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Open Question: I need advice Please.? and more... Open Question: I need advice Please.?Okay. Wow, I cant believe im asking random people what to do over the internet. But hopefully one of you guys can help. I've been dating this guy on and off for 2 months now. He is this amazingly great guy. He's nice, he's smart, and really good to me. The problem is.. Im just not attracted to him. I know, I know..Looks arent everything. According to everyone else..he is very cute. And he is. But he is..a saint. He acts perfect. I mean..He wont even say heck. Alot of girls would like that. But im the type of girl that likes fast cars and semi-crazy guys who are outgoing. This guy is just, boring. I cant take it. We've dated 4 times now..and each time i've broke up with him. I'm trying to make myself like him, and fall in love, and its just not working. Its like I woke up one morning and was like "I need love". Everyone says im nuts b/c he's a great guy, but there needs to be attraction. I want a boyfriend. But i go to a private school with 3 guys!...and yes...that factor practically makes it it possible to have a relationship. ahh. There are guys that like me...but i know that if i date them i'll hardly ever get to see them b/c they go to a different school. I dont want to put myself into a situation like that. So what do I do? I want a guy. =( Open Question: If my daughter's father loves her so much,would he really just walk away?Hey Everyone :) Basically,my daughter's father and my boyfriend have never got along, whenever they are in the same room with each other, there's constant sniping between them, which on two occasions has led to them physically fighting,once in front of my daughter. I've tried in the past to mediate, I've tried talking to them, I've tried to make sure that when my ex boyfriend is here, my boyfriend isn't, i have tried everything i can think of to keep the peace. When i spoke to my ex boyfriend about it ages ago about what exactly his problem was, he told me that he didn't like my boyfriend spending time with my daughter, but the thing is my boyfriend isn't trying to take his place. My boyfriend is brilliant with my daughter and he loves her to bits,but he's never tried to get overly involved or take over and my daughter's father sees her whenever he likes-we've never done anything to push him out. Things did get quite bad between my ex boyfriend and i for a while, partly due to what was going on, and he did want to go through court at one point but we managed to sort everything out and things between us all have been alot more settled over the past few weeks. I really thought things would get better until my daughter's father came round to take her out yesterday like he always does, and told me If i'm going to stay with my boyfriend then he was going to walk away because he wasn't prepared to share our daughter, especially with someone he hates. At first i actually thought he said it to get a reaction or to start an argument (again) but then he started crying, and i've never seen him cry in the five years i've known him. I really didn't know what to say at the time so i called him a d*ck and made him leave. I'm just really, really confused now, if he cared about her enough to want to go through court a couple of months ago,how can he be so prepared to give up on her now?? Half of me wants to call his bluff just to see if he's purely acting like a spoilt child. I know the best thing to do for my child would be to agree to this if it keeps her father in her life, but is this how it's going to be everytime my ex boyfriend doesn't like someone?? If anyone can (sort of) relate to this or has anything helpful i would really, really appreciate it. Thanks for listening. xx Hey Dot :),I really don't think my ex has those sort of feelings for me anymore Jessica, Hi:), i know i could've been a bit nicer to him, but i really,honestly did not know what to say and i was angry. I still am. Open Question: why doesnt by boyfriend like me going out?im going out on saturday night. i hardly ever go out (like once a year!!) but its christmas and all my mates are begging me to come out with them. the problem is my bf hates me going out. i told him about it last night and he went in a really big mood saying he thought i had grwn out of clubbin. we have a 2year old son, but im only 21!!!! i get the feeling that he thinks im going to cheat on him, but i wouldnt. and when i asked him if he doesnt trust me he says that he trusts me just not other people!!!??? please help me understand him!! Open Question: Boyfriend problem!!?? Please help?!?!?i think I was too clingy and pushy with my boyfriend. I annoyed the hell out of him, he told me to leave him alone, that i bug, and that he'll call me when he wants to talk to me. I haven't talked to him since yesterday. And as bad as i want to call him, i'm not cuz i think that will push him further away.What do you think? Do you think If I just stop calling him or contacting him in any way that he'll start thinking of me and missing me? Open Question: What to get as a Christmas gift for boyfriend's parents?I am trying to think of a gift idea for my boyfriend's parents for Christmas. The reason I'm stumped is because of the following problems: 1) I can't really go too financially overboard (I'm a student in college--funds tend to get limited.) 