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Open Question: I NEED HELP PLEASE 10PTS WHAT DO I DO? and more... Open Question: I NEED HELP PLEASE 10PTS WHAT DO I DO?Please, someone, i really REALLY need some help! i need to break up with my boyfriend. Things are getting really out of control. i feel lost and confused, and i just can't handle it anymore. Every time i joke about leaving him or hanging up on him or anything even remotely mean, he gets so serious and says that he would die without me, and then he makes me promise that i will never leave him. I feel so trapped. And on top of that, whenever we disagree on anything, even something as small as what to do next weekend, he gets upset because he feels bad that he doesn't want to do the same thing i want to do. He also always wants to do things that make me feel dirty, bad, and shameful. I know this is a little personal, but every time he gets horny, its the only thing he can talk about. And if something comes up in conversation, even mildly sexual, he talks about it seriously. He asks then if we could try it out. This has led me to say that one day i will try things i am REALLY uncomfortable trying. But the only reason i agree to do those things is because if i disagree, he feels bad and will cry or stop talking and make me feel awful. But what's worse is that sometimes i just want to scream at him to grow up and be a man and stop getting so touchy. I want to say "look, you said you wanted to do this, i said i didn't, you said you wouldn't force me, and agreed to not ask again, so there is NO problem! We came to an agreement, right? So stop being so depressed over every little thing!" But i don't. If i did, he'd cry and think i want to leave him, which is true now, but wouldn't be if he could just stop being so depressed over every little disagreement between us. But regardless, now i do need to leave him, but i don't have any way to contact anyone who could help, nor do i want to put him through some sort of psychiatric evaluation. We're in high school, he doesn't need that. I feel really bad about dumping him, but i need to get myself out of this relationship, and quickly. I can't spend the rest of my life with him thinking that one day we'll get married, have kids, and live his dream life while i hold his hand and listen to him apologize about every single mistake or difference between us, and be forced to do the same whenever i mess up. Im not perfect Open Question: OMG LOVE PROBLEMS...?oh my gawd. my boyfriend is really special to me so i introduced him to my bff... now she totally likes him...my boyfriend still loves me and we kiss a lot and i was walking down the hall and he stopped to talk to my friend... i was like whats wrong baby and he was like nothing..take ur fine booty to class, he smacked my butt and i giggled and went to class..i hid behind the lockers and watched them..i saw him Whisper something into her ear and she giggled and kissed him on the cheek.. i was hurt for a while and then i got over it... a week later i wanted to surprise my boyfriend and go to his house and make-out with him... when i got to his house the front door was unlocked so i walked in...and i heard him laughing in his room so i went to see why..and when i walked in there he was having sex with my best friend! omg i ran home and cried for like four hours..i haven't talked to either of them since..(this happened about 3 weeks ago) my best friends boyfriend doesn't know and i don't know if i should tell him. half of me wants to keep it to myself and the other half wants to go beat my best friend up..dump my boyfriend and go tell my best friends boyfriend and go have sex with him! what should i do? Open Question: My boyfriend has been watching porn when I am not around should I be upset?My boyfriend and I live together and have been talking about marriage. I am hesitant to move forward because we have been having some problems. He leaves me alone every weekend in bed to run over to his Mom's. His Mom calls 20-30 times a day for him to run her errands. She is 54 and perfectly capable. Things have become so bad that we went 12 days without any intimacy because anytime we would start anything his Mom would call or he would have to leave to his Mom's. I try to initiate things by kissing him but it is always me having to start things. If I do nothing more than kissing it will be just that even 30 minutes later. I am starting to feel like my boyfriend is not attracted to me. I have told him this and he says he is attracted to me. Just recently I have discovered that the few nights I have been gone last week my boyfriend has been watching porn. I am the type that would gladly watch it with him but I was upset to find the movies watched when I wasn't around. Especially since we haven't been intimate. On top of this the other day I said I wanted to spend my money on a piece of jewelry I really wanted. He commented that I should spend the money on something I really need like getting my boobs done. Should I overlook this or are his actions and comments a sign that I need to move on? Open Question: why do i keep dreaming of him?i keep dreaming about my co-worker in a romantic way. i used to have a crush on him, but i've been trying to get over him. you see, i have a boyfriend who i've been dating for 3 years and he has a girlfriend now. i still think he's cute, but i know that we would never work out. we're just different people. he's also kind of dumb and annoying to work with. super nice guy, but he's kind of an air head. the problem is, whenever i have sexy dreams about him it kind of makes me like him a