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Open Question: My boyfriends way of thinking? and more... Open Question: My boyfriends way of thinking?I just guess i dont hear it enough- that my boyfriend thinks im beautiful or sexy and i dont even know if he does? he is great- he cares for me, buys me things, spends every night with me and came back from a schoolies overseas trip early because he missed me. but he never tells me im pretty or that i look good or what he thinks of me or that im sexy, why? im so so so insecure about myself too and wonder if thats a problem? Open Question: will it last ? is this even love ? do i leave ? are we not ment to me?Am i a bad person ? does he like me ? did i mess it all up ? do i leave ? but all the history we have ? okay , im 21 and im best friends with like 4 guys who are in a band , i live with too of them who have there own house , they go on tour a lot and im left by myself a lot , anyway , one of them jack he has been my best best best friend forever and we the guys who to say he liked me , he would allways get a little jelous when i went on dates and he stoped talking to me for 3 months when i had a boyfriend , so i asked him stright up wht hes deal was , then he kissed me and told me he loved me , i had a boyfriend at the time who i loved so i told jack that it was too late , i siad we can still be best friends , so we started hanging out again and we where all good but about 3 weeks later my boyfriend cheated on me ( which jack had siad from the start but i never listened ) anyways we broke up and i started acting in a bad way , i was leaving the house for days without coming back or telling them where i went , i started getting drunk every day and started doing all sorts of bad stuff with guys i diidnt even no , anyways i got in some trouble and they guys had to safe me , they told me if i diidnt get strighted out that they would kick me out , so i got strightened out and things where normal again , after a while i got a new boyfriend and again jack kissed me and told me he loved me , its like he only wanted me when i had a boyfriend never when i diidnt , he diidnt talk to me for a week after that , i asked the guys wht his problem was and they siad that he only siad he loved me whn i had a boyfriend cuz he was scared tht if i diidnt have a boyfriend i would still say no and then that ment i diidnt like him , but if i had a bf and i siad no that there was a reason ( is that a guy thing ?? ) anyways , i broke up with my bf for jack and we started going out and everything was perfect , such like a movie , we dated for 6 months in this time they went on tour for a while but not long only a week here or there , one day i woke up and i got a text saying , i think we sould brake up , i dnt love you anymore , as i lived with jack and his band mate , it wasnt like i could just not see him anymore , he was allways there , i diidnt talk to him for 2 weeks after that and him and the guys where acting really werid around me and stuff , i had a really close guy who i stayed with a couple of nights just cuz i was over the weridness at the house , i diidnt understand why the guys where actiing werid around me too , not just jack , i found out that a guy i use to date told jack to brake up with me or he would send nude photos of me to everyone , when i went home i find jack and told him i no why he broke up with me , i told him i diidnt care about the photos only him , so we got back together , fast forward to 18 months later , every thing as great again but then his band got bigger and he went on tours for about 2 months at a time and i was left by myself , one day i got a phone call saying i had a job offer in new york for a fashion company and it was like my dream job i had been working for my whole life , we live about 7 hours away from new york by plane , so sould i stay with him or leave to go on my dream job , i dno why i siad all the history but thought it would help . things where finally great ? how can i leave ? sould i leave ? or stay YEAH PLEASE TELL ME WHT U THINK ? well we even last , Open Question: Should i be upset my boyfriend ogles these and pats the bottoms of these young woman?Im a lady aged 45. I've a new fella, hes 50. Hes aretired seriouisly hunky well build builder.Hes very adventourous in bed. i notice hes 'friends' with alot of 'younger woman' as in mid twenties and they are always popping up everywhere we go on dates. These girls dress scantily (about 8 of them) have never heard of a pretty demure evening dress with a feminine cardie. They have AMAZING bodies My boyfriend did something i felt dreadfully uncomfortable with last night buty he says it was just fun.He pulled up the skirt and 'playfully smacked' the bottom of a 23yr old, one of the group'. She reacted by grinding her bare bottom into his groin. He lewdly said 'i knew this one will be wearing candy floss for panties' before smacking here