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Open Question: i think i have a problem. i don't know why i do this to poeple...? and more... Open Question: i think i have a problem. i don't know why i do this to poeple...?every guy i talk to, i get close to. but then they get mad when they want it to farther and i say no. i'm 15 and i've talked to many guys. i just look at all of them as good friends. but all of them end up liking me and then i feel like i keep hurting them. if i keep talking to them, and they never get as close as they want to, they'll get mad or confused. i'm very confused at my age. i'm not talking about getting close as in sex, but like boyfriend and girlfriend, or they want my number or something like that. i can't leave the house(strict parents) and i don't want a boyfriend(not allowed anyways) but i don't want to keep talking to them if they have that in mind. but i think that's a stupid reason to stop talking to them......i'm confused even trying to explain......lol so what do you think? Open Question: friendship problems.. ):?so i have this friend, i've known here since i was three. we've always been inseparable. we use to be bestfriends ): i mean, we still are.. not really. ): anymore. i dont know, it seems like she never wants to hangout. she moved a few years ago to another town, she comes down still. but only when she 'has' too or shes having troubles at home. she never wants to hang out, she'll ACT like she wants too, but come up with some excuse of to why she cant. I always offer to pick her up & drive her home but its the same thing ' i cant. my mom said no.' or she'll just tell me she going and then not pick up my calls, & pretend i didnt even ask. and then be like ' my mom made me go to y with my boyfriend' seriously? ): i dont have alot of friends, and its very very hard for me to make new friends . ( i dont know why, i havent made any in 6 years ):) she likes to embarres me & then expects me to think she can keep secrets! she'll be all " OMMGG she likes you!"to some boy till i cry.EVEN WHEN IM CRYING. when its her fault, she doesnt apologize. when she does she be all " sorry my mom wouldnt let me goooooooooooo" or just not apologize at all. or when im made she be like " kay fine be mad, idc bye!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!" on aim. i love her to death, and when do hangout we have fun but, ): i miss her. buts she being so. !! ): also another thing - she never remembers my birthday! she gave her friend 50 doller necklace plus cash ( for her bday.) and gave me an outfit from kmart ( i know. but, that really made me mad ;-;) she doesnt actually make me CRY. but she makes me upset to the point where i seriously want to bitch slap her. Open Question: Will I be able to sleep on my eyebrow piercing?I got my eyebrow pierced yesterday. I love it. But the problem is, I'm a pretty violent sleeper, haha. I flip from side to side, hit myself on accident, and thrash into my pillows a bit too hard for metal being in my face. I just want to know if I'll be able to eventually sleep on it without worries and being comfortable? And if so, how long will it take before I can sleep on it? Btw, only reason I got through last night was I had my boyfriend make sure I didn't move too much. Hes a light sleeper and wakes up alot when I move anyways. Thanks. =] Open Question: EX problems, pleeease help!!!?So I dated this girl for a little over six months. Then she broke up with me over a phone call saying she didn't feel the same. I asked if we could talk but she never agreed/wanted to. I was seriously messed up, I really love this girl. I've tried to get ever her but never was able to. Then like two months later she asks to hang out with me. I thought we'd start being friends again. It was difficult being with her because i missed being her boyfriend, but I did it anyway because i care for her and enjoy her company. One night after hanging out she texts me saying she broke up with me because she had a lot of problems and stress in her life then, and she thought not having a boyfriend would reduce that, but that she was wrong and that she wants me back/she misses me/breaking up was a mistake etc. I said next time we hang out we'll talk. I was excited to finally get answers because i had heard rumors that one of the reasons she really broke up with me was because she wanted to go to some dance with another guy. And I saw on facebook that she was in a relationship with someone for like a week or something idk. i wanted to make sure that i wasn't just a last resort; that the other relationship(s) didn't work out and I just "better than nothing" or whatever. We scheduled a time to talk but that night she invites a bunch of people over, so we never got a chance. (wtf) She never really mentioned it again, so i brought it up a couple times but she always says she can't because she's sick and her mom won't let her. (and she has been reeeeally sick. like she only goes to school for a half a day) But she's had opportunities to talk to me multiple times but never did. So whats going on? I can't figure it out. Is she scared i might not take her back? Has she changed her mind again and doesn't like me? I need to know if i should start (well, 'restart') moving on. Lord knows thats going to take a while. Thoughts?? Open Question: why am I so emotionless?I'm 17, 10/29/08 my best friend killed himself, and idk why but it didn't really affect me emotionally at all(I never talked to anyone about it). A couple weeks ago I moved from Michigan to Tennessee to get away from my mom and her dick boyfriend and I don't even miss any of my friends or family. when i was 13 my stepdad (my dad ditched out on me before i was born and i have no clue who he is(and that doesn't affect me emotionally either) and my stepdad got with my mom before i was 1 so he was always like my real dad) got addicted to meth and started getting really aggresive,he was constantly yelling at everyone and breaking evertying and he threatened to kill us several times, my mom finally ended up divourcing him and that didn't affect me either. Not even a year after that my mom ended up getting with some asshole who was constantly being a dick to me just for his entertainment. she then had a kid with him even tho we were already struggleing with money. and none of that affected me either . About 6 months ago I started thinking about killing myself, which really confuses me because compared to alot of people my life is good, and at first i didn't think anything of it but it was constantly getting