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Open Question: Is it okay not to go to my boyfriend's office Christmas party? and more... Open Question: Is it okay not to go to my boyfriend's office Christmas party?I've been living with my boyfriend for three years, and have gone to the last two holiday parties, but just don't feel up to it this year. I've gone back to school, and am in the middle of finals (for a Physics major), and besides having a lot of studying to do, just otherwise feel worn out, and massively unkempt. I'm friendly acquaintances with a couple of his coworkers, but only seem them once or twice a year, and don't really have much to talk about besides finals now anyways. After about an hour, it will turn into a Guitar Hero contest for office workers only, which will go on for about three hours. I know my boyfriend would like me there for the chatting part, which I really wouldn't mind, but then he'll feel obligated to go home with me if I leave before the Wii marathon starts (and since he's the office GH champion, I know he would rather stick around.) Really, I just want to pop a couple Excedrin, finish my Physics practice problems, and take a hot bath. Any suggestions? Open Question: Scared might be pregnant just need reassurance?So i'm 18 years old, have a completely regular period every month, i've been late a couple times but never more than 10 days. I had unprotected sex with my boyfriend of 3 years, now i'm 7 weeks late for my period. My last period was on september 26, i should have started on october 24, on december 19, if i don't get my period it will be my 3rd missed in a row. I had very light spotting in early november and thought maybe my period was starting but it didn't. I took two pregnancy tests one on october 31 and one on november 13, both negative. My boyfriend and i are fairly certain he is infertile since he had two testicular surgeries as a child that doctors warned could cause issues. I don't know what i'm looking for someone to tell me since the tests were negative i can't be pregnant? I just want reassurance, however if i'm not pregnant, i'm even more scared that there may be a hormonal problem with me or something wrong with my ovaries. Please help to just calm me down. Oh also i have no pregnancy symptoms no sore boobs or nipples no nausea etc. And as i said we believe my bf is infertile, so it's not your normal, you had unprotected sex you're probably pregnant thing, the chances are reduced dramatically. I should also add i have no doctor and no insurance, so i'm kind of stuck. Open Question: Pleas help me find this hat?I'm looking for a black ushanka hat with real fur(no faux and no rants about how i should get faux please) flaps and a leather top and no insignia. I know i'll have to order one online but the problem is i'm buying it for my long distance boyfriend and i don't know his size and i don't want to ruin the surprise by asking him. So if anyone knows of any websites that offer such a hat and have good exchange policies i'd be so grateful. Thanks. I've asked this many times and every answer has been either scam sites, sites that don't do returns or don't offer anything even remotely similar to what i want so please serious answers only Open Question: my boyfriend and i have sex a lot and theres just one problem! help?!?okay so my boyfriend and i live in separate places of course. we have a very amazing sex life. okay, so the first time we had sex he gave me oral and he told me this "damn, soft as baby skin" ahaha i know it sounds stupid but he really liked the fact that when i shave...i leave it....how can i say this....soft...and....bald haha. okay so i always shave before he gets to my house just in case we do end up having sex. i'm afraid that he's so used to me being completely shaved every time we have sex, well usually i always shaved around every 3 days. last time i shaved was 2 days ago, which was the last time we had sex. the problem is i now feel like i have to be completely shaved everytime we have sex. and as you all know, no matter how gross you think this is, you cant shave every single day. i tried shaving two days in a row because well we ended up having sex two days in a row. and the second day...a little bit of the hair was growing up. like i mean a LITTLE but then again i still felt like i needed to shave. and i accidently ended up cutting myself a little. the hair was that short. and then now tomorrow hes coming over and i feel like i need to shave again so ill be bald again. because i know i'm going to get oral and he's gonna want me shaved all the way. but its so hard to shave all that little bit of hair without cutting....what do i do? Open Question: How do I meet a guy if I have the following problems below?I go to an all girls school, there are boy schools near ours but I have only ever met some at parties - the girls in my school who are dating or have friends that are boys are Jewish and therefore have and get invited to loads of bat mitzfahs where they meet guys or they go to Jewish camps with them. I want to have a boyfriend or some guy friends but how do I meet them??! THANKS so much for the help! P.S Not trying to offend any Jews! :) Also forgot to mention I'm 13 so where would I find people my age? Open Question: Will I ever stop getting water infections/cystitis?I am prone to chronic water infections and cystitis. The problem happened when I started dating my new boyfriend. If we have sex quite frequently (which we do), my bladder swells up and I have that feeling of needing to go to the toilet when I don't. I'm forever on antibiotics and cystitis relief (when it's more of a minor problem), but I was just wondering if this spell will eventually fizzle out and my body will get used to it? My auntie was a similar sufferer and after a while her body adjusted to things. The doctor has offered me antibotics to take after everytime I have sex, but my friends have told me that this will just weaken my immune system and eventually I'll become immune to the medicine. It really gets me down, as I didn't used to be like this with my previous partner whom I dated for 4 years, however we didn't have sex half as much! Any info really appreciated, thanks guys! x and cranberry juice/capsules