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Open Question: i shouldnt even be talking to this guy...? and more... Open Question: i shouldnt even be talking to this guy...?basic facts im 14 in 8th grade. i have a boyfriend weve been going out for 2 weeks. problem is ive been talking to this guy i met at the shore for over a year now & i really do like him more than any other guy ive liked even my boyfriend. hes great, & he likes me tooo alot. my boyfriend doesnt show that he likes me alot but this boy form the shore tells me everything he loves about me and were really good friends. ive tried to get over him but everytime i tell him we shouldnt talk he gets SO upset like its crazzzy. i cant get him off my mind and hes been in my dreams. WEIRD RIGHT? ha. well i really want to forget about him cuz ill never have him no matter how much i do want him. Open Question: Dysfunctional family...PLEASE HELP?Yeah so please read it, or...dont.. What I'm living in right now is the proper example for a DYSFUNCTIONAL family. My parents, never let me go out. They don't let me hang out with my friends, or like go out with them anywhere. They only allow them to come over to my house but I cant go over theirs. Everytime my friends make a plan that sounds like fun, I'm always the one that has to be left out because my parents always say no to it. They're still controlling my life as if I was 4. They're not proper parents. They never talk to me about ANYTHING. They're not the type of parents you can rely on or run to when you have a problem, whether its emotionally or physically. My friends always talk about how they're best friends with their moms and how their moms are so understanding and give them the best support they can. Their parents always let them go out and have fun with their friends and of course they lay down some rules but it still keeps their relationship stable. I of course happen to have the parents that treat me like **** and like a worthless, good for nothing daughter that they just happen to have. Yelling, screaming, beating, and leaving, that's how they deal with situations. They hate me. I could so tell because its obvious. What parents deal with their kids like that? Why do they hate me so bad? what did I do to make them show their harsh side? Why can't they just be like everyone else's parents that I for once could brag about? Its just not fair. Parents just don't understand. I always loved going to school because I felt more loved and more like home than my "home". I never liked leaving because the smile just wipes off my face right when I see them. They're making me lose my social life and want me to be the child they want me to be. If my parents were good with me, I swear my life would be flowing with no problems. But unfortunately, its just not that way. I hate how they treat me..I can't deal with it anymore..because I dont know what to do about anything.. Even the smallest thing, like being 10 minutes late from a friends house, pisses them off. Oh and don't even get started about boys. According to them, boys are "devils" and I should think they stil have cooties. Uhm, hello? Im 15. The cootie thing stopped 4 years ago. Im mature enough to make decisions for myself, and I know the risks, but its not like im some rebelous daughter that's going to go out and get pregnant. We learned about this stuff in health class for a reason. The reason is that some kids parents (LIKE MINE) don't know how to talk to their kids about this stuff. Im a good kid. I get good grades, never done drugs, never drank, never even kissed a boy, yet alone had a boyfriend. But when parents tell you NOT to do some of these things ( such as "ok, you can go to the party, but NO alcohol") it actually makes you want to do it more than if they hadnt said anything. We are very capable of making our own choices, thank you. Another thing, why cant you just accept me for who I am? My grades are better than most kids in my class! So why do I have to strive for more, if IM happy with it? Its my life, not yours. Oh and commenting on my appearance. Yeah, its great to hear that I look too 'fat' or too 'slutty' or am wearing 'too much eyeliner'. Im very capable of making those decisions for myself thanks. I don't need your opinion, unless its nice. Bad compliments only bring down my self esteem, and lead to being bullied cuz of lack of confidence. Is that really who you want me to be? And all this PRESSURE. Its too much to take. If you don't do something perfectly, you may as well have not done it at all. All this anger from not being perfect, and the stress of having no social life, and the hurt formed from not being loved by parents, is so big, that most teens (such as myself) don't know how to handle the emotions. And parents wonder why their kids go emo. Open Question: I need help deciding on a baby name....?I am 2 months along. We have decided on Amber Dawn if it is a girl and for a boy we wanted to name him Garrett James. The only problem is that when we told people the names they asked if we were naming him after my stepbrother James. I have a biological brother named Jared James and that is who we were going to name him after. Neither my boyfriend or I like my stepbrother so we don't want it to seem like we are naming the baby after him. Do you have any suggestions on middle names? Open Question: Gay men only! Help me!?Ok, well i have a little problem... when me and my boyfriend have sex. neither of us can have an orgasim... we have tried many different ways and we'v looked up on the internet about different positions. But unfortunitly we have to masterbate ourselfs because we cant do it to eachother.. Can u tell me any better positions to succed our goals? Open Question: Long distance relationships?Hey everyone :] I put this in the Adolescent