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Open Question: I need help, or advice. What to do when having problems? Like love? and more... Open Question: I need help, or advice. What to do when having problems? Like love?My ex-boyfriend and I started going out on July 12 of this year... and we have been through a lot, I think I may actually love him.. and.. Well, he told my friend to break up with me for him. Then the next day, he didn't know about it... I know that he told my friend to break up with him because when my friend called me,.. He was on the phone and at the end. He said yeah, It's over. Now when the next day came, he acted like he didn't know anything about it. I was heartbroken.. Now we are wondering if it is officially over... Then, If I should just forget about him and move on with my life without him in it. Or If I should try to be friends with him. I just don't know.. Help? Open Question: why does my boyfriend think sex is violent?my boyfriend wont kiss or sleep with me. he is extremely uncomfortable with any intimacy.he did sleep with a woman he liked once when he was 20 but he never wanted to see her again. and i herd he has had sex with multiple prostitutes over the years because then he doesn't have to see them after wards. he said you shouldn't have sex with someone you love because sex is violent. he has social and anger problems. i think he is angry when it comes to sex. i don't just want to assume he has been molested, but what would make him want to be violent during sex? why wouldn't he want to sleep with me even if we got married? Open Question: Please help, i have no idea why My "friend" is still mad.?So, a couple days ago in Drama me and a couple of friends had to decide on groups. There were six of us, we were only supposed to have a group of four. I want to split it 3/3, but everyone else wanted to split it 4/2 or 5/1. We spent almost the whole period arguing, until one of my friends boyfriend asked me to be in his group. Since i was sick of the fighting and he was my friend i said yes. Everyone was fine with this. Except for *Sue*. Sue who was dating *Bill*, and Bill had asked me to be in his group, but AFTER he had asked Sue. Now Sue's pissed off at me because she says i always flirt with Bill. I don't do it on purpose, but i can't not talk to him, he's been my friend for a long time, but so has Sue. So i said i was sorry to Sue but she keeps saying that i'm not really sorry and that I'll keep flirting with him anyways. I like Sue and Bill. But now Sue has started to turn my other friends against me and i just want to solve the problem, how can I do this, but keep both Sue and bill as friends? *If it helps we're in 8th grade so we don't really talk* Thanks... :( Open Question: Fable 2, boyfriend problems.............someone answer....please.?My boyfriend has this game called fable 2 and in the game he married one girl and had two babies and then in the same town married another girl, had another kid then he went and picked up a whore and his two wives, then slept with all three of them. he says it was just for fun..... but funny thing is why would it cross his mind? do you think in your opinion that he'll cheat on me? Open Question: I need some mobile phone help!?Okay this is slightly weird but my iphone froze i restarted it and so on. Its up and working lets me call everyone but my boyfriend who's on o2 but it lets me call others on o2. Now your probably thinking its his line but when i called him off my home phone i could get through. So i tried my mums phone who's also on o2 and i had the same problem of trying to get through to him all it does is a beeping sound. Open Question: kind of long but i could really use alot of advise. with my ex boyfriend. did i do the wright thing to leave?So me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 9 months and i think i might love him, but i think its just about time to end it. He says he loves me, yet he controls me. He made me stop smoking weed which is fine because yes it is bad, and illegal. He is currently telling me to stop smoking cigarettes which ive been doing long before i met him. He doesn't let me talk to any guys that are my friends because he gets jelous. Just today he told me that he went onto my myspace and saw that i wanted to hang out with a girl from my old job. I havne't seen her in a while and i just wanted to catch up on old times. And because he thinks she smokes weed, he says i dont need to talk to her. I told him that she doesn't (which is the truth) and he says it shouldn't matter because i shouldn't need to hang out with anyone but him. He constantly tells me that my free time needs to be spent with him, and if i say i want to hang out with my girl friends for the night, he says "i don't ever want to hang out with anyone but you, so you should be the same". I have broken up with him about 5 times because i don't