worse, about 4 months ago I started cutting and once again I have no clue why, I just randomly get urges to do it and the more i ignore it the worse it gets and the the longer i wait the deeper i end up cutting, so I guess I do have emotions but... well I can't really feel them. and also I remember almost nothing that happened in my life past age 14 but from what I've been told all of my cousins and my sister and step brother were constantly making me miserable. When ever someone ask me to list good qualities about myself i freeze because I can't think of any. I have a lot of people that i chill with but I don't have any true friends, i've had 3 good friends in my life, 2 turned out to be backstabbing ***holes who were just using me and the other killed himself. I've had a few girlfriends but i didn't love any of them, I've actually never loved anyone, not even family, and that really disturbs me. last year i spend 2 months in juvie because my mom called the cops and said that i threatened to kill her even though i could never threaten to kill someone, and then told me that i got what i had coming because i did bad in school even tho i tried my hardest i just could never concentrate on anything longer then 2 minutes. I've been like that my whole life and when i was going to school it made my life hell because of all the trouble i'd get in at home for failing classes. there were a few years in my life where i was really bad with my mom, constantly flipping out and cussing her out, I finally got it under controll last year but she still constantly throws it in my face and acts like I'm a horrible person even though i hated myself after every fight i got in with her. I've had a couple therapist, and I've been in an anxiety counselling group and idk why but i could never tell them about wanting to kill myself and cutting, i really couldn't tell them any of my problems, I always feel like an ***hole when i complain about my life because there are sooo many people out there that have it so much worse then me. Sorry for all of the typing i know that no one wants to real all of that, i just got in sordove a trance when i started typing and couldn't stop, half of those were suppressed memories i didn't remember until i started typing, that's why all of the events i put are in a completely random order. Open Question: bestfriend problems help please?Ok i was friends with this girl for almost 8 years then our freshman year alot of **** happened with her and her boyfriend (he cheated on her then broke up with her but they got back together) well i didn't like him after that but i tolerated him for her but she started ignoring me and finally just stopped talking to me all together. well its been a year since all that happened and i still her everyday and things are always kinda awkward with us since then because we have classes together. but i still miss my best friend i mean she was there for me through everything (and i mean everything i lost a lot of people that were close to me) for the last 8 yrs. well being friends for that long i can tell when somethings wrong even if she smiling and acting like nothings wrong or when she wants to tell me things. well a few weeks ago she came to me before school and asked to help her find someone and i gave her a look like ummm have u lost ur mind but i went with her and we walked around a few minutes in silence, then she started to say something to me and i could tell she wanted to tell me something but she stopped her self and we talked about pointless crap, she also keeps giving me looks like she wants to talk or tell me something but she doesn't and i dont know what to do but i really miss my bestfriend so please help i didn't ever do anything to he rboyfriend or her i just didnt like but i tolerated him for her, and i know that not ever one will like the guy i date i already found that out Open Question: bestfriend problems please help kinda long though?Ok i was friends with this girl for almost 8 years then our freshman year alot of **** happened with her and her boyfriend (he cheated on her then broke up with her but they got back together) well i didn't like him after that but i tolerated him for her but she started ignoring me and finally just stopped talking to me all together. well its been a year since all that happened and i still her everyday and things are always kinda awkward with us since then because we have classes together. but i still miss my best friend i mean she was there for me through everything (and i mean everything i lost a lot of people that were close to me) for the last 8 yrs. well being friends for that long i can tell when somethings wrong even if she smiling and acting like nothings wrong or when she wants to tell me things. well a few weeks ago she came to me before school and asked to help her find someone and i gave her a look like ummm have u lost ur mind but i went with her and we walked around a few minutes in silence, then she started to say something to me and i could tell she wanted to tell me something but she stopped her self and we talked about pointless crap, she also keeps giving me looks like she wants to talk or tell me something but she doesn't and i dont know what to do but i really miss my bestfriend so please help Open Question: Boyfriend Problems!!!! UGH!!!!!!!!!!!!?Well me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 2 years and every time we are about to have sex he jacks off................and i don't know what to do can you please help me?!??!?! Open Question: How would a Leo go about preserving a relationship with a Scorpio during the upcoming Mars Retrograde?I'm a Leo, my boyfriend is a Scorpio, I know we're already 'least compatible and whatnot, but this is the best relationship i've ever had. The next Mars retrograde starts on Dec. 20th, and the last Mars retrograde 3 years ago REALLY screwed with my life, my ex and I broke up and had serious troubles until we finally called it quits. This retrograde is supposed to be in Leo the entire time, so I'm going to have a lot of troubles, and all the websites i find are talking about how it's also going to be particularly bad for Scorpios since that's their ruling planet... Does anyone have any advice to give about things i can watch for and ways i can handle certains types of situations just in case? We've been dating almost a year now and don't have many problems, no real fights, occasional disagreements but never anything big. We're young college age, nerds, etcs. :) More Recent Articles
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