section because the Singles and Dating section is always flooding with questions, I never get any answers. Anyways, me and my boyfriend have been going out for a while, and it's been going pretty well... but I live in Canada, and he's from California. I only get to visit him once in a while (im planning on flying out there sometime during the winter break) But we're both having problems with the long distance between us... and how we only see eachother once in a while. The distance never bugged me so much before, but it's starting to really pick at me... I hate not being able to see him as much as I'd like to. We really care about eachother, but it's almost painful, you know? Does anybody have any advice on things we can do to keep our minds off the distance? Is there anybody who's been in a situation like my own? I'd love to be able to move out there, but I'm too young to make that descision right now. So I'm stuck taking short little trips once every few months, Thanks in advance :] I forgot to add, that yes we're constantly on Skype, and I have unlimited long distance with my phone plan. We're always in touch constantly. I think I'm just longing for that physical contact as well. Open Question: Should I run away from here?I am 15 year's of age. Me & my mother are having horribe problem's. All my life she was never strict & I alway's got good grade's & stayed out of trouble, IM STILL LIKE THAT. She use to let me live a life,Then she got this new bf & she's changing completley I dont even know who she is anymore, She treat's me like **** & she say's the most hurtful things. Yesterday my bf was 5 min late on leveing she told me GIVE ME YOUR PHONE YOU WONT BE SEEING HIM FOR 1 MONTH. Okay, then her bf steps in and says well she shouldnt date until she is 17, I said I am 15, a virgin, havent even made out yet, I respect my body & I'm mature enough to have a boyfriend. then I got hit, for just speaking up on what I think, & I said it respectfully. & this bf of mine is amazing he's only my 3rd bf & he treats me good. & I'm afraid that if he cant see me then thing's will change :( I tell myself if he's worthit he'll stick around but 1 month is a bit crazy I wouldnt be surprised if she made it longer. & it's honestly for the most pitiful reasons. I dont understand why she's doing this to me. I just think it's wrong to raise a child one way for 15 years then in a blink of an eye raise her different. & I know that what is happining in my life, isn't the end of the world but I'll tell you this, it sure as hell feel's like it. long story made short, I am selfish but I do believe that I deserve a little more room to breath and all the stuff she put me threw as a child I am too mature for this age that I am. I'm sick of being hit, I'm sick of the thing's she say's to me. Should I run away with my friend? To idk where ; last resort feel's great. Or should I stay suck it up & deal with it, I don't think I'm capable of that. Open Question: PLEASE what should I write to my mother?!?!?I am 15 year's of age. Me & my mother are having horribe problem's. All my life she was never strict & I alway's got good grade's & stayed out of trouble. She use to let me live a life, she never grounded me over stupid petty thing's. Then she got this new bf & she's changing completley I dont even know who she is anymore, She treat's me like **** & she say's the most hurtful things. Yesterday my bf was 5 min late on leveing she told me GIVE ME YOUR PHONE YOU WONT BE SEEING HIM FOR 1 MONTH. Okay, then her bf steps in and says well she shouldnt date until she is 17, I said I am 15, a virgin, havent even made out yet, I respect my body & I'm mature enough to have a boyfriend. then I got hit, for just speaking up on what I think, & I said it respectfully. & this bf of mine is amazing he's only my 3rd bf & he treats me good. & I'm afraid that if he cant see me then thing's will change :( I tell myself if he's worthit he'll stick around but 1 month is a bit crazy I wouldnt be surprised if she made it longer. & it's honestly for the most pitiful reasons. I dont understand why she's doing this to me. So what can I write in the letter to her? I just think it's wrong to raise a child one way for 15 years then in a blink of an eye raise her different. & I know that what is happining in my life, isn't the end of the world but I'll tell you this, it sure as hell feel's like it. thanks' so much for your help Open Question: Boyfriend is always busy?Yes the typical clingy girlfriend question. But except I'm not that type. Anyway, my boyfriend and I are really happy together and very much in love. Until recently, I've always felt him trying to get closer to me. He works 12 hour shifts 7 days on, and then has 7 days off. He went to Vegas for 3 days which is cool, just him and his guy friends. Then when he got back, he's been really busy with his cows. He owns 50 head of cows and needs to check on them daily. Anyway, he lives 1.5hours away but I am the one to usually go see him because it's easier. He says he misses me and all that, but today I asked him again when he was going to come and see me. He explained rudely that his cows water had frozen over. Okay, I get that you'll be busy today, but why can't you come over tonight? He basically has been stalling with my texts and I asked him if I should stop even trying. He asked what the problem was. I just said "nothing, hope you get your wells thawed. love you" and all he said back was "love ya too" He's being such a butt today and I don't understand. If you want to be with someone, why is it so difficult to come and see them? I'm not a chore... I'm really trying to just stay relaxed until he comes around and finally comes over. I know he's not cheating, so it's not that I'm worried about. I trust him, I just wish he could