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Open Question: In need of some advice please? 10 pts! :)? and more... Open Question: In need of some advice please? 10 pts! :)?So I am a senior in high school (18) and I have not had a boyfriend, which sucks. I don't know, I have been told I am good-looking, smart, and nice (although I am on the quiet side). I have been told the "you don't need a boyfriend"...blah, blah, blah by my friends, but they just don't get it (mainly because they have had like 5 boyfriends already). It's definitely not like I am looking for my soul mate here (I'm only 18!) like some of my friends have supposedly already found, but I just genuinely want a boyfriend to hang out with and just have fun and take some stress off my mind. *although come to think of it, my school is a huge problem as well. There are about 300 guys in my grade (HUGE school! lol) but they are all so similar. The popular guys want the popular "easy" ones, and even the not so popular ones want them too. It's really annoying, but I do NOT want to wait until college to have a boyfriend! And I have tried and put myself out there, in fact, about two months ago, I asked the guy I had liked for 2 years out, and he rejected me in a wuss-like manner (too long to explain) but it really hurt and made me feel hopeless. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks! :) Open Question: Is a joint gift acceptable?My boyfriend & I have been together for about a year and a half. Usually, when a birthday rolls around, I buy for my family and he buys for his family and we just sign the card from the two of us. Now that Christmas is around the corner, can we keep this routine? The gifts for my family will be tagged as From John & Jane. The problem with his family is that they don't put tags on the gifts and they're just handed over, so there's no real way of knowing they're joint gifts. His family has already asked what I want for Christmas, so I know I will be receiving. We will be going to his sister's house for Christmas dinner and I will definitely bring something to contribute to dinner. I will also be giving his mom a gift separate from my bf. What about his sister and her husband and their kids (some who are married themselves)? Would you expect to get a gift from both me and my bf? If it makes any difference, my bf & I are both in our early 30s. Open Question: perfect guy, so what am i waiting for? please help!!?In all of my relationships thus far, the guys have turned out to be liars, cheaters, and overall grade A douche-bags. In October, this guy that I have been pretty much in love with and I ended our long on and off relationship for good. I was pretty hurt, and I think I will always love him, but hes your average mainstream jock boy who doesn't care about anyone but himself, and treated me as such, so I've been pretty relieved to be done with him. Recently, another guy that I have a class with has shown a lot of interest in me. He has told me that he's very interested in me and likes me. He is unbelievably nice, funny, smart, adorable, athletic. His mom is the nicest lady I've ever met. All my girl friends melt over the thought of us together. He knows that my luck with boyfriends has not been the best, and he says he would never hurt me. He is the exact kind of guy that I always want to have. But for whatever reason, I feel slim to nothing as far as feelings for him when I am with him. I want more than anything to be "feeling it." But I find myself almost SEARCHING for flaws in him. The flaws I do find, are obviously completely ridiculous and would never really bother me. But I still do it. He makes many attempts to get my attention, whether its cutesy flirting at school and texts all night. I try not to lead him on, but sometimes it's a fail, and I know it's cruel. To make matters worse, I feel more attracted when I am not around him. When I think of him, I want him. But when we're together, it's not the same. So what should I do? If there really is nothing wrong with him, then I must be the only problem. I am afraid that my bad experiences with guys is screwing my relationships with ALL guys. Do I ease into the relationship, and learn to love him? Do I just need to grow up? Do I pass him up? I am so lost. PLEASE HELP!!!!!! Open Question: i want to get a rabbit please help?i have a problem i have a hamster (that i love by the way) but i want to get a rabbit ive never had one before i hear there a lot of work well the work isn't really a problem i just want to know what care they need also i live in a 2 bad apartment with no garden but the rabbit will have a large room to himself another problem is my boyfriend clams he will eat it if i get one but he said he didn't want a hamster and now he really likes the one we have i don't know what to do please help Open Question: How do I get my boyfriend to see it from my POV?My boyfriend and I have been dating for a year and a half And for that entire year he has had problems with two of my best guy friends They run in different crowds, and don't particularly like each other, but my guys friends are at least civil to my boyfriend when I'm around. My boyfriend hates that I hang