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Open Question: my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time last week but he didn't finish.? and more... Open Question: my boyfriend and i had sex for the first time last week but he didn't finish.?we had alcohol so he thinks that was the reason.then we did it again after 2 days and he came.but yesterday he couldn't finish while inside me so he just used his hand. what do you think the problem is.is it me? Open Question: i dont know what to do...(u dont have to answer, i just thought saying all this wud make me feel better)?i really just need some help with all this. its getting hard to deal with by myself... Well...im 14 years old. im a freshmen in high school. i dont have very many friends. i only have 1 or 2 close friends. I have a friend, who is my ex, he is constantly making fun of me and talking about mein a bad way. i still treat him like my friend and make it known that i do know that he is talking about me. it does hurt my feelings because he was my best friend after we broke up at one point. he treats me like crap but i still try and be nice and do things for him without complaining. He asked me for help to get with my best friend. and i helped him out with that. they ended up breaking up after about 2 weeks. then they both still like eachother so im trying to get them back together again. im helping him with that. i alwasy help him with homework and stick up for him when people make fun of him. but he wont do the same. he is usually the one making fun of me. Another problem is that my family might lose our house very soon. my mom is working, but is not gettin paid at all for her work and my dad is not getting good pay checks. they are only a couple hundred dollars. he gets paid once a month and we cant live off that. i get 2 dollars for lunch once a week sometimes. my best friend is starting to ignore me and not hang out or talk to me very much anymore. 2 of my favorite dogs died and im stil upset about that. my whole family except my mom treats me like crap. as weird as it sounds, i'd rather be at school than be at home. and i'd rather be with my boyfriend than anyone and anywhere else in the entire world. he is my everything. without him, i really dont know if life would be possible...the only thing is, he is 18 and im 14. im really not aloud to date him. i see him only once a month, sometimes less. i text him alot, bcuz he refuses to call sometimes. we r both broke and when we do see eachother, we cant do alot of fun stuff cuz we dont have the money. and he has made it very clear that he Does Not want sex anytime soon, which is totaly fine with me since i am only 14. but despite all of that, i can tell that he really and truly does love me.he has stayed with me at my worse. he knows all my secrets and i trust him. i love him so much, but the fact that he lives so far away, i barely ever get to see him, im not even aloud to date him, hurts a bit. i also have a bad bi-polar disorder (which means i change moods really really quickly and often sometimes) i have anger issues, and i guess u cud call this depression. i've been depressed for about a month and i dont know how to fix it. i usually hide my feelings and act happy and i've been doing that for the past month, but its getting harder and harder each day. i've started crying during school for things. i just hold so much in that i cant help it anymore. i even cried today because i dissapointed my sister and she was upset at me. i really just dont know what to do anymore, i cant trust anyone enough to tell them all this but my boyfriend, but im afraid i'll just annoy him with all my problems and seem like im complaining. I dont wanna do that to him...any advice? any advice with any of the other things i talked about...anything u say to help would help me :/...... (BTW if u dont have anything to say that will actually help me, then i really dont want ur answer -.- and thank u for the people who actually do care and will have answers at least trying to help :/) Open Question: How do I get rid of these insecurities with my boyfriend?I've always been supremely insecure with myself and lately its been really interfering with me and my boyfriend's 1 year relationship. We had a spill and had a little break off, but were back together. im supremely happy because i love him more than anything. but im not happy with myself, so i hate it when hes with other girls just as friends. hes never cheated, i just get really jelous and i bitch at him. its causing major issues and i dont wanna start off bad again. :( i told him id work on this problem. what can i do? also, hes very attractive & at school girls are always flirting with him. its hard to deal with , and they all know hes with him. thats another reason why. i just dont know how to deal. Open Question: I need to stop cheating, I think its some phsycological problem?Well I'm not always in relationships, okay, so this is my second real relationship. My boyfriend is amazing. We have great chemistry, and love each other very much and don't have any problems besides the obvious. The other guy that I am seeing is older, and I he is my golf instructor that my mom set up for me. My mom wants me to be with someone like my golf instructor, so maybe this has something to do with it. But its all a big mess! I love both of them, but I know that its wrong and I've always been against what I'm doing, so I don't know why I'm doing this. I'm depressed and guilty and frustrated with myself and I want to tell my bf, but I don't want him to leave me. I've thought about stop seeing my instructor, but what will that do...nothing. I've been so frustrated and sickened with myself, I have cuts up my left arm because I pick at the skin and attack it when I'm frustrated. I am more secretive and I've always been honest with my bf and now it feels like I'm betraying him (which I am :(). If I tell him, he will want to beat this other guy up so I'm scared for the other guy because its all my fault. I want to stop, but how? Help. Btw, I've never really had a dad and my relationships have always mattered to me. I want to feel loved, and my bf deffinitely gives me love...so I don't know why. The thrill used to be a part of it, but now this thing is tedious and depressing. Now I want to do the best for my bf. I'm not a boy! And I'm not having sex with other ppl, just my bf. Ppl, if you can't give me advice don't waste your points critisizing me and not offering help. More Recent Articles |
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