| |
Open Question: my daughter is having problems with her daughter's boyfriend? and more... Open Question: my daughter is having problems with her daughter's boyfriend?my grandaughter is 21 and still living with her mother and has a 19 month old child. The problem is the boyfriend comes over and my grandaughter and he argue, as the police has to be called a lot. They tell him to leave but it doesn't do any good because the grandaughter sneaks him back in the house at night because they caught him leaving in the morning. He comes over when my daughter and son-in-law go to work. This fellow is immature and so is my grandaughter. I feel they need to help her find a place, but I'm not so sure that she wants to move out. My daughter and son are so very stressed over it that it affects their relationship. What can they do, how can I help? Open Question: my boyfriend's best friend and his annoying female cousin.. help?my boyfriends always at his best friends house. recently his best friends cousin who is a girl.. a slutty one by the way.. moved in with the family. everytime my boyfriend is there SHE is there too. i wouldnt mind this if it wasnt for the fact she criticizes how i interact with my boyfriend, and encourages him to smoke weed which hes trying to quit. shes always tryin to make herself seem better or something. the other day when i was over there she was like lemme show you my bedroom. so i was like ok. it had zebra bedding and i thought it was nice so i told her and i called for my boyfriend i was like "babe come in here i want this for christmas!" and shes just like "i already showed him my room" and i was like...... ok. and then we had a snowday today and i was talking to her and im like "what are you doin for the snowday?" (my boyfriend sleptover her house last night and is there this morning too) and shes like "idk my cuz is shoveling right now but im prolly just smokin weed with (my boyfriends name here) and (her cousins name here) all day :)" and she was like "what r u doin" and i was like "well i wanna hangout with my (boyfriend name here)" and she was like "hahahahaahha" WTF what is she tryna do.. and another time we were chillin and my bfs a snowboarder so i was like "babe your pretty reckless when u snowboard haha" because we were talking about the importance of helmets lol and i guess he took it offensivly cuz he looked annoyed. and i was like "no i just mean cuz you do a lot of tricks and stuff idd be way to scared to ever do" (i snowboard too) and then the girl pipes up with "Obviously hes not reckless if they asked him to be a snowboard instructor" like okkkk.. get the fcuk out of my conversation she told me once i need to stop nagging him and that i need to chill out im getting really tired of her being around my bf all the time. its bad enough he hangs out with his best friend but ive come to terms with it, cause he makes him smoke weed all day when hes tryna quuit, hes like "just roll an l please" and like my bf has been arrested a lot in his life and got in a lot of problems for drugs and hes trying to end it all this best friend isnt helping and his cousin certainly isnt either. im not worried about him cheating on me with her even tho she kinda makes it seem like she throws herself at him, cause he wouldnt, he loves me for one, and for another thats his boys cousin.. so he wouldnt. but really, is she outta line? what can i do in this situation its really bothering me i feel like she just talks shit when im not there i already told him i think she likes him and he was like "oh.. why?" and i told him idk i just think she does. and he was like well i think we're just friends. and i was like i think she likes you and he was like "well maybe she does it doesnt matter i dont care". and i told him to go to his friends less but i cant control his life i dont wanna seem controlling even though i just have his best interest at heart. but when hes smoking with that girl instead of hanging out with me that pisses me off i dont care if shes just "there" she can go to her room and let ther boys hangout alone Open Question: What do I do if I don't want to be with my boyfriend anymore?We've been dating for almost a year and he's everything I've ever wanted in a man, but I just don't love him like I used to. I mean, I used to be head over heels in love with him, but now.. I don't know. We just recently moved in with each other too, and everyone says that's the problem, but it really hasn't changed anything because we basically lived together before too. I just don't want to settle down and I constantly think about hanging out with other guys. It seriously almost depresses me to be with him because I feel like there's so much more out there for me. Basically, we made a commitment and I could see us being together for a long time, but all of a sudden I just lost interest. What should I do? If I do break it off with him, what should I say? AND what do I do about the living situation because we signed a lease? Open Question: Can you help me pick my soon to be daughters middle name?I am currently 27 weeks and 6 days pregnant with a baby girl... the problem with that is girls names are SOOOOOOOOOO