around them. He thinks that they are a bad influence, but they have been my friends forever. Open Question: i have been feeling suicidal..?just life sucks right now. all my life, people have left me. my dad is a drug addict and an alchohaulic and I don't see him anymore. my aunt used to be really close to me, but my mom stopped letting her see me because she got all whacko on drugs, she got all close to my adopted cousion, and then died from an overdose. i have an extreme anxiety disorder of something happening to my mom, i call her 2-4 times everyday while i'm at school :S she was diagnosed with cancer and lymes disease when I was in 6th grade (9th grade now) and she's doing better, but im left with this anxiety problem. my best friend has been a total jackass and i thought she was someone who was actually here for me besides my mom.. but she has been ditching me for out other friend, she stole the guy that I liked, then broke up with him after a week and got back together with her bf that she dumoed just to go out with the kid I like for a week (she knew I have liked him since lat year) and she didn't give a ____ or say sorry until kole (her boyfriend and one of my other best friends made her) and now her new best friend is karina (the girl who she was ditching me for) just because we have been fighting lately and she gets "anoyed" because every little thing she doesn I apparently get mad at? which is bs. she never takes credit for her wrong actions. i always tell her that if I've ever upset her she can talk to me about it and i'll listen, but she never has aything to say to me that I do to her? and she was smoking weed because it "hurt so bad" for her to break up with kole for andrew (the guy that I liked). Ughh, it's a long story, and way worse then it sounds. We are friends and I act happy around her, but behind it all, im a wreck.i have been talking to kole and he sort of told her I was upset but she said that there was no point in us being best friends again or whatever because I'll keep getting mad at her? we never used to fight until these passed 6 monthes. she started changing and hanging out with karina (me, her, and karina were all 3 best friends untill all of this, but me and taylor were closer, and karina got rid of her other best friend about 3 monthes ago.) ugh! i've been thinking about cutting, or suicide, but the only thing holding me back is my mom, and im afraid of where i'll go when I die. I'm christain, but I have been having my doubts S: Also I dunno if I should cut because I don't want to face getting caught + the scars. Also, she was giving herself eraser burns for a while and I would get upset by it, and I don't want her to think im a poser... i'm 14 years old. Open Question: Got back together w/ ex but now he's reluctant to trust me, how do i prove to him i still love him? see detail?So last month my boyfriend and I took a break after having a few relationship problems. We remained friends and gradually worked up to being together again and it is deffinitly a good decision, because I missed him so much. He didn't want to breakup in the first place, but I knew it was the best thing to do at the time. Times passed and I know i want to make things work. We are a couple again, but I think he is going to think that I'm going to change my mind and break up with him again even though I 100% will not. How do I prove this to him or what do I say to make things better? Open Question: I need help! What to do!?Hi, i am 18 years old and me and my boyfriend are sexually active, There is a problem our condom broke and were scared i might be pregnant.. i am nervous i don't think i am ready for a baby.. But anyway i have a few questions 1. Today is the second day after we had sex and i feel tummy pains really bad! i don't no if it is because i am nervous and it's in my head or it's real. 2. Where is a good place to get a prego test? 3. How early can i take this test? i hope you guys can help because i am really nervous.. thanks for all the help if i get any help lol bye. Open Question: Any help from girls or guys would be greatly appreciated!?So I am a senior in high school (18) and I have not had a boyfriend, which sucks. I don't know, I have been told I am good-looking, smart, and nice (although I am on the quiet side). I have been told the "you don't need a boyfriend"...blah, blah, blah by my friends, but they just don't get it (mainly because they have had like 5 boyfriends already). It's definitely not like I am looking for my soul mate here (I'm only 18!) like some of my friends have supposedly already found, but I just genuinely want a boyfriend to hang out with and just have fun and take some stress off my mind. *although come to think of it, my school is a huge problem as well. There are about 300 guys in my grade (HUGE school! lol) but they are all so similar. The popular guys want the popular "easy" ones, and even the not so popular ones want them too. It's really annoying, but I do NOT want to wait until college to have a boyfriend! And I have tried and put myself out there, in fact, about two months ago, I asked the guy I had liked for 2 years out, and he rejected me in a wuss-like manner (too long to explain) but it really hurt and made me feel hopeless. