Bookmark and Share




Tuesday, December 8, 2009

Open Question: I need some help or advice.? and more...

 
 



Open Question: I need some help or advice.? and more...

Open Question: I need some help or advice.?

Well heres the problem; my boyfriend's brother is like my best friend!! We hang out all the time. He goes to my house n i go to his. i really love this dude aloooot. The problem is that he asked me out today, earlier today when we were playing video games at his house, i dont wanna leave Jeff though. I love him alot but me n Jake are just friends, thats it. i dont know what to tell him cuz i dont wanna ruin our friendship. plus, if i were to say yes, which i doubt it, it would be kinda like betraying our [mines n jeff's] love. so im very confused here. someone please help!!

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: What should I get my boyfriend for Christmas?

Christmas is in 16 days and i don't know what to get my boyfriend for Christmas! We have been going out for 6 months on the December 20th and I am getting him a teddy bear from Build-a-bear for that. Hes getting me an expensive necklace and some clothes for christmas. We said we would give each other wicked good xmas gifts too! The problem is i only have about 45 dollars and only 16 days.. I have some ideas of getting a picture of us and framing it, making him cute coupons like free movie night and free night to watch whatever movie you want, making a mini scrap book of pictures of us together, buying him shoes, buying him a waffle shirt from american eagle, getting a movie, baking xmas cookies, making a CD of "our" songs, and making him a card. He really wants fresh shoes and a waffle shirt so i think i should get him those. Are those other ideas good? Do you have any other ideas? What are some ways to get more money before christmas?

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: Someone is obsessed with me =/?

I don't normally ask questions but.. here it goes. I have an ex boyfriend that i met online a couple years back. I was going to met him, but he lives a lot farther away then i thought he did. The problem is, i felt great love for him =/ And he felt the same way. After a while, we broke up. A.) Because we had been fighting. B.) Because this wasn't what i was expecting. I didn't want to love somebody over the internet! So i left him. Little did think about though, was that i actually was the reason he came out of the closet. I really didn't know how big of an impact that had on him until one day after we broke up he started telling me how much he loves me and how much he thought about me. Its been 5 months of this back and forth, and i keep telling him i can't love him long distance. But he's so passionate and persistent about it that idk what to think. Recently, he's even been saying that he'll come and met me. How do i know he's not a creeper now? With everything that's going on, i just don't feel like i can trust him...But he's just soooo madly in love with me... Can someone really love someone over the internet? Not having ever met them? I think not, but i need your opinions.

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: Have you ever not known who to choose?

I have been going out with my boyfriend for over two and a half years. I love him, but we have been fighting a lottttt lately. We were fighting a bunch this weekend and I started talking to one of my sort of friends that I kind of have liked off and on. I get really excited when I'm talking to him and he makes me smile. He tells me sweet things, and I know that he likes me. But, he also has a girlfriend. They have also been having problems. My boyfriend has changed a little recently and has started being nicer. I don't know what to do. Do I just like this other guy because it is something new? Or do I really like him? Do I get excited to talk to him because the flame in my other relationship has "burned out"? What should I do? And if I choose my boyfriend how do I kindly tell the other guy that we can't keep talking like that anymore? Have any of you been in this situation? What were the results?

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: this is possibly a really rude question.. im sorry if i offend anyone.?

Lets just start off with, I have been fat since I was 8 years old, when I was diagnosed with thyroid disease, not that thats a good excuse. But anyways, I'm trying to figure out why I have such a problem with myself, and I think its because I find myself revolting to look at. Nice personality, before I turned rude because of events in my life. But basically I have never had a boyfriend (I'm 17), and I came to the conclusion that I never will. Why would ANY normal guy want to be seen with me?? I'm a whale.. I am 5'6'' tall and weigh 190 pounds. I'm gross. and thats basically my question.. How come I find girls (and guys) who are overweight like me to be extremely unattractive?? Seeing as I am one of them? Its screwed up. And while we're at it, are there any guys who like girls like me? :( im so messed up.. im the one on the left.. dont ask.. just a wee bit tipsy http://i1014.photobucket.com/albums/af263/heyy_haihai92/treehumpers.jpg I'm again, on the left.. http://i1014.photobucket.com/albums/af263/heyy_haihai92/hope.jpg and heres one of my face, i look much worse in real life http://i1014.photobucket.com/albums/af263/heyy_haihai92/DSCF5865.jpg I wasn't looking for compliments... i asked a question? no i hate my voice.

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: What the heck is going on?

recently my mom and her boyfriend have been having problems, im always her shoulder to cry on, so yesterday i found out he told her he wanted to date other women, they have been together a year and a half and he was fresh out of a divorce. So i spent the day trying to make my mom feel better and she was sooo upset. then today he called and asked my mom if it was okay if he brought us dinner..he has his truck and motorcycle here so we thought maybe he wanted to come get them but he said no he just wanted to bring us dinner...what the heck is going on?

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: i love him. i miss him. i cant stop thinking about him - but he's my ex. what to do?

My ex broke up with me about 2 months ago and I still love him. He lost his virginity to me, and I to him. He was my first boyfriend and my first kiss. We broke up because he got punished and we couldnt hang out so we drifted apart. Only problem is, he hates me now. Because I took two pregnancy tests and they came out positive so i took another and it came out negative, so he said i lied about the first two. Now he says he hates me. Yes, I know itd be better to get over him, but I just miss the boy I was with 2 months ago. I love him and ill do anything to get him back. What should I do?

