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Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Open Question: In your opinion...do you think he was cheating? Or just moved on really quick? and more...

 
 



Open Question: In your opinion...do you think he was cheating? Or just moved on really quick? and more...

Open Question: In your opinion...do you think he was cheating? Or just moved on really quick?

My ex-boyfriend and I dated for half a year. I loved him very much, but we kept having problems due to his fear of commitment. During the last month or two of our relationship, he started being really distant, and wasn't making time for me. Friends of friends were saying that he was seeing this girl (Let's call her Kate) but I didn't know these people so I assumed they were just gossiping. I asked him about it, and he denied it and even got upset that people were accusing him of cheating on me. Toward the ending of the last month, he stopped talking to me. Without even saying anything, he cut me out of his life. I tried contacting him, but he never returned my calls/texts. I finally gave up on him, and wrote him an e-mail a week after saying that it's over between us because he didn't seem to care about me or make effort. He replied and tried to act like he did nothing wrong. Literally ONE week after I sent that email, he announces to everyone that he is dating that girl Kate and they are in love! I was annoyed yes, but it got me wondering if he was seeing her behind my back. How can he (or anyone) fall in love with someone THAT fast?

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Open Question: please help with my boyfriend problems :/?

ok so i got a bf today and iv had like 2 in the past and iv ALWAYS had this problem- whenever im around guys,and especially a guy i like, i get nervous and i end up not hanging around them and talking to them. i feel really bad cuz i mean im his girlfriend and i should talk to him and hang around him but i just cant seem to do it. any suggestions on what i can do to help me fix this? <3 kenz

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Open Question: How should I deal with my lying/manipulative friend?

So, here's the scoop My friend is a nice perrson but she lies about everythingmostly to get attention here's some examples: She told he husband that she was pregnant when she was not so that he would stop using a condom and impregnate her. That was a year ago. She tried to kill herself and like to tell people that she caused severe liver damage in the process so that people feel bad for her recently she has been cheating on her husband (by recently I mean for about the last year) The guy she is cheating on her husband with felt uncomfortable with te situation and told her that they could not see each other anymore. Now, she says that she is pregnant with HIS kid which she isn't. Another example: We were at my bf house and he was being all mushy with me while we were watching tv Once she decided that the attention was not directed at her she faked a seizure, made us turn off the lights and tv so that she could "recollect herself" I having seen this nonsense before asked my bf if he would like to go to the store So, instead of giving the girl a lot of extra attention we walked to the grocery store When we came back she was in the bathroom She had made herself throw u and claimed that she was sick even though she was not. She insisted that my boyfriend carry her out to her car I then had to give her a ride home. Then she had me watch her kid while her husband was at work because she was too sick She does these things to get her way and I am starting to be very irritated with it... I still like her. I just wish that she would deal with her responsibilities/problems/emotions in a less childish way. What do I do?

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Open Question: PLEASE HELP, i dont know what to do (boy problems!)?

ive been hungover my ex boyfriend for over a year now, he used to text me sometimes saying he still liked me, and we'd try again, but now, he says words that hurt so much and says things i wish he didnt. i hate it, and i find it so hard to bare. now i finally have had enough, i need to move on, find someone else, its been a year and 2 months and they've been so painful. i just need to get him out my head, any advice, even if i hve to see him round school everyday knowing hes laughing and carrying on as normal...and last week he subtally told me 'he still cares..' what does that mean? please help! x

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Open Question: Complicated situation I am in for Christmas?

