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Open Question: Legal advice on how to remove someone who freeloading in your home ? and more... Open Question: Legal advice on how to remove someone who freeloading in your home ?Before I begin to tell about the horrors I endured in my home I will start off with that I allow my daughter and her boyfriend to stay in my home providing they agree to pay half of the portion rent $600 I even presented a handwritten paper to sign to this agreement. My daughter agreed to sign and did so but her boyfriend refused to sign . At that time I felt her signature was good enough since she was the only one with a steady income . and her boyfriend agreed that when he gets a job he will help out . Well it took about 6 mos before he gotten a job ... So as of now he's not only not helping with paying rent but is causing problems within my home. He has gotten into numerous arguments not only with myself but as well with my daughter physically and mentally abusing her . He controls every aspect of my home and my daughter and my daughter does nothing they also have 2 yr old daughter and uses excuses that they will pay but nothing never comes. He attack me on Nov 13 , push me outta of their room when I try to talk to my daughter and I feel like he's coming between us all . Also he attack my boyfriend because he look at him the wrong way . I want them to be leave and my boyfriend and I have stressed that issue towards them on many occasions . We feel like they are not helping and are just freeloading on everything . I have spoken to my daughter about at least kicking him out because he has hit her but she refuses to listen and makes up excuses that I am the problem that if we stop stressing them about paying rent that he wouldn't be upset and stressed and hit her ... I feel like she is in a unsafe relationship and dragging me along into her abuse and unstable environment .. I would like to know are there any legal way to have them removed and who can I seek help from ? Their names are not on the lease or on anything else ( bills).. Please help there's more to this story of course but what can I do ? I care about my daughter and would only want the best for her but she chose to be this way or a victim and feels helpless herself .. Thank You in advance for your time Open Question: Will I gain weight without being able to exercise for a week?Hi everyone, I know some of you read my first post and replied with such helpful advice. I greatly appreciate that. I found out some news yesterday, and I wanted to see if anyone else has been through what I was diagnosed with. I have some questions and could really use the help and advice. Thank you so much. So first, here's my first post: My name is Kerri. I am 20-years-old and will be 21 in just a few months. I am 5'4" and weigh 98-100 pounds, give or take a couple. I am really not sure how much I weigh because I haven't done so in months because I hate doing it and am afraid to see the number. I have been very thin my whole life, but the problem is that I have never been able to see it, feel it, or realize it. Everyone has just told me that I am too skinny. When I moved back home from my freshman year of college in May 2008, I thought that I should lose a few pounds just so I could feel as skinny as everyone always told me I was. I probably weighed 98 pounds at the most at that time. I began losing weight in a healthy way-just by eating less but healthier options and running a little bit. The weight fell off pretty fast, and I was down to 89 by the beginning of that August. Then, I moved back to college in September and was extremely depressed to be away from my grandma and mom, and my boyfriend and I had just broken up. I felt like I didn't matter to anyone, and I am very quiet and shy, so I don't really have any friends. I began eating no more than 1,000 calories a day, and each 2 weeks or so, I cut more and more. By mid October, I was down to 76 pounds. I stayed at that weight until this past May when I began trying to recover. When I got to 2,500-2,700 calories a day consistently, I put on weight rapidly. I gained about 20 pounds in 5-6 weeks. Once I got to around 99, I began trying to maintain. I cut my calories down to 1,800 a day and resumed running, my passion. I think I increased my intensity too quickly because after a couple of weeks, I began experiencing pain in my inner left ankle. That was at the beginning of August, and it still hasn't healed. I had x-rays a few weeks ago, but the doctor didn't see anything wrong or abnormal. I'm just so frustrated that it hasn't healed yet because I want to be able to run again. I miss it so much and am so worried that I will never run again. Do you think it will heal eventually and I will run again? Since I have had to take time off from running, I have been going to the gym instead. I go 6 days a week, sometimes 7, and make myself do the elliptical for 60 minutes and sometimes the bike for 5-10 minutes. I feel so obsessed by exercise and can't stop. I also do Pilates or Yoga every morning for 10-20 minutes and ab exercises daily for 10 