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Open Question: i need as many answers as i can get to help my relationship.? and more... Open Question: i need as many answers as i can get to help my relationship.?My first relationship started when i was 15. him and i were together for about 6 months before he started hanging out with other girls and what not. He cheated on me at around that time, and we broke up about a year and a half later. I've been with a different guy here for almost 2 years now and he's never even flirted with another girl. GIVEN he's like every other guy and doesn't understand when a girl is flirting with him.. but now with my current boyfriend, i'm paranoid due to my last relationship and i have trust issues with him. He hasn't cheated on me, the most he's done is hang out with his friends while a girl or two was there. Nothing even slightly major. There is this girl now though, she's a really big hoe, and she sleeps with any guy she can get her greasy paws on to. Now my boyfriend has missed calls from her and their friends on myspace. He doesn't want me to say anything to her cause he says its "starting drama" that he doesn't want to deal with, and nothing is going to happen cause thats gross. I need HELP letting go, getting over it and trusting he wont do anything. I get this sick to my stomach feeling, and heart ache whenever hes out with his friend john cause john is really good friends with this slutty girl. he knows how i feel and he says everything will be alright. i just need some advice on how to stop being worried and over bearing. a guys perspective is really really helpful. OH ps, my boyfriend and i are kinda on a "break" type of thing right now trying to get our relationship back on track since we had a few fighting problems in the past. Open Question: Please help me to save my friend from the trauma....?Hi,I'm trying to narrate the life story of my friend as compact as possible.She is married for 10yrs having 2 kids.Though she had a love marriage yet some facts remain hidden,they only come into light when u get married.She belongs to a conservative brahman family.After her marriage she slowly & gradually came to know that her husband is alcoholic.In fact his family had that culture where father & son "cheers"together.Initially she thought it will get over but even after having 2kids his attitude remains same.In the morning either he'll apologise or will not remember anything.One day he lost his wallet or his mobile...By every means my friend tried to make him understand but all in vague.Then one day she called her in-laws to tell them that it's no more possible for to stay with him.Some how the matter got resolved temporarily.Recently my friend came into contact with her old boyfriend.Gradually they came closer and and emotionally attached.In the meantime her husband got alarmed due to good mob.bill.On asking she divulged the truth.Then her problems got worst she is not that type at all to handle all this.Everything happened as an accident & because of her prolonged personal trauma.In addition to that her old friend came out as an advantage seeker.She fell a victim of her innocence & plight.She is getting physical & mental harassement almost every day.She can't move out because of kids & loves her husband too.Her husband loves her a lot but can neither forget the incident nor quit his deadly habit,which is solelly responsible for the whole matter.Please frindz PLEASE advice& help... Open Question: problems with my fiance family?i have been with my boyfriend for 12 years... i am now 24 and i am 19 weeks pregnant with our first baby gurl .. for some reason his brother has hatred issue with me for about 6-8 years. He has always disrespected me in some kind of way. Even with him having his own girlfriends he always tends to start fights with me.. My boyfriend has always told him that it bothers him when he calls me the name like bitch, weirdo, he has even gotten in fist fights with his brother but that doesnt seem to stop his brother disrespecting me. Within hours my boyfriend accepts his appology and they pretend as if nothing ever happened.. and it sorta bothers me but i brush it off and every time i have accepted his appologies he tends to do it every time i see him... My bf and i even moved state to try to make things better with us .. but just recently we went to c his family for Thanksgiving and the same thing happened again..i have told my bf that its really uncomfortable. but he doesnt say anything and continued talking to him as if nothing happened.. his family told me to just get over it cause thats the way that he is ... but how i come they just cant understand?? and it can also affect my pregnancy.... and what should my bf do to avoid this to happen since when he tells em that it hurts him when he does that and that doesnt stop him... PLEASE HELP..!! Open Question: Boy/love/relationship problem....