2) They're really tough to buy for. They don't really go out that often, so I didn't want to get like a gift card for a restaurant or something like that on the off chance one or the other hates it. But at the same time, I wanted to at least get something to show I'm grateful for their not minding that I'm constantly over at the house all the time. Open Question: marrying my greek boyfriend?me (filipina) and my boyfriend (who has a greek passport and lives in london for 8years now) just got engaged.but the problem is he cannot marry me in london because my visa has been expired.and the option that we can see is me going home to my country and then apply for a fiancee visa.do u think it is guaranteed that i can get a fiancee visa even if i overstayed in uk? and how long will it take to get the visa from philippines? is it going to be difficult to get a visa in my case? Open Question: Boyfriend problems.. plz help!?ok, so here's the story, this boy asked me out, ok. then the next day he told me he wanted to break up. (ok, and this is the day after he asked me out) and i was mad,cuz since in 2,3,4th grade he had done it to me plenty of times to me,(go out, then in a short time decide he didnt like me, and break up) so i hadent talked to him for like 3 days. well today I was having a good day, so i texted him and said im sorry i was mad at u, its ok if u just wanna be friends. well he responed: o, ok well im going out with this other girl. then i said back, well i hope that works out for u. he said: me and her r in luv so just stop. let me tell u, I got so mad i told the whole story in a text and sent it to everybody on my contact list. plz tell me what should i do?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?1/ Open Question: marrying my greek boyfiend?me (filipina) and my boyfriend (who has a greek passport and lives in london for 8years now) just got engaged.but the problem is he cannot marry me in london because my visa has been expired.and the option that we can see is me going home to my country and then apply for a fiancee visa.do u think it is guaranteed that i can get a fiancee visa even if i overstayed in uk? and how long will it take to get the visa from philippines? is it going to be difficult to get a visa in my case? Open Question: Torn Between Two Guyss !? HELPP !?Ok. First off, im 14. And try not to stress over guys. Ok, so i have been dating my boyfriend for about three weeks now, (so its nothing that serious!] Alot of girls like him, so its hard not to think about him ... cheating! and my friends brother goes to school with him and he said, they he is just using me so he wont have to be single , etc. But my boyfriend tells me he is in love with me and all this over stuff.. Ok, now i went to my best friends house the other day and her brother has liked me for awhile now but i've never really liked him. but he did something the other day that just made me see him different. So now he is all i think about.,, i dont even think about my boyfriend anymore.. The problem is her brother is 18!!! im 14. my mom would never let me date him. and if she knew she wouldnt let me have any kind of contact with him. And with my boyfriend i dont wanna let him go but im guessing my heart doesnt wanna be with him... im just so lost. Should i just cut ties with my boyfriend and just be single but continue talking to her brother until im old enough to be with him!? Open Question: He is a total jerk, immature, self-centered meanie... so why can't I stop liking him? 10pts!?I have a huge dilemma. I cannot seem to get over my best friend-turned-boyfriend-turned ex-boyfriend, but I have all the reasons in the world to. I broke up with him because of his attitude. He was extremely jealous, posessive, demanding, condescending, judgemental, and mean-spirited. I was very patient and tolerant of his behavior for a long time, I was faithful, supportive, kind in return. Everything was always about him- he didn't support any of my future goals if they didn't fit in with his plans, while I ALWAYS supported his dreams and goals. He would blow up at me if I contradicted him, even threaten to not speak to me again if I didn't admit I was wrong about something. Those are just a FEW examples of how psychotic he could be. I finally called it quits last week. His demeanor changed instantly. He admitted he was wrong, begged for my forgiveness, said he didn't have any other friends besides me (which is true). I know I am right for calling it quits, but why do I feel so bad? He isn't a bad person, just has a lot of emotional problems. He has been an overall good friend to me. I know he isn't good for me relationship-wise and I won't take him back, but WHY do I feel this immense guilt? Why can't I just get over him?? hahaha, WOW Mr. French, I see I struck a nerve there! You still seem a little butthurt. See a therapist for that, I am not your ex or your punching bag, silly boy. Open Question: Adjusting a toddler to a new step parent (and baby)?I am in desperate need of advice from other parents that have been through the same situation! I have a 3 year old son (just turned a few weeks ago) who is having some problems adjusting to a new living situation. We recently moved in with my boyfriend, who has been in our lives for about a year and a half. The change came about suddenly as we have another baby on the way and are due in April. He is a wonderful man who really has been in my life since before my son was born, but we were only friends up until then. My son has always loved it whenever he would come over. They would play and get along just great. His real father has never been involved so there is no animosity coming from there. BUT since moving in, my son wants very little to do with him. He will try to play or engage with my son and he (my son) will scream "no!" and run to me. Now, to be fair, my son is 3 and screams "no!" all the time as well, it is one of his favorite words recently. I should also add that my son had to have surgery on his ears and while he is making great progress with his speech, he is behind developmentally in that area and has a hard time expressing himself. With all the new changes in our lives (new daddy, new home and new sister soon), I want to make sure I am doing all that I can to help my son adjust to his new life while still being fair to my loving partner who is trying SO HARD! Please help! Open Question: Breaking off with best friend,need a song.PLEASE?I am gonna leave her coz her boyfriend which is incidently my best friend has some problems wid my friendship wid her(coz she liked me first but he proposed her very soon be4 i could realize anything :*c .so please can you suggest me the best song that describes friendship and dat i will miss it. Thank u very much in advance More Recent Articles |
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