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Open Question: My boyfriend is always questioning why i'm with him? He says he doesn't want to hurt me..? and more... Open Question: My boyfriend is always questioning why i'm with him? He says he doesn't want to hurt me..?My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 months now. We both are in college and he is premed, meaning he's VERY focused on school and I totally understand this. I have no problem with us not seeing each other for 3 or 4 days, that really doesn't bother me. He always questions why I want to be with him because he knows he's gonna hurt me and he can't be the boyfriend he wants to be. I told him all I needed was a call or text, just to know he's still thinking about me...he's the nicest, most honest, and trustworthy guy I've ever met. I want to be with him but I feel selfish for making him feel the way he does about me. He says he does not want to break up, or lose me - i have no idea what to do...i'm really falling for him. Open Question: Boyfriend doesn't make much of an effort?I just told him I need to see more of an effort from him, because sometimes I feel like I'm just bothering him when I talk to him. I never see him, and he used to call but now all we do is text. I've asked him to call a couple times, but now it's like I have to ask him to call me before he will. I just miss him and love him. I told him to text me in a little while to talk about it. If he asks what he needs to do for me, what should I say? I think he is just oblivious that there's even a problem. I asked him if he just wants space, and he was upset that I asked him that. Open Question: Go out somewhere with my boyfriend?So.. me and my guy have been together for 2 months. We love each other - we kept the relationship to ourselves at first (not totally hushed but just so it wouldnt get spread around school quickly) but now everyone knows. He has recently started showing quite a lot of affection at school and outside of school (like when we go to have a cigarette at break, we kiss and cuddle a lot on the main road), and constantly shows affection when we are alone together. The problem is, we've never actually.. BEEN anywhere together. I remember him once asking if I would like to go for a walk with him, but his friend turned up and it never happened. I asked him about it over msn, and he basically said that there isn't anything to do where we live. The only place we have been together in public (apart from the road outside school) is to the hall where him and his band play on Tuesday nights. So.. tomorrow, I'm hoping to see him. And I want to be confident, and ask him if he wants to go somewhere together! I know it's cold, but I was thinking maybe he'd like to walk to the end of the pier/promenade with me and grab a coffee at the lighthouse at the end.. but are guys into that sorta thing? Or should I ask him to come to the movies? I just don't know where to take him, or how I could ask him if he would come. I love him so much and want us to do things together rather than spend all our time indoors :) Thanks in advance for any help! @ Nice_guy - yeah, absolutely. But my sex drive is higher than his so I don't see why he would want more :L I'll probably promise him something.. ahem, special. ;) School = year 12 (6th form). I'm 16 - it's legal, no worries XD Open Question: Theres a problemo:0:L:o?I started talking to this guy over the summer well aniwae I was talking to him and all of a sudden we got really really close and he told me everything that was happening in his family and with how his brother and sister got into a fight and how he got hurt from it and how he needed a hug. He also told me about his eating problem and how he might end up dying in the next 2 or 3 weeks. Some of my friends overheard the convo between me and him and they said he liked me but I thought he loved his boyfriend whats going btw he and his boyfriend recently had a huge argument I am scond to his bf Open Question: My boyfriend refuses to come over?I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years yet he still refuses to come to my house. I go to his house everyday, I am actually there so often I don't see my parents for days sometimes. I've talked to him about it and he's promised to start coming over more often but hasn't. When I remind him near the end of the week that he hasn't spent anytime at my house he gets upset, and when I mention his promise he just ignores me. He claims that my house is boring, yet all we do at his house is watch movies and play video games at his house (we're both university students and have no money). We can easily do both those things here but he refuses to for the oddest reasons. For example, he told his mom he'd be home for dinner, when I suggest coming over after wards he says no because he doesn't want to do the extra driving. My house 5 minutes away from his house. He says there is nothing I can buy or do to my house that would make it more exciting. I don't want to break up with him, but I'm having trouble thinking of ways to solve this problem. Any suggestions? Open Question: Why does my boyfriend always ignore me when he's with his friends?They're not just guy friends (if it was, i would understand) But it's girls too. He always ignores me when we're with them. Why? Has anybody else had this problem or even done this? Open Question: Can they charge u with strong armed robbery even if there was no gun,no evidence?My boyfriend is being charged with robbery but somehow the owner is saying they had a gun and they want to give my bf 12-15 yrs. But there was no gun he had trial confirmation last wk and today he had court(trial) but our lawyer said he needed more time so its set until january. Well heres what happened my boyfriend and his friend went to the store and did a beer run as soon as the owner saw them taking off he ran out to try and stop them saying give me back my beer and took the license plate # he then called police and told them that the first guy who went in had the gun he gave them the plate # and went to my mother in laws house and they asked who had the car they said my boyfriend the police then gave a line up of guys to the owner and one of the ofifcer pointed to my bf picture and he said im 80% sure its him a wk later they raided my mother in laws house looking for the "gun" even looked inside the car. They found nothing. The investigators then called me and said they wanted to talk to my bf so we went down to the sheriff department and they asked my boyfriend a bunch of ?'s. The only thing my bf said was that he was there but that there