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Open Question: I have a problem with my boyfriend. How do I solve it? and more... Open Question: I have a problem with my boyfriend. How do I solve it?Okay- so, me and my bf get in a fight. and he goes "ima ask this girl out." and i go "u already got one (me)" and so then we get in a fight and he's like "if we break up i would b back in Karena's arms (karena= ex)" and i say "so your saying we should break up?" and he says "never" and im like "cuz it sounds like you are" and then i had to go. plz help!! Should I Make up or Break up?? Open Question: :( Girlfriend problems... What should I do?My girlfriend and I have officially been together for slightly over 2 months, but we were committed to each other for slightly over 7 months. Everything is going great, but there is one major problem... Whenever we meet up and just relax together, we simply talk abit, kiss/cuddle abit, then simply get bored. We can openly talk about anything but somehow we are still restricted and confined in terms of our enjoyment together. But we are perfectly comfortable around, and with, each other. Does anyone have any suggestions how to prevent becoming bored when we are alone together? Is there anything that you personally do or talk about with your girlfriend/boyfriend? Also please dont suggest stuff like go to the cinema, because we usually "relax" after we've been to the cinema and when we just want some alone time together. Please bare in mind that I am 17 and she is 15, so anything sexual is out of the question Thanks in advance Edit: The problem is, we talk everysingle night on the phone and have been doing so for the past few months. Now it feels like there's not much to talk about, so our conversations last about half an hour and then just die out Open Question: How can i ask my mom to give my ex another chance?Me and my ex Chris have been off an on for 4 years. started dating in 7th grade and we broke up a couple times between this but recently broke up in April. My mom called "quits" because i was crying because i was so upset, and told me to never talk to him again. she montiored my texts and calls for about 3 months making sure i didn;t talk to him. well we go to school together, and we have recently started to talk again,its been 7 months. I have had a 2 boyfriends and they didnt work out, & he has had 1 gf and it didnt work out for him. I do honestly love Chris he has been in my life for a long while, and he became my bestfriend his whole family loved me, and my whole family loved him even my mom & dad, my dad doesn't seem to have a problem with him. My mom is juust says she wants what is best for me. but she doesnt understand how i feel about chris and i dont even think she will take time to listen. it has been a long time probably since summer since i have mentioned something to her. i would like to ask her to give chris another chance on being my boyfriend. but i cant think of any way to ask her with out her freaking there is nothing wrong with him, he doesn;t do drugs, hes an great soccer player, makes good grades. my mom just watches out for my feelings too much and just doesn;tt like him cause he made me cryy, but it was because of her that we broke up. i hope i didnt confuse anyone i just would like some suggestions or someone that has been through the same thing to help me out, on how i can talk to my mom. Ill be 18 next year but i dont wanna make this love wait... Thank you for you time :)) I'm 11th Grade. Open Question: Is my friend obsessed with me?Her and I are both females. I have to say she's way to over baring. She's too controlling. The problem is she is telling me who to hang out with and my friends aren't bad people. She doesn't even know them. She criticize about them as if she knows them but she doesn't even know them. When she came over to my house to study and I had a friend over, she said how she felt left out and wore a sad face and was about to walk out. I had to stop her. She never stop bragging on how I left her out. It's not my fault because she came over to study and I am speaking to my friend. If she wanted to study, we can't just sit around and watch her study. Then, she criticize how i dress and many other people oppose to what she said. Then she asked me where I got my shoes or how I put on my eyeliner. I don't understand what is her problem. She walks around my house looking at everything. She always tries to judge me and tell me what to do even if she is wrong she will prove herself right. Sometimes when shes happy she compliments me. She gets so jealous of anyone being close to me, like one of her friends, she asked why I had to call her instead. She gives my friends evil looks and they had no choice but to leave because of her. When people tells me I'm pretty, she makes a face. When I tell her about myself, she tries to compare. Like what the hell. Everyone says shes over confident. She calls me over 5 times a day when my mother isnt home. She