make an effort to spend time with me if he's as in love with me as he always says... So, should I just ignore him and see when he comes around? I'm feeling really hurt and he just ignores any sort of thing that he feels will start a fight. Which I'm not trying to do. I just want him to put out the same effort that he used to and that I still do. Open Question: what do i do if my im not happy in the situation i live in?I live in a small house with my pregnant sister, her boyfriend and my brother, they are all over 18, i am the youngest out of my family. My sister and i have always had problems with eachother and never got along. She moved her first boyfriend in when she was 22 and he was rude to me and the rest of the family, and never followed any rules. he was disrespectful and no one got along with him. Soon he moved out and my sister moved in with another man. she then decided after getting pregnant that she needed to move in with us again because supposably the house she was living in was too small to have a baby in,even though our house is packed now and i dont see a difference.Now that she lives here all i ever hear is them arguing or she and my mom arguing. Her boyfriend is ok and i dont have much of a problem with him, but i do have a problem with them both living here because niether of them work or help with the house. I have heard them (doing things) in the their bedroom which happens to be right next to mine and i feel so disrespected. My sister always has something to say about every little thing i do and makes me feel miserable in my own home. My brother is 19 and feels the same way. He and i have always gotten along. but he and my sister have not. I have talked to my mother about my problems and she just tells me to try to get along with her, but it doesnt take anything for me to say for her to start in on me. So how would ignoring her help. the more i keep inside the worse i feel, but no one will listen to me. this house is so crowded as it is. it is a 3 bedroom apartment and there are 5 people living here, soon to be 6 when my sister has her baby. I dont know how i will sleep with her baby in the room next to me. all i can think about is the crying i am going to hear and the arguing between my sister and her boyfriend after the baby is born. i have no problem with the baby, but the space here is so limited that its going to be hard to live here for me. I just wish that my sister would be more respectful of me and just stop thinking that she can be my mother and think that i should obey her every wish. i rarely ever leave my room because i am sick of something being said everytime she sees me. i dont know what her problem is and i just wish she would stop. i feel so helpless with them living here. no matter what i try to do it doesnt help...I NEED ADVISE! Open Question: Need help with girl problem?Okay, well about a week ago my new friend, Brit, asked if I was interested in a having a girlfriend and I foolishly said "yes." She gave me her best friend's number and pushed for us getting together in a relationship. She is a very nice person to talk to and she likes me a lot, but I never actually met her in person, so it's alittle weird. We text constantly, but the problem is she wants me to be her boyfriend, and well; I just don't feel the same way for her. She is so nice to me over the phone, texting, etc., but I truthfully like another girl, one who I have liked for about three years, who is starting to flirt with me. The girl my friend is trying to hook me up with is constantly saying we should meet and hang out, hoping that if we do I will ask her out, which she has told me. For this reason, I don't want to hang out with her. I fear that if I do, and don't ask her out, than both her and Brit will start freaking out on me. I also fear that telling her the truth will not only hurt her, but make her think of me as an asshole. It may also cause me to lose my friend, Brit. Now, I do wish to tell her I am not interested in her, as I should, but the problem is I told her I would be interested the day I first met her, because I was both half asleep and couldn't think straight. I want her to remain a friend, but I don't want to date her. I was foolish for saying I did. If you have any advice for me thanks. Open Question: What should I write to her?I am 15 year's of age. Me & my mother are having horribe problem's. All my life she was never strict & I alway's got good grade's & stayed out of trouble. She use to let me live a life, she never grounded me over stupid petty thing's. Then she got this new bf & she's changing completley I dont even know who she is anymore, She treat's me like shit & she say's the most hurtful things. Yesterday my bf was 5 min late on leveing she told me GIVE ME YOUR PHONE YOU WONT BE SEEING HIM FOR 1 MONTH. Okay, then her bf steps in and says well she shouldnt date until she is 17, I said I am 15, a virgin, havent even made out yet, I respect my body & I'm mature enough to have a boyfriend. then I got hit, for just speaking up on what I think, & I said it respectfully. & this bf of mine is amazing he's only my 3rd bf & he treats me good. & I'm afraid that if he cant see me then thing's will change :( I tell myself if he's worthit he'll stick around but 1 month is a bit crazy I wouldnt be surprised if she made it longer. & it's honestly for the most pitiful reasons. I dont understand why she's doing this to me. So what can I write in the letter to her? I just think it's wrong to raise a child one way for 15 years then in a blink of an eye raise her different. & I know that what is happining in my life, isn't the end of the world but I'll tell you this, it sure as hell feel's like it. thanks' so much for your help More Recent Articles |
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