little more. why do i continue to dream about him even though i don't want to be with him? how can i stop getting these dreams? (also, i've been known to talk in my sleep occasionally and i don't want my boyfriend to hear anything innapropriate) i haven't been thinking about him, i've been dreaming about him. i'm trying to stop the dreams. how can i do that? and how does him having a girlfriend mean that he doesn't respect me? please read the question before you answer it, thanks. Open Question: I'm having a problem with keeping my anger down?Recently, my boyfriend and I got a little fired up about cooking, I have a dish that i can make quite well and he said that he could make it better...And it made me feel beat down and unhappy. I'm still unhappy about it but I don't want to tell him because i don't want to make him upset, he hates it when he makes me upset and gets depressed...Please tell me how to cope! Open Question: How can I convince my boyfriend to get rid of his dog?We have a 9 mos old yellow lab puppy who is destructive and has a serious biting problem (you can barely pet him because he will snap at your hand). My boyfriend got the dog right before we started dating and I don't think he realized how much work the dog would be. Both of us work long hours and the dog is too destructive to leave alone in our place so he stays in a crate during the day but my boyfriend just keeps making excuses saying the dog will get better in time. We live in a tiny apt and simply do not have the time or space to properly care for him. Open Question: lady problems...PLEASE HELP! :(?okay um...my "thingie" down there kinda smells really weird. idk if this is normal but im getting worried...even my boyfriend noticed nd when he told me about it i was really embarassed...sometimes it smells so yucky it makes me gag lol..but i really need help! what should i do about this problem?? Open Question: BF problems!! Someone help, please!?I cheated on my boyfriend and I told him everything, cuz I felt really bad. He forgave me but I still feel really bad. I feel like i should stop seeing him because I feel so bad about it. I feel like I am a horrible person. I told him I still feel really bad about it. What should I do? Open Question: Feeling Low!!!!!! need some help!?Well, so my actual problem is my parents..well, they get me whateva i want, but i they don't let me do my eyebrows, don't let me wear make-up, don't let me shave my leg?!!!? (ewww! but i do it anywayz) N they don't let me wear tank tops, short skirts and sometimes they don't even let me wear my hair down. All my friends started doing their eyebrows N i wanted to do mine too..i knw they wouldn't let me, so i did my own eyebrows and i messed it up a little bit..not a lot..my left eyebrow s a little thinner than my right one so it looks a little higher than the right one N it is noticeable if you look real close. N my parents keep calling me ugly, because i did my eyebrows. and i got a hair cut ..and people say it looks good on me..even yesterday my parents were calling me ugly, and they said i looked pretty bfore and now i look very ugly! but hey!!! i looked ugly before, i actually look better now and people(friends) say that too...N i personally think i'm pretty when i wear eyeliner, and i wear to school everyday, and i wear whenever i'm not goin out with my parents. But, once i see them, they just bring me down..they call me ugly, and i used to cry before. but now i'm not even able to cry, i don't knw y..i just keep it all to myself. I din't know what i should do, maybe i will look better if i fix my eyebrows but my parents are not letting me to. I just wanna go somewhere and my boyfriend thinks i'm pretty.But, i just don't know why my parents say i look ugly, and i have also talked to them about it, like how it brings me down, but they don't care, they still call me ugly. :( sometimes it makes me feel like i'm really ugly. N they think i'm ugly bcause i did my eyebrows and i cut my hair. I guess or i don't know if i really turned ugly. i'm 16..BTW... Open Question: Friend problems! NEEDS HELP!?Okay, so my ex boyfriend of 9 months won't leave me alone. I'm dating someone else, and they hate eachother. I don't want to be friends with my ex anymore, and he won't stop calling me. It's to the point where if I don't answer, he IM's me every 5 seconds. Does anyone have any ideas on what to do?? Open Question: Is there anything I can do about this?I have never had very much self confidence, gotten angry easily, and have always gotten slightly depressed at times, but lately it's gotten so bad I can't deal with it. It started worsening when my boyfriend of over a year broke up with me in like february. I became so depressed that I didn't eat for a week or go anywhere. It got a lot worse a month ago when one of my close friend overdosed and died. I know it's natural to get depressed over that, but not to the point when it interferes with your life so badly. Lately just cry for no reason at all and once I start, I can't stop. I feel lonely all the time and get so angry. No matter how hard I try to concentrate on things I can't. (I have always had a problem concentrating on things, but it's gotten more severe) If someone even does something that is only slightly annoying I blow up at them and cry. I blame myself for everything and when something goes wrong in my life, I can't get over it. I just feel so down. I don't know what to do. I also forgot to mention I can't sleep at night. And when I do fall asleep I wake up multiple times during the night. More Recent Articles
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