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Open Question: Im friends with my ex-boyfriends wife. I need advise.? and more... Open Question: Im friends with my ex-boyfriends wife. I need advise.?Okay so here's the deal. I became friends with my ex's wife after they got married. We didn't hit if off to well at first but over time we forgave each other for the not so nice words. After I got to know her we have a lot in common . Here's the problem he doesnt like her talking to me. Why? Maybe cause im his ex? But I ran into him on time and he was all nice and smiling... I mean he made a u turn in the middle of the street when he saw me at a gas station downtown! Whats the deal with that? But he supposedly hates me? Should I stop being freinds with her? She keeps me as a secrect though. She wont tell him that she talks to me online. Even when he ask her she says no.. I feel like a dirty secrect..lol Open Question: Relationship Problem.. need advice?Okay so im guna try to shorten this up as much as Possible so someone might take the time to actually READ this. i met this guy Devin about a year ago. He's 26, im 20. he wanted to date back around when we first met, but i was in a relationship. well i broke up with the boyfriend back in june and me and devin have been seeing eachother a lot lately. im really starting to develop feelings for him, but he just got out of a serious relationship also. theres a lot of stuff going on in both of our lives right now, a lot of complications. but im so impaitient. i really just want to date him exclusively but i know neither of us have time right now for that. he has twin baby girls who are 3 months old. i work A LOT. so we get to se eachother like maybe twice a week. sometimes less. its starting to get bad tho, im not in love with him or anything, but i miss him so much when im not around him.. & i think about him constantly. i just need some advice on how to handle this situation. me wanting to be with him, but knowing theres no way it can work right now. it really gets me down sometimes because i feel like i should have took my chance with him when i had it back a year ago. if i would have he wouldnt have got someone else pregnate, and we might be with eachother exclusively right now. twin babies take up a lot of time, im sure you can imagine. not worried about the babies mother tho. she got pregnate after they had a one night stand.. her & devin cant stand eachother.. just btw. any advice would be appreciated tho. Open Question: what should i do about this girl?this girl is my best friend and we see each other everyday. im madly in love with her. i cant stop thinking about her. the problem is ; 1, she has a boyfriend and 2, she goes on about other boys which makes me really upset. she knows how i feel which doesnt make sense to me as if she was my friend she wouldnt do this. what should i do?????? Open Question: what does a guy think when he looks at other girls?i have a boyfriend who seems to have that problem. we'll go out and he'll check out other girls right in front of me!! and its disrespectful and im tired of it. i broke up with him yesterday, because i couldnt take it anymore. ive told him how i felt before and he still does it. what is he thinking when he stares at other girls?? and dont tell me its normal for a guy to check out other women because ive been in relationships where a guy doesnt do that. Open Question: What is the best thing to do in this kind of situation? Pls help...love?So im asking myself..am i still in love with him? I have this friend, we are working in the same company. We are always together, we eat and hung out together. He even pay me a visit at my place on our rest days. AGAIN, WE ARE JUST FRIENDS. Well, people thought that we a girl/boyfriend already because we are so sweet together! He always make me feel that I am special. My problem is, he has a boyfriend. I mean HE is a HE and He has a BOYFRIEND whom HE love very much! and he even introduced me to HIS BOYFRIEND and told that I am HIS MISTRESS. He said that while laughing. I am falling in love with him and I know its not right! I told him that I like him already and he told me that he also like me but he doesnt want to hurt me because the fact is, he is already committed to someone. Same sex! (ouch) I stayed away from him but it ddnt work. I still approach him and our normal sweetness came back until now! Im confused! I dont know what to do! huhu help me guys... I need good advices! pls pls pls Open Question: My clinically depressed boyfriend broke up with me. Need advice, please?When we met in spring he fell hopelessly in love with me. He was passionate and absolutely crazy about me. He told me how he was depressed until he met me and felt better. It was bad timing for me though because I was dating another guy at the time but I still fell for him, even though I know it was wrong, because the other guy I was dating had already booked a plane flight for me to go and spend the summer with him which I eventually did. He begged me not to go and see the bf I had at the time. I was stubborn and didn't listen. So, he became distant, stand-offish, emotionally withdrawn and minimally affectionate towards me. After I left he started seeing a therapist and revealed to me that he was diagnosed with clinical depression. When I finally came back from the trip a month later I dumped the other guy and told him I was finally single, but then I discovered I was pregnant. I told him about it. He was there for me all the time except he still did not show me affection and he seemed depressed. It