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Open Question: I'm in need of your opinions...Do you think i should wait till university to propose to the girl i love? and more... Open Question: I'm in need of your opinions...Do you think i should wait till university to propose to the girl i love?I'm soo fortunate to be dating the girl im soo madly in love with. I first met at her at a birthday party for a mutual friend when i was eleven. I remember being dared to push her face in the cake after we were done singing happy birthday, i also remember how mad she got when i did it. Later that week i was forced by my mom to go over to her house and apologize for being such a jerk. She excepted my apology and we started to hang out. We got along great and she instantly became my best friend( cliche huh?...i know).Three years later BANG!!...things changed. My feelings for her started to change. First year of high school i fessed up and told her that i had feelings for her and it turned out that she did too. HERE IS WHERE I NEED YOU HELP....We're now seniors and i'm starting to think of the futur. Our futur. we're both applying for the same universities so no problems there.but the thing is i don't want to be just her boyfriend anymore, I love her to death and i want to spend the rest of my life with her.I WANT TO MAKE HER MY WIFE. I was thinking of proposing to her at the end of our school year...do you all think i should?...or do you advise me to wait till or after university? Open Question: How to stop my male cats from peeing other than the litter box.?I have a lot of cats... And I moved out of state to live wih my boyfriend and his father in their house hoping that the house would soon end up in my boyfriends name. I brought my 8 cats with me and they never had s problem going anywhere but the litter box. There used to be cats living here, and now his father acquired 4 more. Now two of my three males are occasionally peeing in random parts of the house. Some times they spray, other times they just straight make puddles. Sometimes in the middle if the kitchen floor, and twice on my stove! Luckily they stopped going on the stove but my boyfriends father is insane. I clean the floors EVERY day with an ammonia solution and hard wood floor scrubber. ( we have no carpets) they seem to focus in the kitchen which Is in the room next to their litter boxes. His father says he can smell it, but neither of us ever can. He's threatening that if they ever pee again he's going to take any two he can grab and throw them outside. Which would drive me to do something radical. I've been even looking up apartments to stay at with them but no one will let me move in with 8 fur babies. Can anyone help or suggest anything? We keep the litter boxes clean and the house clean all the time. I just don't know what to do anymore. And it'd be hard for me to go anywhere since now I am states away from home... Please help :( Open Question: Me and my boyfriend almost broke up last night, help please!?Sorry its gonna be long. Okay, so for a couple of weeks I've just been feeling that he isn't happy with me. We've had two discussions before about it and we talked it out, and it was fine. But i felt it again passed few two days. Last night i said im not sure if i could do it anymore. Then we had a massive discussion and i said maybe we should go on a break, to see if he is truly happy with me. We haven't gone on a break. I physically couldn't do it. Also, we have a partial long-distance relationship. We got together when at school but now we go to different colleges and it takes me three buses to get to his house. We try and see each other every weekend but obviously sometimes we have commitments and cant. I tried to figure out why i was feeling like this, cause it didn't make sense. When were together its amazing, we have so much fun, we talk for hours, we cook together... it's really really nice and i never want to leave. Mainly because I don't know when i'll see him again. When were apart, and we don't speak for a couple of days, i start feeling like this. I based my feelings down to, that i need to learn when were not together, hes still going to love me. I told him this after we almost broke up. I've never had a relationship where its lasted this long. And i honestly don't want anyone else. He told me last night that he was upset. Even though its sorted now and we spoke on the phone for an hour after it all happened, and it was normal, i cant get over this guilt that I've ruined things. Hes scared it'll happen again. But i told him it wouldn't, i know what the problem was now and i'll sort it with myself. I feel so horrible for putting him through this 2/3 times now. But i don't want a life without him. I cried the whole way through our discussion, i can't believe i could be so selfish. Please help me, give me your thoughts and stuff. Thanks x Open Question: Can someone pleaseeeeeeeee help me ?My boyfriend of 1 year and a couple of months is really mean to me, he's very mean to me he constantly gets mad for small things like today he forgot to call me and I asked him "why didn't you call me, every morning you wake me up and today you didn't, please next time remember to call me". Than he blew up in my face and said"Wtf now your pissing me off you f****** make me mad" And than i got a little louder but I didn't curse like he did i said " listen i wasn't yelling at you if i wanted to yell i can but im not fighting with you so stop yelling please" and he said " oh your fucking dirty piece of s*** f**** you bye" and than he hung up but this isn't even the first time he's fought with me like this for 6 months he's called me every horriable hurtful name in the book, i cry everyday he's even made alot of scenes in my house that my family don't like him they tell me that im crazy i can get anyone i want and that im settling for less and even his sister once told me "my brothers stupid, he gets mad at you for no reason i always yell at him for that " and the other sister too yells at him for getting so angrey. Just