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Open Question: My boyfriend is so mean to me.? and more... Open Question: My boyfriend is so mean to me.?ok. ive asked a couple questions on here before about my boyfriend and i, but i'll explain again. we've been together for almost three years and we have a son together. lately like the past three or four months he's been overly mean to me and our son. he always yells and screams and cusses when he doesnt get his own way about something . and god forbid i do something he doesnt like, then i get called a whole list of very mean names ..any name you can think of that could hurt a girls feelings. before we broke up for a couple months and i started dating this one dude. he was really cool and all and loved me and my son. he always told me that he didnt want a relationship and i did, so we stopped talking. recently he got ahold of me and told me that he misses me and wants me back but he has a girlfriend!! and i think he wants mee but is like trying to keep me a secret. he says that him and his girl are having problems just like i am with my boyfriend but i dont really think that he's planniing on breaking up with her .. and i'm not no home wrecker.. so what should i do.. should i just leave them both alone? Open Question: My heart is crushed and I need some support, please? I am not sure what to do...?I will make this as short as possible. Boyfriend and I dated for about a year. He just moved in with me and my 2 children. My mother is living there temporarily also. He just broke up with me and said he didn't see us going anywhere. After moving in with me and MY CHILDREN! He is being cold and callous. He has said some very mean things to me in the past and has a "censor" problem when it comes to these things (always in private, though). Other than that issue, which we were both aware of and unhappy with, things were great. Although these moods have be tearing us apart. Regardless, it is just before Christmas, he just moved in 2 weeks ago, my children love him and I am completely heartbroken. He is still in the house, making other arrangements and everyday until then I will have to go home to him. We actually work for the same company too, but I am able to remain professional, as is he. God, it is hard though. My mother has been out of town and is coming back today, so she is now going to know. I don't like to share anything with her, or let her in on my feelings. I can't let my children see me upset. I have to keep it together at work. WHEN CAN I CRY and FREAK OUT like I need to? I am holding all of this emotion inside and it is eating me alive! I feel like I am going to explode. Someone, please, what can I do? Do I ask him to care for my kids tonight, go in my room, lock the door and have at it? I am so confused and angry and sad. My poor kids. After my husband and I split, I said I wouldn't move another man in unless I was sure. I thought I was. We had such great communication skills, I thought. No matter the disagreement, we were always able to talk it through. By the way, I have no friends. I have been so busy raising my children and building my career and paying the bills. Suggestions, support, nothing rude please, because I am about to break. Open Question: Bad situation with my friends...please help!?So to set the scene.... last year I had a big group of friends... there were about 5 people who i'd consider part of the friendship group, who i'm not that close to, but i still like them, however, as i am (well was) more popular than then, i spent more time talking to others and they thought I hated them which I didn't at all, from this group I had a best friend, let's call her A, who had been my best friend for 4 years, but our relationship is very weird, it's more fun and jokey than talking about things which we don't really do... then last year i became very close to 2 other people, B and C. C is a boy who I have known forever and we were really good friends, but got even closer as he started dating B who was really good friends with the 5 others in the group, until she became my best friend along side A, A and B were good friends too, although B and I were better friends and she was always there for me and i was for her..... we had a really strong friendship group which was good, and always did suff on the weekend. Then i came back from holidays this summer gone, and B and C, two of my best friends, still going out were having problems after a long time together where we were all really good friends... B obviously confided in me and I helped her, but being a stupid boy C stopped liking her and caring about her and then broke up with her, because he started fancying this other girl, we'll call her D, so B was left heartbroken and so became so annoying and angry at school, and i was quite a bad friend and wasn't good at helping her out, i found it so hard to pick sides cause i love them both, and B hated D, because C and D were suddenly in love, which made B jealous. I then started becoming really close to D cause B was being weird and different and D is so funny and nice, I guess I didn't realise but B started getting really upset and went back to the five friends i described in the beginning, throughout this all A felt i was leaving her out too which i really wasn't. So B kinda ran away from our group, which had now split off from the other five, who are actually really nice people... I don't want to be in this group as everyone hates us as they think C and D are idiots cause of what they did to B, and now B hates me for not supporting her and 'going off' a bit with D. She then went and got the support from all other groups in the year, and kind of got loads of people to hate me and D, so i was stuck. Now i realise