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Open Question: My boyfriend doesn't trust me! What should I do? Advice please!? and more... Open Question: My boyfriend doesn't trust me! What should I do? Advice please!?Okay, so I've been dating this guy for a little under a month and I really like him. I have a lot of certain close guy friends that I would never ever look at other than friends and I know for a fact that they would never see me other than a friend either. (They're like brothers!) The problem is my boyfriend is uncomfortable with me hanging out with them, but like, I would trust him if he hung out with certain girls that he is close with, so why can't he trust me? His arguement is that he hasn't hung out with any girls, so I shouldn't either, but I really don't want to lose my friends! But I don't want to lose my boyfriend either. I'm so confused and kinda hurt that he doesn't trust me with my closest friends! Open Question: Advice needed regarding my situation. Anyone willing to help please? :)?Hey everyone. Back in the summer I met a girl while she was on holidays here in england with her cousin (cousin lives here). Italian girl, different than all the rest but we hit it off pretty well. I cracked some jokes, she liked them and from then on it was love at first sight. :) Everything seemed perfect. No arguments whatsoever, we understood and respected each other really well, we aren't perfect but we balanced each other really well. What I didn't have she had, what didn't have I had. Time passed and she went back to her own country. (For privacy reason im not stating it here) While there though everything was still amazing, still perfect but we started spending a lot of time behind the computer screens or a phone/mobile since that was how we used to speak. One day she told me she started having doubts... about our relationship. If it would last... if it was stable enough and strong enough to pass the test of time and distance. We always sat down and talked to sot out problems and so we did. After a while, she started questioning it once again. I never had any doubts in my mind or heart. Always loved her. She was feeling really down and upset and decided to break up with me... we had planned to meet each other when she next had holidays. Around March time after her university exams. However, her birthday was coming up and I had organised everything to fly over and see her. I told her that, she was too excited again, extremely happy and the doubts seemed to have cleared up. Im unemployed at the moment so the little money I had wasn't enough. My family helped me with some to go see her. HOWEVER! While talking to her one day. I realised that my passport had expired. So I had to ask my family for even more money to go to my home country and renew the passport as an emergency so I could enter her own country. With a lot of sacrifice my family was able to give me some of their money to go to my country first. We used our christmas savings for that. But anyway, I bought the tickets, showed her and things seemed perfect once again, we were both fighting and waiting for it to happen. :) I went to my country go my passport. And the day I came back... she told me she wasn't feeling the same about me anymore. All of a sudden. She started telling me that she wasn't ready for a relationship anymore and that she didn't love me and that id hurt myself if I went there and shedidn'tt do all I was doing for her. I told her it was fine I just wanted to be with her etc we spent a whole day and night trying to sort it out. But at the end of the day shedidn'tt want me anymore. Left me for no apparent reason. I did my best and I had never done this for a woman before nor will I again. This happened on the 18th of November. Now... 2 days ago she told me she started liking other guy. Mind you, these past few days after she "broke up" with me, I always stood at her side, even after she fell really ill due to heranaemiaa and low blood pressure. Was always calling her, calling her family, trying to make sure she was fine etc. I was far but I was the one who was closest to her most of that time. And in othoccasionsons too. I was always there for her hoping she'd open up her heart once again for me. But she wasn't ready as she made it clear.... but just for me since she started liking someone else. I bought the tickets and ended up not using them sodidn'tdnt get to meet her. The trip was 2 days ago. On the 2nd of December. What I wanted to know, and I really hope you guys could me is, should I keep fighting for her? Let her know all the time Im still there for her and that I stil love her? These past few days she was being really cold with me and even threatened to stop talking to me and even stop considering me a friend. Should I ignore her nad leave her be even if it really hurts me? Should I let her do what she wants and find out if its really what she wants by herself without butting in? Should I just wait and see? Should I be more active and keep fighting (What I want to do)? What do you guys think? :) shouldn'tnt put the fate of my "relationship" on the hands of someone else. But any tips and help from "outsiders" would be greatly appreciated. :) Thanks a lot in advance guys. :) PS: No didn'tnt do anything wrong at all, we never argued, nothing a tall. Everything was perfect until she changed... all of a sudden. Even she said she would never find another man willing to do what I was going to do for her and thaunderstoodod her and love her this much. She said I was the perfect boyfriend. Not enough to stay with me I guess! :D Anyway... thanks guys! :) Open Question: possible girl problem, any help?ok so there is this girl who I knew when i was little but i only metter he like for one summer, then i didn't meet her again untim 7th grade and I began to like her a lot. eventually her boyfriend dumped her and she became an emotional wreck. so I had all the late nights on the phone nd even talked her out of killing her self,(though not sure if she would have went through with it). but so later on i asked her out, but she left me with a "I'm not ready yet". so i gave her a few more weeks and asked again and got that same responce. so then i begin seeing her going out with guys just days after i asked her out and such and i realized that i have become a "friend" and therefore no longer a dating option, so completly crushed, i gave up. so as the 8-9 grade years passed we became closer frineds and now in 10th we are like best friends. but the only problem is, is that i dont know if am completly over her or if its just one of those "BESTYS" relationships? i mean she doesnt care in i tickle her and what not and if im laying down she will lay on my back. we recently began training for Parkour, together and nothing bad happened. but the thing is that im her best friend and completly happy being that, and guys who like her started talking shit about be becasue no one will ever really know her like i do. but im just wondering if this is a normal type of friendship to have or unique? sorry for the long post.... Open Question: Should I brake up with my boyfriend or what?I am 15 and I've been going through a lot this year. My grandpa committed suicide and then two months latter my friend got into a car accident and died and then 4 months after that I loose my grandma and my other grandpa. I am so depressed. I don't even know who I am anymore. My boyfriend Loves me and we've been seeing each other for about 7 months. I don't ever feel happy even if he's by my side. I'm always pissed at him for no reason. I really do like him but I never feel myself. Should I just keep him and work our problems out or what? Open Question: Probably the most embarrassing question ever?I am jealous of my little sister. I feel absolutely stupid, but there it is. She's in her freshman year of college and has just got her first boyfriend- they're getting pretty hot and heavy pretty quick and she asked me to let her "use the house" this weekend, but promised nothing would happen and I said no, pulling a full on Mom speech to tell her it was inappropriate and she flipped out on me, telling me that I was jealous and bitter and I think she's right. See, the main problem is I feel like a freak because I am almost twenty four and I've never had a boyfriend, never really been on a serious date and most embarrassing of all, have never kissed or been kissed. I'm not super ugly or fat or mean or needy, and I don't know why I've never been able to be with someone or have anything but there it is and I feel like a freak because of this. My family keeps saying, oh it will happen but the more time that passes the more I think it won't so when my little sister gets to make out with a boy and have sex with one before me, I just can't help feeling like a failure. So I guess my question is, and please be honest because no one else will, how much of a freak am I? Am I destined to always be jealous of those around me?!?! Open Question: What should I get my boyfriend for Christmas?I don't have too much to spend, and I promised I wouldn't spend too much. We've been going out for bout a year, We're both 19. I was thinking of getting a big stocking and filling it with little things. THe problem is I feel like it's a lot of little things and there should be something a bit bigger. He's into video games and movies, but he buys what he wants. Any ideas? No cologne and no clothes. I want my gift to be meaningful. Open Question: help i feel so depressed, and i don't know why?all i want to do is lay around, i just feel like sitting around and crying, i feel so dead, so useless, im overweight, i have a problem child, a boyfriend who likes to argue but yet i find no Escape, even when every one is being good to me, i still don't feel happy, i don't want to go out, i don't want to be around people, i feel tired all the time, and just so blah. any thing to do about this, how do you over come these feelings? More Recent Articles
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