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Open Question: I kicked out my drug abusing boyfriend now I'm scared? and more... Open Question: I kicked out my drug abusing boyfriend now I'm scared?For the past couple of years I have been on a roller coaster with my boyfriend of 9 years. He is the love of my life!!! He told me a while ago that he had a perk problem...we worked thru it, I stuck by him....a few weeks ago I found a small baggie and it looked like it had some brown substance in it and it tasted really funny....he denied it all....lately its just constant ups and downs with him..I can't trust him anymore because of his lies and drug abuse. We have two beautiful kids together. About 4 years ago he had overdosed on heroin while he was home alone with my son for 8 hours while i was at work, he told that it was his first time but I really have a hard time believing that. I tried to get him to go to meetings...do outpatient but he said he could do this one his own and really didn't need the xtra help......i kicked him out two days ago and now i'm miserable..I can't stop crying...my heart is aching..he wouldn't take the drug test I asked him to b/c he said i asked him out of anger...how else could i ask if I was suspicious??? I was angry at him for effing up! Now he tells me that I made a huge mistake that he doesn't want to be with me if i don't trust him basically making me feel like i broke up my family...my older son is terribly hurt by all this. I feel like i can't live w/out him but also feel like i just didn't trust him anymore. He is blaming it all on me telling me he is clean and he doesn't need to pee in a cup to prove it. I now feel like I don't know if I made the right decision. My tummy is in knots all day, i can't eat I can't sleep........i don't know what to do? I can't even tell the lies from the truth anymore!!! some one please offer me kind words!!!! please!!!! Open Question: How can I tell my mum I'm on the pill?We've NEVER spoken about sex, or boyfriends. And although I'm still a virgin, my parent aren't really the type to ever expect me and my brother to have sex. I don't think he has though. I'm nearly 17 and I went on the pill a couple of days ago, not only if I have sex, but to clear up my skin and help my periods. Well me and my mum have had a few problems in the past, but we said 'no more lies'. And I want to tell her. I just have no idea how or when. I will never go up to her and just be like 'Hey mum, i'm on the pill btw'. I never know how she's going to react. What else can I do? Open Question: Why would my boyfriend want to sleep with me but he wants to dress up as a female I mean make up and all too ?We have been dating now four six months and we had a really deep talk about how he used to crossdress but he said he stopped for like a year before he met me and it was only something he done when he got bored so he says. I didn't know what to say to him he said please don't judge me and I have not done so, but how do I deal with this problem? Open Question: Do you girls out there feel the same?.. (guys can answer too of course!)?my boyfriend TREATS me like a princess... he does everything for me even when i dont want him to lol he has spoilt me rotten for my birthday and has bought me over 20 presents for christmas... he is too nice to be honest, all the girls like him but i have been with him for a year now and we are going strong as ever and only has eyes for me. He is very casual about his feelings... he doesnt like talking about the future too much, he gets quite shy but he has no problem complimenting me and telling me he loves me... he has text me about 12 pages of how he feels and it was so sweet. But he cant tell me to my face. I never ever tell him this as i know he treats me so well ... why do you think its such a big deal to tell me exactly how he feels to my face? i shouldnt be worried should i?!... Thanks guys. and sorry to babble on! :P Open Question: My boyfriend is scaring me... I don't want to get my heart broken. Help!?He is 30 and I am 25. We have been dating about 7 months. He says he "Cant tell me he loves me" cause of being hurt so much in the past and showing emotions has always gotten him hurt, but he says his actions should speak louder than his words - and they did til about a month ago. Now he never texts first - he used to text "good morning babe" or SOMETHING during the day if i wouldnt... now nothing. If I text, he'll text back though the first time - but after awhile or if I ask him a question, he won't respond. For instance, I said "Want to go to see the lights saturday night?" and nothing. I said "Just an idea" and still nothing. Its probably because he doesn't know... but he used to ALWAYS text back. Also, his kisses have become infrequent and rare and he almost avoids mine. I ask him what is wrong and he says "nothing babe" He doesn't seem as interested in my day to day life. I know he is having money problems right now... severe ones... so maybe this all has nothing to do with me. I don't want to scare him away with my insecurities but it sure as hell seems like something is wrong! Some people say I should back off... let him come to me. But all I can think about is "out of sight, out of mind"... if I do that, and he doesn't call or text, I'll be heartbroken with no answers. What should I do? Open Question: Need relationship advice, please?In the beginning he was very passionate about me, he said he loved me almost every day, he was very loving, attentive, caring and wanted to be with me more than anything. But then he became more and more distant, cold, stand-offish, emotionally withdrawn and non-affectionate towards me. And finally, yesterday he didn't want to be in a relationship anymore, he said he missed us being friends because he felt like we got along better outside of a relationship status. This confused me because he was the one who initated it two months ago. And back when he asked me if I wanted to be his gf, he said this: "I am not interested in the same things your other boyfriends were. I have no problem being in this situation though. As long as you don't expect me to be something I'm not. I only say that because my mind is filled with a million thoughts at this point in time.. very few, if any of them, are very romantic. I do not know what I want. But that is not in regards to you. It is highly unlikely that our relationship will end due to an interest in someone else from my side, it is almost improbable. So accept that I am not breaking up with you. I'm just saying our relationship may be... a bit on the back burner for now until I've figured some things out." But it seems he never did because I told him yesterday I felt unloved and unhappy in this relationship, so he broke up with me to take me out of this awkward situation because the devotion was only one-sided. Yet he begged me not to lose contact with him. He said he did love me at least in some regard. He seems awfully fickle and uncertain of his desires. I feel a little hurt at the moment. He was diagnosed with clinical depression and since he got depressed all the romantic things we had