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Open Question: I may be posessed I'm freaked out - Christians answer please!!!!!? and more... Open Question: I may be posessed I'm freaked out - Christians answer please!!!!!?Okay, since I was a little girl I've had dreams about something random, and then I would see everything happen just like the dream the next day. (Example: My boyfriend breaking up with me in the library) Sometimes I know what people are going to say or do because of this, but sometimes I don't realize it till it happens, like I get deja vu. I thought it was pretty cool at first but then when reading the Bible I read about a little girl who was possessed by a demon who foretold futures. And I'm really scared now like what if I were posessed? Or maybe I'm insane. Does anybody have this problem? Open Question: Fighting/Relationship Counseling?My partner and I have been together for nearly a year and a half. We are both pretty stubborn and fiery, and used to fight all the time. We fight a lot less now, and have settled into quite a comfortable relationship. I am very happy with him for the most part. However, we still have problems with arguing. We are on a waiting list to see a relationship counselor to help us get through this, but as it is a free service, it will be a few weeks before we can get in to see someone. I am feeling very frustrated, because when we argue (which, as I mentioned is much less frequent than it was when we first got together), my boyfriend can be really awful to me. Name calling, yelling, that kind of thing. I am not one to put up with this kind of crap, which is why we are going to counseling. If it weren't for the fact that my boyfriend is very quick to apologize, and to try to figure out where he went wrong after we argue, I would not have stuck around with him for this long. However, we seem to be learning to communicate better with each other, and he is very insightful, and seems to be getting progressively more in touch with what triggers his anger. I am here because I am wondering if there are others who have gone through a similar experience with their partners, and managed to work things out? My boyfriend is well aware that I am not going to be with him for the long term if he doesn't learn better ways to cope with his anger. But I just don't feel ready to throw in the towel. My boyfriend and I come from very different backgrounds. He grew up in a neighborhood where it was perfectly normal to punch someone if they offended you. He used to get into physical fights (never with women, for the record) all the time, but hasn't done so in years. He left his old life and friends because he wants better for himself. I have a lot of respect for him, but I hate these fights that we have! Open Question: Alright. I guess I need some help?So, lately I've been just thinking a lot about not having a boyfriend yet, and topics relating to that. There have been people that have liked me, and I always think that I should go out with them, just at least to see what happens, because you never know. However, I think I may have discovered my...'problem,' if thats what it is. Once I find out a guy likes me, I think that I may like them. Then, I think I get scared, or nervous (mostly because I've never had a boyfriend, (16 by the way) and its all new I guess.) and back way off of them and try to avoid them. But, if I do talk to them whenever, I feel like I put up a wall that prevents it from going any farther than friends. I talk to them as if we were friends, I look at them as if we were friends, etc. I don't know how to break through this and not be nervous when I find out that I may go out with someone. I'm excited on the thought to maybe have a boyfriend, or go out sometime, but again, my nervousness holds me back. Any advice? Thank you so much. Open Question: I need help!! Boyfriend problems!?My boyfirend let me tell you first hes 15 and im 13 and we've only been dating for two weeks and ive only known him for a week and a half and we've already made out, i want to defy everyone who hates him cuz nobody likes him except me! Everyone tells me hes bad and blah blah blah but hes not. Hes just like me! which i am bad...but...NOT THE POINT!! lol Im trying to be true to myself and wait for the right one but im so clueless... What should i do? I want to show him i love him and will do anything for him and i constantly am having dreams about him and what i could do with him... but should i? would that make me a hoe? Open Question: He cheated in the past, now he wants to marry me, how to deal with the past of cheating?My boyfriend of 3 years cheated on me 3 times during the second year of us being together. . . we tried to sort it all out and we managed to come to a conclusion but now its a year later, he's been the perfect boyfriend, done a complete 180 and he wants to marry me. My problem is that i cant get over that he cheated on me, im afraid that if we get married that since he's cheated on me so many times he might do it again when we are married and that would be horrible, he has been sincere and proven to me that it was all a mistake over the past year and he has been so great but ive been cheated on my whole life, ive had many boyfriends and ofcourse ive always gone for the Alpha male type so they cheat. . . i just wanted to marry the only guy that didnt cheat on me and my boyfriend has, he's actually the one that cheated on me more than the rest and i changed my type for him. He's an amazing guy and i love him with all my heart but how do i get over the fact he cheated on me, is it possible to get over? What do you think? Open Question: Does this girl like me?We both work at the same place, and she always comes over to me when I get to work and starts talking to me, she keeps making excuses to talk to me during work, and hugs me quite often, she also keeps trying to make me switch shifts so I do the same hours as her. i.e "theres a late shift coming up soon, I'm doing so should you" but the problem is she already has a boyfriend, is she just being nice or is it something else???? Open Question: My boyfriend's mom keeps eating all my snack food help?We live with his parents. I buy snack foods for my daughter for school lunches. I'm on a very limited budget, I can't afford feeding her. She has done this before and my boyfriend made her buy me more. Also in spite she hid my chips many months ago. I ended up finding them in her closet while searching for a band aid. I have a section that's just my stuff in the pantry. I don't have a problem with her eating my stuff but come on the whole bag of Lays Chips when I just bought them yesterday, and I only at like 10 chips! My boyfriend said there will be no food bringing upstairs in our room. Thanks for the time to answer! Open Question: Being on bed rest is causing problems in my relationship.?Im 8 months pregnant and ive been on bed rest since October. With too much time on my hands I began to think about a lot of stuff that I shouldn't be thinking about. It's causing problems in my relationship. Im starting to acuse my boyfriend of cheating on me. I became very insecure. My boyfriend isn't the father of my child, even tho he isn't he's been there for me throughout my entire pregnancy. I am grateful for that. I started going throught his cell phone, I'm getting angry at a lot of things. When he doesn't answer my phone calls or text I instantly thinks he's doing something he's not suppose to be doing. Now he doesn't trust me and doesn't want to talk to me like he use to. All of these things came about since I was put on bed rest. It's very stressful. Can anyone help me? More Recent Articles
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