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Open Question: i hate it when my mind tells me things, how do i stop all these thoughts.? and more... Open Question: i hate it when my mind tells me things, how do i stop all these thoughts.?im hate it when i start to think nonsense. sometimes i will even think that when i wash my hands and i think of a person's face, i will think that i will be under their control. basically just whatever i do, and i rmbr that i must think of the people that i like, if i think of someone i dont want to think then my mind will say that will be under their control. when i wash my hands i force myself to think of my boyfriend's face. when i do this and that i must think of my boyfriends face, if i think of ppl that i dont want to think, then my mind will say that i'll be under their control or something. i know that its stupid and i know that its not gonna happen, but im scared what if it really happens? then i will do it again. sometimes i will, like example if iwash my hands and i think of the people i dont like, and my mind gives me those thoughts, i will keep washing till i think of the right person and i feel ok with it then i'll be ok. but if i dont wash and think of the person i wanna think again, then i am just too occupied like what if im really under their control or something, and i'll keep thinking about it, and i feel very depressed about it, i'll just keep crying crying, sometimes i just ignore and i dont care, but sometimes i just cant carry on life normally until i do it again. i dont want to do it again. do i have a psychological problem or something? sometimes i just cant control what im thinking. thoughts just come pouring in, the more i dont want those thoughts to come it the more it does. whats wrong with me? sometimes i'll just cry and cry non stop. and when i cry i feel like hitting things, or pressing things real hard. like i will press my head, grab my hair. or when im using my laptop i'll grab the keys and press it hard like its gonna come off, or i'll just press my table real hard. i even think of slashing myself. i did it before, but it was a long time ago, and it wasnt because of this prob. its something else, like friendship or relationship prob. i think i feel depressed about it. i just hate the change in me. it just started about 3 months ago. and everytime i think of something, in a few weeks it might go off and a new stupid thought will come in. why? Open Question: How to be friends again with ex-bestfriend?I was best friends with a girl and she got a boyfriend recently..i had no problems with it...but she started neglecting me...she began ignoring my messages and would take a lot of time to reply as she would be busy with her boyfriend. i got pissed and spoke bad about her to another friend over hers...and the other friend told her about all the bad things i spoke of her...and after that..she never spoke to me for four months...and i apologized recently and..she said ok...she does not talk much to me...i talk for an hour..and she says cool or good..and ends the conversation...looks like she doesnt want to talk to me...please help!i feel sick without her...i feel lonely(i have got lots of other friends but none like her..) Open Question: Should I give him another chance?My boyfriend and I broke up 4 months ago. It had been a 3 and half year relationship and we had plans of being together forever, as do most long term relationships. After we broke up I liked another guy who was my exboyfriend's friend (We'll call him J) J had liked me for over a year while we didn't talk and legitimately loves me. Once he found out I had feelings towards him, he was a complete sweetheart, as always. He brought me on the most amazing date, including golf, lunch, a mountain walk, watching the sunset, he rented a movie and he even gave me a back massage. He seemed perfect. So, I decided to date him. While we were dating, every time we drank he was really mean and acted angry. He'd say hurtful things many times. Since I have a father who's an alcoholic, it reminded me of that and hit home for me. Plus, I started to realize I wasn't over my ex. I thought, if I talk to him it will be fine. So we had a little talk about his drinking. One night he drank to the point where he almost burnt my house down while sleep walking. Not his fault, but still a problem. So, I broke up with him. I had told him it was mostly because I wasn't over my ex. Which, he helped me through. After a month of being friends I was starting to get over my ex. J was really trying. He was nice when he drank and still hasn't gotten drunk like he used to. He says he'd do anything for me. Then.. I get a phone call from my ex boyfriends mom saying the ex was in the hospital because J beat him up. Story was, J had been harassing the ex for a couple months and wanted to fight even though my ex didn't want to, he had no other choice. J hit him once and he hit his head on the pavement when he went down so hard that he got memory loss and brain damage from it. I got extremely upset, worried and disappointing in J. I'm not a violent person, I hate confrontations and anger. So I told him I never want anything more then friends. Well after a while J couldn't handle just being friends because he loved me too much, which I understood. It just hurt being so close. We said a last goodbye and he left my house. I was miserable again for 4 days... then he started talking to me again because he said not talking didn't help, it just made it worse. So here we are again.. I do have feelings for him.. but After the drinking situations(which are fixed), the fight which he was a complete *** about, and my ex's parents always telling me how much of a loser he is.. I don't know what to do. Also, my mother says hes a good guy but I should lay low and single for a while. idk I like him but he loves me.. should I just give him another chance? Or just lay low for a while? Open Question: Why is my boyfriend ignoring me?We have been together for 4 months. He is a year younger than me. Everything was fine. When I called him last Tuesday, he said that he was busy and would talk to me the next day. He hasn't talked to me since (it's been 6 days)! I tried calling him, texting him, everything! But neither did he reply to my messages nor does he receive my calls. I stopped calling after the 3rd day. I always gave him enough space. I never had any problems with him going anywhere with anyone. We can only contact each other through messages and calls. This is really surprising because we didn't have a fight or anything. He even said he would call me but he never did! I just don't know what I should do. Why is he ignoring me? Even if there was a problem, at least he should talk to me, even if it is to make some excuse. How will I know if he's busy when I can't even contact him? Open Question: how can i be a better girlfriend?i am generally a very nice person and i hate being mean to anyone, but today i took everything i had been holding back out on my boyfriend. i feel horrible and i need to know how to deal with these problems in a different way, rather than taking it out on him.. and also just how to be the best i can for him.. More Recent Articles
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