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Open Question: I've been cheating with my best friend's boyfriend...how do I get over this? and more... Open Question: I've been cheating with my best friend's boyfriend...how do I get over this?So about 2 months ago me, my boyfriend, my best friend, and her boyfriend all went out drinking. My best friend got really drunk and her boy started texting me across the table, telling me how good I looked. At first I thought it was just some innocent flirting, but then he started saying things like we should sneak off together later in the night. I was drunk too, so I did...and I hesitated a lot but ended up sleeping with him. Afterwards I felt so terrible, but for some reason he and I have kept sneaking around and have hooked up several times since then. We also text each other a lot now just to flirt or talk about stuff. And now the problem is that I kind of have small feelings for him...and he's always posting online messages about how much he loves her and when I see those updates it kind of hurts me. What do I do? (and please, I already KNOW how terrible this is so I don't need any lectures about what a terrible person I am...I just need help. and maybe a guy's perspective.) Open Question: how do you know whats going on with your boyfriends friend?ok so my boyfriend and i have been going out for about 3 months but at first ai like his friend,who i have known from a recent activity the 3 of us did together.Then after wards his friend who i liked left and went somewhere else.During the summer i saw him again and i was so anxious and of course blushing.I didn't think i would see him again.I began to go to the park alot during the summer just to see him.I saw him and he saw me.He didn't really recognize me at first because i guess to him i looked different from the last time we talked and made hard eye contact and smiles other then me just walking by for me to see him.My friend said i should just ask him out but i couldn't because i wasn't sure if he felt the same and we were very distant most of the time.Little did i know that my boyfriend who at the time i did not have interest in or know that he secretly told devious little lies to the boy i liked(his friend) so me and him could not talk or go out.Now i have my boyfriend who somehw we hooked up nd everything for 3 months but its weird because there are times when i talk to his friend and he would not talk to me back so basically ignoring me.In the summer it wasn't like this though.So after wards with my boyfriend and i of course being together blah blah blah and his friend ignoring me still,until.... i told him i wasnt going out with him anymore and thats when we started talking again and talking on the phone for a little while.Then it got weird again once he started knowing that i was going out with someone even though i never broke up with my boyfriend.Now hes like buddy and everything which he never really called me before and doesn't really pick up or IM back that much like it was before.The other day i asked him about a relationship problem and he said to me as if it bothered him about me having a boyfriend everyweek which is what he thought even though clearly i was with my boyfriend for 3 straight months.I asked him does that bother you and he said nope not at all and i was like then why did you say that then.So it gets kind of random i guess with that at times.So i dont know whats my conclusion to this because its just so perculiar now....? Open Question: Is it safe to get it....?Is it safe to get it....? I want to get my boyfriend the new saw game on PS3 but its £30+ in shops and I dont really wanna spend that much as I havent got much money so I was having a look on ebay, is it safe to get a used saw game as its only £15 but I didnt know whether there would be anything wrong with it. Has anyone had any problems with ebay? (This is my first time using ebay by the way):) Thanks x Open Question: Am I just afraid of commitment? What is my problem when it comes to guys?I'm 18 and a senior in high school. I've had plenty of boyfriends over the years, but none in the past year and a half. I have a problem, and I don't quite know what to call "it". Could you help me? Usually this happens: I start liking a guy, flirt with him (a lot) until eventually we start "talking". At this point, I REALLY like this guy...and really want to date him. Usually I can't find any faults with him at all, and think he's perfect for me. Then, we go on a few dates, and then all of a sudden I lose interest in him...and start noticing all of these "faults" that I didn't see before, and all I want is OUT. Then, I'll see another guy, and the process starts all over again. (This has literally happened like 4 times in a row now). All of my best friends have great boyfriends, and I am SO happy for them, but very jealous, and I don't understand why I can't just be happy with one guy. Am I too picky? Do I just like "the chase"? Am I afraid of commitment? I'm not a slut or anything at all. In fact, I rarely "hook up" with these guys. For some reason I just start losing interest once I've gotten the guy. What is my problem and what can I do to fix it I really don't want these guys to just think that I "used" them to get to one of their friends, because that's not what happens at all. Thanks! Open Question: Please help me with bf problems =[?I logged on to my boyfriends facebook the other day and saw that out of no where he told this girl she was really pretty. I asked him about it and he said he didnt remember doing that and he doesnt knwo why he would even do such a thing. Today i logged onto his myspace and saw that he told one of his ex girlfriends that he could have been her man but she was too scared and this whole time he has told me that he broke up with her because she was too controling. i want to believe him and we have been together well over a year and breaking up with him is not an option for me but i dont know what to think about this stuff...and i dont even feel bad about looking through his things because the only two times i have there has been something to find. he got mad when i went on his facebook and i dont know how to confront him about the myspace thing which hurts more than the first incident..... its deffinitely him... Open Question: Should I wait for him? Or am I just being blind?My (ex) boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years engaged for 1. We recently broke up due to fighting a lot and run in with the cops. When we broke up we never had intentions on getting back together ever, but 2 weeks ago I had to visit his home town to sign stuff for school, and when we saw eachother we fell in love all over again, and wanted eachother again. But he doesn't want to be in a relationship right now because he wants to make himself right. (He's a really big liar, he cheated on me before, and talks to other girls) But he doesn't want to be in a relationship with me because he wants to