my huge mistake as B had been such a good friend to me and i should have payed more attention to her, and i've said im so sorry it was so stupid i really want to be your friend again, but she has 'moved on' and now wants to be friends with the other five again. C and D are just too interested in eachother that it's annoying and i realized i do really love B and need her help, but she was so hurt by losing her boyfriend and her best friend before that she doesn't want to be my friend again, and A is more interested in other popular groups than me. The popular groups also dislike me because D used to be part of them, and then she left their group to be friends with me, which i didn't even want, but they all blame me for it, and are on B's side. I have tried to hard to be nice to B and show her i want her back, but thigns are just different and awkward between us, shes not horrible to me, she just has no interest in me anymore cause she's happy, and her five friends have been made to think i'm a really bad person which i'm not, i really want her back as a friend, but i dont know how to do this and keep my friends from the other group, C and D? I like them all But if im friends with them, B doesn't want anythign to do with me cause she hates them so much, i'm just so insecure at school as i have no good friends anymore and i don't know what to do, btw sorry this is sooooo hard to understand, but please try, i really need to figure out a way to gain my friends back cause i really do love and miss them, it's as if for one second i turned around and became friends with D and when i turned back, everyone disliked me and had run away? I don't get it cause i'm trying so hard now.... help please????? Open Question: I'm scared, Am I pregnant?I am currently on birth control and have been for about 2 years now, I haven't missed any pills but me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex in the middle of this month, he pulled out and yes I know precum can get me pregnant. I was supposed to start my period this morning and all I woke up with was brown kinda clumpy discharge and a small amount of blood. too add to this fun, i have a stomach virus and was up all night throwing up, could that be a reason that I am having this weird problem? I am only 16 and my mother will KILL me if she finds out, I'm so scared and stressed. help? Open Question: Will it be on his record?okay so my boyfriend is so worried, he just started paying child support for his kids, but they did not give him any visitation because he lives in tx and the kids are in LA. so we have to get a lawyer in LA and fight for some visitation. The lawyer ask him if he has anything on his records. like and domestic abuse any of that. PROBLEM is couple weeks ago we and him got into a big argument and the neighbors calls the cops. cops ask me if he hit and and stuff like that. i told them no it was an argrument and we push each other. so they told me to go stay at a friends and they let him go...he worried that it would be on his record and he wont get visitation with his kids because of that. but i mean he hasnt done anything wrong. never gotten arrested over anything. just that one time that we argue and i told them it was both, so they let him go. is it on his record would that cost him visitation??!!?? please help Thanks D. But they lawyer said the courts look into everything? so it made him really worried, and i felt bad feeling like i cost him his visitation with his kids. I felt the same as what you just said. he was arrested or charged. And he paying child support and the court gave him credit for helping her out every month until she put him on child support and he been involved in his kids life. i dont see why they wouldnt give him visitation. wasnt* arrested or charged Open Question: I like this boy......?I try to just be myself around him because he knows that I fancy him. I know this sounds cliché but I have never felt this way about a boy before and I sometimes have dreams about going out with him. He is perfect for me and very sweet. The problem is that he has a little-miss-perfect-girlfriend and I don't know how to make him like me?? We are friends and we always chat. I suppose I just have to see how his relationship goes.......the problem is I am ready for a boyfriend now but I doubt that this boy I fancy will ever go out with me but I don't think I will be able to go out with anybody else??? Tips, advice, help please??? How do I get him to really notice me?? Will I ever get over him if we never go out?? OMG!!!!! I always listen to that song whilst thinking about it - It totally fits!!!!! <3 Open Question: Is it weird for a Chinese girl to learn Arabic?I started taking Arabic at my school this fall, and even after one semester my father still cannot get over the fact that I am learning this 'godforsaken' language. The thing is they are sort of racist. Even my brother teases me "Do you want to join the Al Qaeda? Do you have an Arabic boyfriend?" The answer is of course no to both questions. I am learning Arabic for personal enjoyment (I love learning foreign languages!), and because I am interested in knowing more about the Islamic culture. Do you think these are legitimate reasons? I don't understand why my family has such a big problem with me leanring Arabic. By the way, I am also the only Asian girl in my class so that makes me feel even more out of place. Why is OK for me to take French but not Arabic? And generally speaking do you think it's weird for a Chinese girl to learn Arabic? I will continue learning it as my passion leads me but other people make me feel like I am overly interested in other cultures! Is that possible? More Recent Articles
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