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Open Question: New Boyfriend got upset and called if off. Now he text me everyday but won't ask me out.? and more... Open Question: New Boyfriend got upset and called if off. Now he text me everyday but won't ask me out.?We are both divorced. Both have kids and both on the dating scene again. We meet on a dating website. We hit it off so well. We were both excitted how great it was going. He says to me he is getting off the dating website we met on. I say ok me too. We both delete or profiles. Life is going really good. I see that he has another profile on another website. I mention it to him and tell him that it upset me. He says he forgot all about it and showed me he had not logged into it it several months. (this is true it has last log in date on it). Well he tappers off from seeing me. Things slow way way down. He starts to have problems with his kids and tells me this is why he hasn't been seeing me. We were in Love. Planning on moving in together. He was the one planning the moving in and pushing forward. I was always following his lead. He breaks 3 dates in a row with me. He starts doing the minimal to hold on to me. Like instead of sending me 6-7 text messages a day I was just getting one. He would call me every few days instead of 3 times a day. Whenever I called him it would go straight to voice mail. I'd leave messages and he'd call me back 3 days later saying he was so so busy with his kids and trying to sort them all out. Meanwhile I happen to notice he still has his dating website, never took it down and he Chats a lot with other girls on facebook. Anyway I had to end it. I didn't want to but I couldn't allow someone to treat me like that. I ended it and he basically said ok. He didn't try to keep me. Now he is texting me and calling a little saying he was so stressed out with the custidoy battle with his kids and he knew he handled it wrong. Says he's sorry and he should of treated me better. But he makes no attempt to see me. This has been going on for 2 weeks. He says nothing about getting back together. I asked him if he is dating and he said he is just haging out with friends. But I heard he is seeing an ex-girlfriend. Everyday when I get one of the text messages it makes my heart stop. I never wanted to loose him. I still love him. I wish we were together. I don't know how to respond to his messages. I'm afraid he is just being nice and he might be seeing his ex. I don't want to get hurt again. What should I do with this guy? Open Question: Ugh starting not to like her anymore what should i do?So im having a problem with this girl who i used to be bffs with. we'll call her Ashley. Well Ashley got a boyfriend and i was fine with it until he started breaking up withe her so they got back together and she let him do stuff to her (fingering and almost sex) at 13! he broke up with her AGAIN and they keep on dating and she comes crying to me and calling him bad names but then they date again! its about the 8th time they have dated and im getting tired of it and she needs to get over him! I really dont even wanna talk to her because she is constantly getting on my nerves. After she did that stuff with him she lost all her friends and i felt bad for her so i was really close to her but now i totally understand why she lost all of them and she is about to lose me cause i cant take it anymore. I hope i dont sound stupid and bitchy but its really getting under my skin! please help! and the really annoying part is i sit by her in like every class and i then i will start to feel guilty that im not talking to her. and at lunch i sit right across from her. Open Question: Christmas gift ideas for my boyfriend.?okay I just need a little brainstorming of gift ideas that I could get for my boyfriend... we're both 18, he's black, very athletic & has a funny personality & he's really loving. I was thinking of getting him tickets to a Nuggets basketball game. (money isn't a problem) Open Question: How to get her to commit?Okay quick background, I'm 19 btw but me and this girl went out for 3 years before I cheated on her she found out and we broke up, it's been like 5 months since that but back at that point I was partying non stop and that shit but since then I've cleaned up and been talking to this chick trying to get back with her.(btw I regret cheating I've learned from it and I'm convinced she's the only girl) but anyway the problem is she has a boyfriend that she likes. He's kind of a **** up tho, he sells weed goes for the whole I'm a white gangster appeal and she won't cheat. Week back we talked and she admitted that she still loved me and knew she wouldn't have feelings for him like that ever. She is debating ending it with him now but her bestfriend loves him and despise me. How can I get her to commit to me and end kt with him despite her friend? Sorry that is really messy types off cell phone Open Question: boyfriend? please help!10 points for best answer!?there"s this boy I really like. and i don't know how to get his attention. thers another problem have the girls in my school like him Open Question: Is it weird that my boyfriend is friends with his