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Open Question: i feel terrible and have a guilty conscious, help me? and more... Open Question: i feel terrible and have a guilty conscious, help me?first off i know about half of you are going to have something dumb to say about this so if you do just ignore this im looking for help not smart ass comments i already know. but anyways i have this best friend who came up here, with his "brother" (best friend) and now my best has a pregnant girlfriend back home, but fucks everybody gets his BECKKKY. now i have a boyfriend of four months now, almost five, and he and my best friend HATE each other just because the boyfriend did me wrong in the past, and my best friend wanted to kill him and told my boy that he fucked me (which wasn't true) so my man always had it in the back of his head i did something with this guy. but we went to a party, smoked a few blacks otherwise stayed sober, i went to his house after words and his "brother" and ONE of his MANY girlfriends were in the back bed room and me and the guy laid on the floor together in the front room, at first nothing happened, then he started repeatedly kissing my cheek and i told him to stop, but then we were making out, then he was receiving "the best head he ever had" then we were having sex, then we just laid there, i had my head on his chest, and we adventually fell asleep then 2 hours later woke back up and had sex again, now i have a boyfriend and he has a girlfriend. He called his girlfriend like nothing had happened and it was all fine and dandy i talked to my boy and he had asked what i did and why i never called him back and i told him "i slept over at ....'s house last night" and said me and ... slept on the floor together and i left it at that...i feel horrible but how do i tell him without him getting totally upset? (he's cheated on me twice, and i caught him, he admitted to it, and fixed the problem) Open Question: why can't best friends just be best friends in my case??? please answer.?i have this best friend. i have known him for nine years. he doesn't know i have liked him ever since we started talking. yes, shocking i know. liking a person for nine years almost seems impossible. BUT, i can even say it came to the point where i finally could be able to say "i loved him" with actually meaning it. but i never told him. when it came to middle school we kinda drifted apart. and i didn't stop liking him fully, but the other guys i went out with only made me forget about him for a while. You know, forget about my feelings. AND I WAS FINALLY ABLE TO SEE HIM AS JUST A FRIEND...until came seventh grade and we became closer than ever. he cared for me, he protected me, he was there when i needed him. It only made me fall for him even more. IN 8TH GRADE, we were even more closer, it came to head that maybe he could like me. BUT, it wasn't like that for him. HE SAW ME AS HIS SISTER, while i saw him as more than a friend. He had a girlfriend at this time, so i don't know whether he just didn't want any drama, or he really meant what he said. But, what confused me was that he said the words "i love you" to me. IT left me dumbfounded. After a while we drifted apart because people were making up stuff about us, like i was trying to break him and his girlfriend up. Now we are in high school. i have a boyfriend. he has a different girlfriend. He walks me to my class, i walk him to his. It isn't anything more than friends. i've learn to control my feelings, and myself around him. We don't say things we aren't supposed to like ily. It is just a friend to friend kind of thing. The only reason we walk each other to class is because that is the only time we can see each other. Sometimes i feel like breaking up with my boyfriend because i feel he deserves a girl who will only like him, and that is all. I feel like i don't deserve him, because i was and kind of still am into my best friend. And sometimes when i am walking him to class, i look at him closely walking beside me, and see all i ever wanted in him. And then i think of my boyfriend and feel...HORRIBLE. I tried staying away from my best friend, but it never worked out. BECAUSE one, i am not being a good friend if i avoid him. two, he was just too much of a good friend to me for ME to do that. I know, what i am doing is wrong. and i suffer in silence because of my...problem. NO ONE knows, except me. But i can't help but feel everything i always felt for him when i hug him. And he hugs me differently than he hugs other girls. the other girls he just gives them a fast hug then lets them go. When he hugs me...it's like even when i drop my arms, he still holding me. AND that makes me hug him back again. He doesn't let go until i pull away. Today, he did it again and i asked; "why are you hugging me this way?" his response was; "Because...you are my friend." he let go. and i said; "it feels weird...but not in the bad way you are thinking," then he just smiled and walked away to his class. WHAT CAN I DO to stop this? why can't i just be best friends with him with out having feelings for him? can someone help me? Open Question: Ok, so i have no clue what to do.. first boyfriend awkwardness.?This guy asked me out the other day.. & i said yess.(: Because i've liked him for a while. But the problem is that i have really low self esteem, & i feel like no one could ever really like me. )': i'm afraid to do anything around him.. i get really nervous & shaky. i never used to be like that around him before he asked me out. i've also had a really screwed up life. i completely trusted my mom, then i found out that she was doing drugs. i knew that she had done drugs a while ago, but she told me that she had stopped. + more of my family members & some of my friends have completely stabbed me in the back. i feel awful because i think he really likes me, & i really like him, but it's hard for me to trust him. ): Is this normal? What can i do to get over it? Also.. this is awful.. but how am i supposed to act? i have literally no clue. i see him everyday at school, btw. Thankyou.!