Des Moines in San Diego: Open Question: I fell in the extremely sweet category?

Open Question: I fell in the extremely sweet category?
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Open Question: I fell in the extremely sweet category?

There is this girl at work that i like. She has been on and off on a "complicated" relationship. A week ago i asked her if she was still with her boyfriend, she said no so i asked her out (dinner and movie,and perhaps a walk on the beach) and she gladly said yes. We worked throughout the week and she was friendly and we flirted and all that good stuff but when the day of the date came up she seemed a bit upset/sad. One of her best friends (whom she also works with us) approached me and told me that i should not date her because she has a boyfriend. I was like "no, she told me she didn't have one." Then she went on to tell me that they got back together during that week but he broke up with her because she was going to dinner with me. So i asked my date to explain to me what was going on (she knows i like her) and she said that she did not know. She doesn't know if she wants to continue to date him (she said he was mean to her and that he blamed her on a lot of their relationship problems) or if she actually wanted to go and continue with our planned date. So i told her that i did not want to get her in trouble and if she wanted to cancel it was fine (it did not feel fine to me since i was really looking forward to it) and she told me she was going to talk to him and she would let me know later. So i get a text from her saying that it was probably not the best time to hang out with me because it would just be more drama than fun and that she was going to think about what she should do. Then i told her that it was ok but that she should definitely think about everything, meaning how he makes her feel (both good and bad) how i feel for her etc... then i sent her this message: "just make sure you make your decision on what you think will make YOU happy. Don't worry about somebody else, you are the one who has to chose and if that means that you and i only get to be friends then let that be it and lets be friends." Thats when i received this text from her: "i will definitely think about everything. You are an extremely sweet guy and honestly i don't know why you are still single. I will take a raincheck on that date though :) " What does that mean????????

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