spends like over 7 hours over and she's always trying to start a fight but begs over to come over. I don't understand. She gets mad when I talk about my ex boyfriend because she never had a boyfriend. She rarely comments my dressing, but she looks at me. Before she even met me, she use to give me evil looks and gossips about me. i wanted to punch her out. like now shes like im her only friend and stuff. when i dont pick up the phone she ask why havent i pick up... she ask me questions and tons that isnt her business... she goes into my friend's business Open Question: What if I am always the one chasing?My boyfriend and I are in a long-distance relationship so we don't get to see each other very often. So since I don't get to see him as much I try to talk to him as much as i can. But the problem is that he never calls me; I always have to call him if I want to talk. he says that he is super busy but I don't think being busy is an excuse to not call. Does anybody agree with this. So why am i always the one having to call him and do all the work. and what does this mean? Open Question: How do you make a guy chase after you?Say you are in a long distance relationship and you only get to see each other about every two weeks. Since you don't get to see each other often to stay close you want to at least talk on the phone. But the problem is the only time we get to talk is when I call him; he never call me. My boyfriend is a busy guy he works two jobs and goes to school full-time and he says that is why he doesn't call me becuase he is so busy. I don't believe that, I believe that if you really care about somebody you will still call somebody; if you really want. Open Question: I think I was wrongfully Fired.?i worked at a pizza Company for about 3 months.. My boss had anger problems and was anal about everything..Instead of showing you what you did wrong or giving you advice on how to do it better he would just write you up.. I got written up for not cleaning the back in a suffienicent amount of time.. I was having a bad day that day ( oh yeah, everyday was a bad day for my manager). When my supervisor handed me the paper, I signed it and I guess I put the pen down to hard. I showed up for my next shift and they had another girl there to work for me. All confused I was wondering what was going on, they handed me a paper saying I was suspended for not cleaning the front right. That day i found out that my manager was moving to a new store..I showed up the day before my suspension was up to check my schedule. My new manager (who is also a good friend of mine) said, I guess your old manager terminated you.. She didnt know and Isure as hell didnt know... I feel like I wasnt given a chance to prove myself. I was never really trained on how to clean the store to my manager's approval. I really never worked with my Manager so he never got to see what I could do. My boyfriend worked there before me too, He was always screwing him over. Open Question: I'm having a problem with my boyfriend..help!?my boyfriend is a really shy person and doesnt talk much.. we hangout alot and i only get 2 or 3 words out of him. and i'm a really talkative outgoing person so it gets a little annoying!! how do i get him to talk more??? Open Question: Is anyone else getting really bitter about life and our society as they get older?I'm in my 40's. I remember when I was younger (ie-teenager and early 20's) I thought I would meet a great guy, fall in love and be married forever, as well as find a job that I was really happy with (or somehow make enough money without having to work haha). I thought that I would have friends who would last forever and always be loyal and faithful to me. I also truly believed in the goodness of the human race and thought that there was meaning to life and living and that even bad things that happenned had a good reason for it. Anyways, then, I had my heart broken, not just once, but 3 times since my early 20's. I'v had a good friend "steal" a boyfriend that I thought I loved, I'v had another good friend steal money and possessions from me, I'v suffered through the death of 3 grandparents and a parent as well as watched 2 very good young friends of mine die painfully and unnecessarily, I'v witnessed people do damage to the environment, to animals and to other people and not seem to care about the consequences of their actions, I'v had my own health problems that caused the loss of 4 pregnancies, I'v had people spout of inane comments about how having children is the best thing that happenned to them, even as I was miscarrying my second baby (and yes this woman KNEW I was having a miscarriage) and I'v read the news everyday and hear about these horrible things that people continually do that make me think that the world is just a pointless, useless place and I wish I'd never been born. There, hows that for Christmas drama? Anyone else ever have days where they feel the same way, or should I go see a shrink to find out why I think