(: Open Question: teen problem if u are a teen plzzzzz answer majorr important ?????ok so this my problem i got a t moble fone so i keep callin my boyfriend n my parents dont approve of him n we both love each other to death but its been like 4 months i didnt talk to him n he calls me every day now that he got my # but i want to no can my parents find out that im callin him if we have a fone plan family plan i mean can they find out who im i callin n to where im i callin plzzzzzzzzzzz answer it i reallly want to no ???????? this is my question can my parents find out who im i callin ??? wat about my txt message can they read them even tho i deleted them from my fone ??? wat if i call private # will they show the private #???/ n what if i call out of state cuz i call my friend that just went back to her country yemen yemen is the country will they no im callin there ??????????? Open Question: Anus problems, please help!?Yesterday I was playing scrabble with my boyfriend, Mitch. We were both naked. I got excited and jumped up, then fell back down on to a marble. The marble is now logded a few inches up my anus, and the tweezers don't reach far enough. What should I do? Open Question: I think he likes me but I have a boyfriend. HELP!?There is this guy I know from lunch. He's a really nice guy and I think he likes me. The problem is, I have a boyfriend. The guy is one of my best friends and I don't want to hurt him, that type of thing can leave really deep scars. I don't want to ruin the friendship, and I don't want to be mean.However, I'm not sure that he even likes me, though he acts like it. If anyone knows any way to tell him gently without being to obvious about it I would greatly appreciate it. Thank you in advance! Open Question: Hanging with the opposite genderr?Okay so here's my problem: my mom wont let me hang with any boys? she can trust me, but like she doesnt let me. once i asked if i can go to the mall with my friends eric & kevin, and she said "no i dont want u with any boys!" it seems like she wants me to die single. ): I want to hang out with this guy either at my house or his (we rnt dating. just as friends.) and im scared my mom will be like "oh he is boyfriend!!!!!! ohhh(: " help! Open Question: I dont know what to do, Is it right? Or not?Ive never really truley been in love before. But I know this is real. Theres this girl, im not going to use her real name, so we can just call her Jessica. Ive liked Jessica for two years. But the problem is I dont know if she will accept me. I told her that I liked her Freshman year, and she said ew -.- But we have talked about that, and she said she radically changed after those years, and now we kinda talk every so often. The boyfriends she has had have treated her like crap, and sometimes she asks me for confidencial advice. I dont know, I just really care about her, not only is she beautiful, shes funny, shes caring, shes legitly serious, shes all that ide ever want, and all I want to do is just take care of her. I really really think im in love with her... But the problem is I dont want to be shot down again, Im afraid of her saying somthing, and ive never been in a serious relationship, so I dont know... What should I do? Open Question: how to end a long term relationship?my boyfriend and i have been together for a year. everything was great for about 10 months. but now my feelings have completely changed. we started off as great friends and we made the mistake of becoming lovers. hes really in love with me but i dont feel the same. im not IN love. and i think ive been lying to myself and him for a long time. the problem is that i just found out that im pregnant with his baby and i dont know what to do. do i break up with him now when i need him most or do i wait until after i have the baby.? Open Question: There's something wrong with my vagina!?Every time me and my boyfriend have sex it always hurt, but the pain is just minor but not major. I have had a pap smear and there is no yeast infection or anything. So what could it be and it has been going on for five months now. Please can someone tell me so I can fixed the problem. Open Question: relationship problems, please help!!!?so my boyfriend and i have been on and off for a year. He has cheated and lied to me in the past but now everything seemed to be fine, although sometimes I see that his ex-girlfriend who harrassed me still texts him all the time. However while I was home for break he started pushing me to having sex, like more than he has ever pushed before. I love him but didnt feel ready for it, so instead I agreed to try anal. when we started I realized that sex was sex no matter if it is anal or vaginal so I started begging him to stop, he continued for about 1-2 more minutes until i finally pushed him off. Once back at school he seemed to never have time to talk to me or anything. I broke up with him and told some of my friends about it. Now they all really hate him. The only problem is, the more I think about it the more I feel that I overr eacted and blew up every little thing in my head and that he isnt as bad as I make him seem. And now he texts me all the time saying how much he loves me and doesnt understand why we arnt together. SO now I really want him back but I dont know if I should or if I should finally just try to just let go. Im crazy about him but I cant even tell if he treats me right, he seems amazing when we are together and I dont want to just be messing things up by overthinking them. Open Question: breakup help - now or later?I want to leave my boyfriend of 2 years. he leaves me feeling very insecure and down about myself. my problem is, do i leave him before, or wait til after xmas. Open Question: I like this girl but i think i really annoyed her.?At first she was kind of interested in me.i mean we talked everyday for about a week straight. then we would talk sometimes and i tried to text her and then one day she just wouldnt respond. In class she kind of looked the other way when i looked at her, and kinda didnt talk to me.but outside of school she really liked to talk. now she wont respond and i think i really messed it up. i was thinking of trying to talk to her (its been a long time) and id be satisfied just being her friend. shes just really a cool person. but if i talk to her i dont know what to say, and i dont want to start out like stop ignoring me or why do you ignore me, orplease talk to me. i just switched schools but i dont think that really matters. the problem is everyone likes her and shes probly had like 20 boyfriends. i dont really feel like there is a lot of pressure to hurry up im just saying that she is really pretty and good personality. she is also very popular. id like to fix my relationship with her, and it would really make my life a lot nicer. the other thing is that idk if shes ignoring me on facebook chat or what but she and other people have told me her facebook chat is messed up so they and me cant talk to her. i was thinking about txting her or messaging her. please no stupid answers because its really not worth either of our time. please detailed and thoughtful answers. 