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Open Question: My boyfriend wants to keep the baby but i want an abortion.? and more... Open Question: My boyfriend wants to keep the baby but i want an abortion.?my boyfriend and i have been dating for 6 months he is the first relationship ive been in. We fight all the time and breakup and get back together every month. he doesnt have a job and ive been supporting him. one of the times we broke he stole my credit card number and maxed out my card but i forgave him and we got back together. i still help him with his bills. i had a job working as a waitress and asked him to come see me at work and he did come see me but he was flirting with a girl the whole time telling me they were cousins and ignoring me he said it was my fault for inviting him what did i expect. so we ended up breaking up a week later. when my friend asked to borrow that girls phone and she told me that the girl had her boyfriends number in her phone. so i checked to see if my boyfriends number was in her phone and it sure was he had got her number that night . i looked at her call log he called her on thanksgiving night to come over and we where still together but she didnt answer. so i had my friend call him for that girl phone pretending to be her and to see if he wanted to have sex he got excited and invited her over even though we were broken up. he called her back to confirm the plans thats when i answered he hung up. a few days later he came begging for me back. he told me had slept with someone else when we broke up because he thought we werent getting back together. but he got that girls number while we were dating because he knew we have problems and always breakup. Oh and he hit ma and pushed me out of his apartment. this whole time i didnt know i was pregnant but i decided to give him a another chance because he said he loved me and i thought there was a chance i was pregnant i told him and he took me to get a pregnancy test and it came out positive he was happy . and he wants the child and said he would do anything to make it work. but i have doubts because our relationship has been horrible he did persue other girls while we were dating and we both dont have jobs and he did hit me it hurts alot i dont know if i can dedicate my life to him and i do want the baby but i cant support it and he said he wants to keep it if i try and leave him he comes with me to all my appointments and is supportive but im not sure if its a front and if he will hurt me aagain i feel like im still young and want to persue my dreams of going to school and modeling im not reaady ans im 3 weeks pregnant. people say i should jus put all those things that he did to me in the past but it happened not even a month ago around the time i got pregnant. i feel like i know what he is capable of and it huirts and depresses me. Open Question: Does she still have feelings for me?To make a long story short, i've known this girl for over a year. By the way we would always hangout and screw around, many people thought we were bf and gf (even though it wasn't official). I decided to give her something for christmas (a drawing of her favorite singer that I drew and a bean bear I bought) because her family can't exactly afford anything this time of year. When giving her these, I was going to formally ask her to be my girlfriend. A week ago she somehow got a boyfriend (who she just met under my nose). She didn't think it was a problem until she asked me what was wrong. I was feeling sad about this and I told her (she always told me I could tell her anything). Yesterday I gave her the gifts and told her what my intention was (but since that couldn't happen, I said I still wanted her to have them cause she is my friend and I care about her). She loved them, but she said she was going to cry (she was getting kind of teary). She did hug me numerous times and went to other people in our lunch period showing them the bear. The rest of the time I was withe her, she seemed in deep thought. After one of my classes, she was still looking sad but talking to a girlfriend of her's. I didn't her much, all I heared was: But aren't you already going out with (insert name here). She is a very sweet, smart, and beautiful girl. I really just want her to be happy and still want to be friends, but does she still have feelings for me? In all this time of tension, she hasn't denied of accepted me. Open Question: Hey, I'm nervous about touching my boyfriend's penis and about handjobs =/?I'd like to start with thanking anyone who actually does read this novel of a question haha. And also anyone who gives a considerate answer. Hi, everyone. I've been with this guy for about eight months, and he's very special to me. Now, I'm only 17. I understand I'm young and I'm actually kind of old fashioned that way, but I think it's a good mentality. Anyway, he's fingered me a couple of times and it's been a very intimate and bonding thing. But, I'm scared to reciprocate. Penises in general have never been too appealing to me. I'm afraid to be awkward in touching his, and the idea kind of it scares me. I can't imagine a situation where it won't be awkward. Part of why is that I can't drive from me the fact that I am young, and I can't shake that feeling of trashiness, as silly a thought as that may be. I came close to putting my hand down his pants, but I just couldn't. All I think about are the countless stories I've heard growing up of people around me doing stupid things and acting unresponsibly. It's also a problem that we can never be really alone. There's always someone in te next room. With the door closed, yeah, but they could easily barge in without any warning. What also worries me is cleanup. I have no idea how much comes out, and what I could do to not get it everywhere. My dad happens to be OCD with cleanliness, and he would probably notice even a little stain. He might even recognize it, because he's a guy. Anyway, there are many many problems and obstacles I'm facing, which just makes it difficult for my inner voice to give me the okay. It's alright for awhile though, because my boyfriend isn't at all pressuring or anything like that. The last thing he wants me to do is touch him only due to pressure or obligation. And that makes sense, but I know he would really like it if I did. I know I can't help but sound like another stupid teenage girl, but it's really a problem I would like some insight on. I'm never doing anything when felt forced, I just would like to know what I could do to lift some of the pressure, and not be so scared of penises and touching his. Thanks for the help. Open Question: Why can't this work out?I met this guy when I was in high school, we quickly became good friends and I thought he was very attractive and sweet, but I soon discovered that he was gay, I was totally comfortable with this because I had alot of other gay guy friends. Although I was attracted to him I had not intention of coming on to him of trying to get with him, because he was gay obviously. We