bar buttocks (she evidently was wearing barely there panties). When i challenged him he said 'ive known these chicks since they were nippers, we are all friends here and having fun'.I noticed his eyes wandering and him straining to concentrate on my anecdotes for the remainder of the evening. Then i justify it by thinking for a male these girls are hard to ignore and men are visual, they are all breasts, bottom and blond hair. Do you think hes inappropriate? These girls stand very close to him when chatting to him, its and they have no problem with him patting and rubbing their bottoms and they doing same to him. He says hes a 'touchy feely' person and that i'm just 'too old fashioned'. But last night, he had his hand down the waistband (at her bottom) of one girls 'extremely tight' trousers. Granted she has a bottom like shakira and it was on show in second skin lycras. Hes buys these girls drink all night before they go to a nightclub. Later that night when making love, he pulled out a really not respectable outfit and lingerie for me to wear, stockings suspenders (really trashy). I didnt mind it but then he asked me would i consider a breast enhancement that he would pay. I'm already very well endowed 32D,but he said bigger would be even sexier. Has my relationship a chance? Open Question: Is this harrassment and is there anything I can do about it?I have an ex boyfriend that I broke up with three years ago. I was going out with him for only 11 months and since splitting up with him I have been in a happy relationship with another guy for over two years now. I'm having some problems with my ex though, he won't stop emailing me. I asked him not to contact me again around September 2008, which he respected up until September 09, at which point he emailed me asking about whether I would be happy about him tagging along to a gathering of friends I was organising. Needless to say I was angry as it was me that had organised the whole thing and he wasn't invited, and I definitely didn't want to see him, so we ended up having a huge long argument over email which ended in me asking him yet again not to contact me anymore, and that if he did I would report him. I haven't spoken to him since then but I have had a few emails from him since then, all of which I have ignored. They aren't nasty or anything, for example the first was him telling me he was hurt by some of the things I said in the argument we had (ignored) and there was another asking me if I knew an old friend of ours had cancer (I'd known for months and ignored this one too), but what really took the biscuit was one I received fairly recently apologising for everything he'd ever done wrong and assuring me that I'd never hear from him again, a promise he broke yesterday when he randomly sent me a picture of a kitten, no text or anything, just the picture. There have been more emails than that, but I haven't responded to any of them. I just wanted to know if there was any legal action I can take or anything I can do. I know he hasn't actually been nasty in any way but I have repeatedly asked him to leave me alone and he hasn't, and I get the impression that if he had my mobile number or knew where I lived there'd be more happening. I can't block him from sending me emails as I am on google mail and there doesn't seem to be a block function; I could set up a rule to send the email straight to the Bin, but the fact will remain that he is still sending me emails. It's not necessarily that I want to stop seeing the emails, I just don't want him to send them anymore. Sorry I probably did word that wrongly. What I meant to say was that it's not just that I don't want to see the emails (I don't) but I don't want him to send them in the first place. I need him to know that he is doing something wrong. If I just block him or spam hs emails, the fact will remain that he is still trying to contact me, and I don't want him to do that anymore, whether I know about it or not. Make sense now? Sorry I probably did word that wrongly. What I meant to say was that it's not just that I don't want to see the emails (I don't) but I don't want him to send them in the first place. I need him to know that he is doing something wrong. If I just block him or spam hs emails, the fact will remain that he is still trying to contact me, and I don't want him to do that anymore, whether I know about itor not. Make sense now? Open Question: Should i leave my new boyfriend. He patts other womans bums and has a possie of young woman after him. Help?Im a lady aged 45. I'm new on the dating scene. I've a new fella, hes 50. iIve known him 5 weeks, hes a retired seriouisly hunky well build builder, not the white collar type i usually date, but its refreshing. I find the professional classes quiet cold and distant and not necessarily warm or 'good in bed'. To be honest, hes very adventourous in bed, almost 'filty' and i'm enjoying exploring this with