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Sunday, December 13, 2009

Open Question: Need Advice Please...? and more...

 
 



Open Question: Need Advice Please...? and more...

Open Question: Need Advice Please...?

Well, I was grounded for 2 weeks due to an incident I have had with my aunt. I am eighteen years old and I have a boyfriend thats nineteen. Well, my bf contacted me during my grounding, when I was not suppose to talk to ANYONE. I talked to him and we texted but after four days of the grounding I told him it's better if we stop talking and texting. Well, my aunt found out and was going to initially take away a trip I had planned with him. I begged her know and I came up with an alternative, to add four more days (the amount of days I texted) to my grounding. Which means absolutely no contact with anyone. I knew how much the trip meant to him (and I was only going to be grounded from the trip) so I sacrificed four days of freedom. Well, It is the day I should of gotten off and he is out with his friends all this weekend. Everytime I come home from errands his truck is gone. We email and we will talk and I will make sure to check it every thirty minutes (so he is not kept waiting around for me) he hasn't emailed me to tell me he is going anywhere so I will contimuely check it and he will finally email me 5 hours later (when he gets home). I confronted him about that issue yesterday but he did it again today. I'm getting frustrated and I feel like he is having the time of his life will I am sitting around at home and he helped me create the problem. What should I do? Thank you for all your help.

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Open Question: Help please, have a relationship problem?

well, i recently moved to an area over the summer, and here i met a girl during summer, and we became friends really fast. i started liking her more then a friend, but then she told me that she had a boyfriend but that she does not see him often, and she has mixed feelings... she said she might like me... so it got my hopes up, so during that week i hung out with her more often, and so a week later, i asked her if she liked me enough to break up with her bf. but apparently she told him to hang out with her more and so her feelings towards me kinda froze... anyways about a couple of months have passed by (we kept in touch, and seeing each other, hung out etc...) then awhile ago, she broke up with her bf. and so a few days ago, i asked her over, and she came, we were watching a movie and i made a move, and we cuddled, then at the end of the movie, i tried to make a move to kiss her, but she just moved back and said no...(we were still cuddling) anyways, after that i asked her why not, and she said "id rather us be friends, (best friends) and i don't want this to ruin it..." and so i tried to convince her it wouldn't etc... now the weird thing is, after she said no and stuff, it didn't feel awkward at all. we just kept cuddling for awhile until she had to go... so whats going on exactly?

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Open Question: Need Help Please.. I'm Very Frustrated?

Well, I was grounded for 2 weeks due to an incident I have had with my aunt. I am eighteen years old and I have a boyfriend thats nineteen. Well, my bf contacted me during my grounding, when I was not suppose to talk to ANYONE. I talked to him and we texted but after four days of the grounding I told him it's better if we stop talking and texting. Well, my aunt found out and was going to initially take away a trip I had planned with him. I begged her know and I came up with an alternative, to add four more days (the amount of days I texted) to my grounding. Which means absolutely no contact with anyone. I knew how much the trip meant to him (and I was only going to be grounded from the trip) so I sacrificed four days of freedom. Well, It is the day I should of gotten off and he is out with his friends all this weekend. Everytime I come home from errands his truck is gone. We email and we will talk and I will make sure to check it every thirty minutes (so he is not kept waiting around for me) he hasn't emailed me to tell me he is going anywhere so I will contimuely check it and he will finally email me 5 hours later (when he gets home). I confronted him about that issue yesterday but he did it again today. I'm getting frustrated and I feel like he is having the time of his life will I am sitting around at home and he helped me create the problem. What should I do? Thank you for all our help.

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Open Question: Should I say F you to my boyfriend?

If i'm really mad at him for doing the same exact thing that he won't change, is it reasonable to drop the F bomb on him? I don't wana say it and then cause way more problems. But I would really love to, especially because he has said it to me.....and has flipped me off once. I dont know if I should or if I should just ignore him??? and yeah! I AM seriously wondering because I grew up with parents that fought all the time - dad always saying F you to my mom. It's what I know in a way as far as relationships...not good.

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Open Question: Why is she still interested in me?

I think a week ago, i was talking to this girl. We have been talking for months over the phone. I have switched schools since May, the last time I've seen her. Well anyways we chatted on Facebook, and I soon after told her that her profile pic was cute. Funny thing happened was that after I commented her picture, said said "yea, that pic reminds me of my bf". Of course bf means boyfriend but why all of the sudden to tell me that? To me back in my place or what? Before we chatted I asked her out, she said "yea" but now i think its a hang out as in friends than a date. She then asked me if she could bring her friend. I said "yea of course", then she replied that i will like her soon after she described her as nice & cute. That's cool with me, it's sorta strange that she will describe her friend like that for some reason though but after the whole bf deal, i don't really want to have anything to do with her anymore since she pissed me off like that. A couple days later she sent me a mail asking me when can i go to the mall with her and her friend, i then told her that i was not sure, and whenever they were available. I'm still going with them no matter what since i haven't saw her in a while. I know I said alot about my problem since this really affects me when it comes to relationships on here. So the real question is that why does she still want to have anything to do with me after she told me that she has a bf?

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Open Question: HELP BOYFRIEND Problems?

So my boyfriend of two years used to be sweet and caring. I am totally in love with him. I think about him all the time and like i always want to be with him. But like he says he loves me too but, it doesn't seem like it. He is always saying I love you more but he only says I love u when I say I love u to him first. Like I am always the first one to text him in the morning like Good Morning I love you. I wont text him till like mid afternoon and Ask hows your day going? Like little texts like that just to show i am thinking about him and it lets him know i miss him. So i do this like almost everyday there isn't a day go by that we don't talk. So I was like what if I don't text him first would he text me?? So its saturday, and I haven't texted him all day or spoke to him nothing! And guess what NOT A SINGLE TEXT or phone call. And its SATURDAY! Don't most couples get together and go to a movie or date?? And We are in college and finals are over so don't you think he would want to go out and celebrate?? Like and I am always the one that texts him first wouldn't he notice something was off today?? Like a text saying "Hey Whats Wrong You haven't talked to me all day"?? Am I being paranoid?? Like dating for almost two years and every single day we have talked to each other and he doesn't say anything?? Am I being weird?? Oh and if he thinks i am busy or something wouldn't he ask Are you busy? Like he has done that before. And I would reply yea today I won't be able to hang out or something like that and he would reply oh ok I love u ttyl or something like that! He stopped doing that a long time ago. Do you think he is kinda losing interest in me?

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Open Question: im with someone else but im still inlove with my ex. what do i do?

my current boyfriend i like alot . weve been going out for three weeks now. he treats me alot better then my ex every did . the problem is yes im very inlove with my ex still. we were together for five years so we have alot of history together. its been about four months since me and my ex broke up . im really confused on what to do. i like my current boyfriend alot but i would pick my ex over him in a second if i had the chance to. i feel horrible . i need some advise?

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Open Question: what is wrong with me?

i have some sort of social problem i guess. i cant carry conversations with people i never have comments or any thing to say. i can only make friends if they confront me first. people try to talk to me and its really hard for me to talk back.. i talk but not in a way that shows i want to talk to them. i think theres something wrong with a lot of people and talking to people who are crazy or outta whack is not my cup of tea. im very outgoing and talkative with my friens and boyfriend but when it comes to family and random others i cant be social.

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