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Saturday, December 5, 2009

Open Question: in need some serious advice on a girl? and more...

 
 



Open Question: in need some serious advice on a girl? and more...

Open Question: in need some serious advice on a girl?

im 13 and im in all advanced classes, there is this girl on my team (of teachers) i really like her, she is one of the only girls i can really talk to, we like the same music, she is smart, i think shes cute, but i like here personality more, most guys only like her because shes hot, but i like her for who she is, but there is one problem, i dont know what these feelings about her mean, but she has a boyfriend and i really want her to know i like here, also i think she knows i like her, because i make her little things like custom pencils, i need help, i`ll see her on Monday!?!? and im not going to fight for her, i treat women as real people not as prizes also, she and her Boyfriend have been together since the end of 5th grade >.< so thats a problem, and i dont want to tell her i like here while she is in a relationship, i dont want to break them up, i want her to know i like her well, i sit next to her in Math, and we hold little conversations at the begining of class during th moring problems, and she normally laughs at what i say, and she and i both smile when we talk to one another

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Open Question: Do you think this was karma?

Well there was this girl that used to be my best friend in 8th grade and then me and her had problems and stopped being friends. After middle school I didnt see her for 2 years and then I transfered to her high school because I had to. So we saw each other again and I had totally forgotten about her and I guess she didnt because she was still talking bad about me! She kept saying I was a hoe and I was going to get pregnant at an early age and a bunch of stuff like that! I ignored it because she had always been a bitch (excuse the world) . But now she barely moved in with her dad and she got pregnant by her boyfriend of only 2 months! She moved out of her moms house because she would cuss at her mom and blame her for her dad leaving. So her mom just got fed up and let her go with her dad. So she barely turned 16 last month so that means she got pregnant at 15 ! Do you guys think this is karma? I dont wish her the worst, honestly I dont care .. But this has been stuck in my head for a while... I honestly think its karma... What do you think?

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Open Question: Why do i feel this way? How can i stop it?? ( please answer)?

So me and this guy are basically together. He told me that he was going to ask me out tomorrow, and that we are going to be official. We have had a problem before in the past, he liked me and this other girl at the same time. I messed up, he dated her, they broke up and now he is back to me He's proven to me that hes truely sorry and he tells me every day he made a mistake dating her. I belive him. And i really really like him so obviously i'm going to say yes, but I feel like if we officially become boyfriend girlfriend, a problem is going to come up really soon. Why do i feel like this? I feel like everything is great now, but once we date something wrong is going to happen thats going to hurt us

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Open Question: My boyfriend has expressed an interest in a threesome. Should I, or Shouldn't I?

My boyfriend has expressed that he has an interest in a threesome. He does not pressure me much about the issue (he stated that he's lived without it for 25 years, so it is no big deal) However, I cannot shake the feeling that it is something that he REALLY want to experience it. On one hand, I am curious about the whole thing, and I have heard that it could "take the edge off" of a relationship, allow couples to be more sexually open, and ultimately strengthen the relationship. However, on the other hand, I have great concerns and fears as well. I have also heard that almost ALL monogamous couples that engage in threesomes almost always separate or have great problems after wards. The "what ifs" are beginning to bother me....I am more than positive that he has never cheated on me, nor does he have a history of cheating on anyone else, but I fear that this threesome (which he's expressed that he only wants to happen ONCE) would change him. He would begin to enjoy his "new found freedom" from monogamy and begin stepping outside of our relationship behind my back, or only want to engage in threesome only sex. My greatest fear is that he may begin to take our relationship less seriously, viewing it merely as a fling, an open relationship, or a friends with benefits scenario. I fear that it would prevent us for getting even MORE serious, and also cause him to lose respect for me. What should I do? ALSO, Smart ass comments are not wanted NOR needed. I am simply looking for feedback from MATURE others! Thanks in Advance!

