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Open Question: My ex is with someone and I want to wait...? and more... Open Question: My ex is with someone and I want to wait...?My boyfriend and I have been together since jan 2006 we had broken up a few times in between... Without going into detail I was probably dealing with some sexual issues dealing with attraction and we argued about stupid shit ... he started dating this person in June of this year ... It was fine in the beginning because again I felt like I could be intimate with whomever with no strings attached..... Deep down I wanted my ex back but I think it also relieved my stress being without him maybe because if I was sleeping around than I'd know for sure he wouldn't want me back... Anyway in September he ended things... I told him over msn how I felt but that I wanted to get my sexual issues sorted out (to find out why I have this compulsive sexual problem) .... he said no guarantees but to ge thru it than see where we were... But a day after my session I flew out to Vancouver to see my sister and part way into the trip he and that guy got back together..... I wanna keep waiting though even though it's killing me, I hope I can get him back in du time.... Any success stories ??? Open Question: How do I break up with my boyfriend?This is very hard for me.. We've seemed to have drifted apart. He's changed a lot and I miss the old him. He lies.. constantly. I have broken up with guys before, but that's because I never got as attached. We've been together for ten months. What I need help with is the fact that I know that it's time to break up.. But I don't want to be alone. I am going through so many problems with my family right now, and I am afraid that if I broke up with him- there would be more problems. I love this man with all my heart, but the passions not there. I don't feel the love. He doesn't even say "I love you" much anymore... Please.. How can I break up with him? I'm not sure how... Ugh.. He just made it hard for me by texting, "Have a great day." Open Question: Ex Boyfriend advice anyone?i am 13 years old and my boyfriend of a month and a half (i know not that long) broke up with me about a month ago? anyways, we were bestfriends for about 2 years, like inseperable.We hung out every chance we could. then i started liking him, he started liking meee and all that stuff and he eventually asked me out. he made me so happy. he was my first kiss, my 2nd boyfriend, the first guy to ever tell me i was beautiful, and that he loved me, and the first boy i held hands with. basically he was my first "real" boyfriend. and i was his first gf tooo. He is soo different from all the other middle school boys. he wasnt gross he didnt curse all the time, he was so sweet and good to me. he made me a happier person. I admit, i did get jelous a lot, because he had a lot of friends that are girls that he was always with. and i knew some of them like him. I wrote him 3 songs. sent them all to him. for some reason when i called he didnt always answer, i didnt really care, but it was bc he was talking to his our other bestfriend whos a girl, on the other line. So my problem is, i still love him. like, alot. more and more everyday. I knew the day was gonna come when we broke up but i didnt know it would be this hard. He seems to be over me already. he knows i still love him. its so hard seeing him in the hallway and not going up to him and giving him a hug. he didnt even give me a reason as to why he broke up with me. i think i diserve to know. supposedly he told other ppl it was bc i was obsessive bc i texted him all the time. i dont think thats being obsessive, its what a gf should do, text her bf. he said he still wants to be friends. so di i. i try but he doesnt seem to be putting an effort towards being my friend again. he avoids me in the hallway. and he doesnt even text me anymore. if i IM him on facebook he loggs off. its so hard thinking about how we couldve gone form what we were to what we are now. ever since we broke up i've been a different person. its like i dont know how to enjoy myself anymore. i feel like if we talked about whatever the problem was we could've fixed it. hes just such a beautiful person, inside and out, and i would give anything to be everything were not. everyones telling me to get over him. they just dont understand. not only did i loose my boyfriend. but i lost my bestfriend. i just want myself back. and him. Open Question: what do you think of this story? better as a book or movie?this story tells of a teenage girl (mia) who has gone through too much too fast. it starts in her adolescent years where she was an outcast in school. she would skip lunch everyday and sit at the outside benches by herself for fear of having no one to eat with. she's antisocial and only considers one other her friend yet they hold a competitive relationship. in the summer before high school, she begins to eat normally but notices weight gain. this marks the start of her troubles with eating disorders, sliding from bulimia to binge eating and back. she keeps this a secret, the first of many. she also deals with image problems and low self esteem but in her transition to high school, her facial features have matured womanly and model-like. in all, she turns into an attractive female at age 14. mia catches her young math teacher amazed by her but she ignores him. although gaining a few more friends, she remains in her mute stage, now spending her lunch time in the school library. she