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Open Question: Im 17 he is 27, what shall I do? and more... Open Question: Im 17 he is 27, what shall I do?I'm a 17 year old guy (just turned), and I really really love this guy only problem is he is 27!!! Okay here is the story. Basically I'm bisexual and i've never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, Iv had crushes here n there but never dated anyone. So then I was hanging around with my mates one day and I meet this guy at this event he starts talking to me etc quite an interetsing guy but I wasn't really attracted to him. Later on my when we leave my mate tells me that guy liked me and he gave that guy my number. I was like 'oh no' - but didn't really mind. So later on he rings me and talks about general stuff. Next day we meet at the same event again, we keeping meeting at this event for about a week and random phone calls here n there. Then one day I remeber I was thinking about him all day and was looking forward to meeting him, I realised I was really attracted to him now. We meet again at the event and I realise how much I like him, when we left my friend so to me you couldn't stop smiling when u were with him u change so much when ur around him u really light up. Next time we meet at the cinema with this guy and his mates, then we got alone for a couple of mins (I deliberately weny back with him to his car, then i kissed him - he pushed me away) He said that he really liked me and said anyguy who been soooo lucky to be with me but because of the age gap he can't. Then later on in the week he rings me and asks me if i am upset I said I am and he said meet up so we did and then we talked I felt sooo much better so I tried kisiing him again, he pushed me off again, i was upset then he said okay one kiss so we kissed for quite long, I really enjoyed it (my first kiss). But he said that this was it and he is going to delete me of his phone and we can' talk because it isn't right. He has dleted me but I still have his number, I feel so depressed without him, shall I ring him? dont know what to do? I know this is wrong, but I like him sooooo much. and I am so sexually attracted to him, feel like losing my viriginity to him he turns me on a lot too. Would this be illegal cause even if we did have sex I wouldn't tell noone. WHAT SHALL I DO? Open Question: Social Anxiety, Stress, Depression?Okay so. I went to the doctors a few times in the past few months. They did a few blood tests. Nothing wrong. But I had this pain in my left side. They did nothing else. Went back a while ago and they asked me about my life. This was my answer. At the beginning of this last summer my mother was hospitalized, she almost died, she then broke up with her boyfriend. I was forced to move in with my dad (eek yuk) he had a fight with fiancee, over reacted and made me move in with my mom who is still living with her ex. I am not popular at school, I'm mostly anti-social. I feel empty and I could care less about anything any more. I'm fourteen, and have cut before. I have also smoked (still am) which is the only thing that helps. I feel like cutting is okay because I'm in total control, and I don't do it deep, one or two shallow cat scratch's here or there. Sometimes once a week sometimes once a month or never in general. I hate my math teacher, people piss me off easy, I go from angry about something stupid to not even caring or happy again. My grandmother is dying from double lung cancer. I'm called gay or homo or nasty. People say that my family lives in a dumpster and I'm trashy. I just don't really care anymore and I don't want to deal with councilors because I don't like talking or meeting new people. I feel like I have to help people, (the LOOZERS) of the school, and try to fix their problems. I'm not even sure. I don't even care. Any information that would help? Open Question: my ex boyfriend's mom is crazy.. help?My ex boyfriend's mom is in denial of her son's drug problem. He failed a drug test while on probation and she claims that the police framed him because she was home with her everyday and there is "no way he could have been using drugs in her house without her knowledge". She fails to realize that it apparently isn't that hard to sneak it past her. I have a son by him and he was in prison when my son was born and is supposed to be there the first 3 years of his life. and my ex's mom seems to think that i am just going to allow him to jump right into my sons life when he comes home which is not at all what I plan to do. I plan on getting supervised visits because he has been convicted of 4 felonies and i do not feel my son will be safe in his care. How am i supposed to explain to her that I cannot trust her son and i refuse to have a relationship with him when he gets out of prison? Because she seems to be under the impression that we are still together when in fact we were broken up months before he went to prison. Open Question: Question part3 Liar boyfriend has a wife! Should I call her tonight?I just found out that the guy I'm dating has a wife and two boys. Now he told me was single but I went on white pages .com and found his home address and number. I thought it was strange that his roomates had a problem with him having company over , Bull ! I called the number, she picked up and I hung up because I diddn't know what to do.I don't what her heart to break too but If I was her,I would want to know who Iam married too. Open Question: My mom trys to control who I date/like. I need some advice.?It's becoming extremely annoying and causing unnecessary fights. I'm only 16, but I should atleast be able to date/like who I chose. I refuse to talk to her about my love life anymore because if its not what she wants to hear she shuts me out. She told me yesterday I was no longer allowed to call anyone my 'boyfriend' because relationships always end terrible for me. I know they do, but what do you expect? I'm only sixteen. And if it was someone she liked, she would let me say their my boyfriend. My mom and I are to different people. We like different things. She's so hard headed she doesn't understand that. I