=[?Okay let me start by saying, this is prolly gonna be a lil long but please bare with me...i really appreciate. So i have this guy in my life...ive known him for 2 years now, it was love at first sight...for almost a year we were in this sort of young uncommital relationship...mainly cuz he was going to live with his dad in california and he didnt want to have to break up with me....we spent everyday together, spent the night at each others houses and everything. Well he ended up leaving for CA and it was a really hard goodbye...Oh let me give you a summary of this guy....Hes half black half white...hes an ex jehovah witness, hes got a real nice body, he has this attitude that he knows hes all that and he knows how to sweet talk! omg lol Hes a pisces (im a scorpio) =]....he does have this bit of a weed smoking problem but that only started after he moved to CA really....anyways i ended up flying to spend 2 weeks with him in CA and he was leading me on the whole time telling me how bad he missed me and he couldnt wait to see me again, well i got there just to find out that he had a girlfriend...so i was really bummed but i kinda thought in the back of my head to expect that from Antoine...so i just tried to have fun while i was there..and i did after awhile...haha i ended up becoming friends with his girl...dont ask lol. But while i was there we went to the beach just me and him...i got him to get in the water with me...to my surprise he took his jeans off and got in with his boxers! lol but thats just the kind of thing to expect from him cuz he is so spontaneous lol but we were out there for awhile and we drifted to far out there, he was swimming back but the waves were so big that they were knocking me down to the ground and i found my self screaming out for him...and then nall of a sudden things went blank and when i opened my eyes a was being carried out of the ocean in his arms...he had swam out to save me. If it wasnt for him a wouldnt be here....haha he layed me on the ground and my boob was slipping out of my bathing suite top and he gently put it all back together....(now he calls me boobie lol) we he was scared for me on the way back home....anyways things didnt work out in CA and he moved to Virginia....he visits every so often and we just click back together evrytime....but ugh when he talks to me most times he will be all baby this and baby that or he uses alot of other pet names for me, but sometimes he doesnt act like he cares at all....also he will say things like your perfect, your mine and nothing else really matters...like basically he is so sure that if at any given moment if he wanted me back or wanted me to be there for him a would hands down type of thing. He tells me all the time that he knows me like the back of his hand and he really does its scary....He calls me his one and only special girl and he never wants me to forget what we have been through, he still says i love you...but he will go through spells where he doesnt even talk to me...I had a boyfriend when he last came to visit and he could have cared less in fact he let me be with him and just said i know by the end of the day that you will be mine i aint trippin....ugh!? does he think he own me like that? or does he really love me...and maybe there is something more there that could be big? idk anymore....i hate to say hes kinda a player...he talks to alot of girls the same like callin them boo or whatever, and he does "hook up" with girls cuz he will tell me like everything cuz we have ALOT of trust with each other....am i really a special person in his life? or is he just using me? or does he just think of me as any other girl?..........thank you those who read this whole book lol sorry it was so long....but i could really use answers please and thank you =] by the way im 17 and hes just about to turn 17 lol....i know were young i dont need the critism about that....lol Open Question: I'm in real big trouble.. I'm so confused..what should i do !! help !?its kinda a long story but plz plz read it all : Im a 24 years old girl ,I live in a very strict country (Saudi Arabia) , where my parents have the authority to control my life forever unless I got married !! Couples weeks ago I got basted in a Halloween party (boys & girls ) which consider here a huge & forbidden thing !! So they locked me in the house since that day …. On other hand I have a boyfriend ( together since 2 years), who really loves me even worship me !!!!!! He stand by me in all problems. he would do anything to be with me ….and he want to propose to get me out of this situation !! beside my family won't have any authority to control me . Before what happen in that Halloween night, "just few days before it" ,I got a scholarship to study abroad in the states to get my master degree.. But there is a few condition with it : 1- Since it's a governmental scholarship , they gonna pay & ASK for a male sponsor to go with me ( father, brother, uncle or husband ) BUT The male sponsor doesn't have to stay with me the whole study years, he could go back n visit me between whiles.. Which in my condition I don't know if my family would do that!! 2 - Even if I was there alone.. I will always be worry, my family will bother me with calls & check out on me.. They don't trust me anymore ( means : No clubbing , No road trips ..etc) 3- In the end after I done my master,. The scholarship will immediately end, n I have to go back home!!! My bf is a very open minded person, he promise me if i had to marry him , he'd let me do whatever I want as long as I don't cheat on him!! Coz this would broke his heart… and EVEN if one day my feelings toward him changed and I found someone else.. He would divorce me without telling our families for 2 years and wait for me so I could fix my whole situation during this time ………. He don't try to make me marry him for any advantage.. He just really loves me & want me to be happy.. trying to help me .. Should I just marry him!! I love him.. It's just I'm not satisfied with his look beside I always wanted to know & marry a man from other country.. but I start to feel its jst a ballshit, teenager dreams .. and I should never lose my bf who loves me & stand for me even before what happen & before i got the scholorship!! …. What should I DOOOOOO !!!!! its serious !! :( Open Question: My boyfriend had so many problems, do you think I made the right choice by ending the relationship?My boyfriend had so many problems. I ended the relationship. Do you think I made the right choice? I'm 22 and my boyfriend was 29. We dated for 1 year. I know that there are problems in every relationship, but I feel like mine had WAY too many. Would these things bother you, and would they make you end your relationship? I'll try to make the list short... - -Hes 29 and still lives at home. -He got fired 6 months ago, and has yet to put in one application.