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Open Question: what do you think of this story? better as a book or a movie?

this story tells of a teenage girl (mia) who has gone through too much too fast. it starts in her adolescent years where she was an outcast in school. she would skip lunch everyday and sit at the outside benches by herself for fear of having no one to eat with. she's antisocial and only considers one other her friend yet they hold a competitive relationship. in the summer before high school, she begins to eat normally but notices weight gain. this marks the start of her troubles with eating disorders, sliding from bulimia to binge eating and back. she keeps this a secret, the first of many. she also deals with image problems and low self esteem but in her transition to high school, her facial features have matured womanly and model-like. in all, she turns into an attractive female at age 14. mia catches her young math teacher amazed by her but she ignores him. although gaining a few more friends, she remains in her mute stage, now spending her lunch time in the school library. she puts her focus in her classes and becomes a 4.0 student. she continues this into her sophomore year, being the high achieving student she is, the weight-obsessed freak she is, and the beauty (in the eyes of everyone else) she is. she becomes suicidal when pressed by the pressures of the above. she suddenly finds herself doing worse in her classes, struggling with weight gain and loss, and deeply ugly. she has episodes of mental breakdowns. then she manages to find some positivity by the end of the school year. she ends it with a 4.2 GPA and eases off about her looks. the summer before junior year, she begins talking to older men online out of boredom. she realizes she has never been in a relationship before so she attempts to see how she affects men. the precocious 16 year old charms men in their 20s in chats and later on, her webcam. this begins her numerous cybering sessions, many of them lasting into the early am. the men loved her and she the loved the attention. she was a genius in that her parents never detected any foul play from her. the summer ended on a sweet note for her. her junior year of high school was tough and she knew it. she does well in her classes, including 4 APs, but as time went on, her work ethic falters. her low self esteem came back as well when she begins binge eating at buffets. she finds herself loving food but hates gaining weight so she binges and starves and binges and starves. she keeps her thin body frame but struggles mentally. in a chatroom, 16 year old mia meets 24 year old john. not only were they involved online but this time, mia has find herself a boyfriend. living 30 minutes away, he oftentimes picks her up and the two engage in sex. her parents were clueless that their daughter was sneaking out at 2am and not really studying at the library on sundays. mia and john lost touch after 3 months. she then meets 28 year old ryan. sex ensues. all the while she still chats with older men online. mia sees how her life has changed. she no longer walks to the local dollar tree to buy school supplies but finds herself picking up multiple pregnancy tests instead. she sees no worth in life, between fcking aimlessly with older men and lying to her parents. she's never ugly but she thinks herself to be. she is self conscious and has low self esteem. she thinks that by eating, she gets fat and ugly. but she's genuinely pretty.

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Open Question: i dont know what guy to choose. please help?

long story short im going out with a totaly sweetheart but ..hes too nice?? and it doesnt help im pretty much still in love with my ex who is my idea of perfect and he gets me..and he still likes me and gets depressed when he sees my with my boyfriend. buuut now my best friend likes my ex too and doesnt know bout my problem... what should i do??

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Open Question: I stopped liking my boyfriend - what do I do?

I had a little crush on him and when everyone found out I did, he figured he should ask me out, which he did - VIA TEXT. And I said yes willingly at the time. It's been around 2 months and I've completely lost all my interest in him. He annoys me to no end by the simplest things. We hardly even talk. People always tell me "they can't even tell we're together" because he does not act like a real boyfriend. It's all very, very awkward with him. I can't stand it anymore. I want to do something about it before we get any "closer". And I'm positive he's in love with me. I don't feel the same way back. The problem is I'm afraid that if I break up with him everyone at my school will hate me.. which they probably will because everyone thinks of him as the "cute little boy". Also, I'm too scared to hurt his feelings. And I have no close friends that go to my school I can talk about my problem with. My friends outside of my school don't understand. I really don't know what to do and I'm stressing so much about this. Should I break up with him? If so, how? Or should I wait until he breaks up with me? P.S. Obviously, I'm a freshman in high school :P

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Open Question: i am a hairy girl teen..does body hair disgust guys?

i'm kind of hairy..i have hair basically everywhere but the places it concerns me most is my stomach and bootayyy. people think im pretty and guys like me...no one really notices my hair problems, it just makes me feel bad and prohibits me from having a boyfriend or doing things....you know what i mean =] guys out there does being hairy matter that much? oh im almost 17. also do you think i should wax stomach..and other areas?? will it grow back thinner? also ive been looking up hair inhibitors..creams and stuff to put on after shaving/waxing to make hair grow back less..has anyone hear of kalo and is it good? if there are any others you have heard of do tell! thanks everyone!!!!!

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Open Question: I have a problem with my cat? not kitten?