this world sucks? I should add that the miscarriages I had happenned over 10 years ago. I had lots of counselling for them and was temporarily on meds for a while. I am NOT depressed about not having children. I find that if I mention that I'v had miscarriages, this is all that people will concentrate on. I hope it won't change how you would answer my question. So I just wanted to mention this. Thanks Open Question: Im getting sick of my boyfriend?ok so me and my boyfriend have went through alot of shit. weve been goin out for almost 5 months. he has realy bad history with girls but he tells me its not true. i let it go before we started dating and things went realy well for about 2 months. after 2 months all this stuff kept happening. were finaly though all of that stuff. we have been off and on too. he almost broke up wit me. but he decided not to. then i broke up with him but he met up with me when i was someware and he was like look i love u soo much i cant stand to not be with you i miss you. and so i took him bak because i did miss him too. now the new problem is he never calls me anymore and i always have to ask him if we are going to hang out and make plans. the weird thing is he only texts me and says all this sweet stuff. but y not call????? i talked to him about this about a week ago. he was like im sorry we dont talk as much ive been busy with basketball everynight. he said i can call if u want me too. and i said yea i jus miss talking to you. so after that talk he has been texting me alot more. but no calling????? wtf??? i just dont understand him anymore. its like i cant let him go because everytime i do we still need eachother. i just dont no what to do its rreally just starting to make me derpressed all the time. plz help?????? thankyou Open Question: PLZZ HLP Should I break up with my boyfriend?why is he acting like this?the best answer will get 10 points Ok.so i was going out with this guy for a month and he is really nice guy nd he already told me he Loves me.but the problem is that his ex gf still has feelings for him.I'm sure he doesn't like her anymore but which guy doesn't want to be friends with benefits with their ex.so i told him it bother me and he said he will stop talking to her but two days ago i saw them walking ,he said she always follow him around and told e how annoying nd weird she is but if a guy tell me he doesn't like me i won't run around after him.Isn't that right?it is kinda hard to believe but i trust HIM but what he is doing is annoying.when i got mad at him,he acted like i was just being jealous and over reacting.after i walked away from him at lunch time he didn't text or call me the next day he didn't even come up to me idk if he was scared that i might break up with him or wat? one of my friend asked him if he is still doing out with me and he said that he doesn't know. i think of breaking up with him next time i see him but i'm not sure yet.why doesn't he try to work things out.he said he didn't know i'm the jealous type because i'm not.i dint mind him talking to his Friends but not to a ex that still has feeling for him and she is telling everyone that my bf is Just using me to get over her.Idk wat to do?will he call me or wat? and we both are 17 should i wait until the winter break is over and i see him because i wont text or call him if doesn't text me because i was the one texing him the other day to let him know why i was mad and walked away .why he didn't talk to me after that .does he think i'm done with him or he doesn't even care or just playing it cool??? Open Question: Help with ex boyfriend! Please!?Okay, so I broke up with my ex boyfriend about 2 months ago. It was a really sour brake up and he was really upset about it because he didn't agree to it. (I'm 16 by the way.) About a week ago I started talking to him again because I wanted to get a shirt back that he had of mine, and we started to talk. He really wants to get back together with me, and we hung out. Before we hung out I felt like I had no feelings for him at all, but when we did it reminded me of old times and we ended up kissing. He kept on asking me over and over again if I loved him and such,( we dated for 10 months) and when he kept on asking him I told him that ofcourse I still love him because I do. You don't just stop loving someone even though you aren't together. So he is convinced that we are going to get back together, and that we just have to work out the problems that we had. But I'm not sure if I want to get back together. I'm afraid that in a relationship I won't be free because the last time I wasn't and that is the main reason why I broke up with him. also, I'm starting to feel that I don't know if I love him in that way, but moreso in a "I really care about you" way... please help me on what to do =/ I feel rotten like I shouldn't have talked to him in the first place. I really don't want to hurt him... HELP! More Recent Articles
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