like the controllingness he puts on my life but then he will cry and cry and bring me flowers and sorry cards, so i take him back. Yesterday was his birtday he told me he only wanted one thing from me and that was for me to quit. He told me if i don't it will be the worst birthday he has ever had, so i tried. I started gettting really mad because i needed a cigarette and he finally gave me my cigarettes back. I gave him 80 dollar cologne and 70 dollar shoes for his birthday and he still said it was the worst he has ever had cuz i didn't stop smoking. He then told me that if i gave him oral and anal he would forgive me. I gave him oral for a few minutes then i stopped cuz oral isn't my thing. and we attempted anal but it just hurt too much, so we didn't. So he is mad about not getting his way on his birthday. He tells me my happiness means more to him than anything and i told him i can't be happy without cigarettes but thats an exception to him. He is now going around calling me smokey to my face, and names related to smoking cigarettes. I just don't know what to do anymore. Yes we do have good times together we go out to eat and movies frequently but i feel as if he has a controling problem.. someone help please Open Question: Whats going on with my mobile phone? Need help please?Okay this is slightly werid but my iphone frooze i restarted it and so on. Its up and working lets me call everyone but my boyfriend whos on o2 but it lets me call others on o2. Now your probably thinking its his line but when i called him off my home phone i could get through. So i tried my mums phone whos also on o2 and i had the same problem of trying to get through to him all it does is a beeping sound. Open Question: Why am I so emotionless?-- should I be worried?My whole life I've never been able to speak up for myself, I always suffer in silence and I put everyone else before me,. I'm 17, 10/29/08 my best friend killed himself, and idk why but it didn't really affect me emotionally at all(I never talked to anyone about it). A couple weeks ago I moved from Michigan to Tennessee to get away from my mom and her dick boyfriend and I don't even miss any of my friends or family. when i was 13 my stepdad (my dad ditched out on me before i was born and i have no clue who he is(and that doesn't affect me emotionally either) and my stepdad got with my mom before i was 1 so he was always like my real dad) got addicted to meth and started getting really aggresive,he was constantly yelling at everyone and breaking evertying and he threatened to kill us several times, my mom finally ended up divourcing him and that didn't affect me either. Not even a year after that my mom ended up getting with some asshole who was constantly being a dick to me just for his entertainment. she then had a kid with him even tho we were already struggleing with money. and none of that affected me either . About 6 months ago I started thinking about killing myself, which really confuses me because compared to alot of people my life is good, and at first i didn't think anything of it but it was constantly getting worse, about 4 months ago I started cutting and once again I have no clue why, I just randomly get urges to do it and the more i ignore it the worse it gets and the the longer i wait the deeper i end up cutting, so I guess I do have emotions but... well I can't really feel them. and also I remember almost nothing that happened in my life past age 14 but from what I've been told all of my cousins and my sister and step brother were constantly making me miserable. When ever someone ask me to list good qualities about myself i freeze because I can't think of any. I have a lot of people that i chill with but I don't have any true friends, i've had 3 good friends in my life, 2 turned out to be backstabbing ***holes who were just using me and the other killed himself. I've had a few girlfriends but i didn't love any of them, I've actually never loved anyone, not even family, and that really disturbs me. I've had one person in my life that actually cared about me and tried to look out for me, my cousin, and he died of a heroin overdose exactly 3 years ago. He was addicted to heroin but he was still a good person and he looked out for me, he tried to make sure that I would never make the same mistakes as him, honestly that's the only thing stopping me from turning to drugs, i know my cousin would be crushed. last year i spent 2 months in juvie because my mom called the cops and said that i threatened to kill her even though i could never threaten to kill someone, and then told me that i got what i had coming because i did bad in school even tho i tried my hardest i just could never concentrate on anything longer then 2 minutes. I've been like that my whole life and when i was going to school it made my life hell because of all the trouble i'd get in at home for failing classes. there were