just disappeared... I don't know what I'm supposed to think anymore. Can anyone give some advice please? Is this all due to his depression or does he just not love me anymore? Because this whole thing does not make any sense. He was completely crazy about me before his depression phase hit him again. *sigh* Sorry for the uber long text. Open Question: I just need some relationship advice or an objective opinion from someone, please?In the beginning he was very passionate about me, he said he loved me almost every day, he was very loving, attentive, caring and wanted to be with me more than anything. But then he became more and more distant, cold, stand-offish, emotionally withdrawn and non-affectionate towards me. And finally, yesterday he didn't want to be in a relationship anymore, he said he missed us being friends because he felt like we got along better outside of a relationship status. This confused me because he was the one who initated it two months ago. And back when he asked me if I wanted to be his gf, he said this: "I am not interested in the same things your other boyfriends were. I have no problem being in this situation though. As long as you don't expect me to be something I'm not. I only say that because my mind is filled with a million thoughts at this point in time.. very few, if any of them, are very romantic. I do not know what I want. But that is not in regards to you. It is highly unlikely that our relationship will end due to an interest in someone else from my side, it is almost improbable. So accept that I am not breaking up with you. I'm just saying our relationship may be... a bit on the back burner for now until I've figured some things out." But it seems he never did because I told him yesterday I felt unloved and unhappy in this relationship, so he broke up with me to take me out of this awkward situation because the devotion was only one-sided. Yet he begged me not to lose contact with him. He said he did love me at least in some regard. He seems awfully fickle and uncertain of his desires. I feel a little hurt at the moment. He was diagnosed with clinical depression and since he got depressed all the romantic things we had just disappeared... I don't know what I'm supposed to think anymore. Can anyone give some advice please? Is this all due to his depression or does he just not love me anymore? Because this whole thing does not make any sense. He was completely crazy about me before his depression phase hit him again. *sigh* Open Question: I just need some relationship advice or an objective opinion, please?In the beginning he was very passionate about me, he said he loved me almost every day, he was very loving, attentive, caring and wanted to be with me more than anything. But then he became more and more distant, cold, stand-offish, emotionally withdrawn and non-affectionate towards me. And finally, yesterday he didn't want to be in a relationship anymore, he said he missed us being friends because he felt like we got along better outside of a relationship status. This confused me because he was the one who initated it two months ago. And back when he asked me if I wanted to be his gf, he said this: "I am not interested in the same things your other boyfriends were. I have no problem being in this situation though. As long as you don't expect me to be something I'm not. I only say that because my mind is filled with a million thoughts at this point in time.. very few, if any of them, are very romantic. I do not know what I want. But that is not in regards to you. It is highly unlikely that our relationship will end due to an interest in someone else from my side, it is almost improbable. So accept that I am not breaking up with you. I'm just saying our relationship may be... a bit on the back burner for now until I've figured some things out." But it seems he never did because I told him yesterday I felt unloved and unhappy in this relationship, so he broke up with me to take me out of this awkward situation because the devotion was only one-sided. Yet he begged me not to lose contact with him. He said he did love me at least in some regard. He seems awfully fickle and uncertain of his desires. I feel a little hurt at the moment. He was diagnosed with clinical depression and since he got depressed all the romantic things we had just disappeared... I don't know what I'm supposed to think anymore. Can anyone give some advice please? Is this all due to his depression or does he just not love me anymore? Because this whole thing does not make any sense. He was completely crazy about me before his depression phase hit him again. *sigh* Open Question: How to romance with your boyfriend?Help me out please! I have known my guy for almost four years now. we started dating almost three months back.The problem is when are kissing and hugging, i get shy and timid. i want to please him without embarassing both of us. i am not ready to touch his manly thing right now. but i want to be very romantic for him and have no clue how to do it. i want to make him happy and i want him to feel something stronger for me without getting that physical. He complained once that i dont do anything. i felt bad. We are very close. He has this need to see and talk to me everyday and i love it. He has this problem that he doesnt open up easily. took him time to reveal his feelings for me. so guys you help me tell how much intimate should i get with him and girls help me to be more loving and doting kind of a girlfriend. how to open him up. thanks Open Question: Boy problem what do i do?well i have a big problem . I am in primary 7 and i've never had a boyfriend i am a sorta shy person but there's this boy i like called george and he's a good mate my friend asked him if he liked me in the same way? he said no not really just like talking to her but he never chatted to me before she asked then after that he has started talking to me quite alot sorta. if you get me . i like him sooooo much and he dosn't want to go out with me i don't know why though cause i'm skinny pretty and that she asked him a few weeks ago but i am diffrent now i have had my hair cut and that i look toatly diffrent and everytime we reherse our dance for a show he always smiles at me well sometimes he does and when his class do there dance i always watch him & him only and i smile at him he sorta smiles back & a move they do looks like there sorta shagging someone Lol and he smiles at me , i whish he liked me but i don't think he does i made him a card and my mate is gonna give him it 2morrow and see what he does. pleaseeee help me i need help don't know whats wrong with me . help!!!!!!!!! sorry for the long message xx Open Question: whats the matter with me?im so upset these days im only crying. i can cry for the smallest things and i really get emotional. my best friends that ive known for 10 years have backed stabbed me. i got problems at uni so much work to do. i bumped into my ex boyfriend today which i really loved he was with my friend :( why is everything going bad for me?? ive never done anything to anyone bad. 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