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Open Question: I really want him back):?so i broke up with my boyfriend a couple months ago, and i felt so relieved at first, but now im a complete mess. he was so perfect, nice, and funny. the problem was, i barely got to see him..my parents don't let me date even though im 16...it sucks so much, and one day after not seeing him for almost a month, i kinda felt differently about him,like i was losing feelings, and he was in a bad mood which made things worse. and he really didn't want to lose me, he even started crying. and now he's dating my best friend, omg it killled me, and i told him i want him back, but he said he couldn't trust me anymore. i cry almost every week. what do i do about this? ): i'm trying to find another guy, but idk it seems so hard, because i want someone like him..)': Open Question: i need some information about being 17 & getting a hotel!?okay well christmas day im going to newjersey to see my family. i live in pa. and well my boyfriend lives in newjersey too. he's coming to my grandmas house for christmas [where my family is going] and well we wanted to spend christmas day and saturday and sunday together. problem .. he lives with a room mate and well i cant stay there cus well .. you know lol anyway we want to get a hotel. if my boyfriend make reservations for it .. do i have to give an id? by the way he's 20. Open Question: Relationship issues, really need your help!?Ok, so the problem is following, Im in a long distance relationship. i live in london, he in oslo. Weve been knowing eachotehrs since 5 years, and im the person that knows most about him and the otehr way round. weve been dating since june 2009 and i truly believe he is the love of my life! However, lately we have been having some troubles. everytime we see eachothers its like being in heaven, everything is just perfect! but when we dont see eachothers and talk online, or on skype its more of a problem. He doesnt answer my phonecalls, nor text messages, (he isnt a big fan of phones though) and lately he has been very insulting, calling me nasty names and snapping at me because of things that im not even responsible for. yesterday he told me he needed space, a lot of it and i told him id respect that, however he should be tehre for me too when i need him. he said he loved me, and i know he would NEVER say that if he doesnt mean it. i decided i wouldnt talk to him for the rest of the week, and leave him alone, give him his space but this morning he wrote messages that he needed me (on msn) i replied and we had a cosy chat. I then had to go to university and had a couple of beers afterwards with guys from college. one of those dudes has been hitting on me, but i made clear that i love my boyfriend more than anything, as i did before. i told my boy about it and how much i love bragging about him to other ppl and showing that i belong to him. He freaked out saying stuff like "if a girl talks about a guy so often it means something" and "i know you had a crush on him before" but thats just not true. i told my boy about this guy in summer once cause i invited him to drop by our place in ibiza since he was around and that he wouldnt need to worry at all and that im slightly bothered that i have to keep my promise (inviation) since i didnt really want that dude around. anyway, i didnt have a crush on him nor did i mention him to my boy at all. im scared he is gonna leave me now and i dont know what to do. i really really really need your advice on that one. PLEASE HELP! Open Question: Can you please help me with this?Okay so... I like this boy named cody, but he always has girlfriend.The problem is that one of my friends(a guy) that i used to like and flirted(i don't flirt with him anymore) with a lot is getting mad at me for trying to get to know cody better.While one of my ex boyfriend(not my guy friend that's getting mad at me) is trying to get me to send naked pics. of myself to him. 1) So what it all comes down to is what can i do to make cody like me? 2) How can I get my EX to stop trying to get naked pics of me? 3) And how can I fix my relationship with my guy friend that's getting mad at me? Open Question: Why won't my boyfriend initiate sex with me?I'm 25 years old and the past three months I've been rejected more times than I've ever been in my life. We're always together and have many of the same college classes, and he seems to desire my presence around him all the time. (he gets depressed or upset if I go do my own things and I'd rather him come along so it works out) but the past three months he initiates nothing, I have to do it and he'll say he's too tired. So I tried talking to him about it and instead he said he's tired of getting his hopes up when I say I want to do things to him and don't. But I don't because he seems uninterested when we're able to fool around. I tried to talk to him again because it has me to the point of tears. I'm tired of the awkward 'can we have sex?' or the uncomfortable nights where he says he's too tired and then gropes me when he's half asleep, and I can't act on it because I don't want to hurt him or make him feel violated. So I tried talking to him again: that I want him to want me more often, and instead he said he was tired of getting his hopes up for nothing. This we argued for about an hour and a half and I just got even more frustrated when the simple solution to our problems