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Thursday, December 3, 2009

Open Question: I Wanna Know What You Think About This Particular Situation... I Need Help Please.? and more...

 
 



Open Question: I Wanna Know What You Think About This Particular Situation... I Need Help Please.? and more...

Open Question: I Wanna Know What You Think About This Particular Situation... I Need Help Please.?

OK. So I Recently Got Over This Pregnancy Scare. My Boyfriend And I Have Talked About This Particular Subject A Lot... My Main Problem Is That I Currently Can't Have Children At This Point In My Life... Unless I Wanna Die. Anyways. When I Went To The Doctor To Get A Pregnancy Test Done, It Turns Out That I Wasn't So My Boyfriend And I Were Both Relieved. But I Noticed He Was Still Sad So I Asked Why... And He Said He Kinda Wished We Could Have A Child. I Didn't Know What To Think Of This. He Also Says That He Doesn't Want Me To Die. So I'm Not Sure What To Say To Him At This Moment. Cause Honestly I Wouldn't Mind Having One Either. But I Can't And Because I Can't Have A Child. I Feel Like A Defective Type Writer. PLEASE NO HATE COMMENTS. I Just Really Need Someone Who Can Give Me Advice, Or Talk To Me About It A Little.

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Open Question: hi..plz help!!what shall i do?

i am 19..nd i love my boyfriend.we have a long distance relationship.nd ther is no problem as such.but we just cant help fighting with each other.like all girls i had this "prince charming" image in my mind.guy on a horse,wud do nything for me..swim across the ocean for me nd do watever i say stuff..but nw that reality has drawn in,i make a big fuss if he doesnt call me or if he doesnt pick up my call or when he does exactly what i tell him not to..then i make a fuss.nd he tries to make me understand,in the end he gives up and gets angry..the i cry..then its my turn to say sorry..nd the cycle goes on and on.i hate hurting him so much.nd i hate crying so often for no big reason.we do love each other but it doesnt seem to work out!wat shall i do?shall i tell him its over?

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Open Question: A Bi-Curious question(story)?

I dont even know what im asking here... um. Well, freshman year of my high school I turned down every request at going out with a man. I was confused. I didnt understand why I did so, and all the while I was started to have strange feelings towards girls that I didnt understand at the time. Not at all how desperate I would become, how much I would crave girls rather than boys. Now its my junior year and my boyfriends in the past were just "to go with the flow" of a normal high school girl. I thought I liked them, but in the end I just felt friendship, nothing more intimate. Becoming more intimate with them as in sex made me want to vomit thinking about it. So I would break it off before then and just stay friends. There are though a couple of girls I would love more than anything, to go out with. (crushes, the usual stuff) Yet with guys, I just love to hang out with them. There fun. With girls I dont feel as comfortable in friendship wise. But the trouble is for guys I cant get past friends with benefits. Relationships. no thanks. My problem currently. Not really a problem. Just letting off whats in my head that i can't discuss with anyone at all in my life. There's a current girl who's a known Bi-sexual at the school and we've been trading flirts sence I told her im curious about girls. Yet, She's so experienced with girls that it scares me. I dated but when thinking of going out with a girl, it feels like if it's my first relationship ever. Also sence she's a natural flirt and flirts with lots of other people. I haven't really taken her flirts all that serious, just playful. Currently there's also one of my best guy pals who is desperate to date me. We've been on two dates yet I cant bring myself to kiss him. No way can I. I dont feel it. Yet im selfishly and purposely doing things to keep him there incase I need him to heal my emotional problems by making out with me or at the very least go out with me on a date. That's why I keep him guessing and dont just tell him I dont have those kinds of feelings for him. Also I keep him there incase the girl is not serious about me with the flirting. So I have something to bounce back on. Im confused. Idk. I like this guy yet when It comes to anything about boyfriend. No. No. This girl also. I like her and if it comes down to girlfriend. its not yes. yes. its not No. No. its more like "I Dont Know" this isnt even a question. But advice is welcome. I tried to stop being curious about girls. I cant. Im losing it. Especially hiding it. I come to a conclusion that I should fool around witha girl to let the steam out and then if it was a phase then it will pass if I fool around a little. Then maybe I can become what is "normal" to my family. Please, I want to be Bi-Sexual, Not lesbian. I dont want to be lesbian. I dont. So the worst I wish to be is Bi.

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Open Question: Why isy boyfriend all the sudden not talking to me?

I've been dating my boyfriend for over two years now and he only texts me once a day or calls me once a day now. He says hes busy and hes doing stuff with his family which he is (hes a family guy) but my gut is telling me he is somehow avoiding me. He says i love you when we get off the phone, but im senseing something is wrong. I've tried to talk to him about it but he just says hes busy and he doesnt need to text me once a hour, i dont want a text once a hour, i just dont want to just talk to him once a day. if this helps, we've been having issues with how he cheated last year, but other than that im the one that has no problem, he does. :-(

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Open Question: Am i making a mistake? why?

i moved to Los angeles california in september. im living with my brother and his wife in their little studio house. originally i was told when i'd move in with them i'd have my own room, but unfortunately it didn't work out that way. either way i decided to move in. I have no expenses here except for my car insurance and cellphone bill. im in community college and only have met about five new ppl yet im not too close to them and im not as satisfied with the honors program and clubs on campus. i started missing my old school and getting home sick about a month and a half after i moved. now, i also have a boyfriend back home. In san diego i have my family, close friends and my boyfriend and i was already satisfied with the way my school was. i still have a room at my parents house also so thats no problem. when i moved to LA, i was kind of just going with the flow and didnt think twice about it. now i am planning on moving back home but i dont want to make a mistake. i just need opinions. am i making a mistake in moving back home? i feel comfortable here but something is missing and when i visit home i dont want to leave. but i also dont want to cut this experience short.

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