Ok there was this girl I dated 5 years ago (just a 1 year relationship)...Well things didnt work out there, but we are BEST friends now She has had the same boyfriend for 5 years now....and i am very happy for her...And over the past five years...I would always get her a Christmas present, and i would get her boyfriend a Christmas present.....and they would each get me one Now since I have a gf, my gf was so excited for it...We got them each a Christmas present. The problem: They now broke up (but they do this FREQUENTLY) And my gf wont let me give her a christmas present..And i keep telling my gf that I will feel like a complete idiot when my BEST friend gets me a present and i dont get her one, and then she gets back together w her bf (because it always happens) I dont know how many times i have stressed to her that she is my BEST friend and nothing happened with us in 5 years...I dont know how many times i have to tell my gf that she doesnt have to worry about anything What can i possibly tell my gf that since my BEST friend is single, nothing will still happen?? I mean i think i should be able to get her a present, single, or not....I mean her and her bf got me presents over the last 5 years (and i was single that whole time)

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Open Question: Me & my boyfriend of 5 years got back together after a break up and now a girl he slept with once is pregnant!?

Hi so I need some advice!! Myself and my boyfriend broke up at the start of the year. We were still in contact on & off but he then started dating some1 else which according to him wasnt very serious. We got back together a few months later & sorted out our problems as to why we broke up which wasnt really any big issues just pure stubborness on both sides. Anyway we sorted to everything & we were super happy! Then almost 2 months back on track the girl he was seeing tells him shes pregnant with his baby. I was furious because I had assumed not serious had meant not slept together... he told me he had only slept with her the once.. he'd used a condom & she had told him she was on the pill !! When he went over to her house to discuss with her going to the doctors to find out for sure her mother started going nuts saying "she took her pill, u can see empty packet on the fireplace"... he found this strange considering he never mentioned once that it wasnt his. This girl(22) already has one kid with another guy. She was quite demanding after clicking her fingers everytime she was upset.. my boyfriend asked for some space to get his head around it ( by space he meant like 2 days to just think) she got her mother to contact him & tell him he would never see his kid or have any part of his life if he didnt go over when she needed him. All this happened when i was over seas... so when i got back to what I thought was a really happy perfect back on the tracks relationship this was thrown at me.... I thought long and hard & had decided to try be with him through this but i do realise how hard it is and is only going to get harder. He now wants to go into the labour ward etc with her for fear that it is his child & he doesnt get to see the birth..! I'm worried that this will make him want to be with her. He tells me he wants to be with me & always has & that he wants me in his life more than anything - I really care about him but i'm scared im blinded by love or something.... What should I do??!!

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Open Question: please help, what should i do? this or that?

so i've talked to my ex boyfriend about how i still have feelings for him, and how i still like him a lot! i "asked him out" and he said he needed time to think about it, but this was last week. (he's still thinking about it) the problem is that sometimes i get the feeling like he just HATES me, even though he starts talking to me a lot, gives me hugs and everything. i get home and start crying for such things. like, "i will never get him back even though i love him so much!" i don't know why, but it just comes to me every few days. tomorrow im having lunch with him and some of our friends..i dont know what to do. what should i do? should i get over him, if so how? because i like him ALOT. and i dont wanna lose him by making him think that i dont like him so he wont ask me out again :( help me? thanks! :)

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Open Question: Please, I need some boy advise!?

Me and my boyfriend have been together for a few months now, and I reeaally want to snog him. I'm 12 and I have kissed him before, but not a proper one. The problem is I don't know when or where to do it! If I do it at school, everyone will know by the time I lean towards him! But if I do it on a date, if he rejects me I can't just say, " Well I need to get to class", but I need to live with it untill the date is over. I need some advise, and fast!

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Open Question: Question about skin carving?

I recently carved something in my arm.it wasnt because im stressed out or because i have any problems(im not emo) it was just because i thought it would look cool.I didnt do it to hurt myself or anything like that.I just did it because My cousins boyfriend did it and I thought it would look cool.Is there something wrong with me that I dont know about?Is this wierd,Strange,or Bad?Im probably not doing it any more.

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Open Question: Exboyfriend problems!!!?

okay i'm in high school and dated this guy for six weeks. he was my first boyfriend and we got along really well until he got really busy in school and broke up with me. now everything is weird, he doesn't talk to me in class and everything is so awkward. i do know that him being busy could have just been an excuse i just want to know what you think is he mad at me, or does he still like me or what's happening?

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