a few years in my life where i was really bad with my mom, constantly flipping out and cussing her out, I finally got it under controll last year but she still constantly throws it in my face and acts like I'm a horrible person even though i hated myself after every fight i got in with her. I've had a couple therapist, and I've been in an anxiety counselling group and idk why but i could never tell them about wanting to kill myself and cutting, i really couldn't tell them any of my problems, I always feel like an ***hole when i complain about my life because there are sooo many people out there that have it so much worse then me. Sorry for all of the typing i know that no one wants to real all of that, i just got in sordove a trance when i started typing and couldn't stop, half of those were suppressed memories i didn't remember until i started typing, that's why all of the events i put are in a completely random order Open Question: How can I make my boyfriend dump me so I won't hurt him?I have been with my boyfriend for 6 months now, he is 20 and I am 19, apparently after asking many people, he is cheap, and apparently from asking people, he is using my tender-heartedness and wants my body, or like other people said: "he is thinking through his d*ck".... But he is VERY soft hearted and starts CRYING if I ever even MENTION that I want to break up, so looks to me, that I will hurt him no matter how I try breaking up, I don't wanna treat him badly or make it worst during the christmas season, when people try to forgive each other, remembering the birth of our wonderful Lord, so I don't wanna cause him problems, and hence I want HIM to break up with me, I don't wanna hurt him, but I wanna make him break-up. PS; I STILL LOVE HIM SO MUCH, but I just think it's not gonna work out although I love him, because although he is very tender-hearted and VERY sweet man, if I have doubts that he is cheap and that he might be wanting my body, then it's perhaps not gonna work out in the long run. I am a virgin and we had a few handjobs, I know he LOVES handjobs, so I will keep saying I don't wanna do it (anyway, if he breaks up ONLY because I stopped doing handjobs, that itself means he is using me, and will make me more sure), but WHAT ELSE can I do to make him break up with me, because he agrees on anything to keep me, so maybe he will say ok no handjobs, no problem, what can I do then? And would that be a good test to find out if he wants me just for my body too? OPINIONS AND ADVICES ARE GREATLY APPRECIATED. THANKS EVERYONE SO MUCH Plus, we discussed ALL the above stuff several times, if it's all sorted out, then I won't be on yahoo answers asking for help! THANK YOU! I PERSONALLY have doubts that he is cheap and wants me for my body or to pleasure him, my friends AGREED with me, but I DO think that, its not my friends made me think that, but can't you break up sometimes EVEN if you love the person? If you feel its simply NOT gonna work out using my brains? Open Question: Can you stop taking the pill a week early to get an early period? Or must you take all 21 pills each time?I started taking the pill on the first day of my period. My next period is timed to start the week I visit my boyfriend overseas. Since this is the only time we'll have together in several months, I really don't want to get my period then! I'm also uncomfortable with skipping a period. The pill does affect my libido to some extent, and I'm concerned that missing the natural bleeding break will compound this problem. My question is, is it possible to take only 14 active pills to start the bleeding break early? Will this allow me to have a period, or must all 21 active pills be taken for this to happen? Will I experience any negative side effects if I try this? After seven days I would return to taking 21 pills as normal. I usually wouldn't want to mess with my hormone cycles, but this is a special exception. Additional details are that I'm taking Yasmin, a low estrogen / high progesterone pill; I last took the pill in 2007, then had a break for two years, then recently went on it for one and a half months, off for one month, then started taking it again yesterday. Thanks everybody for your help. I appreciate your advice. Edited to add: Thanks Moem! You've been extremely helpful. I wasn't aware that ovulation could occur if all 21 pills were not taken. In that case I'll definitely skip the period instead - thank you again for clearing this up. Open Question: What should i get BF for Christmas?I finally have my first boyfriend. I just have one problem: I have no idea what to get him for christmas. I won't see him until after break so i have time to shop but i have no clue what to do. He's shy, an awesome artist, a soccer player, and a xbox lover. Any ideas? Something creative will get you extra credit! More Recent Articles
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