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Open Question: My boyfriends Kids are driving me crazy please I need some advice!? and more... Open Question: My boyfriends Kids are driving me crazy please I need some advice!?I have a 7 year old girl, and he has an 8 year old and 11 year old, we have been having a lot of problems lately because we have a different way of how to educate them. My daughter is a great girl, she is very respectful and obedient to my boyfriend. On the other hand his kids are ungovernable! They answer back to me all the time, they are very impolite and don't respect me at all. The worst thing is that they behave like this in front of him and he doesn't do anything about it. For example, yesterday my daughter was wearing a coat that doesn't fit his daughter any more, as soon as his girl saw her with the coat she told her that that was hers and that she did not give it to her. She told her in a screaming voice that she wants it back. All this happened in front of us, my boyfriend asked her " so if they ask you first would you share and give it to her?" She say NO! My daughter is very sweet, she never fights back, in fact she is afraid of her. In the Past I used to ask her if she can have the clothes that doesn't fit her, sometimes she agreed, some times she did not. On the times that she agreed, every time she was wearing it she told her to give it back, no matter where (restaurants, public places) humiliating her. If my daughter never wears it, she will never know because she never wears that clothes. Yesterday I got really upset with him because he doesn't do anything about it, he is creating monsters ( this girl is very mean) he is proud because she is smart and she does well at school, but she doesn't have any manners at all, the same with his son, he never puts them in time out, and give them whatever they ask for. I have talked to him several times about this, but haven't do anything about it. Who do you think should make the decision about the clothes? He or his daughter. In my opinion I think he should because his daughter is a brat, and she manipulates him all the time. I am very frustrated with this situation, I really like him but his kids are really getting on my nerves. excuse my English as is my second language. Thank you for your time. Open Question: Gay ex boyfriend problem?my ex boyfriend that i broke up with has recently come out as gay and has a boyfriend, i have a very close guy friend that i have no feelings for but whenever i bring him up to my ex or he sees us together he gets mad and it is tearing our friendship apart, im just tired of him either hating me or wanting to be friends, i just dont get it he can have a boyfriend but i cant have a close guy friend what should i do? Open Question: How do I get a boyfriend?I am 16 and I have never had a boyfriend and i need some ways as to how to get one. Im really shy but open up right away when a guy talks to me but i just cant talk to them first. I have been told im pretty so i dont think thats the problem (sorry if i sound vain i really dont mean too) its just i dont know what to do. Help. I have been asked out before (by a potsmoker) said no and i havent been asked out since. I went to a dance with a guy who was not right for me at all. how do i get someone that i actually like? Open Question: what's wrong with me?I'm 17, 10/29/08 my best friend killed himself, and idk why but it didn't really affect me emotionally at all(I never talked to anyone about it). A couple weeks ago I moved from Michigan to Tennessee to get away from my mom and her dick boyfriend and I don't even miss any of my friends or family. when i was 13 my stepdad (my dad ditched out on me before i was born and i have no clue who he is(and that doesn't affect me emotionally either) and my stepdad got with my mom before i was 1 so he was always like my real dad) got addicted to meth and started getting really aggresive,he was constantly yelling at everyone and breaking evertying and he threatened to kill us several times, my mom finally ended up divourcing him and that didn't affect me either. Not even a year after that my mom ended up getting with some asshole who was constantly being a dick to me just for his entertainment. she then had a kid with him even tho we were already struggleing with money. and none of that affected me either . About 6 months ago I started thinking about killing myself, which really confuses me because compared to alot of people my life is good, and at first i didn't think anything of it but it was constantly getting worse, about 4 months ago I started cutting and once again I have no clue why, I just randomly get urges to do it and the more i ignore it the worse it gets and the the longer i wait the deeper i end up cutting, so I guess I do have emotions but... well I can't really feel them. and also I remember almost nothing that happened in my life past age 14 but from what I've been told all of my cousins and my sister and step brother were constantly making me miserable. When ever someone ask me to list good qualities about myself i freeze because I can't think of any. I have a lot of people that i chill with but I don't have any true friends, i've had 3 good friends in my life, 2 turned out to be backstabbing ***holes who were just using me and the other killed himself. I've had a few girlfriends but i didn't love any of them, I've actually never loved anyone, not even family, and that really disturbs me. last year i spend 2 months in juvie because