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Open Question: I wonder if my boyfriend appreciates me and all I do? and more... Open Question: I wonder if my boyfriend appreciates me and all I do?Hi. I am going to say a few things about myself and I am not trying to flatter myself, am just explaining something. I am an 18 year old girl with a wonderful, loving boyfriend, but I don't know if he appreciates everyhitng about me. SO many guys would love for me to be their girlfriend. So many guys think I am gorgeous. I am also in the process of becomming a petite model for Macy's, by the way. Also, I have been 100% loyal to my boyfriend. Never strayed away from him. I love him passionately every time we are together, which is every day and night... I give him all my attention... I listen to all his problems and provide an understanding, caring environment for him, inside of me. I also give him long, relaxing massages very often, buy him expensive beautiful gifts, take him to dinner at fancy restaurants, cook for him, etc. I am also very sucessful at my work, I am hardworking and make a lot of money at my job because I hustle for long hard hours at it... and am attending a college and will become even more successful. MY BOYFRIEND has alll this! HOWEVER he keeps reminding me of my past every time he gets upset. I feel like he doesn't spend enough money on me either. Just because I had a handful or two of men in my past when I was a young YOUNGGGG teen who was veryyy ignorant...!!! SO, what do you think, do I deserve more recognition or what? Open Question: Group Problem: Member of group?(This is actually a member of the PFLAG Group I'm an assistant of, I'm letting him use my account, Thanks! Also be nice, Humble Jack, Tara J, Jack, Zellparis don't bother commenting) So I'm a 17 year old guy in 12th grade and I'd like to get a boyfriend but there isn't any GSA in my school or any LGBT groups. I don't know who's gay/bi and I'm kinda timid to go around asking guys that. What should I do? Open Question: Am I in love or not? I'm in need of your Opinion pleaaaaaase.?Its my ex boyfriend & I KNOW already that I sound like every other damn person on this thing. Read this story though please & tell me what youu think. I know its hella long but whatever. It's really embarrassing because I'm usually not like this about boys. I dated him for a while last year & the whole time, I planned on cheating on him to be honest. I know i'm crazy but its because I just wanted to keep him around still & be single like my girlfriends too. i don't get why. I promise i'm not evil, I just have a lame lame commitment problem. I wanted him to commit but at the same time go out & be single. I think more like boys then girls in a way. I didn't do it to be mean, its just really hard for me. He always told me he loved me so much all the time & all these things and I never said it back once because i didn't think i did. Then he started giving up on everything and thats when i told him I loved him without thinking & i don't know why i said it because i didn't mean it. I really did care about him though, like more than any other boy, & he fit all my requirements. I was 15 though & I was known to be a player. Not a slut, I'm a classy girl, I just don't let boys tie me down. Then out of nowhere HE broke up with me before our junior year started & its the first & only time a boy has ever broken up with me. He said he didn't ever want to be considered friends or brother & sister & how he still loved me but we needed both time. I don't even know though. but it killed me. I felt so alone without him. He's the only boy i said i love you to. & i was DEVESTATED. I don't know if I really love him or not. I still i think about him, he's totally hot & has an attractive personality, & we have the same group of friends so we always talk still. After we broke up he had sex with a friend of mine. Of course I got rid of her & her reputation was ruined. I was mean to him for a while but I also understand him for it. He totally treats her like a **** & ruined her rep. & they don't talk at all. But he's never been like that to me. He's disrespectful to all of his ex's except for me, & he's so sweet still and has never been mean. We get along way well still but there's a weird feeling like something's missing when we're just talking at a party or something. When he starts to talk to me all the time, I feel like I don't really love him. But whenever I don't see him for a while i miss him & its SO crazy. Am i in love? Whats your opinion pleassssse i'm dying to know. Open Question: Im 17 he is 27, what shall I do?I'm a 17 year old guy (just turned), and I really really love this guy only problem is he is 27!!! Okay here is the story. Basically I'm bisexual and i've never had a girlfriend or boyfriend, Iv had crushes here n there but never dated anyone. So then I was hanging around with my mates one day and I meet this guy at this event he starts talking to me etc quite an interetsing guy but I wasn't really attracted to him. Later on my when we leave my mate tells