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Open Question: if she likes me why hasn't she been affectionate with me considering she is an affectionate person? and more... Open Question: if she likes me why hasn't she been affectionate with me considering she is an affectionate person?-tells me that I should know that she adores me and loves spending time with me -emails me all day daily -she knows I like her - tells me her boyfriend is jealous of me and only ever speaks bad about him around me - tells me the more time she spends with me the more she wants to move on to the next step in her life (leave her boyfriend) - tells me she is only happy when she is having fun with me and that its the only time when she forgets her problems -tells me she loves spending time with me - wants to move in with me -i have another wealthy lesbian friend overseas and has offered her to come with me to meet her and try the whole (3 girls together) she told me it's a definite she has decided to come and try -says she wants kids and asked if I would ever have kids in my life just after we were talking about being with 2 girls -tells me she even enjoyed regular grocery shopping with me and needs me to hold her hand - tells her ex about all the fun things we have been doing to rub it in -she talks about me heaps to her other friends and they all want to meet me and they invite me everywhere but they have never met me Open Question: if she likes me why isn't she affectionate with me when she is an affectionate person?-tells me that I should know that she adores me and loves spending time with me -emails me all day daily -she knows I like her - tells me her boyfriend is jealous of me and only ever speaks bad about him around me - tells me the more time she spends with me the more she wants to move on to the next step in her life (leave her boyfriend) - tells me she is only happy when she is having fun with me and that its the only time when she forgets her problems -tells me she loves spending time with me - wants to move in with me -i have another wealthy lesbian friend overseas and has offered her to come with me to meet her and try the whole (3 girls together) she told me it's a definite she has decided to come and try -says she wants kids and asked if I would ever have kids in my life just after we were talking about being with 2 girls -tells me she even enjoyed regular grocery shopping with me and needs me to hold her hand - tells her ex about all the fun things we have been doing to rub it in -she talks about me heaps to her other friends and they all want to meet me and they invite me everywhere but they have never met me Open Question: Is it possible that I have a crush?I think I have a crush on my boyfriend. Its really stupid because we have been together for 5 weeks now and we've had great mind blowing sex(Im not shy in the bedroom) but lately Im just so shy around him. Like if Im getting ready for work, I feel shy and girly like Im a school girl. Its really odd. What the hell is my problem. Open Question: There is really only one boy who i go to with EVERYTHING, and hes not my boy friend, is this wrong ?we only talk over internet, text but a lot. Not much at school, but say hi, how u going. Like 130 txt messages within 5 days. Hes not my boyfriend, nor do i want him to b. The problem is me and my boyfriend are super close, so why is it that i lurve talking to this boy so much, and am able to forgive him for anything. He makes me happy, and right now im sore, and extremely tired and all i want is to talk to him, no one else ? even though i have plenty of others, who im close with ? Open Question: Question about boyfriend's parents...too religious?I love my boyfriend, and I like his parents a lot. They're very nice to me. However, they're also extremely religious (church every Sunday, Bible Study twice a week, etc etc). I don't usually have a problem with that at all--I live under the policy "to each her own". But that's just it--my own! I'm NOT religious, at all. I'm not Atheist, either (I'm a unitarian universalist, and I have my own beliefs of God and stuff). And I definitely don't impose my views on others. However, my boyfriend's parents, when we talk to them (because they're very intelligent and have useful advice for us, we like to talk to them) they try to impose their views on me. I find it very rude, and I get very uncomfortable, because A. I don't know how or if I should tell them I don't feel comfortable with this, and I will never be religious and B. It goes against everything I stand for, which is: Don't impose your views--especially religious ones!--on others. Example of behavior: I once shared with them a very interested show I'd seen on Discovery on the creation of the earth...it mostly revolved around the Big Bang theory, evolution, the extinction of the dinosaurs, etc. I'm a big Discovery network freak, and I thought they might be interested. I never thought there was even a religious aspect to this show. Immediately when I brought up the death of the dinosaurs being related to a large asteroid, my boyfriend's step father cuts me off (which he gets upset if I do) and tells me, "I don't necessarily believe that(...) God created the earth(...) flood killed dinosaurs..." So I brought up other facts as to why I thought the show might be true, simply because I didn't want to look like a retard, and he says: "They have proof man and dinosaurs walked together...they have found fossils from the same age...museum exhibits prove it..." blah blah blah. WTF? Then, I left the room, after feeling furious for being not only cut off and interrupted completely, but for also being made to look stupid, I hear my bf's parents discussing about how I'm "confused and mislead" and "It's sad that I'm being tricked into believing this" and "I should be Christian, not ignorant" blah blah blah again. ?!?!?! I'm SO offended by this, I can't even express it in words. NEVER would I have called them ignorant for their beliefs, and if anything, THEIR beliefs are the sketchy ones. I mean, come on, a BOOK that has been translated a million times from the original, which was put together years after Jesus' death by the ROMANS, who decided what books went into it and what ones didn't? MINE has scientific fact to it. >.