seemed his was no longer passionate about me.. I had to terminate my pregnancy, eventually, due to medical reasons. About 2 months later, after I had recovered, he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend. He said he didnt not want me to think he was non-commital and he wanted to try and just experiment to see if we could work. At first, everything was okay and he seemed content with me.. but when I asked him if he still loved me like he did before and asked him why he had became stand-offish again last week, he told me he did not know how he felt, that he did not want a relationship anymore. I said I felt unloved. And he said he missed us being friends because he felt like we got along better outside of a relationship status. This confused me because he was the one who initated it two months ago. And back when he asked me if I wanted to be his gf, he said this: "I am not interested in the same things your other boyfriends were. I have no problem being in this situation though. As long as you don't expect me to be something I'm not. I only say that because my mind is filled with a million thoughts at this point in time.. very few, if any of them, are very romantic. I do not know what I want. But that is not in regards to you. It is highly unlikely that our relationship will end due to an interest in someone else from my side, it is almost improbable. So accept that I am not breaking up with you. I'm just saying our relationship may be... a bit on the back burner for now until I've figured some things out." I don't know what I'm supposed to think anymore. He said he loved me at least in some regard. Before his depression hit him he was crazy in love with me. Did he stop because I hurt him by going and seeing that other guy and ending up pregnant? Can anyone give some constructive advice please? Is this all due to his depression or not? He was begging me not to lose contact with him yesterday. He said that our connection, friendship, bond, whatever you name it, was important to him and he wanted us to just get along like we used to, that he just wants to talk to me. Sorry for the uber long text.... I'm just so heartbroken right now. But I guess I deserved it. Open Question: My clinically depressed bf broke up with me. Does he not love me anymore? Advice please?When we met in spring he fell hopelessly in love with me. He was passionate and absolutely crazy about me. He told me how he was depressed until he met me and felt better. It was bad timing for me though because I was dating another guy at the time but I still fell for him, even though I know it was wrong, because the other guy I was dating had already booked a plane flight for me to go and spend the summer with him which I eventually did. He begged me not to go and see the bf I had at the time. I was stubborn and didn't listen. So, he became distant, stand-offish, emotionally withdrawn and minimally affectionate towards me. After I left he started seeing a therapist and revealed to me that he was diagnosed with clinical depression. When I finally came back from the trip a month later I dumped the other guy and told him I was finally single, but then I discovered I was pregnant. I told him about it. He was there for me all the time except he still did not show me affection and he seemed depressed. It seemed his was no longer passionate about me.. I had to terminate my pregnancy, eventually, due to medical reasons. About 2 months later, after I had recovered, he asked me if I wanted to be his girlfriend. He said he didnt not want me to think he was non-commital and he wanted to try and just experiment to see if we could work. At first, everything was okay and he seemed content with me.. but when I asked him if he still loved me like he did before and asked him why he had became stand-offish again last week, he told me he did not know how he felt, that he did not want a relationship anymore. I said I felt unloved. And he said he missed us being friends because he felt like we got along better outside of a relationship status. This confused me because he was the one who initated it two months ago. And back when he asked me if I wanted to be his gf, he said this: "I am not interested in the same things your other boyfriends were. I have no problem being in this situation though. As long as you don't expect me to be something I'm not. I only say that because my mind is filled with a million thoughts at this point in time.. very few, if any of them, are very romantic. I do not know what I want. But that is not in regards to you. It is highly unlikely that our relationship will end due to an interest in someone else from my side, it is almost improbable. So accept that I am not breaking up with you. I'm just saying our relationship may be... a bit on the back burner for now until I've figured some things out." I don't know what I'm supposed to think anymore. He said he loved me at least in some regard. Before his depression hit him he was crazy in love with me. Did he stop because I hurt him by going and seeing that other guy and ending up pregnant? Can anyone give some constructive advice please? Is this all due to his depression or not? He was begging me not to lose contact with him yesterday. He said that our connection, friendship, bond, whatever you name it, was important to him and he wanted us to just get along like we used to, that he just wants to talk to me. Sorry for the uber long text.... I'm just so heartbroken right now. But I guess I deserved it. More Recent Articles
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