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Open Question: I have a crush on his girl but her ex bf is in complete lust with me HELP? and more... Open Question: I have a crush on his girl but her ex bf is in complete lust with me HELP?So I have a crush on this girl....? She is so amazing. She is mellow and laid back and easy to talk to and really gorgeous and everything... But here's the problems... 1. I'm a girl, that isn't officially bi-sexual 2. She is mos likely not bi 3. Her ex bf is in love with me! He is constantly staring at me. 4. My ex boyfriend is a major JERK So...wtf do I do?? I like her..I don't like her ex boyfriend and what do I do? I really like her and I want to get to know her..but I don't want to scare her of she's not bi and I hasn't known I was bi for that long so help me out. Open Question: how do i get over this girl and on with my life because its making my life miserable?Hi prior to this long set of problems I used to be epic wingman, I put my friends before myself and knew that friends were more important that girls. I also was the quiet person in the group but i was appreciated. This changed with hookups and the fact that I contributed only occasionally to the conversation. I was more satisfied of being with people rather than running the show. Hi, I well basically i had a hook up basis fling. We talked alot before but she then got a legitimate boyfriend, This came as a shock to me being that i was told via text. either way, i couldn't get her out of my mind for a month and think of her at least once a day be it positive or negative. I've tried copping with it by making myself busy, ( hobbies friends talking to other girls). In addition meager home problems have become more of an issue to me. these new things have manifested into new forms of anxiety and negative feelings that originated with the girl. Talking to the girl is out of the question being that the last time we talked was over a huge argument and doesn't want to see me ever, but i'm okay with that. Now distracting myself from her started with watching movies, alot. I joined the school's track team, I also started talking to other girls in the area. I even started a chemistry hobby. At first i used to like movies but after a while they just became parallels of our experiences together. then in track although i do well i noticed that the only reason i ran track was to become physically fit so that she could at least reignite a physical attraction for me. When i started talking to girls it was just to forget about the girl. at frst it was okay i got to know a few people, however, as i progressed i got really sad that in a different context they wouldn't hangout with me. I thought what did i do to make them think in such a way, i reviewed virtually everything i said and it didn't make much sense. My friends did tell me that it was a little creepy how i would talk to a girl the whole night and not even really hug them. I then recalled that time where i was apparently a really big creep because i knew everything that was going on at all times without saying a word but listening carefully. I later 'dropped' this act by not saying what i knew when people asked me. but this idea that I was a creep still bothers me today. I'm conscious that it portrays me negatively and I think that it is a huge factor for why i only hangout with certain people depending on the situation. Talking to girls i also definitley lowered my 'standards' by which i mean i would go for more vulnerable girls rather than girls that were considered 'hard to get' yet all these intended hook ups have ended in what i think is failure. Around the house, I just get annoyed at little things, how my parents keep getting alcohol based deoderant when they know it ruins my clothes, how they go into my room and leave the door open so making it cold when come in later. asking me about redundant and unecessary things that they know the answer to. being hypocrites when it comes to work ethic, cleanliness and errands. being really restricting despite me being 17 and going off to college in a few months. Taking all these annoying parts of my life they've pressure boiled to make me pretty bitter about my life especially how i can't get over this girl and the surrounding intentions don't do anything but remind me of my failure, or demonstrate that she was the best, hell only you were gonna get. Now i dont want to sound like those pansies that get depressed but honestly these turn of events are pretty depressing, i don't really eat as much and I have little will to do much, though i still force myself because i care about school. I'm not sure but its not going too well. I also don't like how i can't really do much with my friends anymore but stand around because i don't think of thngs to contrbute to the conversation more about how i either hate, miss, love and feel betrayed by this girl and how my life seems to be falling apart because of this stupid situation. Open Question: feeling kinda down and have a lot of pent up emotions how do i let them out safely?Hi prior to this long set of problems I used to be epic wingman, I put my friends before myself and knew that friends were more important that girls. I also was the quiet person in the group but i was appreciated. This changed with hookups and the fact that I contributed only occasionally to the conversation. I was more satisfied of being with people rather than running the show. Hi, I well basically i had a hook up basis fling. We talked alot before but she then got a legitimate boyfriend, This came as a shock to me being that i was told via text. either way, i couldn't get her out of my mind for a month and think of her at least once a day be it positive or negative. I've tried copping with it by making myself busy, ( hobbies friends talking to other girls). In addition meager home problems have become more of an issue to me. these new things have manifested into new forms of anxiety and negative feelings that originated with the girl. Talking to the girl is out of the question being that the last time we talked was over a huge argument and doesn't want to see me ever, but i'm okay with that. Now distracting myself from her started with watching movies, alot. I joined the school's track team, I also started talking to other girls in the area. I even started a chemistry hobby. At first i used to like movies but after a while they just became parallels of our experiences together. then in track although i do well i noticed that the only reason i ran track was to become physically fit so that she could at least reignite a physical attraction for me. When i started talking to girls it was just to forget about the girl. at frst it was okay i got to know a few people, however, as i progressed i got really sad that in a different context they wouldn't hangout with me. I thought what did i do to make them think in such a way, i reviewed virtually everything i said and it didn't make much sense. My friends did tell me that it was a little creepy how i would talk to a girl the whole night and not even really hug them. I then recalled that time where i was apparently a really big creep because i knew everything that was going on at all times without saying a word but listening carefully. I later 'dropped' this act by not saying what i knew when people asked me. but this idea that I was a creep still bothers me today. I'm conscious that it portrays me negatively and I think that it is a huge factor for why i only hangout with certain people depending on the situation. Talking to girls i also definitley lowered my 'standards' by which i mean i would go for more vulnerable girls rather than girls that were considered 'hard to get' yet all these intended hook ups have ended in what i think is failure. Around the house, I just get annoyed at little things, how my parents keep getting alcohol based deoderant when they know it ruins my clothes, how they go into my room and leave the door open so making it cold when come in later. asking me about redundant and unecessary things that they know the answer to. being hypocrites when it comes to work ethic, cleanliness and errands. being really restricting despite me being 17 and going off to college in a few months. Taking all these annoying parts of my life they've pressure boiled to make me pretty bitter about my life especially how i can't get over this girl and the surrounding intentions don't do anything but remind me of my failure, or demonstrate that she was the best, hell only you were gonna get. Now i dont want to sound like those pansies that get depressed but honestly these turn of events are pretty depressing, i don't really eat as much and I have little will to do much, though i still force myself because i care about school. I'm not sure but its not going too well. I also don't like how i can't really do much with my friends anymore but stand around because i don't think of thngs to contrbute to the conversation more about how i either hate, miss, love and feel betrayed by this girl and how my life seems to be falling apart because of this stupid situation. Open Question: HardOn Problem.... Guys? I need some help...?Hello guys I have a problem, Im posting this question hoping to get some answers My boyfriend and Ive been daiting for quite sometime now. We've had sex, hes a TOP Im a BOTTOM. Everything was going well, until he asked me I if I'd F... him because he wanted to "experience" the feeling of it, I said: "Sure why not". Thats where the problem began. I was pretty "exited" (if you know what I mean), but when I tried to penetrate him, my pennis had his energy supply cut off. It went from a Hardon to a Hardoff, you might know, thats not... good... He said It was ok, he did't have a problem with that, that he still loved me no matter what, and that was no reason for his love to decrease, we talked about it and I told him I wanted to be a BOTTOM, not a TOP. We tried