ex?My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months. He just told me today that his ex is going to be at his family's holiday party and wants to meet me. She was his girlfriend for 2 years and they both lost their virginity to each other. Is it weird that they are still friends? Apparently she has a boyfriend, but I have never met anyone who has remained friends after breaking up, especially after 2 years. I have had problems in the past with boyfriends cheating on me with their ex's so I don't really know what to think at this point. Help… Open Question: Someone help, me and my boyfriend dont communicate !?Okay, well me and my boyfriend dont talk at all, && i heard the he's going to dump me because i dont talk to him. Problem is, when i do talk to him, like he never replys its hard to make a convo if the person never likes to carry on... Can someone please help me, how can i start it. Like holyy shyt, this is complicated. : ) Open Question: Boyfriend problems? 17+ Please help?Okay so this i whats up, im 17 years old and my boyfriends 19. He just got expelled out of school and is probally going to get kicked out of his moms house now. We have just made a year together, but i dont know about him not being in school.He has no job and i feel like im spose to be supporting everyone here, and thats just wrong. He has no highsschool diploma now and i dont know what to do. I truley love him and i want to stay with him but he is making this as hard as possible. We were thinkin about getting him in life skills so he can get atleast a ged. Please help. i dont care if you oppinion is bad i need it. thanks. Yes he tries, he has put in apps and stuff but he cant seem to get a job. Open Question: my boyfriend just isnt the same anymore. what should i do?My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months we moved in together after been together for only 7 months. It just made sense because he lived 15 minutes out of town and he worked in town, and since I don't drive he was driving back and forth a lot. Also I was just making ends meet, and wouldn't have extra money to spend on dates and if we go out he would have to pay for everything (which I hated). So we moved in together because we were together everyday anyways and always had sleepovers. Everything is great with living together, we don't have disagreements of how we live or who's cleaning or cooking. The only problem is we argue about me going to the city (I am from there and that's where all my friends are.) He was cheated on before and thinks I would do it and not remember because I had too much to drink. I usually go to the city to party with my friends and there has been 2 times where I have called him and don't remember talking to him. I know I wouldn't cheat under any circumstances because I was with my friends and I have no desire for other guys. So later I told him I was going to the city for my 2 friend's birthdays and he got mad at me. So I told him I couldn't be in this relationship if he didn't trust me. So we talked about it and then he was fine with me going to Calgary. I ended up not going because I was short cash. A few weeks later on a Friday afternoon my co-worker friend asked if I wanted to go for a few drinks after work. Which I thought that would be fun since I only go out with my mom or my bf and his friends. I texted my boyfriend to let him know/ask if it was okay because this co-worker is a single guy our age. I didn't want my bf to think anything. He replied so you don't need a ride then and I said no. Later my boyfriend calls me and said what are you doing. I told him we were just picking up my coworkers friend and going to a bar to have drinks and told him I would call him back. But he called me back like a minute later saying well I thought we were going to do recycling and have dinner. But I told him that we didn't have no plans for dinner and we said we would do the recycling during the weekend sometime. He was like okay when will you be home. Anyways when I got home he argued with me about it. Saying I shouldn't be going out with single guys. Well first he is my co worker and there is nothing going on. So after we argued some people came over for drinks. Myself who was completely pissed off had to many drinks and fell over and didn't remember. So the next day he said he didn't want to be with me anymore because I get to drunk all the time(and probably embarrass him). I told I didn't want to be with him because he got mad over me going for a few drinks. We were just talking about I would we do this (break up) because we live together and then it went to I didn't want to break up anymore for a couple of days we were undecided. So in the end I admitted I have a problem and told him I would quit, so I could be with him. But he was like oh you really think you can quit yeah right. But I know I can quit because it's not like I am addicted to liquor, I just don't know my limit of handling it. Anyways it just doesn't seem the same anymore after a few days of fighting. I know he will continue to get mad if I tell him I am going to the city, and I know I can't hang out with my coworker anymore because on that Monday he texted me like oh