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Open Question: My boyfriend is so confusing and I really need to get his interest back... help!? and more... Open Question: My boyfriend is so confusing and I really need to get his interest back... help!?He is 30 and I am 25. We have been dating about 7 months. He says he "Cant tell me he loves me" cause of being hurt so much in the past and showing emotions has always gotten him hurt, but he says his actions should speak louder than his words - and they did til about a month ago. Now he never texts first - he used to text "good morning babe" or SOMETHING during the day if i wouldnt... now nothing. If I text, he'll text back though the first time - but after awhile or if I ask him a question, he won't respond. For instance, I said "Want to go to see the lights saturday night?" and nothing. I said "Just an idea" and still nothing. Its probably because he doesn't know... but he used to ALWAYS text back. Also, his kisses have become infrequent and rare and he almost avoids mine. I ask him what is wrong and he says "nothing babe" He doesn't seem as interested in my day to day life. I know he is having money problems right now... severe ones... so maybe this all has nothing to do with me. I don't want to scare him away with my insecurities but it sure as hell seems like something is wrong! Some people say I should back off... let him come to me. But all I can think about is "out of sight, out of mind"... if I do that, and he doesn't call or text, I'll be heartbroken with no answers. Normally I would say "how about this weekend we..." and he agrees. He hardly every initiates plans unless its something planned like a birthday party, etc. Think I should continue to do this? Also, to make him wonder... today I sent him a text asking "hows it going hun?" and nothing. So three hours later I sent him a text saying "Hope your day is good mines terrible" and he said "whats the matter?" in about two seconds. I didn't reply. I wanted to make him wonder. What should I do? long but please read! Open Question: Best friends boyfriend just tried to kiss me?My best friends boyfriend (both guys) just came over to my house and he tried to kiss me. There's several problems with this: 1. He's dating my best friend. 2. He's dating my best GUY friend. 3. I have a boyfriend. I told my best friend, who's angry, and my boyfriend who is also angry. I always thought that this guy was just my friend. Does this mean that I should just...stop talking to him, or just act like it never happened, or what? Open Question: I hate being touched by other people, is this some kind of mental condition?I am asking this question not because I hate being touched sexually by other people, i mean in general. If someone touches my arm while walking by or brushes against my leg, i immediately pull away. I hate hugging people, even my family, but this hate of being touched by other people doesn't over power my life, its just really an annoyance. I have had boyfriends and hug people all the time, but i cringe sometimes when i have physical contact with other people. But i've always been like this, my parents know about this hate of mine and they say that even when i was a very little girl i never liked other people touching me. I just have always felt like i need my personal space and I don't like people touching me, but i'm fine with touching other people. Also I wasn't physically abused as a child, was on drugs, or have had any life changing events in my past to cause this. But is this normal or some type of OCD or other mental problem, i've never heard of someone with a similar problem Open Question: What age difference would you consider wrong?I know a lot of people who would say an 18 year old dating a 21 year old is wrong. They would say why can't the 21 year old find some one their own age. Well, let me tell you something. My boyfriend is 21 and I'm 18, we've known each other for 11 years and we basically grew up together. We were best friends and now we have been in a relationship for 3 and 1/2 years and I don't find a problem with it. Do you? Open Question: Why don't I seem to attract guys?So, here's the problem. With all my friends starting to get boyfriends, I'm slowly becoming the third wheel. I just don't know what is wrong, I mean, I'm not ugly or anything, I'm not the slimmest girl, I am small, but not the slimmest. I think I'm pretty decent looking. I am shy, but I have a good personality once you do know me. What am I doing wrong? I know I'm only 16 and the guy will come eventually, etc,etc, but it's getting REALLY old being amongst a sea of couples. ha. Open Question: what can i do to get my boyfriend to have more sex with me?i am 21 and my boyfriend is 24 i have been with him since i was 17 years old. the begging of are relationship we didn't have lots of sex it has always stayed the same for 5 years we always have sex once a week but the problem is every time we do it i always have to please him and im always on top and the sex only lasts maybe 5 minutes hes never gone down on me im the one doing all the work in the bed room . hes the only guy iv been with. he is my first and we are still together he knows how i fill but he doest care i don't talk about it alot to him because that's nagging him then he might not want to do it at all iv tried every thing sexy out fits different foods supprising him having sex some were els roll playing everything. at one point i thought it was me so i lost Weight changed my hair color and got it cut and it turned out that he liked the way i looked be for so it wasn't me or the way i looked so that was a wast of money so i don't know any more please help me the only problem we have in are relationship is the sex part but evey thing els is fine he doesnt work alot because he doesnt need to we go out alot we are happy together and i love him its just the the sex thats it Open Question: If you use a condom is there any need to have your partner tested beforehand?I just turned 19 and am a virgin. My boyfriend is 23 and has slept with five girls previously. It's been a year since he last had sex with his ex, who was also a virgin. Nothing seems to be wrong with him STD-wise, but I asked him if he would be willing to take a test and he agreed. He gets his blood tested for thyroid problems every two months. Would that show if he was HIV/AIDS positive or negative? Or is that a completely other test because I know the symptoms don't show up within years. Also, would it be worthwhile to have him tested anyways? Even though everything seems to appear fine. Nothing is abnormal and never has been. And he says that his ex was tested after they had sex and she was fine. Should I have him tested or would it be a waste of time and money? If so, am I covered with using a condom? Thanks, I really appreciate it. Open Question: Please help me im freaking out!!?so okay my last period was on the 23rd of november. my boyfriend and i have sex about every couple of days [protected for the most part]. since like about beginning of last weekive been really tired and my boobs have been pretty sore just touching them hurts a little bit. then today i went to the bathroom and wiped some blood [it was just some pinkish wet spot on the toilet paper]. that was it and ive had no other problems. i was just wondering if these could be signs of pregnancy, i know im not coming up to my period for a couple more weeks please help me!! thank you! Open Question: CAN I GET HELP HERE I HAVE A LOVE PROBLEM!!!?ok so i met this girl and i kinda like her. so she has a boyfriend that does not go to the same school. i was talking to her and she said her boyfriend is ugly. so what should i do to get her attention. i want to go out with her so bad. More Recent Articles |
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