again, and I had the same miserable irritating ******' problem!. So I'm wondering: WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH ME?! My pennis is in perfect condition while were at it, but when I try to F... him, it goes off!!!! Can somebody please help me with this? PLEASE!? any idea of what the problem might be? PLEASE! Open Question: How do I have sex with my obese 30 stone (420 lbs) boyfriend?I'm aged 26 and about 10 months ago I met a really lovely guy online, we hit it off straight away and he told me early on that hew was a large guy. It didn't bother me because I've always liked big guys, but when I saw his photo I was slightly shocked at how big he was but we got on so well that it didn't bother me. I really feel like I've fallen in love with this man, I know for sure he loves me, and we've planned to meet up in the New Year. We chat on the phone almost every day, we've talked about intimate things and we both feel that when we meet we'll have some kind of sexual encounter. He's still a virgin and he's already told me he's excited about me being his first experience. The problem is I've never been with a man that size before and I'm not sure how to approach things. How does a man that large actually have sex, is it physically possible? I'm a size 12 and not very tall so I don't know how he's going to be able to get on top of me without crushing me, so what positions are the best? I want it to be an enjoyable time but I'm worried it's going to be a disaster with both of us being embarrassed and unsure of what to do. My female friends have told me I'm mad for wanting to have sex with such an obese man and that it'll be disgusting but I love this guy and I genuinely feel attracted to him despite his size. Open Question: Boy problems...NEED HELP!!?first off i have boyfriend and i am not leaving him anytime soon (sadly we aren't in the same school anymore) this new school im in i've made guy-friends. two of witch are closer than others. i think three of the guy-friends are hitting on me but im not sure guy1: he's the strangest guy i've ever met. he criticizes love yet he's fallen in love he always tells me about her. She just recently left the school. he's really depressed. earlier in the year he gave me his #. i'll never call him but i took it and put it in my phonebook. he told me yesterday that he's gunna need someone to talk to over break so he has my # now. guy2: this guy i know is hitting on me but i dont know what to do please any help is welcome. hes a year younger than me. irritates the living daylights out of me. he tries to act like a boyfriend(always emailing me and giving me stuff and nagging me about checking my email) and he's extremely immature (an only child that still only thinks about himself) guy3 he always makes me laugh, joking around and goofing off. lately he actually talks to me. he's told me that he missed me and that he likes me. these were said in a joking manner. i dont know if he's serious or if it's just how he jokes around please help me out Open Question: How do I get my BF to stop acting like a wuss?How do I get my boyfriend to stop acting like a wuss. I have been supportive throughout all his personal issues. He is having problems at work, financially and with his family. But he is acting too much of a wuss, I still like him but he is moving to fast as well. He does not acknowledge the effort that I have put in to help him and he expects more. What and how can I tell him he has a problem. or what can i do? BTW I am asking this question on my friends account as I don't want him to know about this. Open Question: BoY iSSUESZ 1o1, CAN SoMEoNE HELP Mii PLZZ?!?Okay so like im a freshman in high school and im having a little boy problem. It's like it is so easy for me to communicate with all other boys but when it comes to this one guy all I can do is say Hi give him a hug and that's it. It's like im afraid to talk about me liking him with him, and I have no idea as to what I should do. When we give each other hugs and stuff he like always holds on to me and stuff ya know. Plus he's always smiling. I can't tell if that's his way of showing he is interested in me or not. I am going on winter break this upcoming friday and I think he is gonna do the same. >Year Round School< When I come back for the New Year I want to atleast have a boyfriend or at least be able to talk to him. I can understand that there are other guys but, i have tried to think about the other guys and the only one I can seriously think about is him, so plzzz help me, oh yea and im 14 and I think he is too, and im a cheerleader. Open Question: In need of advice with a girl I really like..?She is a good friend and have not started thinking of her as compatible until very recently. The problem with this is that she has a boyfriend but is always complaining to me about how their relationship is going downhill. I am afraid to lose my relationship as a friend with her if I tell her that I like