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks! :) Open Question: I need some advice on this guy i like?There is this guy who i really like and he and i were texting and he told me that i was cute and stuff and then he told one of my friends that he liked me but he was waiting a little while to ask me out. I just found out that he has a new girl friend, and i dont know wat to do please help!! I am absolutly posotive that he has a girlfriend because i saw him ask her out and i saw them holding hands. I also have another problem i think that i might be in love with him. I feel diffrent with him that any other boyfriend i have had, and i think that i love him but what if he doesn't love me back? Open Question: Hi to whom ever it may concern, My name is Sean. For the past week i've been getting more and more depressed?Hi to whom ever it may concern, My name is Sean. For the past week i've been getting more and more depressed as each day goes on. I will wake up fine and as the day proggesses... I just become so unhappy. Let me explain how it all happened.. and hopefully you can help me sort my destroyed life. :( I've been with my girlfriend for the past 2 years. I've been somewhat happy... but every relationship has a slide at one point. I'm 17 years old and I recently passed my driving test, so the normal thing is to go driving a lot right? Well my friend also drives and he had this girl in his car, however I knew her from school.. but we never talked. Over the past week.. i'm not even SURE how... but we've become extremely close. I don't "love" this girl... but I feel she is getting in the way of my feelings for my girlfriend. I am madly in love with my girlfriend, however recently we had a bad arguement and I had no-one to talk to... and that girl was there. This is my first ever friend i've had as a girl for about a year now. So carrying on... i've passed my test and it's normal for a boy of 17 to drive around a lot? Well on the days I don't see my girlfriend, or on the nights where I have took her home, I go out with my friends. My girlfriend gets in STUPID moods and gets angry and moans about me being out. I was out driving until 5:30am the other night with just my friends.. it felt AMAZING. I was so happy. I was out tonight until 9 with my girlfriend... took her home and stayed out til 10 with my friends. I then came in and my girlfriend got in such a mood I stayed out... she went to bed without saying good night. So what's depressing me? The fact I can't TELL my girlfriend i've gotten close to this girl because I know it will cause a BIG arguement. The fact I lie about this girl texting me, and me talking to her etc. it's killing me inside. Also the fact I can't go out with my friends.. knowing my girlfriend will moan and get angry about me being out. It makes me so unhappy... I really do love this girl and i'd do anything for her... and I am actually prepared to stop talking to this girl and give up driving everyday just to make my girlfriend happy... however will I be happy? That's a good question.. and i'm not sure. All the lies about who's texting me, where I am etc.. it's all building up inside of me and it's destroying me. I can't take much more.. the fact I love this girl but I want to be happy.... What do I do? It's either I leave my gf.... which I won't... or ditch my friends and just be lonely without any friends.... i'm in such a confused state of mind... my life is a mess.... is it worth living anymore with all this going on? I feel so BAD for even talking to this girl.... I fele guilty... a bad boyfriend.. it's killing me. I can't take much more. I'm hoping someone who isn't biased to my girlfriend, or biased to my friends can help me. I need some real advice on what I can do. Thank you for taking the time to read my problems, Sean Open Question: This is bad, but I don't know what to do?So I am a senior in high school (18) and I have not had a boyfriend, which sucks. I don't know, I have been told I am good-looking, smart, and nice (although I am on the quiet side). I have been told the "you don't need a boyfriend"...blah, blah, blah by my friends, but they just don't get it (mainly because they have had like 5 boyfriends already). It's definitely not like I am looking for my soul mate here (I'm only 18!) like some of my friends have supposedly already found, but I just genuinely want a boyfriend to hang out with and just have fun and take some stress off my mind. *although come to think of it, my school is a huge problem as well. There are about 300 guys in my grade (HUGE school! lol) but they are all so similar. The popular guys want the popular "easy" ones, and even the not so popular ones want them too. It's really annoying, but I do NOT want to wait until college to have a boyfriend! And I have tried and put myself out there, in fact, about two months ago, I asked the guy I had liked for 2 years out, and he rejected me in a wuss-like manner (too long to explain) but it really hurt and made me feel hopeless. Any advice would be greatly appreciated! Thanks! :) More Recent Articles
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