puts her focus in her classes and becomes a 4.0 student. she continues this into her sophomore year, being the high achieving student she is, the weight-obsessed freak she is, and the beauty (in the eyes of everyone else) she is. she becomes suicidal when pressed by the pressures of the above. she suddenly finds herself doing worse in her classes, struggling with weight gain and loss, and deeply ugly. she has episodes of mental breakdowns. then she manages to find some positivity by the end of the school year. she ends it with a 4.2 GPA and eases off about her looks. the summer before junior year, she begins talking to older men online out of boredom. she realizes she has never been in a relationship before so she attempts to see how she affects men. the precocious 16 year old charms men in their 20s in chats and later on, her webcam. this begins her numerous cybering sessions, many of them lasting into the early am. the men loved her and she the loved the attention. she was a genius in that her parents never detected any foul play from her. the summer ended on a sweet note for her. her junior year of high school was tough and she knew it. she does well in her classes, including 4 APs, but as time went on, her work ethic falters. her low self esteem came back as well when she begins binge eating at buffets. she finds herself loving food but hates gaining weight so she binges and starves and binges and starves. she keeps her thin body frame but struggles mentally. in a chatroom, 16 year old mia meets 24 year old john. not only were they involved online but this time, mia has find herself a boyfriend. living 30 minutes away, he oftentimes picks her up and the two engage in sex. her parents were clueless that their daughter was sneaking out at 2am and not really studying at the library on sundays. mia and john lost touch after 3 months. she then meets 28 year old ryan. sex ensues. all the while she still chats with other older men online. mia sees how her life has changed. she no longer walks to the local dollar tree to buy school supplies but finds herself there picking up multiple pregnancy tests instead. she no longer sees worth in life, between fcking aimlessly with older men, jogging on the treadmill with her 85-pound body and lying to her parents. Open Question: I need help with a girl.?I really like this girl at college. I know she has a boyfriend and she loves him very much. So, I've decided not to ask her out, even though it is a heavy burden upon my heart. My question is, I know I shouldn't ask her out, however I would love to be able to tell her how I feel. The only problem is that I don't know how she will react to it, I don't want her to get mad at me, I don't want to lose a good friend over this. Open Question: is it really considered cheating?okay so first of all, i've been with my boyfriend for 4 years on and off but the problem is everytime we go on a "break" or "breakup" he does something with some other girl. We recently broke up at the begining of november, my bestfriend showed me emails of him and a girl i dispise basically stating that they kissed during october, when i was still with him... so i left him. I love him so much i dont feel complete without him so i started talking to him again and he wants to work stuff out he aplogized for the kiss and i asked him if he has slept with her and he said no he couldnt get "hard". So today i find out not from his mouth but from hers not only did he sleep with her, but he slept with her numerous times. I asked him and he hesitated for about 20 minutes and then told me the truth. I want to forgive him but i don't know about this time. Is it really considered cheating? should i forgive him and move on? HELLLPPPPP=(! Open Question: Boyfriend problems....what should i do?! Please answer seriously.?Sooo...I have the email and password for my boyfriend's myspace, and I wanted to upload some pictures onto it one day. I noticed he had a Truth Box, and for those of you who don't know, its an anonymous message thing that people post "truths" in. So I decided to see what this Truth Box thing was all about. I clicked on "Sent Messages" and I discovered that he had been asking one girl if they would have sex and others that they were "hot". Curious, I got a truth box of my own and messaged him saying, "lets have sex!" to see what he would say, and to my surprise he replied, "I'm totally down lol". He had no idea it was me who was asking him this, so I'm assuming he thinks its some random girl. I really don't know what I should do about this, since he's not actually doing anything with these girls. Please help! Open Question: I'm sincerely want to talk to my best friend. But there's some problems.?She is popular, and its not a surprise, I mean shes terrific and nice. A lot of people come to her just when I am sitting alone with her. I barely get alone time with her. She just got her first boyfriend, and hangs out with him a lot. I just want to hang out with her, me and her. I have had medical problems since last year, and shes the only person whos known since the begining. They aren't getting any better, even a little worse, one could say, and I really need her. I don't think she knows how much I do, I mean, I probably do text her a lot, but she makes me feel better. Gosh, I don't know what to do. Hahaha, yeah probably, but did I mention she was my first girl friend whos treated me great for so long? She means the world to me. More Recent Articles
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