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Open Question: Major Guy Problems!! PLEASE help me, and thanks in advance.? and more... Open Question: Major Guy Problems!! PLEASE help me, and thanks in advance.?I have been dating this guy for a month now.. but there's this other guy, that i used to like a while before i started dating this guy. He will not leave me alone, he text me all the time and he tries to talk to me at school. my boyfriend really doesn't like me talking to him. he tells me that he still loves me and all that stuff. but i told him that i would never love him and i want him outta me life.. but he wont listen. what can i tell him or do to make him stop?? Open Question: Okay....I just need advice. Help me please?Okay....in the middle of last month (November) I asked on here about one of my best guy friends. A quick recap: I'm 17 and a Senior in high school. He's 18 and a Freshman in college. We have known each other for about 2 years and get along really great. We talk pretty much about anything and everything. And I like him a lot. A lot a lot. He's everything that a girl would want and I can truly see myself being with him for years. We have so much in common and both are on our way to being successful. Most importantly, he likes me for who am I, loves every flaw that I don't like about myself and doesn't mind having a friendship/relationship with him being white and me being mixed with Native American and African American. But there is one problem: One night I was talking to him and I gave him a compliment. He said Thank you, but quickly added something negative about himself. He does this not a lot but pretty often.In my eyes, he basically put himself down and he's scared to love me. I got kind of upset because it seems like he pushed me away =\. The most recent time this happened which was in October I questioned him about it and made his arguments run in circles. It's like he saids something negative about himself, but doesn't know why he saids it? He's also a hard person to read. I posted this question before asking what is wrong with him and why he does it. One person responded that I need to stop making it about me. Honestly, I'm not making it about me. I'm not that type of person. I was also told that it was insecurity and/or low self-esteem, but I only got 2 answers. It's just that it has been driving me crazy. I want to tell him I like him as in being boyfriend and girlfriend but I need more opinions. Why do you think he keeps doing this? Is he afraid of something? If it is low self-esteem is there any way that I can help him bring it up? Open Question: I want this baby but he is trying to get me to change my mind :(?I am 5 weeks pregnant, we just found out and i am so thrilled and excited i can hardly contain myself, but i told my live in boyfriend (2yrs +) and he is saying we are so unprepared for everything that comes with a baby and he wishes it would have happened a year later because things are so uncertain with his military job. so in other words, he doesn't want me to have it! :.( i am determined to have it no matter what and i think he would love it no matter what after it was born but i can't seem to convince him and i almost feel bad for being excited at all in front of him. I'm 26 and he's 24 and we will oth be a year older by the time it's born. also i have PCOS and one ovary and an abortion so i already have fertility problems and am afraid that i let him talk me out of it, it will never happen or us again. what can i say to him! :( Open Question: Should I be friends with my ex boyfriend?So before I dated this guy we were best friends. I have never trusted anyone more than him. So then we kind of admitted that we liked eachother, so we decided to date. The only problem was that we went to different schools. So I fell madly in love with him! And everything was great but then he broke up with me he sai d" i give up on you" and since then I can't get hm out of my mind. I still love him. So I did the usual, and texted him and got mad and cussed him out but then I apolagized a few weeks later. Anyways, we decided we would stay friedns. He is in a play and invited me to go seehim I said yes and he was happy. Now I don't know if I should go because I don't want to be friends, I want him to be my boyfriend again. Help! What should I do?! Open Question: HHHHHHelp me please.!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! CLICK ON HERE VVVV..?Okay i need help, I really want to get a boyfriend. I have guys tell me all the time im beautiful and im hot. I get A's and sometimes B's. Im really athletic but Im really picky about guys. I do have a crush on this one guy and we are really close friends. Don't say try to talk to him or tell him you like him because in this situtation I can't trust me. he is 1 year older than me and he dates my bestfriend and I have people tell me all the time I think he likes you, and even my mom has told me that lol. I have also had people tell me im prettier thn my bestfriend. SO whats the problem IDK WHAT TO DO ANYMORE! Open Question: how do i tell my mom?okay so basically i've had sex, im 17 and i have a boyfriend that i am completely in love with. anyway if everything was going okay i wouldn't tell her, but the past few times me and my boyfriend had sex i would bleed, and no it isn't my period. i know i have to go to the doctor. anyway i called planned parenthood and they said it would be like 150 dollars without insurance to get a test