try to take what she says in consideration, but I have feelings that I can't change. I know I always end up liking the wrong people, but that's my problem. Some day i'll learn. I just don't know what to tell her because she always shuts me out and won't let me speak. She's nice about it if its someone she likes, if not. It's horrible... Open Question: why is true love so hard to find? boyfriend problems?? please help :(?okay so im going out with this kid, but he never talks to me in school.. and barley ever on text or IM. His friend and i have been great friends since school started, and now all the sudden cause were dating, he doesnt want us hanging out as much. it just doesnt seem too fair to me, and we got into an argument because i was hanging out with this kid, and he said he didnt really like it, but i want a guy to be with, to hold hands and kiss, and he just never talks to me.. its not fair. I want mr. right, and a guy to treat me good for once, what to do? Open Question: Stupid Boys Keep Bothering Me! I hate middle-school!?I have some stupid boys in my classroom that are calling me ugly, and I want them to stop. This boy I've known since kindergarten has always been mean to me, and he even got me and my boyfriend broken up. I never had these problems until middle-school came along. It's hard, and I can't stop crying and I know it's stupid to be crying over a stupid boy calling me ugly out of all the people I've had to call me pretty, but I don't know if they're lying or not. Me and my best friend are really close but I can't talk to her because she thinks I'm one of the prettiest girls in the whole school, but I see all these little sluts with boyfriends and it's really getting to me I guess, considering I've only had 4 boyfriends. It makes me feel ugly, and the guy I really like stares at me and tried to talk to me like 4 times before and is always trying to get my attention but he's a real jerk and a bad boy and he gets in trouble 24/7 and I want to get with him and change him so bad, but I'm too shy I guess. But I've had like...6 people tell me that I'm ugly and that I'm a slut and I just wanna give up on everything and I feel like I wanna die sometimes because everyone calls me ugly but it's only been like 2 girls and the rest of them were boys that called me ugly. And I wish if this jerk liked me I want him to tell me and if he doesn't then I wish he would stop sending me the wrong signals. Every time I'm feeling good about myself somebody has to bring me down. I'm about to turn 12 but there's so much drama. And there has only bee like 4 boys I know that like me, but sometimes I only think it's my ex-boyfriend, but I don't want him to be the only one that likes me. And I never get asked out and there's only been like 2 boys to call me cute. And that's some cute guy I don't know and my crush I think, but he could be lying. I wish he'd just ask me out. And I don't think I look ugly when I look at myself in the mirror but I guess other people see me as ugly. I really don't know what to do! Open Question: Help! boy problems what should i do?Okay so ive been with my boyfriend for almost 9 months now and everything is going perfect.Ive never had a problem when it comes to girls trying to get with him cause he tells them that he has a girlfriend and to not talk to him anymore but for some reason i always fear the worst. i always think hes cheating on me, i always think he talks to girl behind my back, but i know deep down hes not. What can i do to not keep thinking these bad thoughts. Are we good for each other. Open Question: best friend/ boyfriend problem?There has been a lot of problems between my best friend and I recently. To make a long story short, In may I found that she wrote her first name with my boyfriend's last name in the back of her bio notebook (we're sophomores in college). I thought that was a tad weird, but didn't think much of it. She then told my boyfriend something that I did that she knows he wouldn't approve of me doing, and also in May I confided in her and told her that I had been bulimic since sophomore year of high school and she swore she would never tell, and her being my best friend, I believed her. Yesterday I found that that she told him that I have been throwing up. (In addition, during the 7 months that my boyfriend and I "took a break" he video chatted with my best friend all the time and they became really close) Also take note that my best friend has her OWN boyfriend who she has been going out with for 3 years (but she also told me 2 weeks ago that she has been very unhappy in her relationship) I am so hurt and confused and feel very betrayed. However, I can't help but feel some anger towards my boyfriend, I don't know. I would like others opinions about this! Thanks! Open Question: Should my boyfriend get a lawyer?back in april 2009, my bf received a $400 speeding ticket. as time passed, he forgot to pay it. last week, he received another speeding ticket, and the police said his driver license was suspended because he didn't pay the 1st ticket (april ticket). the police told him the 1st ticket now cost around $1,500 because he didn't pay it. now..he has four violations on his driving record. here are the 4 violations 1) april ticket for speeding 2) he did not pay the april ticket 3) december ticket for speeding 4) driving with a suspended license my bf decided to hire a lawyer, so this lawyer will help him by "begging" the judges to not put the four violations on his driving record, he thinks the lawyer might lower the cost of the tickets too. do you think so? hiring the lawyer will cost him $1,500. by the way, all the tickets might cost him $2,500. he thinks it is cheaper to hire the lawyer if the lawyer wins the case. here is my problem...what if the lawyer loses the case? so he will be losing $1,500 AND $2,500. my bf seems so confident that the lawyer will win the case, which annoys me so much. i don't even trust lawyers!! do you think it's worth it to hire a lawyer? i mean, what if the lawyer loses the case, and he ends up losing a lot of money.. so confused. 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