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Open Question: Me or my family , who should i think first ? and more... Open Question: Me or my family , who should i think first ?Ive grown up in a domestic violence family environment . Now a days i have a good relationship with my mother and a tolerable relation with my father . My sister is the big issue . She has disappointed me very much and hurted me alot along this years . She has stolen money , lied to me , and others about me . I have let it go most of the things and didnt wanted to admit to myself it was out of evilness but is very close to obvious . The last things she did that really hurted me alot was when i took my pet which i loved as much as myself to be put to sleep . She called the next day saying that she called the vet and that it was very difficult for him to die and they had to give him a second shoot . Imagine u loved your pet like u love a child , U will understand how i felt . I still cry about that . Another thing was when she called the airport and said they should stop me cos i could had drugs on my possession and also called my boyfriend that was in another country at the time , saying i was going to go to a mental institution when i had a breakdown . All lies . After been confronted by me and my parents she asked for my parents to go there cos she was felling bad and when they got there she had the police at her door and a knife in her hand saying that she wanted to kill my father . She said to the police that they had to come get me from my parents house cos we were raped by him . Lies too ... he was violent , slapped us around but never abused us sexually She bitches all the time about her life , talks and talks and talks and sometimes I just feel like shouting to shut herself out . Instead I listen , answer and smile . I love her and i have forgiven her , atleast im trying too but i dont like to spend alot of time with her cos she makes me feel uncomfortable . So most of the time i dont answer her phone calls , cos i dont want to hear her winning She is has had alot of different prognostics along the time , the last one was bipolar . 3 weeks ago she cutted her wrists and slapped her husband Now am going home for 10 days and she invited me to spend some days in her house , but honestly im afraid I get extremely tired . I have mental problems myself such as ocd and I cant be around stress to much . Still I fell like I should be there for her , my family and that I cannot run away from my moral obligations . So in one side I don't wanna go , in another side I will feel crappy and have conscience guilts . I already have them , by not supporting her more …but than … How has she given me suport this last 10 years ? Dam … this felt really really good , just by writing it felt better . But anyways I would like to know the masses opinion . Tx , Good bless Open Question: Sore tender swollen vagina?Ok, I've been with my boyfriend for a year now, and we've had sex a total of 5 times. -No Protection (I am on the pill) The first two times we had sex, (5 months of dating) everything was fine. The third time we had sex, (the third night) I developed a very sore, swollen vagina. I had hugely swollen vaginal lips, the size of a mini-tampon, literally. I couldn't close my legs or wear tight jeans against the sore skin. I had no idea what to do to deal with it, so I left it. After a few days it turned to itching and burning and I resorted to telling my mum. She bought me some pharmacy medicine for treatment of thrush. This seemed to work just fine. I went for a checkup and my sexual health clinic and I was tested clean, no STD's or STI's at all. The nurse told me that thrush was not triggered by sex, and she doubted that I had thrush. My boyfriend and I waited another 5 months to have sex again, and after intercourse for the fourth time together, I got the same pain and swelling in my vagina. I went for a checkup at my sexual health clinic again and no signs of thrush OR std's showed up at all. After the fifth time, the same reaction happened again. I took a visit to see the doctor, and she examined me, with no conclusion to the problem. She gave me a prescription for some thrush cream and told me to see how things go. Im scared to have sex again, to see if the pain returns. Has anyone had the same thing happen to them? More Recent Articles |
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