her.. Really doing this would be venturing into uncharted waters. Any advice is welcome :) Open Question: Caught boyfriend in stupid lie he wont admit to it?So my boyfriend lied over the dumbest thing.I noticed that he became friends with my ex on facebook.He does kinda know him from the past but isnt good friends with him now.He also knows how abusive my ex was to me.I asked him about it thru text and said "did he friend request you and when?im just curious".Even though I already knew the answer.He replied "yes he did and it was recently".Now I know he requsted my ex because I seen it in his email stating otherwise I wanted to see if he would be honest. so I called him out and said no you did! he kinda ignored that remark carried on with the convo so I confronted him again.Long story short he ended saying that he friend requeted my ex and that he didnt lie he just misunderstood my text.Ummmm how could you misunderstand that? and his reply "ya he did" speaks for itself.He also stated he only friend requsted my ex because if my ex had any problems with me he would want my ex to talk to him not me and that I had been thru enough (with the way he treated me)and that he wanted him to feel comfortable communicating with him (there not best friends by the way) ect....What the hell is that? A load of bullsh** ?idk? He wont admit he lied and turned it around on me saying it was trivial I was blowing it outa porportion and that he doudts my ability to have a trusting relationship ect..I know it is over the most juvenile thing (facebook) believe me.But he still lied.Why would he lie about it and keep lying? What should I do?(I have never caught him in a lie and he is always preaching about trust and honesty in a relationship and how he would never lie to me) I didnt go thru his email i saw it when he was reading it Open Question: My opinion on feminism- Star me and I'll give you a thumbs up.?I KNOW THIS IS LONG, BUT I WANT EVERYONE TO READ THIS, I'VE BEEN THINKING ABOUT IT A LOT. To be honest, It kind of makes me mad. Whether we like it or not, women have an advantage over men. First of all, why can't we hit them? If a girl hits me, I can't hit her back? Uh, no. I'll f*ck a ***** up if she wants to start a problem. But why is that so politically incorrect, yet, women can hit men and it's ok because she's emotional? Ok sorry, I'm ranting and getting off topic, but please bear with me, this might interest you so please listen (read) to what i have to say. Another point, why do women want to eliminate sexism, yet, they're fine with the little rules like "ladies first", or pulling her chair out for her, or that the boyfriend pays for the dates and the wedding rings etc, etc... Also, they use their periods as an excuse to be a complete b**ch. Excuse me if I'm wrong, but don't you know that it comes every month? Take birth control if you don't want cramps, but don't throw shoes at me because you weren't prepared for your time of the month! Okay, my point is that I don't have respect for women. I have respect for EVERYONE. Every living being. But i think that even the statement "you have no respect for women" is sexist in itself, ladies and gentlemen. I don't respect you for your gender and no one else should. Anyway, what do you think? I'm supposed to be writing an essay for 9th grade language arts on feminism, and this isn't actually what I'm turning in to my teacher, but some of the points I've made here are going to go into my project. Summer Love, you're a sexist. I'm acting like a woman? Way to stand up for yourself, you're saying I'm horrible for talking about women? What do you call what you just said? And I'm just being honest, and It's the truth. GET OVER MYSELF? who the hell do you think you are? this was a discussion we had in class and now I have to write about it for school, It's not like I hate the female race, I'm just saying It's what I think. Open Question: He should understand, right?I caught my boyfriend of a year + 3 months cheating on me for the second time. He is in Germany now and has tried to call me multiple times everyday for a week. I can't take his voice mails or emails, he will never change. MY QUESTION: If I never speak to him again, he will know that I have forgiven him but I just need to move on, right? I feel like saying, "I love you but I don't this anymore," however, that would entail speaking or writing him, and one one of the only reasons it's been easier to get over him is the fact that I haven't communicated with him in days. And I feel better everyday. Please don't tell me I'm stupid for caring about his feelings; I was in a 15 month relationship. I am not considering going back to him. My problem is that I just want him to understand that I DO love him, without having to tell that to him. He should understand that, right? He has also had to leave a long-term girlfriend in the past due to her infidelity issues. More Recent Articles |
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