done... and blah blah blah. im not going to pay that much. i do have insurance, but i was worried my parents would see it... anyway i basically have to tell my mom i've had sex, and im having problems... bleeding during sex. how do i tell her. we have an extremely closed relationship, i basically don't tell her anything, and she doesn't really tell me anything.... i don't know what to do. help! thanks! Open Question: Does she still like me, or what?I'll try to make this as short as possible. Since the beginning of this school year [September], I've had a crush on this new girl. I'm a lesbian, and i'm guessing that she's not too sure about her sexuality. Around the middle of november, she admitted to me that she thought I was cute and that she actually liked me, but she was in a relationship with some other guy. She told me she wanted to break up with him because he was clingy, and so i waited. About a week later, I asked her that if i were to ask her out if she would say yes. She said she would say yes, and then i ended up asking her out for real, and she said yes, but she wants to take it really slow because she's never been in a relationship with a girl and she just wants to ease into it. The next day she broke up with her boyfriend. We've hung out twice so far with some of my friends, but she's really shy and quiet. Online, she's a lot more comfortable with talking to me and we've gotten to know each other really well, but when we see each other in person we have no idea what to say. The problem is, tomorrow is this dance at this school, and it's known to be very....well, intense. She's been to quite a few of them before, and has met guys and hooked up with them on a whim. I'm pretty sure she's going to the dance tomorrow, and I'm afraid that she'll meet a guy there and hook up with him and figure that she really doesn't like me after all. Sometimes when we talk online she tells me that she's nervous around me and that she wants to hug me but she's scared to, all that stuff a shy girl would do. But i'm waiting for her to make the moves and set the pace because she's the one that wanted to take it slow. Do you think she's bored because we're so quiet around each other and she doesn't like me anymore? Or do you think she's just nervous? Open Question: My boyfriend says he doesn't care if I were to sleep with other guys....?I have been dating my current boyfriend for 7 months now. At the beginning of the relationship we had a long conversation on jealousy, and he expressed to me that he's never felt that emotion towards any of his previous girlfriends because he feels that it leads to irrational behaviour and can consequently harm the relationship. I completely agreed with him on that part but he continued to say that he wouldn't even care if his exes slept with other people as long as it made them happy. When he first told me this I thought that it must have just been a way of protecting himself from his previously slutty girlfriends and unhealthy relationships by convincing himself "he didn't care". I thought that as time went by and our realtionship grew stronger, that he might feel differently towards me and maybe show some emotion when it came to feelings of jelousy. But he's repeatedly expressed to me that he doesn't care if i were to see other guys or even if I were to have sexual relations with them because love has nothing to do with lust. I told him that his way of thinking concerend me because I'd certainly have a problem if he were to cheat on me and he assured me that he only wants my happiness and that he'd never do anything to hurt me. I just don't know what to think...I don't find it normal for a person not to care at all about their partner's relations with the opposite sex. I'm not saying for him to be a jealous nutjob but I just feel like his not caring about this kind of stuff is another way of saying that what's between us is not serious. I see it as human nature to be just a bit jealous because of the natural fear of losing someone you really care about...I don't know, is it just me?? What do you think? Open Question: Something more than Jealousy? Will i go mental?Me and my boyfriend have been together for more than 3years, all along i do not trust him. I have not really caught him cheating but... I couldn't explain the fear of thinking what he might do with some other girls after the walk out of the door. what he is doing when he isn't picking up my phone calls. i feel very very insecure, i live in fear every single minute... we talked about this problem but we do not have any solutions at all. Do you consider this as jealousy? over sensitive? or something more? What can help me right now? I do not want to feel this way anymore, i feel like i'm going mental. Open Question: My Ex-boyfriend, still likes me but i am not sure what i should do because i got a new boyfriend!?Okay, well i don'tt know what to do and i cant go to anyone close to me about this problem. well i have a boyfriend right now and my ex still likes me but we give each other notes in school and he said he is willing to go back out with me but there are these other two girls that also wanna go out with him. he said if theydon'tt write him back by the end of the day he is done with them. well he iscomingn over tomorrow so idon'tt know whats gonna happen yet. i really like him but i have a boyfriend and he is really nice and i like him but idon'tt know if i like my ex more or if i should stay with my boyfriend that i am