was if he just grabbed me then and there and got down to business. But he still hasn't. All in all yeah it would be nice for him to come home from the store or whatever and hammer down. I've tried texting him that I want to mess around when he's away then he comes home, we play video games and snuggle infront of a movie and nothing happens. So then he gets mad because I got his hopes up with nothing, but goddamnit it's been a really long time now and I just want him to initiate and make me feel desired instead of me having to ask outright instead of a creepo and essentially get rejected. It's hurting my self esteem and now I just cry about it because I have a boyfriend that won't sleep with me. You kidding, thanks giving came around and we talked about how it would be nice to go to my parents huge house and mess around when no one was home. All week talked it up. So the day comes, we got the entire day alone together and my 'hint' was to pounce him, pin him down and purr, then he says he's not in the mood. I'm still confused here. Open Question: Another ex girlfriend question. What to do about her and how to get over her?I'm sorry if this has been asked a million times, but I just don't know what to do. Back story: my girlfriend and I dated for 16 months and broke up in March. We essentially broke up over differences mainly rooted in how different our families were. She wasn't willing to give up certain things about her life I wasn't happy with and she viewed my attitude towards these things as stubbornness. She was also young, 21 at the time. I'm 27. I was really ready to get married and while she loved me and saw herself getting married to me, she just wasn't ready (I understand that and I don't blame her). We saw each other now and again from the day we broke up until June 1st, when she sort of blew me off and said she just can't see me anymore. I decided that it's best we don't speak or see each other either and I removed her as a friend on Facebook and stopped associating with our mutual friends. I was still hung up on her though. Then, in August, I heard from her. It was the first time in 2 months that I had heard from her. She called me to ask if I can come to her goodbye party since she was moving to Europe for school in a few weeks. I said no even though I wanted to see her. The night of the party she kept texting me saying she wished I was there and that she didn't want anything more than to see me before she left. I gave in and I saw her a few days later. In short, we saw each other almost everyday for the next 10 days. We both exchanged "I love yous" and we were physical during this period of time. It was like we were together again. She told me how no guy ever made her feel the way I do and how she wanted to get together "at some point". However, as soon as she moved away things got colder between us. We never spoke on the phone since it was "too expensive" (she could have got a calling card?). We spoke occasionally on email or IM. One day I had enough of it, so in September I flat out asked her what the whole point of all this was. I didn't just want to be a friend of hers. She said she still wanted me to come to Europe to visit but "Just as friends". She also had the nerve to tell me "I love you but I'm not in love with you" since we still didn't have our differences resolved. I was heartbroken and decided I didn't want to speak to her anymore. A month later, I get an email from her clarifying what she told me and how she's sorry she hurt me but that since she's in Europe she is in no position to have a relationship. She still views us as having unresolved problems and in general thinks she needs to "find herself". As soon as I got that email, I blocked her from Facebook, deleted all the emails we ever had, and even threw away old notes she wrote me. Essentially no trace of her was left in my life. I moved on and started going out on dates. Last week my mutual friends who speak to her started telling me that she has told them she misses me and when they asked if she's met anyone overseas, she says "no" and that she doesn't even look at guys right now. She's apparently been asking things like if I'm talking to any girls, flirting with anyone on facebook or if I have pictures of my having a good time. It seems to me she's still not over me. This entire 8 months I'm still hung up on her. Even though we had our family and minor lifestyle differences, I still think about her everyday. Now that I heard she's been bringing me up a lot with my mutual friends, it makes me think of her even more. She's coming home for the holidays apparently and I just don't know how to handle it. Should I keep with what I'm doing now, which is basically pretending she doesn't exist? Or should I see her when she's here? I'm just afraid that she'll be gone after the holidays and all of this will happen over again. The thing is I know her deep down inside and she's a very good person. She's never taken advantage of anyone in her life. So a part of me still thinks she loves me and I guess I'm refusing to believe that she just wanted to have fun with me before she left for Europe. I was her first boyfriend and her first in a lot of other things. Open Question: I want him back so badly):?so i broke up with my boyfriend a couple months ago, and i felt so relieved at first, but now im a complete mess. he was so perfect, nice, and funny. the problem was, i barely got to see