my mom called the cops and said that i threatened to kill her even though i could never threaten to kill someone, and then told me that i got what i had coming because i did bad in school even tho i tried my hardest i just could never concentrate on anything longer then 2 minutes. I've been like that my whole life and when i was going to school it made my life hell because of all the trouble i'd get in at home for failing classes. there were a few years in my life where i was really bad with my mom, constantly flipping out and cussing her out, I finally got it under controll last year but she still constantly throws it in my face and acts like I'm a horrible person even though i hated myself after every fight i got in with her. I've had a couple therapist, and I've been in an anxiety counselling group and idk why but i could never tell them about wanting to kill myself and cutting, i really couldn't tell them any of my problems, I always feel like an ***hole when i complain about my life because there are sooo many people out there that have it so much worse then me. Sorry for all of the typing i know that no one wants to real all of that, i just got in sordove a trance when i started typing and couldn't stop, half of those were suppressed memories i didn't remember until i started typing, that's why all of the events i put are in a completely random order. Open Question: Help, i need advice with my problem?I have this bestfriend. We known each other for nine years. and all those nine years i've liked him. Now i could even say i LOVE HIM. He protects me, he cares for me. He really is a nice guy. I never thought he felt the same way until last year he said the words "i love you,". it left me confused... i didnt know whether he meant it or not., or maybe he meant it in a dif. way. But now he has a girlfriend. i have a boyfriend. but, i still have feelings for him. I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. I STILL DO REALLY REALLY HAVE SERIOUS FEELINGS FOR HIM. AND everytime he tells me about him and his gf i WANT to cry. I don't know what to do. his gf has said "She's inlove with him" and i dont want to ruin that, so i decided to stay away, BUT I CAN'T. i don't know how to get over him. NINE YEARS...its too much. can someone help me? Open Question: do hospitals care how old the father is?im 16 and im 7 months pregnant and ive been wanting my boyfriend to be in the room when my baby is born but theres only a problem hes 23 and ive been wanting to know if the hospital people fin out hes da dad and his age will they get him in trouble or will they care?? i need help.. Open Question: My boyfriend's uncle died from cancer yesterday, what can i do to help?My boyfriends uncle has been battling cancer for 6 months now, hes been in and out of hospitals and he lost his battle yesterday. the problem is im in the US nd my bf was with his uncle in mexico, he has no cell we only communicate online, he was supposed to come home yesterday, we were going to disney for christmas, but he sent me a message telling me he died and he just wants to be alone, he isnt coming and he needs space, im not sure if it was a breakup or what, but i wrote back my condolences and told him id be there for him of course and go to the funeral, which he said he isnt goin to, im not sure what to do next, any advice would be appreciated. eta: i would fly there in a heartbeat, i just dont know where it is, he has no cell either, nd he has a home there too, but im not sure where exactly except the town, ive never been there, last yr his grandma died suddenly there also and he inherited the home, but he leaned on me then, pushed me away nd asked me back in again, kindof a fluctuation i guess, thats why im so confused now. Open Question: christmas gift idea for the boyfriend..?hi . kay , well let's start off with my age . i'm 12 . if you have a problem with kids my age having relationships than i suggest you click the back button at the top left of your screen . alright , so.. there's this boy named jayce (: i'm not 'in love', i mean come onnnnnn . i'm 12 ! but anyways ; i do care for him , a lot . we've been best friends for a year now &; we've dated for almost 4 months , so this is our first christmas together . i have absolutely no clue what to get him . i'm already getting him a 15 dollar itunes gift card and some gummy-bears (haha, funny story..) but i'm not sure what else to get him..?! he's getting me something really cute , and i feel like the gift i'm giving him isn't very special . but he won't tell me what he wants..? he claims that i don't even have to get him anything , just a hug . but i refuse to let him waste his money on me and get nothing in return . should i make him like a card and like write something super special in it ? i've already asked all my guy friends and they've been no help whatsoever. so , if you could give me any ideas i'd appreciate it..! oh , yeah , and he's some info to help you out ? : - he's 13 &; a half . - he plays baseball &; basketball . - he adores the boston red sox . - he's not like a regular teenage guy , haha . he doesn't wear tons of brand name crap . - he already has a ton of cologne , so there goes that idea . - i don't wanna buy him a bracelet or anything , he's not into that kinda stuff ? - he likes movies ? and video games.. but i'm not gonna spend like 60 dollars on him . - as far as music goes , he can get it from his computer , so cds are useless . help , please..? i have to get it before saturday ! Open Question: Does