10 points best answer. wish i could give you more Open Question: Does my Boyfriend love me? Please help! I really need to know?Okay here is the thing. I am his first girlfriend EVER. and we have been dating for over 3 months. i have said i love you, and he wont say it back. He says he is not as "hormonal" as us girl are. He wont even give me a hug after school. His excuse is he thinks he will get a detention for PDA, when all of my friends do it in front of teachers!!!!!!!!!!!! also am i in love if i cant stop thinking about him, i dream about him every night! And i miss him everytime i think of him. [24/7] and if i cant see him soon enough. please i would really like to know what his problem is. And if i am or not Open Question: Does anyone have any ideas?My boyfriend and I have been discussing getting engaged for several months now. The only problem is that I go to school 12 hours away. The long distance thing has been working ok... but a little rough, so I am transferring to a school closer to home in the fall. I have been hoping that this action would be a major hint that he could propose, but I don't think he got it :/ Does anyone have any ideas? I don't want him to do it before he's ready, but I also want him to know that I am making this sacrifice for us and that I am ready. Open Question: I have been having very strange stomach pains, more nausea, could i be pregnant?My boyfriend and i had sex a little over 2 weeks ago. Recently i have been expierencing very strange stomach pains through the day on and off. I was wondering how soon pregnancy symptoms occur. The problem i have is ever since i started getting my period it has never been regular. I never know when it is going to come. I think to myself a lot that bc of my irregular period it would be very hard for me to concieve. So do you ovulate before or after your period? Is it possible im pregnant? Could all my stomach pain and nasuea occur this early in pregnancy if i am pregnant? When would be a good time to take a test since i dont know when id miss my period? Open Question: Please read, deep girl problems?There is this boy that I'm in a band with and he is stunning with his big hair and the way he plays guitar! We talk all the time and I feel so deeply for him and he says he feels the same and wants to be with me and cant stop thinking about me. Anyway I'm anorexic/bulimic (yes, i know it's bad for me you don't need to tell me its a big stupid problem of mine), but today after band practice when everyone left, we hugged for about 10 mins and we were squeezing each other so tight and i could feel his heart beating on my chest and it was just the best hug ever, then after that i had dinner and i didn't even throw it up, I didn't want to, i didn't need to because for once i felt beautiful already. But theres another thing getting in the way, I have a boyfriend that I've been with for two years, but for the most part of those two years if been so unhappy and felt unloved and UN-BEAUTIFUL. But we have been together for so long I can get myself out of it, I'm lost in the relationship! Please help, I'm so confused and I don't know what to do about this situation. Open Question: Boyfriend and Ex friend drama?Okay, so just before this school year began I ended a friendship between me and this girl who was driving me insane. She was very mean, moody and nosy and I just couldn't stand her anymore! She tortured me for about 2 years x.x We argued a bit, but then resolved it matureley and said we'd be neutral, not friends nor enemies. I thought things where all fine and dandy and I finally got rid of her, but then I got a boyfriend. My first boyfriend :D and I really like him. But one day my ex-friend then begins to start talking to me randomly on IM, telling me how I should not let him go because hes a really good guy and how she used to like him but she "got over it" and I've known this girl for awhile, she never just "gets over" a guy. Due to the fact shes boy crazy. I kinda shrugged off her comments but I also found out that my boyfriend and her have been talking with each other at lunch. I warned my boyfriend for his sake of her crazy nature and that he should watch what he says or she might take it the wrong way and look at it as flirting. He kinda ignored me and said she was nice and that I shouldnt say anything mean about her, I mean, I dont really mind them talking but I dont want nothing to happen of course. >.> (If you get my drift) So lately I've noticed shes been way too flirty with him. Such as leaving obviously flirty comments on his facebook page and whatnot when she very well knows we are together. Also using emphasised phrases such as "BEST FRIENDDDD" (the title only I was once called by her) My friend sugested that she is probably trying to get back at me for ending our friendship by trying to steal my boyfriend. (She does hold a grudge and its only been a couple months since we ended our friendship) Now Im really furious a terrified at the same time. I really dont wanna loose him, and the very thought that it could be all her fault my very first relationship could be ruined makes me seriously want to beat the crap out of her. (she doesnt know much of my angry and violent side :p) Is there any way I could fix this problem without resorting to violence? PLEASE HELP D: More Recent Articles
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