him..my parents don't let me date even though im 16...it sucks so much, and one day after not seeing him for almost a month, i kinda felt differently about him,like i was losing feelings, and he was in a bad mood which made things worse. and he really didn't want to lose me, he even started crying. and now he's dating my best friend, omg it killled me, and i told him i want him back, but he said he couldn't trust me anymore. i cry almost every week. what do i do about this? ): i'm trying to find another guy, but idk it seems so hard, because i want someone like him..)': Open Question: HELP! WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP?SOS..SOS?mY boyfriend is addicted to pills, marijuana and alcohol...he is driving drunk and high and getting himself in trouble. He refuses to admit any problem and will not even consider professional help. WHAT CAN I DO?.. IS THERE HOPE?.. maybe get pregnant ? HELP Open Question: HE;P! WHAT CAN I DO TO HELP?SOS..SOS?mY boyfriend is addicted to pills, marijuana and alcohol...he is driving drunk and high and getting himself in trouble. He refuses to admit any problem and will not even consider professional help. WHAT CAN I DO?.. IS THERE HOPE?.. maybe get pregnant ? HELP Open Question: HELP ME !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?Okay so... I like this boy named cody, but he always has girlfriend.The problem is that one of my friends(a guy) that i used to like and flirted(i don't flirt with him anymore) with a lot is getting mad at me for trying to get to know cody better.While one of my ex boyfriend(not my guy friend that's getting mad at me) is trying to get me to send naked pics. of myself to him. 1) So what it all comes down to is what can i do to make cody like me? 2) How can I get my EX to stop trying to get naked pics of me? 3) And how can I fix my relationship with my guy friend that's getting mad at me? Open Question: love is crappy?HELP PLEASE?Okay so... I like this boy named cody, but he always has girlfriend.The problem is that one of my friends(a guy) that i used to like and flirted(i don't flirt with him anymore) with a lot is getting mad at me for trying to get to know cody better.While one of my ex boyfriend(not my guy friend that's getting mad at me) is trying to get me to send naked pics. of myself to him. 1) So what it all comes down to is what can i do to make cody like me? 2) How can I get my EX to stop trying to get naked pics of me? 3) And how can I fix my relationship with my guy friend that's getting mad at me? Open Question: Whats happening? I'M SOO CONFUSED!?Okay so... I like this boy named cody, but he always has girlfriend.The problem is that one of my friends(a guy) that i used to like and flirted(i don't flirt with him anymore) with a lot is getting mad at me for trying to get to know cody better.While one of my ex boyfriend(not my guy friend that's getting mad at me) is trying to get me to send naked pics. of myself to him. 1) So what it all comes down to is what can i do to make cody like me? 2) How can I get my EX to stop trying to get naked pics of me? 3) And how can I fix my relationship with my guy friend that's getting mad at me? Open Question: does he really love me or does he want me for just sex?i've been with my boyfriend for over a month. at the moment i have one problem with him: the only thing he talks about is what he wants to do to me and how i get him so horny. at first i thought he was having a laugh but i found out he was genuinely serious. i've told him twice that i'm a virgin and that i wasn't ready and if he really loved me he would wait. the second time around, he respected my decision. but now he doesn't want to have a normal conversation between us and it becomes very awkward. what do i do? do i keep him or i ditch him? please help me asap Open Question: can you help me with a guy problem im having?okay so i have this friend, her name is mandy and she has a boyfriend, michael, and michael has this friend, danny, who likes me. all four of us along with a lot of our other friends hang out together like every saturday. but danny is really shy so he almost never talks to me but all of his friends especially michael are always trying to get us together and stuff and i really like him but hes so shy so its hard to talk to him and our conversations are mostly me talking and him listening but i barely even know what to say and he makes it so awkward but for some reason i really like him. but recently their other friend jack has been talking to me, but mostly about how i should try to talk to danny more. but mandy and another friend, colleen, think jack likes me cause they know him better than i do and they say they can just tell and i think he likes me too cause one time when we were hanging out i didnt feel good and he was the only one sitting with me upstairs trying to make me feel better and this one time we ordered a pizza and we had to go pick it up and he asked me to come with him and we had like a really nice deep conversation so i think he likes me and im starting to like him too but i dont wanna seem like a bitch and go for him when everyone knew that me and danny had a thing. so what should i do? i dont wanna sit around and wait for danny to like get over his shyness im just not feeling that but i dont wanna go for jack and have all my friends get mad at me cause thats kind of shady. please help! 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