my boyfriend miss the crazy sex his last girlfriend gave him?Me and my boyfriend have been dating over 2 years now. We have a great relationship and never had any issues in bed. The problem is this.. I noticed my boyfriend always watches very kinky/crazy porn. I can't help but think that this is what he wants in bed too. I don't think I will ever be that way. Also, I know his ex-girlfriend was also crazy in bed and liked to try different things. I know he loves me, but I'm so insecure that I'm not giving, and can't give him, the sex he needs. Am I being irrational or is this something to be worried about?? What can I do? Open Question: I'm jealous over a girl that isn't mine....?Okay I'm in 8th grade, and I REALLY like this girl, and the only thing that's stopped me from asking her out is that in a class she melts in this guys ( Not her boyfriend for sure) arms. But the problem is that he hits her a lot.And it gets me really, I guess mad, any tips. Open Question: I don't speak the same lang. as Man help me understand?I've been datinb my boyfriend for nine months now my second serious boyfriend in my life. I'm 22 and my last relationship lasted for five years..i think about that other guy every single day, and although i think i made the right chose in moving on I want my new boyfriend to give me more. More attention, more emotional a connection then what we have now. My old boyfriend called me everyday this new guy well i'm luck for twice a week. I try to understand that he's going to money problems and may not have a phone but i think he can get one if he wanted one. We go to the same school and the only time i see him is if i go to his job and say hi. I feel so sad sometimes cuz i feel alone, but i guess i'm being selfish cuz i should be able to be happy by myself and take what i can get. At 22 I'm guessing it's time to look for that one but idk. I'm I wrong for wanting more time with him or should i just except the fact that he too is a college student and this is not how it's going to be forever....my old boyfriend told me he loved me everyday but him....:-( hardly ever....but he says he does and he shouldn't have to say it everyday. My old boyfriend is dating someone now for the last 3 mouths and since i haven't had a lot of relationships i think i'm just comparing them what should i do????????? Open Question: Is forgetting HIM is the answer to his broken heart of mine?So im asking myself..am i still in love with him? I have this friend, we are working in the same company. We are always together, we eat and hung out together. He even pay me a visit at my place on our rest days. AGAIN, WE ARE JUST FRIENDS. Well, people thought that we a girl/boyfriend already because we are so sweet together! He always make me feel that I am special. My problem is, he has a boyfriend. I mean HE is a HE and He has a BOYFRIEND whom HE love very much! and he even introduced me to HIS BOYFRIEND and told that I am HIS MISTRESS. He said that while laughing. I am falling in love with him and I know its not right! I told him that I like him already and he told me that he also like me but he doesnt want to hurt me because the fact is, he is already committed to someone. Same sex! (ouch) I stayed away from him but it ddnt work. I still approach him and our normal sweetness came back until now! Im confused! I dont know what to do! huhu help me guys... I need good advices! pls pls pls its me: http://www.friendster.com/viewphotos.php?a=658509079&uid=29945508 Open Question: Boyfriend problems, I don't know what to do?I'm 15, and so is my boyfriend. We have only been together a month and I really like him. He recently told me he loves me, and I said it back, not wanting to hurt his feelings, but I don't really know what love feels like so I wasn't really sure if I felt the same way. I do like him, but I'm already starting to consider whether I like him enough to stay with him.. About a month before we started going out, I had liked another guy, a 17 year old, for a long time. We never actually went out, but we always got on really well together and we have kissed countless times. After a while I figured it was just a silly little summer romance and he was never going to ask me out or anything, and although I was disappointed by this, I decided I had to let go and move on, plenty more fish in the sea, etc etc. I just found out, however, that the guy I liked before DOES like me, and alot might I add.. friends of his have told me that he tried to crash a party because he was told that I was going to it and he wanted to see me. They also told me he is going to walk to my street tomorrow night to try to get me to come outside so he can ask me out. I know how bad it is, but I do still have feelings for that guy, as much as I like my boyfriend.. I think I might like the other guy more. However I have only been with my boyfriend for a month and he is always telling me how much he likes me and how he is so lucky to have me, so I'd feel terrible if I broke it off now. There are some things that are bothering me about him though.. when we are out together he always points out pretty girls and talks about how hot they are and how "he would" etc.. and I know this is shallow, but he is quite a bit smaller than me and I feel very awkward walking beside him because of that.. Please help me, I really don't know what to do, I just want to be in a happy relationship but I don't want to really hurt anyone's feelings. More Recent Articles
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