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Open Question: I just want to meet my bf's ex. Is that too much to ask? and more... Open Question: I just want to meet my bf's ex. Is that too much to ask?My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months now and he broke up with his ex to date me. And here is my story...PLEASE PLEASE READ. I really do not know what to do. Ever since they have maintained a friendship, they talk on the phone, email, and see each other from time to time (only like 3 times tho). I was fine with this till one day after a month of my boyfriend and I dating I saw an e-mail he wrote her a week after they broke up. It said he had made a mistake and would never stop loving her. This e-mail was written two months previous to me reading it, and as I said, a month after we started dating. So orginally I didn't care if they were friends but after reading the email I told him I did not want him to see her...ever.... which was a mistake. Ultimatium only made him go behind my back. When I found out he was going behind my back to talk to her and call her, I freaked, broke up with him yet he begged for me back and I gave him a second chance. I did learn that I need to give him room, if they are gonna be friends so be it. So they called each other, met up for coffee, e-mailed...etc. The only problem is she hates me, wants nothing to do with me and refuses to be in same room as me. He just avoids it by hanging out with her without me. But I have HAD IT! I want to meet this girl and she what she is all about. Everyone I talked to who knew her when they dated say she was a huge *****! So why are they friends!?! ugh... So yes here is my question. I told my boyfriend that the next time he sees her I want to meet her. I feel this isn't much to ask, but he feels it would only make things worse. First of all she does not want to meet me. Second he thinks I may take any laugh, look or facial expression between them to the extreme. What do you guys think? Open Question: has anyone had problems with lips for xbox 360 not working on different gamer profiles on the same console?I have the game but it only works with one profile. It works with my boyfriends account but not my own. We only have the one console and this hasn't happened before. Is there any fixes or is there something I have to do? Open Question: im more hurt than angry...can anyone tell me if this is right?my boyfriend and i just celebrated our 10 month. we love eachother, and i know there is no doubt about it. for 10 months, i have only been around his fmaily 4 times. he seems to separate me from everything in his life, his family, his friends and his work. yesterday, he had a bad day and i asked him what had happened, and he told me it was nothing and it had nothing to do with me. i have always opened up to him with any problem i had, and has seemed to be separate all of his problems and never open up to me. so while we were hanging out, he didnt talk to me at all. and only stayed and hour and 1/2. we have gone from hanging 4 or fivedays a week to 1 or 2 times a week. he barely texts me or calls me. so he went home making me feel sad because im so separated from his family life and job life. so today, i ask him if he wants to hang out and he tells me 'no because he has to go get a gift for his aunt because its her birthday" and he doesnt invite me, and he never invites me to family dinners on saturdays. so once again im left out of his family life...it seems that m giving it all and hes not, and it really hurts that the man i love wont be open with me and im not involved in another part of his life. so ive decided to start ignoring him for a few days to give him space and to give me time to figure out what to say to him. i dont take any calls, or texts or anyhting. im not mad at him or vengeful or anyhting, im really hurt. remember this. but tell me, is this right of me? i dont want to fight wth him with Christmas coming around, but this has been going on since October. i can only take so much... Open Question: Plzzz helpShould I break up with my boyfriend?why is he acting like this?the best answer will get 10 points Ok.so i was going out with this guy for a month and he is really nice guy nd he already told me he Loves me.but the problem is that his ex gf still has feelings for him.I'm sure he doesn't like her anymore but which guy doesn't want to be friends with benefits with their ex.so i told him it bother me and he said he will stop talking to her but two days ago i saw them walking ,he said she always follow her around but if a guy tell me he doesn't like me i won't run around after him.Isn't that right?it is kinda hard to believe but i trust HIM but what he is doing is annoying.when i got mad at him,he acted like i was just being jealous and over reacting.after i walked away from him at lunch time he didn't text or call me the next day he didn't even come up to me idk if he was scared that i might break up with him or wat? one of my friend asked him if he is still doing out with me and he said that he doesn't know. i think of breaking up with him next time i see him but i'm not sure yet.why doesn't he try to work things out.he said he didn't know i'm the jealous type because i'm not.i dint mind him talking to his Friends but not to a ex that still has feeling for him and she is telling everyone that my bf is Just using me to get over her.Idk wat to do?will he call me or wat? and we both are 17 Open Question: Why am I so emotionless-- should I be worried?My whole life I've never been able to speak up for myself, I always suffer in silence and I put everyone else before me. I'm 17, 10/29/08 my best friend killed himself, and idk why but it didn't really affect me emotionally at all(I never talked to anyone about it). A couple weeks ago I moved from Michigan to Tennessee to get away from my mom and her dick boyfriend and I don't even miss any of my friends or family. when i was 13 my stepdad (my dad ditched out on me before i was born and i have no clue who he is(and that doesn't affect me emotionally either) and my stepdad got with my mom before i was 1 so he was always like my real dad) got addicted to meth and started getting really aggresive,he was constantly yelling at everyone and breaking evertying and he threatened to kill us several times, my mom finally ended up divourcing him and that didn't affect me either. Not even a year after that my mom ended up getting with some asshole who was constantly being a dick to me just for his entertainment. she then had a kid with him even tho we were already struggleing with money. and none of that affected me either . About 6 months ago I started thinking about killing myself, which really confuses me because compared to alot of people my life is good, and at first i didn't think anything of it but it was constantly getting worse, about 4 months ago I started cutting and once again I have no clue why, I just randomly get urges to do it and the more i ignore it the worse it gets and the the longer i wait the deeper i end up cutting, so I guess I do have emotions but... well I can't really feel them. and also I remember almost nothing that happened in my life past age 14 but from what I've been told all of my cousins and my sister and step brother were constantly making me miserable. When ever someone ask me to list good qualities about myself i freeze because I can't think of any. I have a lot of people that i chill with but I don't have any true friends, i've had 3 good friends in my life, 2 turned out to be backstabbing ***holes who were just using me and the other killed himself. I've had a few girlfriends but i didn't love any of them, I've actually never loved anyone, not even family, and that really disturbs me. I've had one person in my life that actually cared about me and tried to look out for me, my cousin, and he died of a heroin overdose exactly 3 years ago. He was addicted to heroin but he was still a good person and he looked out for me, he tried to make sure that I would never make the same mistakes as him, honestly that's the only thing stopping me from turning to drugs, i know my cousin would be crushed. last year i spent 2 months in juvie because my mom called the cops and said that i threatened to kill her even though i could never threaten to kill someone, and then told me that i got what i had coming because i did bad in school even tho i tried my hardest i just could never concentrate on anything longer then 2 minutes. I've been like that my whole life and when i was going to school it made my life hell because of all the trouble i'd get in at home for failing classes. there were a few years in my life where i was really bad with my mom, constantly flipping out and cussing her out, I finally got it under controll last year but she still constantly throws it in my face and acts like I'm a horrible person even though i hated myself after every fight i got in with her. I've had a couple therapist, and I've been in an anxiety counselling group and idk why but i could never tell them about wanting to kill myself and cutting, i really couldn't tell them any of my problems, I always feel like an ***hole when i complain about my life because there are sooo many people out there that have it so much worse then me. Sorry for all of the typing i know that no one wants to real all of that, i just got in sordove a trance when i started typing and couldn't stop, half of those were suppressed memories i didn't remember until i started typing, that's why all of the events i put are in a completely random order Sorry for putting it in the wrong section, it was the reccomened one and i wasn't paying attention to it Open Question: URGENT I NEED HELP! easy 10 pts?Okay so my boyfriend and I are planning to hook up tonight. And I know that he's probably gonna go "down there" but there sort of is a problem... Its that time of month. WHAT DO I DO. Like of course I am not gonna allow him to do that but he always does so he'll think somethings wrong or something Open Question: what would you do in this situation?okay, so my bf (boyfriend) and i have dated for more than 9 months. everyone i know tell me he is lieing to me. that he's a player, he is cheating on me. the list goes on and on. but i trust my bf. so i didnt figure anything. well actually there have been a couple people i didnt even know. i asked him "so your saying the people are just lieing to me, there just makeing all this up in their heads" all he said was idk. ohhh and we never talk on the phone. only texting i hate it. ANYWAY, this girl who i have had problems with before with the whole bf thing. (she tried stealing him) everyone says they talk. well there was a basketball game, and a wrestleing match. my bf went to the game this girl went to the match. the girl said i have to go to the bathroom went outside and met up with my boyfriend. when i told him i didnt want him talking to her at all. i show up and go off. and he insist he didnt do anything. i broke up with him. but of course i still love him am i being blind about this.what would you have done. Open Question: GUYS: why would a guy cheat on his 24 yr old loving gf with a 40 yr old woman?You're 29. You had a loving 24 year old girlfriend for 2.5 years....who LOVES YOU, you guys did everything together, she's pretty, fun, educated, funny, positive, caring, always puts you first (cooks for you when you're low on cash, buys you tea and tylenol when you're feeling sick, etc) and makes you feel good (encourages you, etc)...and she was a virgin when you guys started goin out together and she lost her virginity to you, and since then is always excited to have sex with you (she initiates it, she's willing to offer it anytime, etc) You cheat on with a 40 year old woman, bisexual, who lives 2 streets away from you, lives alone, is kind of chubby, plain looking, taller than you, doesn't really consider you a boyfriend but a friends with benefits...she lent you money to help you out with financial problems..and you've continued sleeping with her but haven't paid her back everything...also, you met her family, you go over to her house to spend the night, she gave you the key to her house, you guys rent movies together and she cooks for you, you guys drink together, etc... Is it possible you fell in love with this 40 year old woman? Is it possible you ever loved your 24 year old loyal girlfriend? Open Question: Is there something terribly wrong with me?i can't let go of my boyfriend's ex from my mind. I saw her pictures(tons of them that my boyfriend had kept for longest time) and she was OK, not so great looking, I think I definitely look prettier than her. But the problem is I keep thinking about her and my boyfriend and I miss out on my present. I can't find a way to forget about it and it bothers me and I get angry with my boyfriend. It happens mostly during my premenstrual period but other times as well. Im getting sick of it but i dont have any way of letting forgetting all that. I wish I had some help - it's distressing at times. I have been trying- at times I feel it's working and then I just snap back to where I started from. I need help and I know that. I just don't know how. More Recent Articles
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