me that guy liked me and he gave that guy my number. I was like 'oh no' - but didn't really mind. So later on he rings me and talks about general stuff. Next day we meet at the same event again, we keeping meeting at this event for about a week and random phone calls here n there. Then one day I remeber I was thinking about him all day and was looking forward to meeting him, I realised I was really attracted to him now. We meet again at the event and I realise how much I like him, when we left my friend so to me you couldn't stop smiling when u were with him u change so much when ur around him u really light up. Next time we meet at the cinema with this guy and his mates, then we got alone for a couple of mins (I deliberately weny back with him to his car, then i kissed him - he pushed me away) He said that he really liked me and said anyguy who been soooo lucky to be with me but because of the age gap he can't. Then later on in the week he rings me and asks me if i am upset I said I am and he said meet up so we did and then we talked I felt sooo much better so I tried kisiing him again, he pushed me off again, i was upset then he said okay one kiss so we kissed for quite long, I really enjoyed it (my first kiss). But he said that this was it and he is going to delete me of his phone and we can' talk because it isn't right. He has dleted me but I still have his number, I feel so depressed without him, shall I ring him? dont know what to do? I know this is wrong, but I like him sooooo much. and I am so sexually attracted to him, feel like losing my viriginity to him he turns me on a lot too. Would this be illegal cause even if we did have sex I wouldn't tell noone. WHAT SHALL I DO? Open Question: What should I do about this?ok so i've got a lil bit of a problem ... and it would be good if you guys don't judge me cause of this. I've got a little crush on my boyfriends older brother. It's weird because I've always found him good looking but never thought anything like I'm thinking now!!! The worst part is that my boyfriend and his brother are really close. I love my boyfriend, but we have been having problems lately and i have been doubting my feelings for him for a while. His brother is 8 years older than me. Anyone got any advice for me??? I feel like such a bad person for this!!! Open Question: do you think that fat(not obese) girls are ugly and thats why they dont get boyfriend?welll................am a fat one,,,,...am very funny ,just like Oprah...in my case,i have too many options[guys]open for me....so its not my problem but many fat girls are obsessed with this question...and they are jealous of me....Booooooooooooo![[[sorry if you are 1 of them :P) ..i always dress up like punks ..i love to be noticed,[in good terms] though i am doing my BSc in Computer Science& Engineering[i added cuz max ppl think- nerds cant be punks...thats false for me...hehehehhe :PPPP] fat girls keep on complaining that they hardly get boyfriends ...i dont know that why fat girls cant get bfs? i think some men prefer skinny girls !.it doesnt even matter whether they are ugly..dnt know why?........ lets see what do you think abt Fat but not Obese girls! Open Question: comments on this rough copy of an opening to a book?Its quite basic and rough at the moment. Also, at first i started writing about one thing and then like developed it, so i think the 2nd and maybe 3rd paragraph might not fit properly, or makes it slightly complicated. But yeah, just any opinions on the whole story line? kinda thingggg or anythng :) So hi, I'm Summer. I'd say it was nice to meet you, but it won't be for you. I'm not exactly the nicest of people, but I can't help it. I try, I honestly do. I try to be normal. I try to be perfect. But I'm not perfect. Sorry to disappoint. I'm the average 16 year old girl, but I don't feel like it. My life is simple-yet-strangely complicated. I'd love to be like one of my friends, the people I look up to- or maybe down to- each day and think 'wow, they're beautiful. Perfect.' Everything would be so much easier. I have a problem and it's dragging me down- or up? I want to stop it but something is blocking the door-or-holding the key. Everyday I beg for some sort of miracle to happen, unlikely yes. I dream about travelling back in time and finding that point which changed me forever. If only it was that simple. But now I'm stuck in this nightmare which I can't wake up from. The nightmare which gets worse each time I think about what could have been. The nightmare which leads to others laughing and saying: "It's your own fault". The nightmare which once started as: a dream, a wish, a want. And then that dream, turned to a reality, and caused this nightmare. I'm anorexic. You may now be thinking 'No, you wouldn't admit it if you were anorexic, you wouldn't put it on show like a trophy!' No, no you wouldn't. But I am. I don't want to be anorexic. I'm not like the other girls, the ones who still aren't quite satisfied with their body, the ones who still want to be thinner. They won't admit their problem. But I've realised