with now.....i need help. thanks for the help for whoever answers this =) Open Question: how can I let my parents visit my boyfriend in Sao Paulo, Brazil?My problem is this: I used to date this guy for a while, but I´ve never put much faith in our relationship because I was gonna live in Milan for professional reasons, and he was going to Sao Paulo. But after breaking up, we realised that what we had was very important for both, and we can´t forget eachother. So I decided to go and visit him this Christmas holidays, with my own money, that I saved. But my problem is this; I`m living in Milan for studying, and I depend on my parents, they are paying me everything, And they don´t let me go, because they think S.P is veeeery dangerous! their problem is not the money at all, they are afraid that something bad happens to me! Besides, they never met this boyfriend I had. I´m 21 years old, living alone, I´ve travelled alone before, I don´t know why they are messing so much this time! I really love him, I need to see him, and I can´t stand anymore being far away from him! please help me find a way to show them that this is th best for me!! Open Question: phone call from boyfriend?My boyfriend is legally separated from his wife. I just got a call from him saying that his wife called and got information from someone that he's in a sexual relationship with someone and asked if it was true. We were not involved at all until after they filed for separation. Problem is we all work at the same place and she has a background in police work. He wonders whether she may have had his car tagged with GPS or somehow placed him under surveillance. He denied everything and asked where she got her information, but she wouldn't say. I also wonder whether she just made the call to mess with his head, since it's been a messy separation. Any tips on how to handle all of this? We have a great relationship, and I'd hate for anything to interfere with that, but this is rapidly getting more stressful. Open Question: help, need answers to why this is?Ok my boyfriend and I are totally in love, i love his family, and like wise about me. My family also loves him. so everything is good. The only problem is that he doesnt complement me, on my apparence or anything of the sort, if he does its ur hott, and thats it, one time i did get "you are beautiful" but thats it, and i have hinted to him that he could say sweet things like that, but never... is it just becuz hes a guy and guys have a hard time saying certain things or what? please ive been comtimplating this, and thinking to myself this is stupid and no big deal, but id like to kno whats going on in his mind... and be nice...thx Open Question: Why doesn't my abusive ex-boyfriend move on?My abusive ex-boyfriend of over 3 years broke up with me for the thousandth time 7 months ago. He used to break up with me all the time any time I disagreed with him or if we fought or if he was having some weird emotional reaction. (I assume he did this to control our relationship and to punish me.) He was very controlling and verbally abusive and also and alcoholic. He used to call me fat and some derogatory names, wouldn't let me have friends, did things for the sake of being mean, and throw temper tantrums every few weeks. 8 months ago I made a decision that I wanted out, so when a month later he threw a temper tantrum and broke up with me...I let it go for good. I blocked all emails and phone calls. As usual he would try to find ways to contact me. He sent emails to my work email and I sent those to HR at his job and reported him for harassment. (We work in the same building at work. Yippee right?) He quit emailing my work email. The emails weren't apologetic either, just bullying. He spent about 3 months stalking my floor trying to run into me, and when he did he would try to block me from leaving the building or get me to talk to him. I always stared straight ahead and kept walking. Then he opened an account on facebook and tried to email me there. I have threatened a restraining order and he has backed off, but I know it's a matter of time before he tries again. Why does he do this and never move on? At one point he had agreed to go to counseling and later backed out. It seems that he half-recognizes the problem is him. The rest of the time he is angrily telling me through gritted teeth that I'm the problem and that this is me and that I "want control." Control of what?? I keep telling him that I'm not doing anything wrong, I'm just not allowing him to abuse me, use me, or hurt me anymore. Why can't he see this is his problem? Why doesn't he just move on when he was the one who was breaking up with me all the time? If he was breaking up with me all the time, he should have really wanted it. Why can't he move on? Open Question: Is something wrong with me?To begin with, I had a huge crush on this guy for a little over a year and felt that he may have liked me too, but I was still unsure. I met this other guy that was completely kind and condsiderate and he practically swept me off my feet. He is now my boyfriend of two months and I am very happy. But the problem is that the first guy I had crush on continues to look at me the same way as before. I love my boyfriend, but I still feel a hint of attraction for the other guy. I don't want to go out with the other guy, but is it bad for me to feel attracted to him? Please help. Open Question: What song could explain my feelings for this guy ?Okay so there's a talent