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Open Question: My boyfriend is utterly IMPOSSIBLE.? and more... Open Question: My boyfriend is utterly IMPOSSIBLE.?Okay. I love him to death. But he is just IMPOSSIBLE. I feel like he turns everything I say into a threat. I feel like he twists my words and thoughts. Or he doesn't conside my intentions of what I say, but just how it makes him feel! And I try to consider what I'm saying and how it'll make him feel but God! I'll ask if he loves me because he hasn't told me in a week and he'll just be like "... why are you insulting and assuming?" I don't know what the hell he's talking about half the time. I know I'm not perfect. But neither is he. We got in a fight and I didn't even know what it was about. I asked "What's wrong" and he said me! I'm wrong! It's all ME! I just don't know how to talk to him anymore. It's like he's two different people. When things are easy he tells me he loves me. When things get hard he gets mad that I don't act a certain way and give up. Sometimes I feel like he's a complete child. Like I ask what's wrong. And he's like idk. We don't live close so I try to call him. He doesn't answer. I tell him I can't try to fix the problem if I don't know what the problem is. He'll say, "I told you" ???? I'm just confused and frustrated And saying break up doesn't help. Because even if we do end up breaking up I need to know WHAT HAPPENED and WHAT WENT WRONG. So my quesiton: How do I talk to him when he is so IMPOSSIBLE??? Open Question: People said i should go on tablets? mental?I am 18 and I am in college. I also do dancing. I have a lovely boyfriend which I am lucky to have. I get anxious a lot and get worried/depressed about things. I have outbursts occasionally which can get really bad up to the point where ive scratched my arms/hurt myself and gone really mad where ive got a suitcase out saying I was going to move away and stumbled around on the floor with it like a mad person. yeah it can be funny(sometimes ive laughed thinking back) but not at the time and I know I have a problem. I have had outbursts/feeling upset/moody when I have been out in social situations like at a nightclub i was in tears and scratched all my arms my boyfriend was so upset he was crying a bit..I have lots of stories of whats happened. I am easy to get on with and caring but I always have the feeling I cannot enjoy myself properly and have fun. I dont want to push people away like my boyfriend because I am scared the way i go on sometimes is too much. My boyfriend has said he will be with me all the time but after I have had outbursts/upset ect I feel very guilty for a while after and feel such a horrible person. Hope anybody can give me some ideas..I am on the waiting list to see a doctor and I have been many times before to see a psychologist prior other reasons such as school ( not going). I have never been on tablets, and this problem has been an on going problem for years and years since I was a child....and I know My mum can get the stress of it. if its not anger its worrying in the day or getting anxious about stuff and feeling guilty, if it insnt upset i can change. I can get moody and irritable over the smallest things. i do feel happy sometimes though. These upsets/ourbursts have affected me from attending places like college. So it can stop me. Thanks for reading, I know its long. Open Question: do you think i am having a boy or girl?I am 13 and a half weeks pregnant. My Boyfriend and I are trying to guess what we think I am having ( just for fun were not rely on what our guess say). Any how we did the ring test over the belly and when I do it I always get girl except once I got boy. My boyfriend has only done it on my two times but both times got Boy. I had a lot less morning sickness this pregnancy then I did with my last (last time its was a boy) so the midwife guessed girl based on that. If we do the gender predication calendar it comes up boy ( I was 23 when I conceived and a conceived in Sept) unless we use my Chinese year (which I calculated to be 25) and the lunar month witch I calculated to be either the 7th or 8th lunar month depending on what day I conceived. I f I conceived on Sept 17th or before it says girl, if I conceived on Sept 18th or after it says boy. Problem is I don't know for sure what day I conceived. My periods before were always irregular. But I had got on birth control in June of 09. So because I was on birth control I was a regular 28 cycle (I think) I would always start on the third day of my placebo pill and my periods were about 5 or 6 days long. My last "period" was Sept 9th and was completely normal. I had a ultra sound right after I discover I was pregnant in Oct and I was 5 weeks along at that time. I am now 13 weeks and 2 days. My due date is June 16th. Does anyone have any idea on when I conceived. Also just for fun what do you think I am having. A month ago baby's heart beat was 160. Last night it was 150. (my sons heart beat was always 150). Open Question: What if your Best friend ignores you?we have been best friends now for 2 years. And she is soo funny and hilarious and so nice. The problem is that before she had a boyfriend she used to call me like 11 times in a day becuz she was bored. Always wanting me to come over when i couldnt. She is so ppoular in our class and she is still my best friend but since we have been split in class and she is in the other half i dont see her as much and she is quite popular with them. I guess i just feel kind of ignored she has a boyfriend now and they have been together for some time. But like i hardly here from her now we never see each other in the hols and its like she is different with him she never texts me bak if i text her askin her somthin i dunno is this normal? like he is like her life outside of skwl she spends every moment of the day with him and she only hangs round with me at skwl cos he isnt