the reality of myself. Perhaps from the help of everyone else I know. The way everyone stares and then whisper to each other about me. I'm not stupid. Yes, it's my fault. But I can't help it now, can I? I've tried everything to gain weight but nothing has worked. My body won't let me swallow food properly. It won't allow me to eat more than a mouth fall each day. This is all down to that wretched and disgusting body. But that's in the past now. What? Yes, I don't exist. I'm not like you. I no longer belong here, but I'm hanging around for a while. Why? To see what they thought, of course. To watch their faces, read their minds. I want to know everything. How everyone felt. And then, maybe, I can go for real. I'm selfish, I always was. I'm dead. Yes, dead. It happened 2 weeks ago. That stupid disorder finally got me. 'Beeeeeep' that's all I heard. I observed my parents tears drowning their faces. My boy friend's heart plummet to the floor. It's my fault- everything. How could I be so stupid? I never wanted this. At first maybe, but not after I realised my fate. All the work I put into regaining my strength didn't work. Worst of all, I promised him. My boyfriend: Oliver. I told him I would get better soon, that everything would finally be over and we'd be normal again. Now look at what's happened. I loved him, more than anything, more than myself. We had been together for almost a year. Doesn't seem like long, does it? But to us, it was. We were perfect. No one ever got in the way of our relationship, simply because we were both full of forgiveness. We couldn't let any little thing break us. But I broke him. And that's the hardest part of this role I play. The heart-breaking days I spend watching over him, wishing he was here. His tears each night, they are for me. I caused them. The self harming, why does he do it? Because he followed my mistakes, that's why. I used to try and solve my problems by self harming, no good. He would see the scars and yell at me for being so ridiculous. He was right, but I never admitted it. I guess I was pretty messed up- that explains why I'm here. But I can't stand to see him go through the pain. I turned him into this. I hope the tears I cry reach him, just so he knows that I'm okay now. So he stops. He doesn't deserve this. What have I done? Open Question: Am I wrong for feeling this way?to begin with, I moved in with my boyfriend a few months ago. Ive never lived with a boyfriend before. Hes been my first everything. Im 22 and hes 29. He will be graduating college next semester with a degree in Computer Systems and Graphic design. ill be graduating in a year with a degree in IT. Two big nerds. So....since the time we have been together he has never worked. He budgets his money per semester and lives by that so he really doesnt have to work and can focus on school. Ive worked everyday of my life since i was 17. Back in the spring i was flat broke. Im mean FLAT. I couldn't keep my phone on or my lights on so he used to get me food and after we got serious I stayed over his house almost everyday. It started as just staying on weekends and then the last month of my least he just let me stay with him. He didnt ask me for a penny but when i could i bought food and would cook for him and get small things for him. Well now, we live together and here is the problem. Last night i told him that I wanted him to start contributing toward food. He has bought food MAYBE 3 times since i moved in during August. Ive always been more than eager to buy food and things for him to show him that i appreciated how he looked out for me when i could barely care for myself. BUT at this point i feel like he is taking advantage of it. Yes im still working and in school and off WAY BETTER than i was during the spring. I have a nice nest egg put away just in case. I understand that hes not working BUT at this point i feel like our "household" responsibilities need to be balanced out. When split rent and utilities down the middle. He pays for internet himself because hes always playing Halo and i don't use it much. The cable is free. He got upset and said that I make it sound like he is using me. And then he brought up how he helped me a few months ago, and said if anyone was being used, i was using him but he never complained to me about it. I told him that i dont expect him to bring home 100 bucks worth of groceries every week but if i say we need milk and bread WHY is it so unreasonable? I know that he cant afford to bring home groceries the way i do, or get nice things for me like i do for him, BUT ive always believed that in relationships, if you cant contribute as much... you still do AS MUCH or give AS MUCH as you can to contribute more toward the other person or the situation you share. Then he told me that if i wanted i could work more and then his lack of contribution wouldnt be as big of a problem for us...at that point i hit the roof. I felt like he was out of line for saying that. I told him that all i ask is for him to contribute more but he acts like im being unreasonable. Then i got