She is so nasty and will not do right at all. I brought this cant 2 years ago and she was fine for a year and then she started doing things like pissing in the hallway. Now she will piss in the kitchen, next to her litter, and in the bathroom but not in the toilet. I brought her a bed she pissed in it. I brought her that thing you scratch on and she pissed on it. So i throw them in the trash because im getting tired of her @ss. I want to kick her @ss. That is not the worst thing she is not old she is 5 years old and now she dodo's in the tub. she just started this crap and she does it next to her litter. her litter will be clean and she still does it. I want to get rid of her but the thing is my boyfriend for 7 years loves her. I never knew a man to love something so nasty. one day he went in the kitchen and the cat walked up to him while i was walking in the kitchen and he started to rub her and she had do do coming out of her @ss. I chased her in her litter box. She doesn't like me anymore neither and now it is worst because im pregnant. she hisses and tried to scratch me. I have to admit i tried to whip her@ss. She jumps on the counter and the table with her nasty do do self and tries to sleep in the bathroom sink. My question to everyone is what should i do to get rid of her without my boyfriend knowing? I ddon'twant her to let outside because she will come back. tired,pissed and might have to kill a cat. she was spayed when i got her and i didnt get her bladder checked

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Open Question: so i kinda have a problem not sure what it is it never happened after sex before.help?

So today i was with my boyfriend. We had sex and messed around for like an hour and a half. Well after he left i noticed my clit was like swollen more on the left side that the right but its weaird. and it really has never happened before any idea of what it could be? Will it just go away? So today i was with my boyfriend. We had sex and messed around for like an hour and a half. Well after he left i noticed my clit was like swollen more on the left side that the right but its weaird. and it really has never happened before any idea of what it could be? Will it just go away? - i didnt know how to respond to any answers but like we have been dating for ever, and he never cheated. And i have been checked within the last like two weeks because i was at the hospital and they couldnt find out what was wrong. They said i didnt have anything. Do you think it could just be from too much? we usually dont do it that long.

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Open Question: i have a major jealously problem with my boyfriend. :/?

okay...so ill just start from the beginning. a while back i met a guy through my best friend. when i met him, they liked eachother. i was trying to set them up. but things didnt really work out because my friend didnt wanna risk her friendship with him. a while later, he started liking me. we go out. a month after weve been going out...he asks my OTHER best friend for a picture of her in a bra..she sends it. then he asked her for one 'without' a bra. me and my ex best friend no longer speak, at all. but i took him back. months go by...by now eve been going out almost 4 months. i set up a fake AIM and pretend to be a pretty girl. lets just say, he took the bait. that got us fighting again, but...i took him back, again. now, he says i have jealousy problems. why? because he talks to my other best friend, the one he used to like..every single day. they talk all the time. lately, ive been getting really..really mad. i feel like i canr trust him with my best friends..but i also feel like i cant say anything because i would have never met him if it wasnt for her. but keep in mind, they DID used to like eachother. i've been with him a little over seven months now. i really care about him..but i worry..and i dont trust him that well. he said he would stop talking to her completely if i wanted him to, but he hasnt. i said talk to her less and he hasnt even done that. now to my questions... am i being a bad person? am i being to jealous? would you be mad too..? what should i do..? and don't say break up, it's not an option. i just dont know what to do...and i have no one to go to. please help. :| well, he's changed soo much..he really has. & like i said, breaking up isn't an option. & i guess i am|: anddd it's not that i want a boyfriend to have a boyfriend. i really do love him, a lot. i would rather find a way to fix it then end it:|

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Open Question: vaginal bleeding after sex?

i got a little problem. a few days ago i had some vaginal bleeding after sex. My doubt is, what could be the reasons for it?, my boyfriend have 4 piercing´s in his penis,this happened 2 times,the first time was just a little blood, but the second time i had more. i dont have any other reactions or simpthoms. thanks for your help. greetings.

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Open Question: My boyfriend kissed another girl...should I break up with him?

Iv'e known him for years. He's been my best friend, and I always trusted him. Well a few months ago, he confessed that he liked me, and I had a crush on him too. Anyways, about a week ago, we were talking on IM and he said he had to tell me something. He said not to be mad so I said whatever go ahead. That's when he said he kissed his neighbor. He was moving so i guess his EX neighbor. I asked him why and all he said was IDK. I asked him if he liked it and he said no. I asked him if it was a make-out session and he said no, just a peck.Then he said Im sorry im really sorry please forgive me etc...etc. I NEVER thought of him doing this. EVER. He's always been their for me, every break up I had, every problem, etc. But..should I break up with him? (I don't want to though..i want your opinion..please.)

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