minutes. Besides my exercise, I am pretty active in general, as I am a college student and work part-time on the weekends. I'm always on the go. I just can't stop exercising, and I don't know what to do. I feel like I can only eat if I exercise. With this activity level, I am still eating 1,800 calories, but I don't know if that is too much or too little. Someone told me that I must be losing a ton of weight with all my exercise and not enough calories, but I don't think I am losing any. I know I shouldn't be losing any, but it makes me nervous that I'm not because does that mean my body is back in starvation mode? According to the machine and tracking my calories burned here, I burn about 500-700 a day just with exercise. I don't trust that I burn that much though because I have heard that you burn a lot less than this site and the machines tell you, so I don't think I should eat more. Should I? Is my ankle most likely not healing because I am still underweight, without my period, and not eating enough to support my body? I feel so lost, confused, and sad about everything. I have no one to help or support me. I just need someone to listen and talk to me. Please help me, if you can and it doesn't bother you. Thank you so much for listening and for your time. Take care.=) NEXT, IS THE UPDATE: Well, I had my MRI for my injured ankle last week, and I got the results yesterday. Luckily, my bone is strong, but I have posterior tibial tendonitis. The orthopedist wrote me a prescription for a walking boot and said that I cannot exercise on it until it heals. I have to wear it for about 4-5 more weeks until my next appointment. He said that I shouldn't have to worry about it being permanent, but of course, I still am. But here's my problem. I don't know how to just give up exercise. If I do, I won't be able to eat much at all. I had an appointment with the MEDA last week, and I talked to an eating disorder therapist. She helped me a lot and said that I am really in the throws of this right now. She has been trying to find me a nutritionist and a therapist in my area, but there really are no ED specialists around me. I have been looking into an eating disorder clinic in Boston for outpatient care, but I am not su Open Question: I have problems trusting HIM, what can i do?Me and my boyfriend have been together 3 months now, dont seem long but we have gotten so close considering weve been waiting over a year to get together, but recently i have a huge problem trusting him, i thought i trusted him but i get bad images stuck into my head that hes doing bad things behind my back, hes never admitted or said hes done anything before like cheated or flirted but i always have a problem trusting peple due to past experiences and problems, this causes us alot of arguments which we really dont want or need and ruins alot of our time together or when we talk, most of the time we just want a nice conversation but i get so paranoid about things that deep down i think i know are not true but do not know why i think these things, the last thing i want is to loose him over this and i hate feeling how i do, it lowers my self esteem and confidence and makes me feel not good enough, what could i do? any advice anyone? how can i stop myself from thinking these things? how can i learn to trust him properly? how can i see that he isnt doing anything wrong or behind my back? help!!!!!! Open Question: Need an excuse to go out with boyfriend.?Hello Everybody , I have little problem and would be grateful if you would let me know your opinion. I am a 16yr old and i have a bf who is 17. We used to go to the same School but then we stopped and both of us are homeschooling. My parents are extremely strict and wouldnt let me go anywhere without them. I need a good excuse to go out , does anybody have any idea which might really wrk? My mother knows that I have a bf and does not mind but she still does not allow me to go out. I asked her if i could go out with him but she said she does not trust anybody and etc etc. I really wanna meet him. PLEASE HELP. If you dont have anything nice to say , please dont say anything at all. :) Thanks in advance. Open Question: How can I control my anger better?I have a problem i realized that I always push people away that are trying to get close...I always end up hurting and dumping all of my boyfriends...Some days I feel like I just don't care about anything or anyone and those days I am very rude to ppl.I feel angry towards ppl for no reason...I say things I don't mean or I ignore all my friends and family...I have always let go of all of my relationships because I feel like I have to end it before I endup hurting them. I'm starting to feel that way with my boyfriend now but I really Love him and I feel like he is the only one that understands me the most and can handle me..but I'm really afraid that I am going to ruin our relationship....even my dad said that I am going to live a lonely life....and I really need some good advice how to control my anger so that it doesn't control me.?? Thanks! More Recent Articles |
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