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: I don't think my boyfriend loves me anymore...what should I do?

I've been with my boyfriend for over two years now, but it's been pretty rocky for a while. He hates himself because he thinks he's fat and ugly and that no one likes him, but he truly is not fat, is very good-looking, and has a lot of friends. But I don't think he can love me if he hates himself so much. I put all of my emotional and mental health into supporting him, because he suffers from depression. He's gone through several medications, but they've all had negative side effects that have made him stop taking them. It's really taking a toll on me, because I want to be with him and make him happy, but I don't feel the same feelings from him. I'm also really paranoid that he texts other women to make himself feel better, because he's really secretive with his phone. Sex is also a problem, because my birth control pills make my sex drive really low, so that also makes me worry that he's going after other women because he isn't getting enough sex from me. I don't want to leave him because I love him more than anything, and since I'm his only support in his depression, I'm worried that he'd do something self-destructive if I mentioned anything about the emotional stress I'm going through. What should I do?

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: boyfriend problems help?

ok straight to the point he thought i did something he broke up with me then he realized i didn't do anything we still don't go out but we want to. i thought he did something ended up not being what i thought it was and iam was hurting bad too. this all happen in a matter of 2weeks. we both love each other but are scared to get back because we're scared to get hurt again even though we both didn't do anything. what should we do, we cant stand being apart for a couple of hours. it killing us but again we're both scared to have that kind of pain again. we're both are first everything and we don't want to let each other go but the pain is like intense.

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: can some one help me with guy/mom problems?

well, I'm a 14 year old girl.My mom wont let me have a boyfriend till im 16. i think that's crazy!I've dated in the past with out her finding out but i really wont her to know so i can stop hiding it.Is there anyway where i can convince my mom to let me have one? Last time i asked her she said there's no need for boyfriend's just hang out with everyone.Even though ALL my friends hve one. Please help me!

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: I feel so lonely and depressed I just want to kiIl myself?

I barely have friends at school. People are really mean, cruel, judgmental, uncaring, unemotional, and rude towards me. People never try to get to know me, they just judge me based on how I look. I get bullied and teased in school. I sound like a freaking girl, I wish my voice was deeper. I am bad luck. I always get hurt. It feels like everyone hates me. I am misunderstood a lot because I lack social skills. I am doing horrible in school and getting bad grades. I think I am ugIy and I have acne. My life is boring as heck because all I do is stay home. I have gaining weight issues because no matter how much I eat I won't gain any weight so I am extremely skinny that my bones are kinda sticking out. I have horrible eyesight. I have sleeping problems. I am also put in a messed up family. Everyday there is a problem in the house and my mom is always screaming and yelling once she gets home from work, is extremely grumpy, and really offensive when I talk to her. Sister gets angry when I try talking to her. Attitude problems. Dad acting like an idiot by farting, burping, plugging out the internet wires so that I can't use the internet, hogs the T.V, and arguing with mom all day. A bunch of Interruptions in the house. Dog barking and biting me. Strict parents. And ughhhh I just really hate my family! I can't stand it any more! I have 3 sisters and I am the only boy AND the youngest in the family. It really sucks because since I am the only boy in the family I feel lonely and sad because I don't have any brothers. Why didn't God gave me an older brother or something if he knew I'll be lonely and depressed? My sisters barely talk to me because they'd rather be spending time with their boyfriends better. My mom is extremely argumentative and impulsive, too difficult to get along with so I don't talk to her that much. My dad never talks to me, I've never had a conversation with him before. Not even ONCE! He is also high-tempered, impulsive, and boring as hell. I have like NO male figure in my life at all nor do I have someone that would be there for me no matter what. My whole family barely talks to me and barely spends time with me, so what in the freaking heck dude ... I can't stand it any more! I am also secretly gay. It's something I've been keeping to myself for years. I've never told anyone before because I fear that they will not accept me and I don't want them to avoid me. It's not my fault that I'm gay, okay? I was born this way. I REALLY AM! No matter how hard I try, I cannot like girls at all. I've looked at tons and TONS of naked girl pics but I don't get hard at all, not even a bit. It's just so frustrating. I am only sexuaIly attracted to guys, and that's THAT. There's nothing that could change me. I was born this way. I just want to kiIl myself since it's the most wise decision to make. It REALLY is. My life is majorly messed up. I can't stand it any more. You're not in my position so you don't know how it feels. Be me for 1 week and you'll turn mentally retarded. 100% guaranteed.

Email to a friendRelated



Open Question: My bf lives in Sweden..what next?

My boyfriend lives in Sweden and he wants to come to America where I live. The problem is that he doesn't know what to do. Like what sort of visas to get and the passports and so forth. I'm not sure either. If know anything I'd like ot know. Thanks =)

Email to a friendRelated



More Recent Articles


Click here to safely unsubscribe now from "Yahoo! Answers: Search for " or change your subscription or subscribe

Your requested content delivery powered by FeedBlitz, LLC, 9 Thoreau Way, Sudbury, MA 01776, USA. +1.978.776.9498

 

0 comments: