especially about girls. Thats what gets me annoyed the most. Not only this but my sister who is 36 yet acts like a 12yr old is treated with respected, and noticed and is allowed to go out with whomever she wants. If I talk about a nice girl, whether she has problems or not my mum will speak bad about her call her names even though she has never met her. Like she is jealous, like just because it is another woman. She shows no respect for me and my wishes and each conversation I have is the same thing. She knows I don't like the way she is but she never changes. Then you get the old "Oh I care and look out for you" but it just comes across like the person she cares more about is herself, how she feels when I go out or if I decide to bring a girl home, oh god forbid that. 25 yr old bringing a girl home...oh know she has to make excuses about things like the kitchen has a hole in the ceiling yet she doesn't mind my sister bringing in her boyfriend is is some snobby bigot. Oh but she is older than me I forgot. How do I get her to be more fair and respect my choices? Open Question: if u bring a cat in a home with another cat will there be problems?i have this female cat an she got done having a litter of his kittens this is the second litter from him an i took her out the house because my boyfriends parents didnt want kittens there an i brought her back an would they fight because they havent seen each other in like 5 months.. i put them in the same room together with me an my boyfriend to make sure nothing will happen an all the male cat did was smell her them hiss an my cat walked away.. More Recent Articles
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