do you need a ride or you going to get one from Chris. Also he doesn't say I love you, I always say it first. So I haven't said it in 2 days. I am going to see how long it takes him to say it. Yes I know he sounds controlling and clingy but barely hangs out with his friends because then I have nothing to do and he said he would honestly spend his time with me. I just want to make this right. I want him to tell me he loves me and be more romantic. I have told him this but nothing seems to change. I asked why don't you do all the sweet nice things and why don't we go on fun adventurous dates like we used to. He basically said that he was trying to impress me. So now that he knows he gots me he doesn't try as hard. It just sucks because I fell in love with the guy he used to be and not exactly who he is today. He still has many of the great qualities I fell in love with like his sense of humour, his determination, and how he always wants to be with me. I know relationships change after awhile but I feel like I have to work for his love. I love him so much and want it to work. I just want thoughts what do you think.. and thanks I know it was long but I wanted to make sure I got all the details. To angleia, I only drink like once or twice a month. So its not as big as you just made it. Open Question: Do social welfare pay for au pairs if you are single mom?Me and my 20yr old boyfriend have just discovered we are pregnant!! I've just celebrated my 21st birthday. We are real happy. Moneys not a problem, i live with my parents and my boyfriend lives round 4 minutes walk wtih his parents. We are not going to work. I want to go to uni and so does my boyfriend. Thats cool. Mum says she'll pay to have someone mind the baby and we will work it out, tons of support. However my boyfriend and i would like our own place. Mum may be upset about me moving out. But i just wnat to know do welfare payments stretch to paying or childcare, nurses/au pairs? I dont want to be stuck 24/7 wtih my baby. But i'm sure mum will cover payments for care anyhow. Just wondering? Thanks Open Question: My phone wont text a certain number..?Hey.. so i have an LG Rumor for Sprint.. the old version i guess. For the past two weeks or so my phone wont text my boyfriends. Idk what kind of phone hes got..but anyways, he doesnt recieve any of my tests but i get his. Also, when i call him he says his phone doesn't even ring and it'll be on loud and everything. Is this problem my phone or his? No stupid comments like "he's lying. he's purposely not answering" cause he got pissed i wasn't texting him back. hah. give me your input please :) also i can text everyone else and they get my texts and i get theirs. it seems to only be with HIS phone.. but it's the same with his as well too i think. He gets/sends to everyone else's phone.. he just doesnt get mine. Open Question: Help!!!!!!!!!!!! What does this means? Every time I fall for someone they cheats on me!?It seems like everytime I fall in love with someone I get hurt, could it be me or I just have't found the right guy yet, I think I'm a wife material, I'm a good woman. Can that be the problem, is there anyone going through the same or have they been through it before, what should I do. My boyfriend told me it was a reason, he will not tell me what the reason is,that is why he had a baby on me, I don't know if he is just saying that because I want to break up Open Question: How can I make this girl forget her ex boyfriend?Hi people, I have a problem I want to share with you guys. What is happening is that I know this girl that I'm trying with her but im going really slow because I know I still don't want her to realize what I feel for her. The problem is...somehow she still likes and feels something for her ex boyfriend. (He is also my friend a good friend btw). They left each other like a year ago but still she has this thing with him. I think it's because it was really her first love and I think, not sure but almost sure, that he was the first person she made sex with. So that's why I think she has this huge crush on him. What I wanna do is try, seems kinda hard, to make her forget him. Make her see that he doesn't like her no more the way she wants and she has to get over him. But I don't wanna offend her neither make her realize I'm having a crush on her cuz that could mess up everything since I think she looks at me like a good friend and I don't wanna change that since the first step for a big and strong relationship is friendship right? So according to you guys, what should I do? Any ideas that can make her forget him? I also accept girls ideas...Please tell me how did u forgot ur boyfriend or the first guy you had sex with. If you loved him that is. ALL IDEAS AND SUGGESTION PLEASE!!! Because I dont want then her to be with me and still thinking about him and making fantasies you know, using me just like a waste of time. Thank you all from the bottom of my heart and hope to get some good ideas, LD haha very encouraging Kristen but I'm afraid u're right. Starz thanks a lot! You're the best and Im gonna try to do that... more ideas plxx More Recent Articles
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