there is this right or is just me over reacting ? Open Question: Why can I not orgasm?Ok, so Im 23 and I've been divorced and have a beautiful little girl who will be 2 in January! I have been with my boyfriend for over 2 years and we are so in love its unreal. The only problem is that I have never had an orgasm with ANY man I've been with. I do not know what my problem is, but it just never happens. I can have sex and be so close to climax, but it never happens. It feels great and fore-play is amazing as well, but I've never been able to have a full on orgasm so I dont even know what it feels like! HELP! See the problem with this is people like you two who say dumb shit just to waste people's time. Grow up please. I have a daughter, im in school for criminal justice, and I work fulltime...I dont need dumbass losers like you to respond to my question. Thanks have a great day. Open Question: How to cope at a wedding with my ex?I need your help! My boyfriend has been treating me like rubbish for the last month or so, but is a moody guy and suffers from depression. I raised this issue earlier this week and he says he's not sure he wants to be in a relationship anymore.. He feels guilty that he doesn't feel as strongly about me as I do about him. This is okay by me, as I am completely head over heels about the guy, we're otherwise so well matched and when things are good, are perfectly suited. Problem is, we're going to his brother's wedding today - as a couple! We talked about breaking up, but decided to leave it in limbo until after the wedding. No one knows we're fighting, I have been spending time with his family (who love me, I might add!) and will be with him all night. I have gone about making sure I'll look great - spray tan, nails, beautiful hair and makeup plus good (yet appropriate) cleavage. I love my boyfriend, would do anything for him (including stayinig with him through this rough patch and fighting for him - which he knows), and I want to make sure I act the right way around him today. That is, I want to act in a way that wins him back! So, I'm not sure if I should be a bit stand-offish and flirty with other guys, or whether I should just grin and bear it, pretend to be happy by his side and fake that we're alright. Advice please!!! Frank - seriously, judge much?! "A rough patch is when you feel he's down and you feel that from miles away and rush home to make sure he's okay. It's about standing behind him and saying all his mistakes are forgiven. It's about being friends" Every day I worry about his depression, have talked about him seeing a psychologist, and have told him that I'd rather he did what it takes to re-establish his mental health and fix "him" than to fix "us". As for having "can't take a hint" written all over me, well, when 2 weeks ago I was told that being at this wedding with him was incredibly important to him, I think I have every right to feel like this is a rough patch and not me being a crazy stalker. You need to stop being such a judgemental a**hole and realise that although your perfect relationship is fine, other peoples' need work and they come on here for advice not for inappropriate judgement! Without the full story, it's easy to judge. But rarely justified. And I'll be at the ceremony. Sitting with his parents. Thanks for suggesting I'm a joke - what a top guy you are! Open Question: Im 17 he is 27, what shall I do?I'm a 17 year old guy (just turned), and I really really love this guy only problem is he is 27!!! Okay here is the story. Basically I'm bisexual and i've never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, Iv had crushes here n there but never dated anyone. So then I was hanging around with my mates one day and I meet this guy at this event he starts talking to me etc quite an interetsing guy but I wasn't really attracted to him. Later on my when we leave my mate tells me that guy liked me and he gave that guy my number. I was like 'oh no' - but didn't really mind. So later on he rings me and talks about general stuff. Next day we meet at the same event again, we keeping meeting at this event for about a week and random phone calls here n there. Then one day I remeber I was thinking about him all day and was looking forward to meeting him, I realised I was really attracted to him now. We meet again at the event and I realise how much I like him, when we left my friend so to me you couldn't stop smiling when u were with him u change so much when ur around him u really light up. Next time we meet at the cinema with this guy and his mates, then we got alone for a couple of mins (I deliberately weny back with him to his car, then i kissed him - he pushed me away) He said that he really liked me and said anyguy who been soooo lucky to be with me but because of the age gap he can't. Then later on in the week he rings me and asks me if i am upset I said I am and he said meet up so we did and then we talked I felt sooo much better so I tried kisiing him again, he pushed me off again, i was upset then he said okay one kiss so we kissed for quite long, I really enjoyed it (my first kiss). But he said that this was it and he is going to delete me of his phone and we can' talk because it isn't right. He has dleted me but I still have his number, I feel so depressed without him, shall I ring him? dont know what to do? I know this is wrong, but I like him sooooo much. and I am so sexually attracted to him, feel like losing my viriginity to him he turns me on a lot too. Would this be illegal cause even if we did have sex I wouldn't tell noone. WHAT SHALL I DO? Open Question: Girl Problems Which I Need Help With?I really really really like this lass but she has broken out of a relationship with her boyfriend and says she wants to stay single for a bit and have some fun She knows how i feel but i really like her what shud i do More Recent Articles
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