hard to pick... My boyfriend and I have agreed on only ONE first name the entire time i have been pregnant and that is Jocelyn. Her last name is going to be Day and NOTHING i seem to come up with is "unique" enough for him... he is determined for her to have an uncommon name... help me please... Open Question: I am 38 and have a boyfriend who lives in another country, and feel attracted to someone else. Help~!?There is a problem with this situation for several reasons. First, I met my boyfriend online and we did meet in person, and spent 2 weeks together in his country in the summer. We made plans to get married, but for financial and immigrations reasons it looks as though it's going to be some time before we can be together permanently, if at all. I try to stay positive, but after knowing just what the personal income requirements are for sponsoring his visa and me having just gotten divorced (ergo I can't satisfy the income requirements until I have been working x number of weeks making y number of dollars), I am not sanguine about our chances of success. Meanwhile, I work with a man I find myself increasingly attracted to. I believe he feels the same, though we both are too shy and too professional to approach one another at work. I am torn between wanting to quit my job so my attraction for this fellow doesn't endanger the very deep love I have for my boyfriend, or wanting to approach him and see what happens, because he is nearer to me and part of the same culture. I am very confused right now, and feeling pretty lonely too. As far as this other man goes, I haven't a clue how to approach him without making things awkward at work. Our employer is like a slave driver who expects to eke every drop of work from us for each penny they pay, and tolerates no down-time or socialization unless it's management socializing with one another. I would like to see my boyfriend more on webcam so I can feel that closeness to him still, and not be so tempted. But I cannot explain this to him without revealing what is happening inside my heart. He is such a fatalist, if I tell him, he would drop me, thinking it was for my own good. I don't know anything about that other guy, except I like the way he looks, he is mysterious (thus, compelling), and I find myself having sexual fantasies about him (LOL). Perhaps should have said 'man friend'. We are mature adults. My erstwhile fiance is 48, I am 38, and the mystery man is some indeterminate age between I suppose 30 and 40. Open Question: 22 weeks preggo and really down?I am 22 weeks pregnant with our first son and me and my boyfriend could not have been more happy when we found out because we were trying for 18 months. The problem is, he works in the merchant navy and he was away when I found out and for 3 months after that, he came home for 3 weeks and on Friday he was sent away to work again. He said he hates being away from me, especially now we have a baby on the way and doesn't know what to do, but he already knows he could get a job where he would be home every evening. I am really lonely in our house on my own all of the time and I am getting huge and really struggling being on my own. What would you want your partner to do if you were in this situation, and are there any tips for coping with being on my own? Thanks He has said if I want him to come home and not go away to work again then he will do that and it will save him making the tough decision. I want him home so much but I am scared he will resent me if I ask him to start a new job...any advice? Open Question: I can't tell if he's over her?I have been dating my current boyfriend for just about a month and things got serious pretty quickly, after one date he asked me to be exclusive and after two he asked if he could call me his girlfriend. I am head over heels to say the least, though we do not say "I love you" at this point, I know I do love him. The only problem I am having is his ex, They broke up about 4-5 months ago because she moved to Cali from Texas. neither one I guess wanted a long distance thing, though I am not 100% sure if it was him or her who wanted it to be over. I guess I am a bit insecure as I have no reason not to trust him, he sends her text messages occasionally and they *rarely* talk on twitter, but I just can't help but wonder if he is over her. I ask him questions about her and he always answers honestly but last night we were talking about how many times we've been in love and he tells me 3 and half. When I asked about the half he said he was on his way to loving someone when it ended suddenly... I know this is her. I could deal with this if I thought I was the better choice for him, but she was so smart and very pretty (in a way different way than I am) and she seemed to have more in common with him. Someone tell me am I being crazy or are the texts and twitter convo's enough to say he's not over her? More Recent Articles
|
Click here to safely unsubscribe now from "Yahoo! Answers: Search for " or change your subscription or subscribe
| Your requested content delivery powered by FeedBlitz, LLC, 9 Thoreau Way, Sudbury, MA 01776, USA. +1.978.776.9498 |
0 comments:
Post a Comment