show coming up soon and I want to be in it. But I am then I want the guy I like to show up so I can basically sing for him. Now I can't do scream-o or low pitched stuff. But I do have a pretty wide voice. Anyway so the situation is. I like this guy but he has a "girlfriend". And I have a boyfriend that I'm scared to break up with. I want the guy hella bad but I'm scared to tell him. He's older than me, but he likes me. And I'm not exactly the hottest girl in town, he could have better. But yeah and he's abused by his girlfriend and he's have problems at home. What song would be the closest to this explaination ? Preferrably a song by a girl...or by a boy who sings kind of high pitched. Open Question: What problems, other than pregnancy, can cause a missed period?My boyfriend and I have been having unprotected sex for a little over six months now. After six months of unprotected sex, I still haven't become pregnant. However, I missed my period last month and I've been discharging a semen-like substance from my vagina for the past couple of months. The last few days, I've also been getting semi-sharp pains in the middle of my lower abdomen and I've been feeling really tired. I'm not sure if the tiredness is a result of stress from my dad's passing a couple of weeks ago, or something that has to do with the missed period and such. I'm 19 and my periods have always been pretty irregular. My question is: what other problems could cause these symptoms other than being pregnant? Open Question: I need long distance relationship help?I'm not going to lie. The crossroads I'm at right now could be considered very juvenile. You see, like most teenagers I have problems of the heart, and I don't know what to do. I'm caught between a hope and a truth. The truth is that I have a boyfriend…in North Carolina. I don't know whether to end it or not. He moved over there from here, so it is not like I don't know him. It's so hard to be in a long distance relationship I never get to see or spend time with him. My hope is that a guy that I really like in Kellogg likes me back. He use to have a girlfriend in Colorado, but I'm not sure if they are still together. He is super nice and close in proximity but I don't know how he feels about me. We are friends but I am hoping he likes me for more. I am stuck between staying with my boyfriend, who I have had the longest lasting relationship with, or I could go on a whim and dump him with the hope of finding someone closer, particularly the other guy. If I keep on going out with my guy I might go crazy, but I know that I can make myself move on. I won't see him until this summer, and for all I know he is cheating on me I don't think he would do that, but I could be wrong. The guy in town that I like is more mature, funny, kind, smart, and musically talented, but I have more history with my boyfriend. Even more childlike, my boyfriend and I use to talk about how we could see ourselves getting married one day! I just know that the new guy would be better for me on an intellectual level. Even if I don't end up going out with him, at least my next boyfriend would be closer. And if the guy I like feels the same way about me and asks me out while I am still taken, I would have to say no! I could miss out on a great guy! I am just so confused. I know I could easily cheat on my boyfriend, but that would be heartless. I would rather dump him now than to be so cruel. I need help. As of late, I have been careful not to say anything to my boyfriend that he would take to heart, like "I love you" or "I miss you." Also, I haven't been flirting with the other guy, except for a few hugs, which don't really mean anything. Help! In conclusion, I am concluding that I have not yet come to a conclusion. I'm still confused. I am going to try to figure out if the friend likes me or not and I am also thinking of the consequences of both actions. I know I would be so happy if I had a boyfriend at the school, but I would be sad and feel a little rude breaking up with my boyfriend so unexpectedly. I even told my boyfriend about the other guy, not saying anything obvious. I am at a cross in the road, which way should I turn? Open Question: What do i do, should i?Okay so me & my boyfriend have been dating a year now. im 15 & he's 17 almost 18. Well there are a few problems. hes controlling. he wants me with him all the time and if im not he gets mad. He goes through my phone if i talk to other boys he gets super jealouse & mad if im with a friend he needs to know what im doing all the time he calls and checks up on me. But even though he has all these faults i love him with all my heart and feel like i truely need him in my life. i dont know where id be without him but what should i do? & he wants me to do things with him. even though im not that ready. but he says if i truely love him like he says i would. and i do love him and want to be with him forever and ever. but im just not sure if i should yet? i mean i know i want my first time to be with him but should i get it over with now or wait a little longer? im soooo confused anymore. im just so frustrated anymore. i need help. & p.s does it hurt really bad your first time? Hes really sweet when he wants to be and he has a temper. but if i let him go then i might lose him for good. a lot of girls like him cause hes really hot and everything and strong. but i just dont know what i should do? More Recent Articles |
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