was no gun and the investigators wanted to get my bf to say there was one so theres no evidence. Well my bf went to court in oct and the owner went to testify he said that he never ran out the store that he could see the license plate # from the counter if were my bf parked its about 100 ft or more i mean who could see that far and u cant see the # bcuz the car is parked sideways. He was now 100 % sure it was my bf in person but 80 % in the picture. he said that he had been in the india military for 13 or 15 yrs but having that much experience why would u run after someone who has a gun isnt that why u got trained. He couldnt describe it. he kept saying he was scare. So practically that day in oct. the judge took the owners word. He got locked up and we hired a lawyer. The lawyer did investigations and there was no video. Its just the belief that the owner is saying there was a gun. So the d.a doesnt want to drop the gun charge and they wont drop it to petty theft or burglary because he had the intent to go into the store so its considered a robbery for 2- 20 or 24 packs. The problem is that there has to b a reason why this man is lying maybe because hes tired of people stealing. Who knows? Well the private investigator took photos and measurements. The reason why they needed time is because my bf friend is in prison for some other stuff and they need to talk to him they also talked to 2 other guys and they said there was no gun. To this point we feel like its not fair that they want to give my bf 12-15 yrs just bcuz this guy is saying there is a gun and we feel like our lawyer is not doing anything he has seen my bf only 2 or 3 times since we have hired him. They also havent gave my bf any offers. I mean what can happen in this case yea it went from something small to something big. to gw_bushisamoron the lawyer said that the d.a was going to talk to his supervisor to see if they drop the gun but probably not. and its the owner against my bf and 3 of his friends Open Question: What should I do About feeling so depressed?I can not take it anymore I feel SUPER depressed I'm sad and I cry and I'm anxious. I want to just stop feeling like this already and it seems impossible I went to the doctor on friday and he just gave me some pills and said to go to a psychologist he referred me to. How could he just throw some pills at me after a 10 min. consulting. I researched those pills online and they have high risk for suicide and you have withdraw syndrome when you get off it. I wish I could just quit my job I feel miserable. Everything is going good for me right now and I do not understand why I feel like this. I have a good job I go to school my family is great I'm healthy I quit smoking and I'm not even thinking about it, I don't do drugs, I consider myself a good person, the issues with my boyfriend would depress anyone but I think if I already didn't have a problem he would not be able to do this to me so I don't really think it is him anymore I think it is me.... Before every time he and I broke up I thought that is why I felt like this, but even now he and I are together and everything "IS FINE" so what is up with me!!! :( Open Question: MISERABLE AND STUCK AND SICK OF IT?I was diagnosed with depression a couple of years ago, and went through the whole feeling sorry for myself, moaning to friends, losing said friends, failed suicide attempts and self harm, parental arguments and being kicked out home etc. Then I met my boyfriend and during the 9 months I was with him things got alot better and I met loads of new friends, matured and stopped being so pathetically moany and was generally happier. We broke up 4 months ago and now my depression is coming back. I feel miserable constantly and cant stop this overwhelming urge to hurt myself or run away or just kill myself somehow. It makes me feel sick and terrified. I miss my boyfriend so much, and now I have nobody to talk to, my close friends are either too self absorbed in their own problems or just dont care, and I dont want to try and tell them seriously how I feel because I dont want to become the whiney self obsessed brat I was a few years ago and my best friend has now become. I dont know what to do, These feelings are so strong and I try and tell myself things will get better but thats what I thought last time and the feelings have just come back. I need a quick painless way to kill myself, that will actually work this time. Any ideas ? Open Question: Any creative idea of how to give my boyfriend concert tickects for christmas?The problem is that they are not due in until June 2010 so there is nothing to give him expect the reciept which is just a plain email saying u have 2 tickets bla bla bla. anyone got any ideas of how to let him know ive got him them. thanks!! Open Question: love problem, any help?I am in a relationship for the past year with this girl .But things havnt been going that well. We have nothing in common. i think im in love with her. but we never meet! when ever i call, we have a awkward silence. She dosnt call me anymore. she dosnt even try to make it work. Its, its just no the same anymore. Now, there is my best friend, me and her are.. i dont know! we do everythig together. we do evrything that a boyfriend and girlfriend are supposed to, we flirt with each other, we kissed once(it just happnd). we are made for each other. but for some reason, we are not going out. and her boyfriend, is one of my very good friends. but things are not going well with them too. now i dont know what to doo?? should i break up with my GF and ask my best friend out? or should i just hope that my gf has a sudden enlightenment of how much i miss her. and if i ask my friend out, that could ruin our current relationship and i wud lose a good friend. help?? :( Open Question: Is it true that if you break up and get back together, you're relationship will be stronger?i broke up with my boyfriend, we were perfect together, everyone thought we were adorable. he was amazing in every way possible, but i didn't exactly see it at the time. the problem was my parents. they dont let me date, and everything was getting so hard. so i just decided to end it, i was relieved but then i started regretting it, but then my "best friend" ....stupid b*tch now, started talking to him and now they're going out, and he treats her amazing, just like he treated me. there's no chance for me getting him back now, i even told him how i felt. and i just want to know if we tried it again, do you think we could have worked things out? or would it just fail again? 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