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Open Question: I'm scared Im too tight for sex due to prior medical problems, help!? and more... Open Question: I'm scared Im too tight for sex due to prior medical problems, help!?Me and my boyfriend are going to have sex soon. We have tried 2 times before but it never worked, one was because I had a microperforate hymen (so the hole in my hymen was the size of a q-tip, I could never use tampons) but I got a hymenectomy and its fixed now (I can use tampons really easily, thank god). but we tried about 10 days after surgery and it was so painful I had to tell him to stop before he got all the way in (I wasn't healed yet and still had stitches, it was dumb to try but we got a little caught up in the moment) and I was bleeding really badly after. Now I am completely healed, my gyno told me everything looks great, and she got a speculum in with only minor discomfort. She told me if I tried to have sex it would hurt but it hurts for everyone. But my main issue is that I am scared I may be too tight for him to enter, I have only been able to use tampons for 1 cycle and while they went in with no problem at all I am nervous I am too tight. I can get 1 finger in easily but more than that is hard. I am scared that he wont fit or I'll have to tell him to stop from pain again and we both want it to work this time, we have been waiting months. So do you think it will work? I know it will hurt but it can't possibly hurt as bad as it did when we tried right after my surgery, I'm concerned about it not fitting, is there anything I can do to help the chances of it going in? Or do you think it shouldn't be a problem? Thank you so much Open Question: How do you distance yourself from a guy that's bad for you?Basically, ex-boyfriend wants to get back together. He's crazy and on parole, but so nice to me and says he loves me. I do not want to hurt his feelings too badly, since he is definitely a suicide risk right now. I really do like him and he is a good person that just went through some bad stuff, but I know this relationship would not be healthy for me, so I'm going to quit talking to him. The problem is how to gently get myself away from being his emotional crutch. Basically, how do you distance yourself from a guy without making him feel like sh**? Open Question: How can an Indian parents accept me?I met my current boyfriend while he was going to college. He, and the entirety of his immediate family are Indian, originating from Kerala, India. We have been together for 20 months, now, and I have yet to formally meet his parents. The problem is that they don't want to accept me, because I'm not Indian. How can I show them that I have only good intentions for their son and the utmost respect for them without forcing myself upon them? I don't want to put myself in a place where I'm not wanted and cause them family problems. I promised my boyfriend that I would never make him choose between his family and me, and we both hope it never comes to that. I am a "Don't ask, don't tell" topic in their household. Things are peaceful so long as I am not mentioned, but I'm afraid at some point our situation will come to a head. Sometimes I'm reminded of the biblical passage, Kings 3:16-28, The Judgment of Solomon. Our predicament threatens to split my boyfriend in two, forcing him to choose between his loyalties and his heart. I'm afraid of the day when I will have to give him up rather than see him hurt. Sometimes I want to cry because I have dreams of meeting his mother and getting the chance to show her that I'm a good person. Then I wake up and remember that, at this time, I don't even have that chance... It's all so disheartening for me I just want to be clear, as well. My loyalties remain with my boyfriend through thick and thin. I fell madly for his gentleness and would go to great lengths for him. I cherish him, and would never trade a single moment we've shared. I won't heed naysayers. Open Question: Can someone help me with a moral problem?A year ago, I went to California to visit my dad. He lives in a palace-like house with some rich whore whose 11 years older than him. I hate her, so I stole something from her. A week ago, my sister swiped it from me and gave it to her boyfriend for his birthday. They lost it, that gave me time to search for it. But instead, today, some dude found it for them. I went to visit my mom an hour ago, me and my sister got into an argument, and to make a long story seem short, my mom is "ashamed" with me, she's "disappointed" in me because now to her, I'm a thief. And she said one of the ten commandments to me: "Thou shalt not steal." I replied about my dad "Thou shalt not commit adultery." What should I do? Someone help me. Open Question: I need help finding a hat pretty please :)?Okay so me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost like 7 months and it is almost Christmas. Well, someone stole one of his FAVORITE hats. Problem is, I can't find it anywhere. This is the best way for me to explain: It is a New York Yankee flat brim hat. Green bill. Majority of the rest of hat is black. http://s457.photobucket.com/albums/qq295/i_heart_bengal/?action=view¤t=Picture1.png there's a link to some pictures i had of it. Yes, I know they are not very clear, however, they are all I have. So please please please please please help. :) It would be soo much appreciated! And also, I realize that there are other photos in the album. They are me and my "sister" ":) and well some tennis thing. Open Question: so i have a problem with my boyfriend and i need help...?ok sooo....his penis is about 3inches.....but 5 when erect. weve never had sex before, at first he was embarassed but i told him it was fine with mebut then he said "you do know its only 5inches when hard right?" i was like.."mmmyeah." and he was all sad and stuff... he measures on the bone...... but it kinda bothers me, only because i dont know if itll fit inside me.....but i am tight sooo... hmm? i mean to me, no, size does NOT matter.... NOTE:its about 4.5inches around Open Question: My boyfriends parents HATE me! please just take a couple minutes of your time! :(?Okay so me and my boyfriend have been together almost two years, and are completley in love :) The problem is his parents.... in the beginning they loved me, bought me presents, i went on vacations with them, and even would go hang out with his mom. About 6 months ago i was asked if i go to church by his little sister, i said no and from then on they have treated me like i am some kind of devil? I havent been able to attend church due to my mom being sick with MS and my family life isnt the best so its difficult and of course i dont want to go alone! I believe in god and i dont see why you have to go to church to show that you do! (recently though me and my mom have been going) The family makes themselves seem as if they are good christian people but if they were would they be blocking me out like this, arent you suppose to help others and always be nice? In these past months my number has been blocked from his phone many times, the mom is meeting up with old gf's of his trying to get them back together, spreading lies to everyone in my town that im atheist, will give him no money for anything that includes me, and im not allowed at there house. DO I DESERVE THIS! :(??? Everytime my boyfriend gets in an argument with them over this, they ground him, take away his truck, and make it impossible that we see eachother, so we just have let it go and dont worry about it! Anyway since its christmas i thought why not buy his mom dad and sister a gift just to be nice and bc it would be the right thing to do? Do yall think thats okay of me? Please help guys and tell me what yall think, what should i do?, should i continue trying to make them accept me? or do i just give up? PS- Im a senior in high school only have about 4 months of school left before we are both 18! We plan on getting engaged during college we really do love eachother and nothing,not even them can seperate us. HELP :)!! - ASHLEY I have set up to talk with his mom and it just kept getting pushed back bc we never could find a good time so now it just hasnt came up to talk. I texted her to meet and it was my idea Open Question: i am feeling very guilty and ashamed...........:(?hey guys i have an incident to share with and need help to solve my problem. me and my boyfriend sam have been in a happy relation from the past 8 months.we both love each other a lot..but a few days back there was a competition in our college where we had to make an article about a particular issue which was quite challenging.....i did it with a lot of hard work and was to present it to the Competition,if i got selected it would be in the college magazine..it was the first time i was up to some thing like this and was sure that i will get selected..i showed it to sam before submission..he said "don't give it,the judge is a fool he wont understand it"..i was angry because i thought people will love it and i screamed at him,i totally went out of my mind and told him hurting things like "you are too insensitive to understand it,others wont be like you,you envy me,u always dis courage me, go away..etc etc..........."i then went and submitted the article and the judge rejected it saying,he did not understand it..i was shocked i went out of college crying,and to my shock sam was right there on his bike,i walked away,he came to me and asked,"where r u going??you dint spot me??" "i said "i am sorry,i got rejected,i insulted you badly forgive me,I'll go away"to my shock he replied with some touching words like "i know u did not mean whatever to told me,i love u too much to let u go for such silly things,u tried some thing and that calls for celebration" and took me to party with our four other friends,i started to love and respect him more from that day..but i feel very guilty and ashamed of my actions..i have apologized few times after that incident also,he says its ok.....but i cannot forgive myself.........what do i do??help plz.......... Open Question: Can Sex mess upp peoples relationships?okay well i'm still not ready to have sex & neither is my boyfriend. We've been together for a year & two months now (October 24) & we always see couples that have had sex, start having problems in their relationship because it ends up "taking over" their relationship. Or they start fighting a lot more or even breaking up. But that's why we are kinda nervous about it (plus im not ready lol). We don't want that to happen to us, but there is always a 50/50% chance of it happening. But i want YOUR opinion on this: Does sex usually ruin peoples relationship? & Why? i just want to see what different people see on this. ha ha :) Open Question: When is too young to start a family?Me and my boyfriend have been serious now for about 2 years now and completely in love, both of our friends are urging us to get married and have a baby. hes talked about it casually and even picked a name for a baby girl; Layla. I can picture myself with him as husband and wife, and i love the idea of having his child. Problem is that were both 17. what do i do if i somewhat agree with our friends, and how do i tell him how i feel? Me and my boyfriend have been serious now for about 2 years now and completely in love, both of our friends are urging us to get married and have a baby. hes talked about it casually and even picked a name for a baby girl; Layla. I can picture myself with him as husband and wife, and i love the idea of having his child. Problem is that were both 17. what do i do if i somewhat agree with our friends, and how do i tell him how i feel? We both are working, none plan to join the military, and we want to live together off campus at the college we'll both be attending. We are both from families with parents that are old enoght to be our grandparents, and both of our parents got married around 22. Dads are a lawyer and doctor Moms are a teacher and a business owner we both come from a wealthy area in NY Open Question: What should I do about this girl?Well there is this girl in one of my classes, she is pretty, we don't talk to each other a lot, but I really like her, I just can not stop thinking about her but the problem is, she has a boyfriend, she is very popular and I'm nothing. What can I do to forget about her? Besides ignore her because she is in one of my classes and I saw her every day. More Recent Articles |
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