even angrier and told him that as the "head" of the house i shouldnt have to ASK him to do anything. He should take the initiative to. He should feel compelled to do things to play his role regardless of our situation, being in school and what not. Am i wrong for feeling that way? Regardless, ive always tried to focus on keeping the house clean, keeping his cloths washed and pressed and keeping his belly full with a hot meal. Treating him the way my granny did my granddaddy. During our " heated discussion" he told me that im too manly and im not feminine enough. I honestly think that if a man plays his role CORRECTLY...the woman can be feminine. How can i reason with him? Cause even after our "heated discussion" im still upset and i feel like no resolution was met. He said its not worth breaking up over money but I almost would rather live on my own till he gets it together so we can compliment each other, not be dependent on each other. Open Question: Boys are annoying....but i need help! ?Okay so i got myself into a problem....kinda. For the past 7 months now i have been dating my boyfriend. Things are great and i truly love him. He is very far though, he lives in England and is studying at Oxford. Though this doesn't stop us from talking at all. My day tends to be this, Wake up, School, Get home, Talk to bf, Sleep(2am), Wake up and start again. So yes we do talk. Anyways, a few weeks ago my cousin told me about her friend, we will call him Bob. Bob is very sweet and kind, my cousin told me to add him and start talking to him due to the fact that he saw a picture of me and told my cousin he thought i was beautiful. Rather random indeed....but back to the point. I added him just as she told me to and started to talk to him and get to know him more. His little crush turned into this huge epic crush and now he calls me "Mahal" (its Tagalog[Filipino] for "love") and he is always telling me that he has a lot of strong feelings for me, such as love. He is very sweet and i have started to notice that i have also developed feelings for him. This is bad because i already have a bf and now i am confused as to what i am going to do about my feelings for Bob. Also to make it worse, i think my cousin likes Bob, but she wont admit it. She always gets mad when he talks about me to her, or if we are talking. She yells at him all the time because he likes me and she is telling me a whole bunch of bad things about him to try to get me not to like him or talk to him. So this has become, shit i have a bf and now am crushing on this guy. To, shit i have a bf and am not crushing on this guy that my cousin may or may not like. I need help. What do you think i should do about this? Anything would help....Please dont yell at me for liking a guy when i have a bf...yes i know its bad. Help...dont be an a$$. Open Question: Seventeen. In love with this boy or not?Its my ex boyfriend & I KNOW already that I sound like every other damn person on this thing. Read this story though please & tell me what youu think. I know its hella long but whatever. It's really embarrassing because I'm usually not like this about boys. I dated him for a while last year & the whole time, I planned on cheating on him to be honest. I know i'm crazy but its because I just wanted to keep him around still & be single like my girlfriends too. i don't get why. I promise i'm not evil, I just have a lame lame commitment problem. I wanted him to commit but at the same time go out & be single. I think more like boys then girls in a way. I didn't do it to be mean, its just really hard for me. He always told me he loved me so much all the time & all these things and I never said it back once because i didn't think i did. Then he started giving up on everything and thats when i told him I loved him without thinking & i don't know why i said it because i didn't mean it. Then out of nowhere HE broke up with me before our junior year started & its the first & only time a boy has ever broken up with me but it killed me. I felt so alone without him. He's the only boy i said i love you to. & i was DEVESTATED. I don't know if I really love him or not. I still i think about him, he's totally hot & has an attractive personality, & we have the same group of friends so we always talk still. After we broke up he had sex with a friend of mine. Of course I got rid of her & her reputation was ruined. I was mean to him for a while but I also understand him for it. He totally treats her like a **** & ruined her rep. & they don't talk at all. But he's never been like that to me. He's disrespectful to all of his ex's except for me, & he's so sweet still and has never been mean. We get along way well still but there's a weird feeling like something's missing when we're just talking at a party or something. When he starts to talk to me all the time, I feel like I don't really love him. But whenever I don't see him for a while i miss him & its SO crazy. Am i in love? Whats your opinion pleassssse i'm dying to know. More Recent Articles
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