< That's even beside the point, though. The point is, I'm offended, and I don't know how to tell them I don't believe in Christianity, I won't ever believe in it, and I don't like when people try to impose their views on me and then call me ignorant for my own beliefs. His mom even tried to convince me when I was telling her interesting facts about Judaism that the Jews HATE Christians, and that Jews called Christians "ignorant" of God (but guess what they just ffing called ME?), etc. but when did you EVER see the Jews murdering Christians...? Never... So, anyway, how do I talk to them? I've only been dating my boyfriend for a year and 3 months. I don't want to destroy my relationship with them, and I don't want to offend the like they did to me. They absolutely crushed me--I went home crying that night. And, amongst everything else, they're making me turn away from religion (especially X-ians) even more. I already don't like religion because every religion I've found doesn't match up with my own personal beliefs--and not only have I been mistreated by Christians but my whole family has. So how do I tell them this? SHOULD I tell them? What are the odds it'll ruin my relationship with them? What should I say? :( I need advice. I want to continue chatting with my bf's parents, but at this rate, I'm going to have to cut off communication entirely except when necessary, which I don't want at all. Thanks for any advice you can give me. Shellie (Also, WHERE do Christians get these silly ideas like humans were alive when dinosaurs were? That a big FLOOD killed everyone BUT one guy and his family and 2 of each animal, and somehow they still managed to get enough to eat (without killing the animals) to survive and repopulate? I don't get it. I want some of the methamphetamine they're taking. I do live in Spokane, the meth capital of the USA...>.< Open Question: I don't know what to do?I'm 17 living with my sister and her boyfriend.it was either move in with them and get my own room or stay at my moms in a nasty (disgusting) old basement.I have always had problems with my sisters boyfriend and have tried nearly everything to like him but he disgusts me in every single way and he gets on my nerves by saying stupid little things to me to tick me off and he knows what he is doing but he doesn't care. Is he trying to get rid of me? or is he just a complete ass? Not only that but he gropes my sister rite in frost of me all the time making me leave the room and then they always ask why i am in my room all the time.I caught them the other day having sex at 4pm in the afternoon with there door wide open so i confronted them later on and all they did was laugh,kissed and then he said "its my house i can do what i want,i pay the bills (hardly)" Am i crazy or is this not rite? Then he has the nerve to ask and borrow things from me to later on find out he never gives anything back to me,i mean when or if i borrow things i give it back when i am done not throw it on the floor to have me walk across upon it later to find out that its either ruined or broken! And then when everyone (happened more than once) is around he asks me rite in front of EVERYONE why do i hate him so much,i never said anything to him about hating him or anything else,i usually just ignore him if he does something to tick me off so if he is asking me that he must know he is getting to me and trying to turn it around back at me making me look like the bad person! And then on top of everything when i or if even i walk into the same room as him (he is so lazy) he constantly asks me to get things for him like i am his slave or something. Now you understand why i hate him so much.I know it prolly ain't the best thing for me to be living there but i just cannot go back to that basement (you wouldn't even know). Open Question: How do I get out of this lease?! Abusive/Scary roommate?I recently signed a lease with someone I *thought* I knew very well. However, he has turned out to be the roommate from hell. I am willing to put up with minor annoyances, but he has no concept of sharing space and has totally taken over the apartment. He will not live like a normal person or do anything normally. Every little problem he has, he turns into my problem, and will completely stomp all over my rights as a roommate to make himself comfortable. For instance, he decided that he could not keep his three computers in his bedroom because they were too noisy. So his solution is to take over our only closet to run his computers out of. This also means drilling giant holes through the wall for the cables to run through. Then he decided that he couldn't fit the monitor in his room. This was a "problem" because he needs to jerk off every day. So decided he was going to put up a wall in the living room to build himself a private jerk-off area. THE NERVE! To top it off, he wont get over his open crush on me and is becoming totally weird and passive aggressive. Every time I make plans with my boyfriend, he invents some reason he needs to meet face-to-face, and then gets totally pissed and throws a temper tantrum if I don't cancel my plans. He also keeps touching me and putting his hand on my shoulder even though I have told him I don't like it. I don't want to live with this person anymore, but there's no way I am going to be able to find anyone else willing to live with this asshole. Do I have any legal grounds to break the lease if my roommate is making me feel extremely uncomfortable? Open Question: My boyfriend talks to his attractive female friend all the time?Ughh. I've been dating this guy for over a year, but for the past few months we've been having big problems. He's known this one girl for over two years and they used to be super flirty and like best friends. They've grown apart since then but they still talk everyday over e-mail! Most of the time it goes on for hours. I tried cofronting her about it and told her to chill out but it was useless. Then I tried asking my bf if he could talk to her less because it makes me uneasy (I still think he likes her. She's super flirty and he even has pictures of her saved!) and he refused. What should I do? It's been months since it started making me uncomfortable and he doesn't care. He still talks to her all the time. He refuses to work things out or compromise, so in a way it's like he prefers her to me. Help?! More Recent Articles |
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