hasn't help. in response to the harsh response below, I have high hygiene standards and follow all doctors advice. i was just wondering what the chances are of this problems phasing out. My body does cope with the infections much better than it previous has. i forgot to mention, i urinate immediately after sex and drink plenty of water before and after, and throughout the day. Open Question: how can me and my ex get his parents to let us date again?me and my boyfriend were forced to break up in the summer. now we are taking a little again and we both still really like each other. he says he wishes things were different and so do i. but the problem is his parents found out we had sex and made us break up... how do we get them to let us date again? Open Question: Women I need your advice about this girl im dating!!?So theres this girl in my condo building that i have been pursuing for the last couple of months. She said she had a boyfriend but i still talked to her and we walked our dogs together. Last week we hanged out and went to dinner she was telling me that she was very unhappy and she never sees him and all they d is fight. That night we made out. The next day she broke up with him and we went out that night had a couple of drinks and she slept over no sex. The next night i meet her out at a club with her friends. She came back to my place and we did have sex and she slept over. I know she is attracted to me Im a good looking guy and she says she likes me. Lat night she came over we watched tv and had take out , we cuddled and that was it i liked it, and i told her I liked her and she said she did as well. The problem is I don't know if she is and if its a good idea to pursue something with her. She is a cute girl but I am attracted to the model types, and i have slept with 5 women in my building. I do find her very interesting and attractive but i just am a bit confused Open Question: why is he doing this and what shall i continue to do?okay so me and boyfriend broke up after 4 years... im hurt and he let me down a lot.... a lot has happeend since we broke up we have tried sorting things out together but things always got in the way and he would let me down... i think the mistake i always made was showing my emotions and love too much.... anyway since then i even said last chance before i left him in a taxi and he just let me go... and didnt say anything... since then i have not responded to him at all he said can i come and get the pictures from our paris trips... so i left it in a bag outside when i was out... i think he expected to see me or something and he got annoyed since then he has been sending me messages saying how can you brush me off... and that he needs to talk to me... but i only want to talk to him if he has something in the sense of an apology or something that wud make me want to take him back..... because right now he is not doing enough.... he says but he never shows and thats the problem.... so what do i have to continue doing.... should i ignore him more?? make him see?? cause i feel thats the only way right now? dont tell me to forget him please i know he has hurt me but stopping loving someone is hard i just want him ti realise Open Question: Is there a reason why i can't find a guy?Okay so I understand that there is more to live than boyfriends and girlfriends but being alone and having nobody to share your love with is hard. I've been single for about a year now. I find guys that I think are cute but for some reason I can't bring myself to say hi. I don't want to look like a fool talking to someone who probably doesn't even know i exist anyways. Do guys have the same problems? Are they just as scared to talk to a girl as I am to talk to a guy? How do I talk to a guy who i don't know but would like to get to know? Open Question: Well...There's a guy.....?I don't see him a lot anymore, because we go to different schools...but we used to talk a bit. Well I added him on msn, and we chat alot. We started playing a game => I say a word, he says the first thing that comes in mind. I was being cheeky and so I said my name. He was like BeautiFul, attractive, and talkative :) And then it was his turn...He was like: Sunsets, Beaches, and Night Sky, I was suprised at his words, and really said the first thing. He also asked after that: "His Name" , and Boyfriend. I could tell something was going on here, and told one of my friends who is the closest to him. She told me that he mentioned you a few times, but i never got deep in the subject. He is always commenting on my profile pics, and statuses on facebook first, and complimenting how I look. All my friends are telling me..He may like you etc... and the thing is Im attracted to him as well :S But one of my Best Friends hates him, because he has a problem with girls swearing and told her off. What can I do? He is about 2.5 years older than me :/ Anyone > Open Question: Am I being too much of a 'friend' than a 'girlfriend' material?There is this boy that I met at an after school activity and it seems we are growing very fond of each other and I like him! Alot! I've been trying to be very delicate with him because I want him to like me too and it paid off! He likes me alot now. But am I being too much of a 'friend' than a 'girlfriend' material? because I want him as a boyfriend and not just friends! : -He said 'loooool ur cute' and I answered 'bebe I know ;)' -he tells me about his family problems/ his plans for the future ... he started being more open with me. and he tries to find out as much as he can about me too. -I told him a funny story about how I saved his butt when the teacher accused him of somthing and he said 'oh!I love you.' -He wanted me to listen to a song he likes when we were alone together and it was 'halo' by beyonce We've been getting real close, joking around and talking very often. He is so comfortable with me now and my only concern at this point is that this might lead to him thinking of me as a friend than someone he likes. Lets just say we are both about 15-18. How can I be more of a girl friend than a friend!? Should I stay away from giving him cool witty answers...? How do I get to the point!? More Recent Articles
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