(Hes just "bumming it on unemployment)-He gets 280.00$ a week and manages to blow it ALL and he has NO bills! -He got fired for borrowing too much money-(To gamble with) -He has a gambling problem (although it has gotten better but I think just due to the fact he doesn't have much money) -He never Graduated high school or went to get his GED -His only job he had for 12 years was working at a pizza place as a supervisor. -He has depression and anxiety -He will often say "Im not in the MOOD to do anything" and blame it on his anxiety/depression -He has gone to rehab for pain pill addiction (But is now clean- but it worries me he will go back) -He gets medication for his "moods" its a mood stabilizer and he sells them to his friend-for $$ -He no longer has a car, we have to take my car EVERYWHERE and it's getting annoying! - I didn't know what to do anymore. If I brought up any of these issues I would "stress" him out. --Would these things have made you end the relationship, or would you have stuck it out to see if it got better? I just stopped taking his phone calls one day. -Al Open Question: I have a 2 year old son, but I'm very depressed.?I don't know what to do. I can't handle living, and I can't afford help. My husband keeps all of the money and insists that I don't have a problem and don't need help, but he's one of the main causes of it. He stresses me out all the time, treats me like crap, and if he's busy with something, even if its something not important like talking to random strangers online about nothing, I have to keep my mouth shut or he gets mad and yells at me. My parents treated me like crap my whole life and hated me and tried to kill me a few times. When I was 16, I found a boyfriend that I really loved and we were going to get married when we turned 18, but he got killed by a drunk driver. And I had to go back to my parents, which by the way never noticed I was gone. Then when I was 19, I left and moved in with another guy. And he was nice at first, but then he turned into a complete jerk after finding out I was pregnant, and he cheated on me when I was 6 months pregnant, and I've wanted to kill myself my whole life, but that just killed it for me. I just didn't care about life any more after that. Then my son was born, and that helped with my depression a little because he was so cute and sweet and innocent, and he loves me because I'm his mommy. And he still makes me feel a lot better, but I still am depressed. And I still often have fantasies about killing myself. And I still really want to die, but I love my son, and I don't want him to have to go through that. I am just so confused. I don't know what to do any more. I'm not allowed to get help. :( What would be the point in making this up? You make no since at all. I am on here for serious answers only please. Humpty Dumpty. I'm not sure what you mean. What other questions? Alright, its late. 12:43am here. I'm going to go to bed and sleep on it. Maybe I'll do it. Maybe I'll feel better in the morning. Even if I do feel better, it won't last long. But I'll try for the few friends on here that care. Open Question: Should i dumped my boyfriend?I feel something strange is going on with him,he been talking to this girl over msn,i found out she send him nude pictures of her,and also they meeting up for the first time on friday.He stop saying baby or even i love u to me,now im very worry that he could indeed be cheating on me,we are also lacking in communication,what should i do,confront him about all i know or just dumped him to make all this problems go away? Open Question: Is it a good idea 'Not' to be friends?Me and my bestestestest friend ever. Are not friends anymore. Looooong story short, she had a boyfriend, and everything changed, her attitude, and all. And we never talked anymore and it was like the whole world revolved around him. So i got kind of 'jealous' because we started drifting apart. then her and her bf had alot of problems, including me and her problems and she thinks that she is a bad friend and im to good of a friend for her and keep saying 'we shouldnt be friends' But like... All the times her bf called her a "fucking bitch" or completly left her in a town she wasnt familiar with or like, all the other stupid stuff hes done.. she still stays with him because she 'loves him' its REALLY irritating. so now were not friends because she said she doesnt deserve to be my bestfriend. But i really miss her alot... But sometimes i am so fed up with her and her crap. How should i feel about this??? And is she really a bad friend, or am i overreacting or what? More Recent Articles |
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