stayed close friends thoughout our senoir year in highschool, we were best friends and spent alot of time together, one day he questioned me about why I didn't have a boyfriend, I told him that I just didn't have any propects at the time and did not mind being single. Over the next few days he acted wierd like something was bothering him, I asked him what was up and he said he had lay awake in bed the night before doing a lot of thinking, I keep pushing him to tell me what he was thinking about and he finally told me that he was thinking about being with women. Of course I found this odd but I didn't judge him, but he told me he was thinking about something else too, this I could not get him to say to my face and he later text it too me, he said he liked me in a more than friends way, I was stunned when he told me this and thought it was weird, but he seemed very sincere. He was my Bestfriend and I really did like him so I told him that I liked him too but I was never going to aknoledge those feeling because he was gay and that would cause more trouble for me than it was worth. We stayed friends for like a month, but at this point it was more like friends that were 'talking' we went to different millitary balls and our prom together. He finally asked me out a few weeks before graduation. I said yes and we dated a lil while he told me he was in love with me and all that, he was very sweet to me and his family loved me. Then a few weeks after graduation, we were at a party with some friends of ours and he had been drinking, he took me out side to where his car was parked so we could talk alone, and he told me how much he loved me and stuff. Then he told me that he couldnt be with me anymore because he liked men and saw himself with a man in his future. This upset me a lot and a cryed over it alot because I really did love him. I soon 'got over' it and we were back to being best friends, I still loved him but I supported his decision because he meant so much to me and I wanted him to be happy. It hurt me so much to see him talk to men again, he wasn't in a serious relationship with any of them but we'd go to the club together and I'd have to see him dance with them, they called and texted him all the time (did I mention he was attractive) and he met a lot of guys through local gay dating sites, and he would go to have coffee with them and such. I hurt me to witness all of this, no woman wants the man she loves being chased/chasing men, but I had accepted that he was gay and he was just confused when we were together. I became more comfortable with his lifestyle even though I still loved him. We stayed very close friends for a while and we got intimate a few times and he said it was just for fun. Of course me being a woman I didnt see it the same as he did. I wanted it to be more than just fun but that was my problem and I didn't want to bring it up. But something happened one of those nights and I could tell that he might still have feelings for me. So later I talked to him about it and he said he still loved me, he was still in love with me, and that some how he knew that we were meant to be together, maybe not now but that evenually we would be, that it was beyond his control that it was destiny that we would get married and so forth. I didn't understand why we werent together if he thought we were meant to be and he said that he wanted to try and find a decent man out there and that he was just exploring his sexuality or something along those lines. Well it hurt me incredibly to see him still pursuing guys, because I didnt want him to fall in love with anyone and leave me hanging there. Well we kept being friends and one night I was IMing him and we were talking about us and I was trying to tell him how I felt, that I still loved him and wanted to be with him and then he said you know what I feel, I am in love with you and I want to be with you, I want to marry you, I want to have kids with you, grow old with you, etc. Well after that great confession he asked me out agian and appologized for hurting me and said he didn't know why we broke up in the first place. We dated for a lil while again, but this time it was much different, I had never felt the way I felt when I was with him before with any other human being and the feeling was apparently mutual. He soon announced to me that he had re-established his enlistment in the navy and would be leaving for basic training in 3 months. He would go to trianing and the advanced training and then he would besent to his first post in a different state. Thats when I would be able to transfer colleges Open Question: I have a boyfriend who loves me a lot, the problem is he doesn't want anyone to know about us? what do i do?me and my bf have been together for almost 2 yrs now, but were not sexually active which is not a problem for me. He tells me he loves me every day but at the same time ignores me in front of other people, example: if someone asks him if he likes me, he say no WAY!. we talk on internet a lot but not so much in school. what do i do? Open Question: How do i control my jealousy?i'm committed and have a really sweet boyfriend. But the problem is i get really jealous when he talks to any other girl. i know i should give him that much freedom but i just can't help it! to control this jealousy of mine, i started talking to many other guys but i never was able to! my friends are a lot prettier than me, and that's the reason i get so lotta jealous! how do i control this? talking to guys doesn't help. :( Open Question: i can't stand him doing that to me..help me...?okay.i don't really know what to do.well i'm having a little problem with my boyfriend.one time i spent the evening with him from 3:40 to 6:30.we were hanging around the high school and we were kissing by the gym,and some girls were walking by and he stop kissing and he let me go and i was still holding him,he was looking away from me for a long time.i looked back and i saw those girls then i looked at him,but he didn't look back at me.when i was waiting for him to look back at me,i put my head on his shoulders and he finally looked back at me and he kissed me again.he did the same thing when we were at a basketball game.we were outside kissing and more girls walked by and he was looking at them for awhile and he let go of me and i was waiting for him to look back at me,about five minutes later he looked back at me then he started kissing me again.then awhile later more girls walked by.he was looking at them again and at the same time he let go of me again and i was holding him but i let go of him slowly.when he turned back around he looked at me then i walked away,and he grabbed me,then he said "why you walking off",and i said "because your looking away from me again".he just held me and he kissed me again.those days i felt really sad because he promised me he wasn't going to do that to me again but he did at the game.is he even making a promise to me?i don't know,somebody help me... 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