fix himself for me so were "waiting for eachother" right now. Theres this girl that has been a problem and still is, shes beyond disgusting but he still talks to her because he says he doesn't want to be mean. I told him that he needs to stop texting and calling her all the time, and he even told her that he never wants to be with her or ever get with her. I don't know if I'm just going to be hurting myself waiting for him or should I not wait. I love him with all my heart that's why I don't know what to too. Any advice? Open Question: Help! My boyfriend is about to propose!?My boyfriend is buying my ring very very soon and I know for a fact he's going to propose sometime over the holidays. I'm so happy! The problem is, I don't know what to get him for Christmas now! I feel like I need to give him a really special gift but I don't know what to give him! He's almost 20, do any of you have any suggestions of something really special? Open Question: I would really appreciate advice about my boyfriend/situation?We were together 2 years. I'm 21, he is 22. He broke up with me because he just decided one day that he needed to be on his own and grow more/find himself, but there was never any argument or anything so it ended fine. Besides the fact that I am still in love with him. He said that he wants to get back with me someday to marry me and that I'm perfect for him, he just had a gut feeling that something wasn't right, right now and we needed to break up for now so he acted on his feeling. It has been a couple months, and I gave him his space like he wanted, because I didn't want to risk losing him by getting upset and freaking out because I still loved him and he didn't want me back yet. After a 2 months of no contact he started contacting me again slowly just to talk a little and catch up. Then we agreed to hangout once. We had a lot of fun together and he said that he realized that he had feelings for me again but that he still didn't want to get back together yet. So I waited. And didn't contact him because I thought he needed space. Then he got upset and told me one day that he wished I would still be there for him even if we couldn't be together right now. I told him I am here for him that's why I haven't just left after all this time. But I was like it just breaks my heart even more when we talk and you still don't want to get back together yet so the only way I can stay somewhat okay and not completely sad is by not thinking about him so I told him I needed him to leave me alone until he figured out what he wanted. Then after 2 weeks of not talking, I missed him so bad I finally broke down one night and told him how much I still cared for him, and explained how I felt and acted all emotional and everything..and it just made him back away more. He said I was acting weird just going off like that. He said maybe we should take away everything that reminds each other of the other person and delete each others numbers and everything, completely erase each other from our lives. And if we are meant to be it will happen, one day we will find each other. So I didn't know what else to do, 2 days ago I did that. But when I did he got upset and basically said he was done. I want him back so bad, but he seems to be waiting for a sign or feeling to tell him that we are meant to be and it isn't happening so even though he said he has some feelings for me still and has fun talking to me and hanging out, it's still not the right time right now. Anyways..now I found out from his best friend who I'm friends with that he met a girl a couple days ago and even though he doesn't think they are good for each other and she doesn't seem like his type at all, that he asked her to go out to lunch in two days. And he told his friend that he feels like he feels a connection with this new girl, and that he felt like we had that connection and then slowly lost it, which is why he hadn't wanted to get back together yet even though he thought besides that I was good for him. So for months I had been wondering what I had been doing wrong for him to not want me back, and was really confused. And I finally realized last night that our problem is that we stopped having deep conversations, besides having them about our relationship. But in those deep conversations that we used to have about life and just other topics in general, that is where we had once had such a strong connection and felt the spark. And that had slowly gone away. So ..now that I realized that all I need to do is just call him and just start talking, about life and things how we used to, and he would feel the connection with me again, instead of just stressing about our relationship situation. But now I made a big scene and we deleted each other on everything and he said he was done putting his energy into this because it didn't seem to him that we might ever had what we used to have in the beginning again. So he got mad and was done with me. I feel pathetic and he might not even answer his phone or if he does just say he doesn't want to talk, now that he has this other girl on his mind, and now to him I'm just an emotional freak that he wishes would turn back into the girl he once fell in love with and had a connection with, but now I feel like I have ruined everything, he just thinks I have turned weird. I don't want to regret losing him because I was too scared to call, I just am not sure if it will help at all now:/ He has a planned date with another girl that he feels a connection with, and he is done wasting his energy on me. :/Sorry it is so long..I just thought I should explain the situation ... Do you think I should risk it and call him anyway even though he will answer the phone negatively, probably, if at all, and not want to talk to me. And he will ask why am I calling we are done for now, and I freaked out on him for not wanting me back yet, so I need to leave him alone, and he will probably just be mad that I'm calling, but should I just tell him I j just want to talk and press on and talk about life with him and things (I already know what I want to talk to him about and what would be perfect) And get a good conversation going with him like we used to without stressing about our relationship at all. I know I can get him to feel a connection with me again, we get along and relate so well. I just don't know, do you think he will accept me trying to talk to him. Basically guys, if you still had a little feelings for an ex-girlfriend, but you liked this new girl a little. If your ex-girlfriend called you after you cut everything off with her and at first didn't even want to talk but then the conversation between you two was good and it made you feel some connection again. Would you maybe re-consider her? Or still go for the new girl. I am willing to risk calling him to get turned down anyways, I just am wondering if you think it will help at all. Thank you in advance! More Recent Articles
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