him. However i notice hes 'friends' with alot of 'younger woman' as in mid twenties and they are always popping up everywhere we go on dates. I may be old fashioned, two of them could do with wearing more clothes. I'm talking them going to the bar in bum skimming skirts and high boots which graze their very pert butt cheeks. These have never heard of a pretty demure evening dress with a feminine cardie. They have AMAZING bodies, and i notice men surveying them hungrily everywhere. My boyfriend did something i felt dreadfully uncomfortable with last night and i'm unsure how to interpret this or the context.He pulled up the skirt and 'playfully smacked' the bottom of a 23yr old, one of the group'. She, to my astonishment reacted by grinding her bare bottom into his groin, i couldnt believe it...that a young lady would conduct herself in such a fashion with an older gentleman. He lewdly said 'i knew this one will be wearing candy floss for panties' before smacking her bar buttocks. She then unbelievably took his two hands and got him to 'playfully' cup her breasts. I didnt appreciate this behaviour but when we discussed it he said these 'ive known these chicks since they were nippers, we are all friends here and having fun'. I reluctantly put it to the back of my mind but i noticed his eyes wandering and him straining to concentrate on my anecdotes for the remainder of the evening which was dreadfully irritating. But then, those girls are hard to ignore and men are visual, they are all breasts, bottom and blond hair. He seemed to be the envy of all his burly mates. Hes always 'touching' their bums or they are always wearing 'too tight' of tops. Do you think hes inappropriate? What bothers me is how close these girls stand to him when chatting to him, its almost 'intimate' and they have no problem with him patting and rubbing their bottoms during conversations. He says hes a 'touchy feely' person and that i'm just 'too old fashioned'. But last night, he had his hand down the waistband (at her bottom) of one girls 'extremely tight' trousers. Granted she has a bottom like shakira and it was on show, but does it mean he has to touch them. Hes buys them all drinks and they went off to clubs later in the evening but as usual, not soon enough and they had my partner distracted for most of the evening and i felt a little resentful of not having his undivided attention. Later that night when making love, he pulled out a really not respectable outfit and lingerie for me to wear, stockings suspenders (really trashy). I didnt mind it but then he asked me would i consider a breast enhancement that he would pay. I'm already very well endowed 32D,but he said bigger would be even sexier. Has my relationship a chance? Open Question: WHAT SHOULD I DO TO WIN HEART COMPLETLY OF MA BOYFRIEND'S MOTHER?I adN MA BF ARE together 4m past 4 years, we love each-other a lot. bt the problem is every time his mother tell him dat she doesn't hv any problem if we stick to friendship only, but she has objection to accept me as his wife if we will marry, Just bcoz she thinks dt his son is more good looking than me. many time ma bf tried to make her understand us,but it was of no use n after a week or month she keep on telling these same words to him again n again. this troubling us a lot .as he loves his mother too n can't make her upset.sometime we decides to sacrifice our life 4 her n quite our relationship , but we failed to do so.she keep on telling him that i have faced many problem in ma life but still i never make u feel what i was going thru.now when i want happiness in my life n want to chose ur bride you are not giving me that right..i hv met her many times n she talks wd me well when we meet.she treats me like her own daughter bt at the end she is behaving likethis .now friends u suggest me how we should make her understand that only beauty doesn't matter in relationships...n we love each other n we really want to marry..plz help us Open Question: Will my low carb diet and cardio exercising make me loose that little pooch on my lower abs n flatten my belly?Im slim, skinny, thin, whatever you wanna call it. i always have been. i love my body.... except for that itty bitty lil bit of fat on my lower abs. you know what im talkin about. the lil bit on the bottom of your belly. just enough to hang over ur jeans when you sit down or make a lil pooch wen your standing. my boyfriend calls it skin but im pretty sure thats not what it is. i wont be happy untill i have that flat toned belly that all the girls on tv have. But iv cut out all my soda and sweets wich is my BIG problem. and im going to try the low carb diet. that along with my joggin/running/walking should work right? i just wanna make sure im on the rite way to gettin that belly. so will sombody PLEASE help me?!!! let me know. and if im not tell me how i can get it! More Recent Articles |
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