recently we were at my friends house that i havent seen for a long time and she only remembers him faintly and he mad himself seem like a nice guy and than I was writing something for my friend on her myspace to HER ex boyfriend because he was saying something to her and she didn't know what to say and i came in and thought he would have understood and he said under his breath "f*** you, you piece of s****" and when i asked him why did you get so mad he said "because you f****** talk to guys" even though i showed him her ex bf which he knows who he is and im writing under her name as her so the ex doesnt know its me he still got mad. So my friend wont hold back from anyone she got loud with him and said whats your problem shes doing me a favor cause i needed help on what to say and he said " she's still talking to a guys idc if its your ex" and he was talking all his crap to her about everything and she said let her say something and i started to speak and than he spoke over me and i said let me speak please and he told me infront of my firned "stfu before i throw you out on your a**" and my friend goes "this is my house the one who will be thrown out on there a** is you" and he shut up and we talked and he was fine but every time i mention that im gunna buy him something or we have sex he's really nice it seems and i lost it to him...he's not even making an effort to get a good job or go back to school just something. Sometimes he even jokes with me bad that i cry he told me once "if you were in a line with all the girls in the world i wouldn't pick you" than he told me he was joking. This is when we first started going out he asked if my friend was a virgin and this was before we did anything and i said yes cause she was in flordia and he said "oh tell her to come down here and he winked and was smiling" and he said he was joking and i was crying so much and than just the other day he looked at an actress on tv and said when i have sex with you i think about her i was hurt im broken hearted i never felt so put down and when were around other girls that arent my friend and are his friends he talks to them and treats them so nice he makes them laugh but to me and my friends he has something mean to say about them. When we first went out in the 4 months he was soooo nice he treated me like a princess which i know everygirl needs to be treated like he used to cry for me back when we had arguments and he always tells me he's gunna change and he's sorry for evrything and he wont get mad anymore but less than 24 hours he usually does for something stupid. I know im in an emotionally abusive relationship. I love him he was once nice to me :' ( i fell in love with him he's the first one i loved i know he's the wrong guy to fall in love with but i did and i would love for him to change is he bipolar ? idk but i wish he was a better guy but i need help can someone tell me what i should do please ? thank you <3 Open Question: How can i get over this feeling about my Girlfriend Ex's?Me and my girlfriend have been dating for about 2 years, we have the greatest relationship ever. I am in-love with her and i know she is totally in love with me; we have never argued and everything is going like it should with two people in-love. However, i have a major problem with my thoughts for her past relationships, i am feeling like i should have been the only man she has ever known and that she should not have been with somebody else, i am stupidly jealous of her past, i don't know why and i can't control it. The biggest problem i am having was things she told me before we started dating. She said she cheated on her Ex-boyfriend with her First boyfriend because her Ex-boyfriend cheated on her, she did that to justify the actions of her ex-boyfriend cheating on her. Currently she and her first-boyfriend are still friends. That right there kills me every time it come ac cross my mind. For some reason i feel bad every-time i think about it. i don't know why. is this normal or i am just crazy. I Still love every much though. I still respect her and i don't think she will ever do anything like that to me, but i can't help my feelings. WHAT SHOULD I DO? Thanks guys!!!! so much relif. Another thing i do is to ask her more about her past relationship, and anything she says increase the jealousy in me. I guess i should stop asking her anything relating to her pst relationship. Somebody said its because i love her so much and i am sceared of being hurt. Thanks though. i love your answers keep it coming Open Question: Should I stay with my boyfriend?Me and my boyfriend are having problems and have done for a while. His best mate did something that has really affected him he is now a convicted pedophile. Anyway since all this came about my bf has been very off with me, first of all he was snapping my head off all the time and I understood because of everything that has gone on it is expected, that died down a bit, but our relationship is still rocky. He shows me no attention or affection, or even spends time with me anymore. He says its because his head is a mess, as people close to him were affected as well but I just dont know if that is the full picture. He is constantley on his phone, morning, noon and night texting other people but not communicating with me. He just doesnt seem to think there is anything wrong, I asked him if he was cheating and he couldnt believe I had asked such a thing and thought I was being selfish for caring about my own feelings. We are not having sex, and its just like living with my brother. I do everything for him, he is out of work at the moment due to a bad knee and awaiting surgery, so he lives with me and I work, and pay for almost everything. I even am starting to think that he is only there because it is convienent for him? What do you think? Should I try and work at it and give him the benefit of the doubt because of everything that has happened and his head is messed up, or is this just an excuse? More Recent Articles
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